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M62

No one wants a 50 year old

August 09 2013

Hi everyone no one wants a 50 year old !!! Could some one please tell what's wrong with me ? I have tried everything it seems to me the ladies on here are to fussy. Not looking for fun and loving. Looking for he man . Ok I'm not Mel Gibson, haven't got a six pack ,but a down earth bloke. :(

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I respectfully suggest thet you work on your profile. When you say 'experimental', it's assumed that you play with men too in some way without being completely bisexual. This doesn't quite match what you tell us are your sexual interests.Template descriptions have proven a huge turn off for women in the past. You only need to read to forums to know that. I had a lovely date with a gentleman in his 60's a few weeks ago. His profile is full of intelligence and charisma. True to who he is in real life. Please don't think being 50 is the problem. Just make a little more effort to share who you are and good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    No one wants a 40 year old haha.I am sure you have a lot to offer a woman Ron.Just stick with it mate , if this place dose not work for you , try the real world.That's where i am headed now,as people can read you better face to face compared to behind a computer screen!Look out world,im a coming for you!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Your profile says nothing about you. What do you want? What are you looking for? What are the reasons why a woman should go out with you? You have used the RHP template which is really ordinary. You need to put a bit Of effort in mate!!! You need to compete with all the other men, and in all honestly do you believe that you have done the best you can with your profile? No effort, no returns. My lover who I met trough RHP is 51, and just an average looking guy. Well, he is honey to me anyway. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    you have a young looking face,you look much younger than fifty ....but your profile is sadly lacking...there is nothing of interest there...even for a woman over 90

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Show how you are down to earth,with your words maybe some activities, things which make you pop! :)Really don't be scared to expose your emotions. that will make you stand out.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    50zcool....................................

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I had a look at your profile too.It is not appealing.Don't you have anything to say about your self?I prefer males who are older 50+ and I enjoy it much more then with a the younger male, I tried. In this age I think we can relate more with each other. And should my back slips out he will understand, should I get a cramp he understands, should I am out of breath he understands. However to get there and meet I have to find something interesting on his profile or his messages.

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    11 years ago

    I play often but not many from here. If your not having fun try new places to go and be outgoing in your personality. This is a web site and its limited so get out and enjoy life find party's-join clubs, get laid the sex is easy. On the other hand if you seek love then you are in for some grief and stress.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I hear ya sunshine, I feel your pain I am 61

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    11 years ago

    Ron - there are plenty of ppl who are looking for a 50 yr old... How long have you been on RHP? There are many ppl who have been on RHP for quite some time at various ages n have not had luck either... We have been on here for about 5yrs n have had good n not so good luck...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Spun this man a very good yarn indeed :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Stop being lazy, you're too lazy to write up a decent profile, put up some good pics and give a little of yourself and then you lazily blame the lack of interest in you on women who are too fussy! Seriously!!

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    11 years ago

    Ron, please don't be like those old grandpas who complain too much and take RHP far too much granted! Just because it's a sex site, it doesn't mean that women on here have no standards, or only seek casual hook ups and then move on like a sushi train! Please give women some respect and stop the blaming!!! You're only 50, not 100 years old!!!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Sheeeeeesh DG- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    "WOE" is me.(damn iPhones)DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Where's the end of the line! I'll Que up!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I smell some clickbait here... if you have not been on here for a while I suggest first spend a lot of time looking around, reading forums and learning about what appeals to people etc. The sad truth is that ladies of age around 45+ are not on sites like these anymore, statistically they are not that much interested in looking for intimacy of this type... more likely for just friendship with same age people (mostly women) or spending time with family (grandkids). If occassionally a 45+ year old woman is blessed with high sex drive post-menopause (good hormones) she might well badge herslef as a cougar and again you're out of luck... life's a biatch mate ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    No, no... "Wow is you" is much more appropriate. LOL. ;-)

