RHP

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M46

No luck in Australia. Why?

July 30 2009

sex

I am starting to realise that Australia people are kind of racist when it comes sexual life - :-).  Just kidding on that racist part.  I am not able to find couples who would like to catch up with for 3SUM - MMF.  I met lots of couples (not in australia) through many other sites.  Here in red hot pie i do not get any positive responses - FYI: I am good looking attractive with exeprience in MMF and Group scenes.  The only difference is I am Half American/Half Indian - Does it make any difference? May be I dont know... Are you thinking Indian people not good or bad or American peole are not good at sex???? I think I am going to give up in few days time.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hi Most Austalians I know are not racist, but of course there are some that are. I doubt that that is your problem. I think that with the number of guys on this site far out numbering single women and couples, a man looking is at a distinct disadvantage. Take a look in the chat rooms and its about 75% men, 20% couples and 5% single women. Are you surprised that it isn't easy for men? I can't even get a lady to reply to a flirt or message. I didn't think I was that ugly, stupid or rude to be constantly ignored. Let me know if you think otherwise. I guess just keep trying, be funny and considerate. Good luck

  • 2more4fun

    2more4fun

    15 years ago

    Not getting on my moral high ground but dude... you're a married man with no pic to look at on profile and you're wondering why no one is jumping at you? OK, so if you're suggesting that couples overseas don't care about your marital status then I guess you can probably accuse us Aussies of being prudish in that regard. When we are seeking a single male, we will opt for unattached men. I think most of our couple friends feel the same way. Other than that I think you kinda go on way too much about flying to meet couples etc. Might freak a lot of people out... If anything, just get your foot in the door first and then discuss logistics lolAs I said before, get some sort of viewable photo on your profile. Half American and half Indian sounds sexy but if the guy whose profile comes up before yours has a photo which shows how sexy he is, you can't compete.dougahole - You seem like a nice guy and not bad looking (tho I think you could find a better pic?) but to be honest, I think you could hold your cards a bit closer to your chest. Your profile is an open book and I commend you for it but women do like a bit of mystery (sounds like a cliche but it's true). I think you could hold back on some of the info you have there. I would really also bite your tongue a bit regarding your preference for slim women. Sure, the less slim ladies aren't going to respond to your profile (nor would you message them) but I think the slim ladies would actually be turned off as well. I'd just leave out any mention of dress size/or slimness. You come across as a Shallow Hal type of guy even if you don't mean to.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    dougahole: I agree with you about women/men/couple ratio here. 2more4.. : hey thanks for the feedback. Well, I cant lie about my married thing so it is what it is.  I just want to make one thing straight here.  I am not accusing Ausssie even for one bit.  I was just being little funny there when I said "racist".  I think i am starting to use Aussie humour but not working out that well... is it?! :).  I have been living here alone for few months now and looking for nice looking couple to spend some time with so... just got little desperate didnt know who to ask... thanks any way i hope i will work it out some thing :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Dont see how calling anyone a racist is funny but you did get a little attention. Dont tell anyone but we are all a little racist. I hate Kiwis just coc of ther accent ffs. Fush and chups far ficks suk. Mars

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I`ve lived in Australia for 7 year now I`m American and find that Aussie`s are no differant than Americans calling them racist would be an insult to anyone. I just joined this site and seems maybe your tring to hard to find the next fling . Try making some friends first and see where it takes you.