M37 F37
No interest
September 08 2009
Comments
-
playfulminx
15 years ago
1. Review your Profile - Not sure if you have actually viewed your own profile lately but you do have Couples listed as people you're interested in meeting so naturally you're going to get a lot of couples writing to you given there are probably more couples looking than single women. I'd take down 'Couple' just so you don't send mixed messages to people. You also have in your profile that you would consider meeting couples so take that down if you don't really mean to meet couples.2. Age - Your relative young age is probably another factor. Most women who are bold enough to get on RHP to meet couples for three-ways are going to be older and most likely prefer people her own age. At least that is the case with the single women I know on here who are open to meeting couples. That isn't to say that there aren't single girls your age around or older women into younger couples but it will make your quest a bit harder.3. Ambiguous? - You just said in your post that you're "looking for a girl to just join him, or just join her, or join both". I'd say pick one plan and stick to it. Yes there are couples who legitimately play solo but there are also some who say they're up for the girls to just have fun but sadly only the guy fronts up. For this reason, some girls are going to be wary of even replying to a couple who offer up this game plan.4. Is the F Shy? - From my observations, couples who have successfully met a single girl generally have a female partner who is confident and has a huge personality. She's the one that really needs to connect with the single girl and quite possibly lead her, so if your female partner is on the shy side, this could be another reason why you don't get anywhere.5. Hook-up with a Couple also just into girl/girl... - There are soooooo many couples who are just into girls playing so why not broaden your horizons a bit and look at meeting some couples who are in the same boat? You might even come across couples who are happy for the M of the other couple to play a little while the other M watches. Swinging is a grey area but I think most will agree: Don't die wondering!
-
RHP User
15 years ago
But almost everyone on here is looking for a young, attractive, Bi girl between 18 and 30! That's a lot of competition!
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Most of the single females on here are guests and as such can only send one message per week.Perhaps you should have your profile so that people can message you for free??And make it clearer that you want single girls to message you??Good luck...I hope you find what you're looking for.Just my opinion....BJxxx
-
RHP User
15 years ago
There are so many couples looking for a girl on her own therefore girls who actually go through with a meeting/play can be as picky as they like!I very rarely play with couples alone unless we've met them as a couple and played beforehand.I dont think you're doing anything wrong...you're just asking for the 'almost' impossible and thats why on our couples profile we have (as alot of couples we've spoken to have done also) included couples in our search otherwise there will be little to no play at all!In saying that, you will find that there are alot of single girls on here YES BUT how many of them are verified and actual females not males just playing games which you'll find ALOT of!
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Hmmm.. Firsty your age might just be the prob.. try sticking to your age group.. Under 25's.. Sure you get the odd ppl that think the younger the better but that's mostly guys.. That have been watching way too much teen porn.. And looking at your profile.. The looking for bit sorta can confuse some... Also in your main pic.. Well soz hun but you look scary.. Like you wanna kick someones arse.. lol.. Put a smile on your dial !! It's not all bad!!.. Your other pix are fine.. And finally we all have to realise were not every one's type.. sure you might be attracted to someone.. But is it mutual??? Most of the time it's a big NO.. But hell that's life.. and time to move on.. And yes I have been rejected on here and in the real world.. So it's not BS!! Well hope that helps n good luck.... Pixie xxx
-
RHP User
15 years ago
As a woman who does occasionally meet up with couples for threesomes, I have to agree with all the comments and advice above. I don't usually initiate contact, most couples contact me and I also stick pretty close to couples my age. I don't have any other advice, seems like your question has been answered pretty thoroughly but have you read the recent forum topic "threesomes"... that had some very interesting comments and advice as well..... xxx
-
RHP User
15 years ago
It could be that all the young attractive women are spending all their time deleting messages, ignoring aggressives and glancing at some of the 5 hundred and 43 offers they get each day. I guess they might run out of time to search the couples profiles. Fact is single pretty girls do not need to look for sexual encounters they get bombarded with them - on rhp and in the real world. But then as a 21 year old girl - you know that. Think about the approaches you might be attracted to from a couple like yourselves and send messages to every compatible female on this and any other board - you might get a couple of replies. While you wait - go to one of the events and meet people - be open to what develops - gain experience. Make friends who might be open to encounters and who might know people who are open to encounters. Just because someone you meet does not tick all your boxes - be friendly - they may know someone who does.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Single women - especially if they have a "nice" profile will be inundated with messages and flirts. It's just the way it is. Why would they bother then to message couples - when they are already occupied with just replying. The Extra Single Female - the holy grail . . . . and mission impossible . . . Jim this message will self destruct in 5 .. 4 . . 3 . . 2 . . 1 . . BANG (Did someone say Bang)
-
DonnaBrett
15 years ago
You already know the answer..there just aren't that many single girls out there looking for couples. Maybe if it's just the girl/girl thing you really want you should make another profile for just her as a girl looking for girls & the male half stay right out of it? Just a thought....
-
RHP User
15 years ago
For what its worth, if I was 2842 kms closer to you guys, I would totaly hit you up. Also, I would suggest putting the HOT HOT HOT photo of Ms. Horny4u in the red bra as your profile picture (SOOO cute!). And every one is right, single young women get inundated with messages from people; I know I do and I don't have photos, or a heavily detailed profile.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
it is the nature of the playgroundstop hanging around waiting for messagesHunt
-
RHP User
15 years ago
not disparaging anyone, but y'all think you have it rough,,,,,,,,,, lol Try being a single male who is looking for somebody special. that will show you rough. I wish you luck in your search.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
or try being a couple in a regional town, where the men to women ratio is even worse than normal and only a tiny few handful of people use any sort of adult sites.
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 14361 Comments: 120840
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1355 Comments: 14709
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2425 Comments: 17234
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2405 Comments: 12737
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 794 Comments: 5154
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1148 Comments: 6957
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 622 Comments: 2145
-
LGBT
Topics: 156 Comments: 1150
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share