  • Hanna_ybbn

    Hanna_ybbn

    11 years ago

    Little effort yields little return...Invest in some decent profile pics - make an effort there, you'd be surprised how many don't and just how appreciated it is when you do! More importantly thought, make an effort with yourself in general. If you're lazy - you will attract likewise. If your attitude sucks - be prepared to find similar....etcRe-think your profile perhaps? Mostly what others have said.And really ask yourself - like realistically - what is it you WANT out of this experience.Good luckHanna x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That's just absurd and completely off the mark. What a misinformed generalisation!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That's just absurd and completely off the mark. What a misinformed generalisation!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We are fussy. Get over it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    G'day Ron. For the record' I've had some of the best sledges here try to give me the wobbles with disparaging comments . But really ' all that done was show what small minded personalities they have ' which you don't need anyhow. ? As a over 50 I'm well aware there will always be a certain section of age phobic women who feel its OK to be that way' usually only to prop up their own insecurities. So don't worry about them. There are genuine females out there ' so don't give up. Beef up your profile and don't be afraid to say it as it is. Too often ' nice guys ' come last for being too nice. Don't fall into that trap. Cheers. Jay..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'paintme' We are fussy. Get over it. *Now* you tell me..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I don't mean your dick, Do something that makes you stand out in the crowd, be inventive and show who you are in your profile pics. Maybe a little mystery or artistry in the profile pic. Then be honest and up front in the details in your profile, spend some time on it as Hanna_ybbn has suggested. Yeah ok my profile is the exact opposite of this.....lol Cheers Pete

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'bosch_sparks' I smell some clickbait here... if you have not been on here for a while I suggest first spend a lot of time looking around, reading forums and learning about what appeals to people etc. The sad truth is that ladies of age around 45+ are not on sites like these anymore, statistically they are not that much interested in looking for intimacy of this type... more likely for just friendship with same age people (mostly women) or spending time with family (grandkids). If occassionally a 45+ year old woman is blessed with high sex drive post-menopause (good hormones) she might well badge herslef as a cougar and again you're out of luck... life's a biatch mate ;-) I agree, and for me it was ten thousand hormone patches.Plus to be honest most older guys do not want to have a relationship anymore. They want sex, and with younger women.I know plenty of women that have just given up with men. Reason being no body takes the time to date , to actually meet a woman and not get in her pants in the first date.Had that recently with a girlfriend, she was ask to just go on a motor bike ride with a friend of a friend.Ok off she goes has a nice after noon, then off to dinner with the groupthen back to pub and few drinks and a dance he had his hands all over her and she got pretty pissed off it ruined the day for her.There is no compromise when you get older, its all to hard to give up something for another person. that is why there are so many women who cant find a guy, where is the slow dance the get to know you stuff?gone gone gone its instant sex , its fast food sex and lets go to the next place to eat at the Ycommitment is a dirty word.and yes well all loose our sex drive along the way , shit happens but there is always other form of expressing the human need to be heldLadyT wearing her hormone patch

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'bosch_sparks' I smell some clickbait here... if you have not been on here for a while I suggest first spend a lot of time looking around, reading forums and learning about what appeals to people etc. The sad truth is that ladies of age around 45+ are not on sites like these anymore, statistically they are not that much interested in looking for intimacy of this type... more likely for just friendship with same age people (mostly women) or spending time with family (grandkids). If occassionally a 45+ year old woman is blessed with high sex drive post-menopause (good hormones) she might well badge herslef as a cougar and again you're out of luck... life's a biatch mate ;-) with an opinion like that. I'm surprised

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    All of them are right, work on your profile a bit. Say who you are and what you are looking for in a woman. The age preference might be a turn off. Keep to within +-10 years or so. Well, unless you don't care. However, a lot of people (men and women) have issues with going for someone who could be their parents. LadyT being the exception as for some reason, younger guys are attracted to her. I know in Perth alot of RHPers get to know each other through the chat group. You should give that a try and go to meet and greets. They can be clichish but the people are friendly (well, the WA crowd is anyway). If all else fails, come join the Union. El Presidente will help you out ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Erroneous Bosch

