M47
No reply
November 28 2012
Comments
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Mate i think there are alot more men than women here. Women probably get 100 bits off mail off men here everyday.I think a lot of women do not reply to men who send them mail as they are just seeing who is about...window shopping if you will.Don't take it to heart ,i have had the same experience ,some women write back and are polite saying "your not what im looking for" while other women do not reply at all.If it was that easy to send mail and get a reply well we would all be "Porn stars"
-
RHP User
12 years ago
profile is sufficiently boring...a couple of spelling mistakes...fix them, as some women are fussy...when you send a message make sure women can see your face pic,......if you have a lovely sexy smile it will be to your advantage,if you are drop dead uggers at least she will know and be able to decide whether it matters or not...even though you are a platinum member guests who are over 45 can't contact you ...yours is a common complaint OP,tooo many men,tooo little time for most women
-
RHP User
12 years ago
you have to 'stand out' in order to be interesting enough to warrant a response, as you are after all, just another guy in a veritable sea of men. the competitions fierce......and thats understating it...
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I have said it all before.. "If you want to get laid this weekend, go to a popular hotel where a lot of girls get drunk" :)
-
RHP User
12 years ago
You are so rite and it works in the reverse for us gals !!!! The endless dates that I have been to no avail .... Well mmmm, hence why I'm now a guest I've been having more success picking up at the local nudist beach ( warnbro ) than here Embracing my jaded and cynical state of mind now :)
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Post your question in the zoo...lol Having not sent many emails myself (27,658 at last count), I'm not sure if I can help you... Maybe if you started them with..."hey, I'm a stud, let's fuck tonight"... may work better for you ;-) ... No?...yeah, didn't work for me either... As pointed out by all of the excellent posters, don't lose sleep over it, you are now officially in the ' jungle', And if at first you don't succeed...send another fifty emails... Ricky :-P
-
RHP User
12 years ago
spot on the money. Had more success going out meeting in person than on here
-
RHP User
12 years ago
But I also add, your messages must compell the reader to reply... If you want more info on this..,message DG. Lol
-
RHP User
12 years ago
you am BAD....
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' You are so rite and it works in the reverse for us gals !!!! The endless dates that I have been to no avail .... Well mmmm, hence why I'm now a guest I've been having more success picking up at the local nudist beach ( warnbro ) than here Embracing my jaded and cynical state of mind now :) We have had more couples and single bi-guys from the nude beach here as well, and you get to chat with them at the beach and see what they are like, and then make up your mind to take them home That's why I luv living only 1km from the nude beach, and its a nice walk on a nice day too... But as for going to the pub and getting drunk no thanks just not for me I don't drink that much
-
Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Everyone is different and not everyone is on the site to meet people
-
RHP User
12 years ago
As Freya said, way too many men per women on here. An honest profile, a face pic and interesting messages are a must. Also, posting on the forums are a good way to get noticed but be careful, a stupid comment after a few beers will get you crucified.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Hi, Get_Ready I get a very high response rate to messages. I do not how ever send messages to every person that is on line. There are in my humble opinion a couple of things you need to do: Make the message personal call the person my their Handle not...Sexy, Hun, Babe. The message should be interesting a bit chatty/Flirty note flirty is different to do you want a root. If possible show you have read all of their profile say something about waht they have said. Then you have to have an interesting profile your self. Read a few of the guys profiles so you can get feel for how other are posting. Good Luck LC
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I am not one of the women who are inundated so I generally reply to all flirts and messages. Sometimes when someone sends the "I just wanted to say I loved your profile" I don't respond and especially if I am outside their seeking criteria (of for just a polite thank you for your flirt response). I occasionally send a flirt or a message myself and frequently get no reply so I get a bit weary hearing how its women who lack manners or are not "nice". Men are equally dismissive of those of us who don't pique their interest. Good luck in finding someone here in Hobart.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I always reply but find I dont if a person is out of the range we asked for. Got a little sick of also replying to guys flirts with no thanks then they send a message anyway. People need to learn to read profiles or dont bother sending flirts or messages.
-
TomiPrice
12 years ago
Well it would be rude of me not to reply to all of you wouldn't it. Thank you all for your words, I have taken them on board and I Actually have received 2 messages back from some one today That I messages using your advice so thank you :)
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I rarely reply, I get quite a few messages. I dont have the time. I don't even click through to you profile if it's just a hi how are you? Or if there's anything explicit in the message or if there's really bad grammar or 'text talk' or if your handle is really off or explicit. I always click through if the message is funny or interesting or shows that they've read my profile. Gosh, I'm fussy huh? Then if I do click through you've got to seem interesting, good if you're tall and easy on the eye, muscles, and sound like you're FUN, no one likes a sad sack. And intelligent, that helps a lot. A. Lot. Really! Too many restricted photos (and I can't even see them) and I think you're a bit off. So... Nutshell- smart, funny, interesting and you'd get a reply, definitely so if you're also gorgeous, not either without the other. Lol!
