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No shows at Gang Bangs

July 31 2021

Greetings to all in the RHP Universe from Masters_Of_Bang. Regrettably, cause for spleen venting time. I just want to put this out there in public for all RHP gang bang consumers to contemplate and chew on. Gang Bangs just don't happen by the push of a magic button. There is a lot of effort required by the group facilitator to plan a gang bang, to make sure all participants know the plan, where they need to be and when, etc. Emails, phone calls, text messages, and the rest of it. When RHP members of any persuasion (single ladies, couples etc) contact a group and make a booking for a gang bang there is an expectation they will show up. Last night we had a no-show in Perth, from a couple with a paid RHP subscription who had booked us for a gang bang. Our guys showed up but the couple did not, with no notice or explanation given. Whilst I might be inclined to "name and shame" here I've a hunch that RHP Admin will probably be against us naming a paid-up member in this way. So I won't. Suffice to say we understand that sometimes the unexpected happens and for a whole variety of reasons a gang bang booking needs to be cancelled at the last hour. Is it not too much to ask, if you've booked a gang bang and there has been a change of mind/plan, let the group facilitator know at the first opportunity? We expend a lot of effort to realize your gang bang requests: once you've confirmed a booking and your plans change, please let us know. Don't have us mobilize to your gang bang booking and then not show up and not tell anybody. It's just common courtesy. Rant over. Thanks for your attention. Staying hard at your service, Masters_Of_Bang.

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MsSuperFoxy

3 years ago

I understand your frustration. People are allowed to change their minds for all sorts of reasons. When they do, their priorities shift. I'm curious, First up. Screening? What was your process of screening? Do you speak to them prior on the phone, met them prior to the event? 2ndly: Naming and shaming is not ok. I get why RHP doesn't support it, neither do I. Public shaming and humiliating anyone is the act of discrediting an individual/or more than one person in front of peers. Be careful, it doesn't bite you on the bum. What's trash to some is treasure to others. There will always be no shows for events. You can not control what others do and as you want them too. If you didn't have a back up plan. That was your mistake. You can't put that blame onto others. Ms Foxy

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RHP User

3 years ago

Bumble. Tinder. RHP. Hinge. Whatever... Every man / woman who has dated quite a bit has been cancelled on last minute. That's just dating - sure, it's frustrating and rude - but it happens. Normal date? One person is disappointed. Group gangbang date? Lots of guys holding their dicks looking at each other like "now what"? Cancelling (even last minute) no matter the app is much kinder with communication.

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RHP User

3 years ago

With any group activity, be it a meet & greet, a gang bang or an event at a venue, you will usually average a third of the people that showed interest, will actually turn up. Its frustrating when you are the organiser and keep all the other guests updated on who is attending. Its not just straight guys either. I play with bi guys and they are the same. It doesnt matter if you have pre met for a coffee, or spoken on the phone numerous times, Im sure some of these people actually just get off on the fact that they have been accepted to join in. The fantasy takes over. Its in the wank bank. Then they ghost and dont show, dont answer messages. They dont get a second chance. It takes 1 minute to send a text that says " I cant make it, sorry" They dont have to give a reason. Just man up and say you cant maks it. Give the organisers time to get in contact with thd standbys if you have some. But when you do find some consistant players, hold onto them. Its much better/safer to play with the same bunch of people anyway.

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I_touch_myself2

3 years ago

God that would be so annoying. I would be furious. It's not just affecting one person. Did you meet with them prior?

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RHP User

3 years ago

I have been wondering about this as I have been investigating possibilities of organising such an event with my partner. How would you regulate this? I understand you have a regular group and the center didn't attend but what about if it was the reverse where you had a center and the other didn't attend? I think a point system wouldn't necessarily work but maybe a rating system. RHP has the ability to validate members but it doesn't have a google review style system. Average it out of 5 stars with an ability to review individuals. There will be some hate mail for sure but wouldn't that help everyone? feedback, negative or positive, is always helpful.

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I_touch_myself2

3 years ago

I chatted via message with a gb group in Perth and although they claimed they could meet my requirements, age and physical shape of the bangers lol they couldn't make any guarantees and were vague about who I would be getting. I on the other hand would want to meet with the participants prior, all of them together. The few photos they had up indicated most of the men were 40's or 50's, I wanted younger. They were just vague and I didn't go ahead. Very happy with that decision. My guess is late changes by yourself/the group, probably turns them off and to be fair, we've only heard your side of the story

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RHP User

3 years ago

I really want to go to one in sydney

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RHP User

3 years ago

So frustrating when guy's don't turn up. Tas guys are not very reliable.😟

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