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Did you know as you age your dick gets smaller. Fact! Did you know that as a man you don't get it up as often or as long? I thought as a concerned woman heading into the sexual desert I should let you know!! Your welcome. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I hear you old son, mind you knockbacks are no doubt from the same ilk that wouldn't know a Grange Hermitage from a Bin 228 - no appreciation of a fine wine.....their loss Chuckle...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think you should follow your own advice and open your eyes !As for the sex drive drivel - BOLLOCKS !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Whistles...................

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Lady_Tuscan' no body takes the time to date , to actually meet a woman and not get in her pants in the first date. where is the slow dance the get to know you stuff? gone gone gone its instant sex , its fast food sex and lets go to the next place to eat at the Y commitment is a dirty word. Lady T :)   Sex is the easiest thing in the world to get. Hell, you can buy it pretty much anywhere, anytime you want. But connection, meaning, intimacy, the slow burn - gone the way of homemade meringues I reckon.

  • ruby_blossum

    ruby_blossum

    11 years ago

    to dig his head out of the sand.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I assume your talking about the younger ladies.. Chin up Ron.. They just don't know what the older man can do.. Once you go old you don't go back..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That goes for older women too.. I find that they are more confident, sexy and sure of what they want.. Not to mention they know how to please..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Okay, I have done a bit of research. Of course a fat belly reduces the penis size.... just because it forces more of it in the body than outside the body... so it's just an appearance thing. However....... you will loose 1/2 an inch to one inch off your dick by the time you hit your 60's. I didn't know that.... did you? You're welcome.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Meeks ,that is why mother nature invented the strapon,n'est pas?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thank you everyone for your comments I will take them on board Tah!!! xox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ppppppffffffttt ...............yeah right

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    12 days to go,stop the clock,   mate you will be fine, your not on your own,   without getting into it I do agree with kizza 1973,   re computer screen, never judge a book by the cover????

  • WhoDeany

    WhoDeany

    11 years ago

    Don't worry dude, if it makes you feel any better no one wants a 30yo either. Maybe I'm not buff enough or lacking pictures of my penis but I've been considering cancelling my membership due to lack of interest. Guess chicks just arent that interested in some regardless of age, so don't feel bad :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Women over complicate things.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Once a bloke reaches 40, and starts counting back to his 20's, the cock starts to grow again, so by the time I would be 60, which will be actually 20, My cock should have grown to be a monstrous huge fucker. Which I fear, as Tara says it will be absolutely useless and would only use it for keeping the wind from under the door.Discombobulated is a simple way to think to this fact. Which ever way I go 20 or 60, I feel doomed. Thank fuck I am strong enough to overcome these insecurities, and make the best of now, and the minutes. It feels great to get that off my chest, I just know you will all understand, you're the best. Thanks.Mado

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Awww tiddums..- Posted from rhpmobile

  • abcplus1

    abcplus1

    11 years ago

    We have tried multiple ways of writing our profile, been honest and open about what we are looking for, change picture often to keep them current, contribute to the forums occasionally, but still responses on RHP are dismal. In several years of being on here I think we have only ever arranged one date which didn't work out. Plenty of the women here interested in stringing us along and wasting our time, some of whom are forum regulars, but that's life on the Web I suppose. Thankfully we have had better luck elsewhere.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My hubby is 56 and I think he is young and fun 50 is nothing so come one girls give them a go