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' As Freya said, way too many men per women on here. An honest profile, a face pic and interesting messages are a must. Also, posting on the forums are a good way to get noticed but be careful, a stupid comment after a few beers will get you crucified. Honest profile: check. Face pic: check. Interesting messages: check. Posting on the forums: check. So, what beer do you drink?
-
RHP User
12 years ago
My few cents worth... An honest and well written profile, contacting those people whose ranges and criteria you fit, showing some personality in your messages and treating RHP as the icing on a delicious cake - usually equals responses... For some reason, unbeknownst to me, you can usually quickly tell those people who already lead fabulous lives and aren't using RHP or similar sites as their only social interaction. Those are the people who I find myself attracted to and whom I may message, so the chances of responses from like minded people increase ie like attracts like... If it starts to feel like a numbers game, a smaller target audience may bring much more delicious results... However, I do find it easier to grab drinks or coffee with people in the real world... Perhaps removing the tacit judgmental perception of 'sites like this' from people's minds and non pressure environments makes it easier to be open to approaches and to be approached in the real world. Hmmmmm... More questions than answers... Again - that's just my humble few cents worth
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'Funlover71' As Freya said, way too many men per women on here. An honest profile, a face pic and interesting messages are a must. Also, posting on the forums are a good way to get noticed but be careful, a stupid comment after a few beers will get you crucified. Honest profile: check. Face pic: check. Interesting messages: check. Posting on the forums: check. So, what beer do you drink? As long as I get to repay you......in kind
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I have written messages and tried to spill my heart out but what I get - Nothing. No email back. I have read their profile, meet their criteria and everything. They haven't even bothered reading checking the profile out. I can name a few however I am not going to lolHow can someone decide they don't like them if they have only seen them in a photo. No wonder there are guys trying to put pictures of girls on their profile ( I THEM THIS THE MOST). I have given up that's why i am in forums now however I am happy to chat and see where it leads to Enough of my ranting :P)
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Of every ten emails I receive, At least 8 will have the heading "hi", "Hey there...", "hi babe", "hi there hun", or similar. Yawn. 1 might say "Hi Devious", "devious curves", "love your profile", "We have things in common". Mmm, could be interesting. And 1 really grabs my attention. Those are the ones incorporating someting from my profile in the header. I mention that I'm very tactile. A heading mentioning how much you love to touch will spike my interest. Or something seamingly random, that makes me curious. I remember an email with the heading "My favourite kind of innuendo...". I had no idea what it meant, but certainly read that email first. And glad I did...
-
RHP User
12 years ago
And in your email: Please write more than one sentence, check your spelling, and never EVER use text speak. Most "hi" emails I receive go something like this: "hi hun im Dave, love yr profile wanna chat?" Ehh... that would be a no.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I presume that people aren't going to reply so when they do it's a nice surprise :) really I can understand that girls probably get a lot of messages so one sentence messages aren't going to get a response unless its something extremely witty. I dunno why but I get a response 90% of the time, not really sure why.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' And in your email: Please write more than one sentence, check your spelling, and never EVER use text speak. Most "hi" emails I receive go something like this: "hi hun im Dave, love yr profile wanna chat?" Ehh... that would be a no.LOL I find that approach SOOOOOOOO boring and I have found even when I have gone against my better judgement and responded politely the follow up message is usually equally uninspiring. I have a fantastic friendship with someone who challenged me in his very first email about something I had in my profile (in another incarnation on RHP). So provocative (without being sexual) is a definite winner for me.
-
boots_69
12 years ago
In several years on this site and nearly 2000 messages later on, I have less than 10% that have not been responded to probably because I don't do bulk "Hi" messages.Main advice I can give on this is read the profile - think of it as if you are eavesdropping in a pub and then use what you have learnt to make your opening comment. Won't always work but it works a lot better than other options.Boots
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Common CourtesyI'm with you, I try to reply to most of the mail I receive, though not always to flirts, some of the responses are not my choice wording and I wouldn't be rude just because I'm not interested..hence ignoring it is rude in itself, oh dear just cant winI think its extremely frustrating to send emails txt etc and get no response at all.....The truth is better than nothing!Youre profile is fine BTW.....so good luck
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Of every ten emails I receive, At least 8 will have the heading "hi", "Hey there...", "hi babe", "hi there hun", or similar. Yawn. 1 might say "Hi Devious", "devious curves", "love your profile", "We have things in common". Mmm, could be interesting. And 1 really grabs my attention. Those are the ones incorporating someting from my profile in the header. I mention that I'm very tactile. A heading mentioning how much you love to touch will spike my interest. Or something seamingly random, that makes me curious. I remember an email with the heading "My favourite kind of innuendo...". I had no idea what it meant, but certainly read that email first. And glad I did... Bugger, stuffed up again
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 14361 Comments: 120840
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1355 Comments: 14709
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2425 Comments: 17234
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2405 Comments: 12737
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 794 Comments: 5154
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1148 Comments: 6957
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 622 Comments: 2145
-
LGBT
Topics: 156 Comments: 1150
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share