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Pretty sure its not an age issue. Your profile could use some work.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    are you chatting to people your own age or significantly younger? I get a lot of 50+ year olds message me and (whilst some are into it) I am not into the whole 20+ age gap. The fact these men are older than my father creeps me out! Friendly suggestion to vamp up your profile, write tactful polite messages and be yourself! And also be realistic in who you are talking to. As it was said above, just because this is a sex site doesn't mean we ladies don't have standards ;) x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ForbiddenX' Women over complicate things. Another gross generalisation to go with other ridiculous one about losing our libidos. And Ron, do take the suggestions on board. I find it really boring reading the RHP templates. And its truly not age, its attitude which can only be reflected through photos and your words.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    of how many guys are online right now...yep, you got it, 1000 in your state alone, gee is that all?...okay, step two...now check out how many women are online...oh?....28!..is that right.....so one woman for every 35.71 men SO...ya gotta stand out buddy..give the girls something to get their teeth into...errr...figuratively that is...Tell 'em about yourself...what you like...and what you are looking for...hell...I just realized....I'll be in that 50 zone in a few years time...And make your emails interesting and tailored to the ladies you would like to meet...There are plenty of diamonds out there...ya just gotta find them...I know...I've found some absolute beauties...mmmmmmmm...Good luck...and don't give up...and lastly.....have patience!S'nP

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Lady_Tuscan' I hear ya sunshine, I feel your pain I am 61 oops did i laugh

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I received a message from a 30 year old man whose profile said he is 34.His message containing phone number was obviously a template....I messaged back, thank you but no yadda yadda and after four more messages he finally admitted that he was 44 next Wednesday .He said he lies about his age because women do not return his messages....I encouraged him to come to the Brisbane meet and greet but now dead silence....welllll I did try.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Absolutely laughed out loud mischieviouslad, thanks x- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Patience of a saint, miss Freya.And frankly, the guy didnt deserve the assistance you gave him.Shakes my head at the attitude of some guys. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's not rocket science... Your profile simply says your looking for a fuck, and you will still respect them???? What??? Well that's a given... The fact you mention that is a turn off... Respect is not an option, if its not given naturally you don't deserve to meet someone... We are not kids. That makes you sound judgmental right from the word go.... Also, who are you? What's your personality? Reading your profile, no one will know if your well rounded guy, bogan, intelligent, or complete dill... When I first joined Rhp, I just had a basic profile while I looked around the site... I got nothing... Once I had my bearings around the joint, I updated my profile and got bombarded with women, couples, men's and anything else you can think of... My profile is nothing special, nor does it tell my life story.. It gives the other people a little insight of my personality, explains what I want, and leaves enough room to elaborate further. In fact, I think it's still a little vague and I could do with an update ... But at the moment, it's working very well .... And Tuscan, age is irrelevant.... At aged 61, your still a fox!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Don't be too hard on yourself. There are at least 10 active male profiles to every active female profile on here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Dear Ron, its not how we look or our age, its how we present. Be confident in yourself and everything wil be alright. I'm more than 50 & still have fun. Make a girl laugh n you're halfway home.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    PS. Look in a girls eyes when you're speaking to or listening to her. Not fixated stare, but you know what I mean.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Look at me mate: 53, hairy as f^^^, bad attitude and probably out of shape...   No one wants me either!! SO... I get on the forums... and have a little fun.. when I pay my RHP dues, I get on teh chats.. and have a little fun.. I send a few fun messages... and get a few back... THEN.. Lo-and_behold .. I actually get a few offers... ok.. I am NOT saying I get offers to get LAID... but I have met some pretty wonderful people from here :)   MAN.. IF you chose RHP because you AREN'T getting anywhere with the ladies in the REAL WORLD... you are in for a RUDE shock.. Go to your local hotel... enjoy yourself...and let the alcahol work on the women for you... You will have more luck!! OTHER wise... Get on here.. be patient.. be a nice fella... and let the Girls see what a nice fella you are.. then... (and I say that as a MAYBE then) you might find yourself getting a little closer .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'lolygoblblisbom' Quoting 'Lady_Tuscan' no body takes the time to date , to actually meet a woman and not get in her pants in the first date. where is the slow dance the get to know you stuff? gone gone gone its instant sex , its fast food sex and lets go to the next place to eat at the Y commitment is a dirty word. Lady T :)   Sex is the easiest thing in the world to get. Hell, you can buy it pretty much anywhere, anytime you want. But connection, meaning, intimacy, the slow burn - gone the way of homemade meringues I reckon. Soooo Agree...... Sex is easy to get, finding someone you WANT to hang out with, dinner, drinks, game of pool, dancing etc is the hard part.. Someone who you just enjoy their company on every levell.. Heres a strange descriptive word.. A friend.. lol.. Age is and should be irrelevant Ron.. Try a connection of the minds instead of the bodies.. Oh... And humour is far more sexy than woe is me....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ForbiddenX'Women over complicate things.   Your profile says you are waiting for "it to land in my lap". Oversimplifying much?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'whodeany13'Don't worry dude, if it makes you feel any better no one wants a 30yo either. Maybe I'm not buff enough or lacking pictures of my penis but I've been considering cancelling my membership due to lack of interest. Certainly buff enough, and I like your pics and profile. But I hope you don't mind me saying your third pic reminds me a bit too much of the "Overly attached girlfriend" meme.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    He brings new meaning to the term FIFO too Whose any.... ditch the "fly" line..... It smacks of over eagerness (see also desperation) Speculatively flying distances for a hope of a shag with someone youve never met? Ring any alarm bells? Better to be interesting on a profile, to create intrigue and piqué a woman's curiosity, and let meetings occur organically as a result of interesting and effective communication. Funny how that works in the non Internet world too ;-) DG

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    11 years ago

    Had a good read through all the comments in here so far, and one thing that is apparently forgotten with some of the ladies (such as Lady T and lolygob), is that this site is predominately supposed to be a SEX SITE. Unfortunately most of the ladies who come on here, it is mainly for the sake of curiousity, and then they find out they can actually chat here as well. What lady can't resist a chat ??? They then treat this like another facebook or twitter site and forget the reason this site is here. As far as 'getting any' goes, I don't know Ron or what his profile is like, but speaking from personal experience, too many ladies just don't register with the 18-99 age range, and seem to forget it's listed on their profile. Then when you initially contact them, they suddenly come up with any excuse when you're over 50 (or 40, or 30). As a few of the blokes have mentioned, it really is their loss, as us of the 'mature' generation usually have over the young 'uns when it comes to technique and experience. In spite of Meeka's 'helpful' statistics about the penis, many of us still have the equipment to fully fulfil the intended function - and Meeka I'm not afraid to give you a personal show about our supposed 'reduced' length of equipment (or how hard it can get hehe). Age does seem to play too much of an issue, and as some of the more 'mature' ladies have also pointed out, we not fuckin' dead yet ! We all enjoy it just as much now (maybe even moreso) and we usually are in a better place to actually make the most enjoyment out of it, for both parties. I have made many good friends on site from all over the country, and enjoy having a good conversation with them (when I'm paid up), but when it comes down to the nitty-gritty I've found there aren't many genuine gals who are ready to follow thru.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Mr.Tall,RHP describes itself as an ''Adult Dating Site''... nowhere does it say that we ''girls '' are compelled to have sex with anyone,even men who have spectacular equipment. Men here whinge that the women here won't spread their legs,then women here whinge that men here only want women to spread their legs.....Huston we have a problem

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'whodeany13' Don't worry dude, if it makes you feel any better no one wants a 30yo either. Maybe I'm not buff enough or lacking pictures of my penis but I've been considering cancelling my membership due to lack of interest. Guess chicks just arent that interested in some regardless of age, so don't feel bad :) come to my room young man, you need a good spanking for telling porkies.I sobbed into my cornflakes this morning, poor good looking dude and you cant get a root in a woodyard.what is the world coming to?and what about that comment that young men are attracted to me for "some reason" well the reason is. they come to the door i am dressed in ten inch heels and lingerie that hides all my flaws. I have beer in one hand and a jack and coke in the other. I have an arm draped over a female bi friend who is dark and cute a nice contrast to my tall and blonde.I say come in honey put your feet up , the roast is almost done and can I rub your feet and put the foot ball on for you, while my friend gives you a blow job and I rub your shoulders and run the bubble bath.yes there is a flat screen in the bathroom with porn running 24 hours a day.I then take you to my bed with the big mirror over the top and flat screen with TV and mini bar.I have all sorts of toys for you to play with and as me and my girlfriend give you a show, I let you just lay back and do a bit of hand action on yourself.I say honey, no need to go down on me at allsure its fine if you cum in ten seconds, go for it babycum where you like, how about into both of our mouths while you film it...and you ask why men are attracted to me...pfffftttttttt

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    11 years ago

    One persons "Adult Dating Site" is another persons sex site - I am pretty sure most of people here know what the site is supposed to be about - with out being compelled to behave one way or t' other. Yes - we do have a problem Huston, but age is still the contributing factor. The problem is that the gals will say 18 - 99, but really only mean 18 - 30 (?) in most cases. More than one problem - back to you Huston.   Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' Had a good read through all the comments in here so far, and one thing that is apparently forgotten with some of the ladies (such as Lady T and lolygob), is that this site is predominately supposed to be a SEX SITE. Unfortunately most of the ladies who come on here, it is mainly for the sake of curiousity, and then they find out they can actually chat here as well. What lady can't resist a chat ??? They then treat this like another facebook or twitter site and forget the reason this site is here. As far as 'getting any' goes, I don't know Ron or what his profile is like, but speaking from personal experience, too many ladies just don't register with the 18-99 age range, and seem to forget it's listed on their profile. Then when you initially contact them, they suddenly come up with any excuse when you're over 50 (or 40, or 30). As a few of the blokes have mentioned, it really is their loss, as us of the 'mature' generation usually have over the young 'uns when it comes to technique and experience. In spite of Meeka's 'helpful' statistics about the penis, many of us still have the equipment to fully fulfil the intended function - and Meeka I'm not afraid to give you a personal show about our supposed 'reduced' length of equipment (or how hard it can get hehe). Age does seem to play too much of an issue, and as some of the more 'mature' ladies have also pointed out, we not fuckin' dead yet ! We all enjoy it just as much now (maybe even moreso) and we usually are in a better place to actually make the most enjoyment out of it, for both parties. I have made many good friends on site from all over the country, and enjoy having a good conversation with them (when I'm paid up), but when it comes down to the nitty-gritty I've found there aren't many genuine gals who are ready to follow thru. I am sure some gals do follow through, but we just try not to talk about it.

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    11 years ago

    Would love to see you as described - you're already 5'9" and THEN come dressed in 10" heels - man o man what a sight that would be to behold. Forget the flatscreen 'n the rest - that would be an excellent entrée. Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Have you ladies seen those TV ads for eHarmony - one on the TV running right now... just like the lady on it says - you got to get onto this site :-) All warm and fuzzy with how you find your soulmate. Does it mean he is not here? No, maybe he is, but not likely expecting the same ride here as he would there... It is the reality of the commercial world, there is unfortunately such a thing as "market" in everything. Sorry if I sounded cynical, and apologies to Ron if he took it the wrong way - it is always depressing and frustrating when results are so far from effort and expectations. What I was attempting to say (and Lady Tuscan and few others) was the cold truth of statistics. Yes, physiologically, and thanks for Meeka for pointing that out, we have disadvantages to the 30-year olds but then again as I said many times before - my largest sex organ is my brain, and it is not in my pants... With confidence I can say that sex is better than 20-years ago, and you can ask Mrs Sparks if you like. And yes, because we don't play together finding a friend with benefits is more difficult for me than for her - MUCH more difficult... :-)

  • Dazzman

    Dazzman

    11 years ago

    interesting subject this one ,ive found that when I was im my late 30s and in 40s I tended not to look after myself as much as I do now that im 50,im happy to say im in better condition now than I was 5 0r so yrs ago and am enjoying life as ive found theres not a lot I cant do

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya77' Mr.Tall,RHP describes itself as an ''Adult Dating Site''... nowhere does it say that we ''girls '' are compelled to have sex with anyone,even men who have spectacular equipment. Men here whinge that the women here won't spread their legs,then women here whinge that men here only want women to spread their legs.....Huston we have a problemThanks Freya for reminding people of that difference. I for one get tired of the expectation that because I'm here I'm going to have sex with everyone who asks.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Intersec45' Dear Ron, its not how we look or our age, its how we present. Be confident in yourself and everything wil be alright. I'm more than 50 & still have fun. Make a girl laugh n you're halfway home. But I thought you were only 46

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Whooooopsie.HAHAHADG

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    11 years ago

    Mrs Luvsilver joked. Does having two 25 year old guys at the same time count?   Mr Luvsilver

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I did receive a message from the OP, and my decline was not based on his age, but his message! First one was very negative, other than saying I was beautiful ( which i thanked him for ) he said he was out of my league, and people should try over 50s blah blah...turn off! Then message #2 went on to describe what he wanted to do to me....turn off number 2!!!! That wouldn't do it for me even if it was a 20 year old with a six pack!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'bosch_sparks' I smell some clickbait here... if you have not been on here for a while I suggest first spend a lot of time looking around, reading forums and learning about what appeals to people etc. The sad truth is that ladies of age around 45+ are not on sites like these anymore, statistically they are not that much interested in looking for intimacy of this type... more likely for just friendship with same age people (mostly women) or spending time with family (grandkids). If occassionally a 45+ year old woman is blessed with high sex drive post-menopause (good hormones) she might well badge herslef as a cougar and again you're out of luck... life's a biatch mate ;-) What a load of crap!!!! im nearly 45 and having more fun than when I was 25!!! and nowhere near menopause either thank you!! I still have primary school aged kids, so won't be a nan for many years, can believe you wrote that!!!

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    11 years ago

    My lovely Ms Freya, Yes, RHP does say "Adult Dating Site", but I wish to take you on a little journey with that in mind. To wit, take for example the previously mentioned eHarmony, along with, say, RSVP. Both are Dating Sites too, and equally are aimed at legally pronounced adults. But I am sure you will not find them advertising themselves as Adult Dating Sites. RHP also has/ had a dating section on their site too, which was for the intended purpose of people seeking committed relationships, as per the other two sites. In this instance, it is not only about reading and quoting the Headlines and Bylines, but also reading between the lines - just in case the photos of the naked girls and guys didn't give it away to you in the first instance. Please don't think I'm being rude or flippant about this with you, because I'm quite serious..........ly...... ..............taking the piss out of ya. Some be prepared to spread dem legs, mon amie !!! Cheers, Tall

  • hardnslow

    hardnslow

    11 years ago

    don't be shy be confident, I was like you new to the site and nothing and like a lot have said you need the info for them to look at and see if maybe your the one. try doing searches and use your emails not flirts [unless you run out of emails lol] Don't be scared to write to the younger chicks if they rock your boat, even the experience from talking to them will boost your confidence. I have found some women as young as 35 will at least answer your emails and you can see where it goes from there. have a go search local and good luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    iv had the pleasure of being with a 50 yo and it was something else,life is way to short if you get the chance do it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    iv had the pleasure of being with a 50 yo and it was something else,life is way to short if you get the chance do it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ...an 80 year old looking for a toy boy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    What we have at this point in time is so good I have closed my profile for a while.He's sensitive, funny, intelligent, a gentleman, and amazing where it counts :)I loved his profile, the messages he sent were even better. To me spelling, grammar and intellect are important. Stimulate my mind....my body naturally follows

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    would b my pleasure lady tuscan:)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Are probably the way to go Ron.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I guess it comes down to perception and presentation, feel good and you will look good. Be open and honest as the older we get the more important the person. If you like what you see then others generally will too.