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No sleep over policy?
May 11 2013
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sweetgem
12 years ago
But if anything I would tend to think that they do not want to encourage an emotional attachment. However, for Lucky, I guess one of her reasons is because she needs significant amount of times to study and a clear mind in the morning to focus on her studying??? Am I even close to the truth Lucky? 😛
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RHP User
12 years ago
their wives get mighty pissed off and the guys go into fuck fuck mode,shit my wife just got home... apart from that I snore,fart when I am sleeping and dribble besides if they saw me first thing in the morning they would be turned to stone and we are not talking hard dicks here not only would they chew off their arm,they would pluck out their eyes and cut of their dick as they ran screaming out into the street tr every guys worst nighmare
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RHP User
12 years ago
No I don't like sleepovers and I almost never ask anyone to my place and I would never sleep over at a guys house. I have had FWB for months before I would spend a whole night with them. I like my space and its too much involvement in their life.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yeah... Reckon the wives should give hubby an all night pass once in a while. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
When have one, I like to share some morning morels and coffee with my bonk buddy...I love starting the day with a cuddle, some conversation and a coffee. I don't expect it every time, but definently once in a while.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It blurs the lines. If you are trying to prevent emotional attachment. Strange thought process I'm sure but somehow sleeping together denotes an intimacy that sex does not. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love to sleep alone especially as I have THE most comfy big bed in the universe . I don't get to very often (little cherubs also think that my bed is the best).So when I stay/play in Sydney, my hotel room bed is MINE MINE MINE MINE MINE!!! If you are with me and you doze off and start snoring I will pack you up and shove you out the door before you even open your eyes.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You better stay the night. I just love the skin on skin contact while sleeping, it has nothing to do with forming an emotional attachment for me. Oh, and you must fuck me sillly the next morning of course, if you want breakfast.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You'd have to be pretty darn good to come anywhere near my house. So you'd need to have been promoted to friend first.....and be able to handle SirLurk's scrambled eggs, with chives, on toast topped with some sautéed mushrooms and fresh roasted tomatoes :) Was that too much info?? Sorry- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'karynb' It blurs the lines. If you are trying to prevent emotional attachment. Strange thought process I'm sure but somehow sleeping together denotes an intimacy that sex does not. - Posted from rhpmobile It was probably my post that you're referring to, I did mention on a forum recently that I have a no sleepover policy. And there are a couple reasons, karynb's point being one of them. I know it seems ridiculous and maybe it is (I never claim to be sane), but to me sleeping next to someone at night...plus the associated spooning, cuddling etc. is more intimate than actually fucking them. I know that once I start sleeping over a guy's place, I'm more likely to start developing an emotional attachment, and at the moment that is something I don't really want. Also, I like my space when I sleep, i.e. no arms and legs thrown over me etc., and in general I find it very difficult to actually sleep in a bed with someone else there (when I'm in a relationship I eventually get used to it). Yes I know sometimes it's not like there would be much sleeping anyway due to other activities, but I'm a person that just can't function without sleep so if I do have a busy day the next day I prefer to get at least a few hours in. I do still occasionally have to sleepover due to circumstances e.g. if I've had too much to drink to be able to drive, but I try and keep those to an absolute minimum. So yes, these days I generally miss out on the morning sex which I do love, but at the moment that's just how it has to be for me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Problem is I am not used to sleeping with anybody so I in fact would hardly get any sleep. Although may be a different story in my own bed I guess... Meh maybe one day I may ask someone. ^_^
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' You better stay the night. I just love the skin on skin contact while sleeping, it has nothing to do with forming an emotional attachment for me. Oh, and you must fuck me sillly the next morning of course, if you want breakfast. And there we have it.I can add nothing further.DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' You better stay the night. I just love the skin on skin contact while sleeping, it has nothing to do with forming an emotional attachment for me. Oh, and you must fuck me sillly the next morning of course, if you want breakfast. Otherwise I just feel cheap and used !
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RHP User
12 years ago
I need sex, I need affection and attention. I love holding hands, cuddling, and kissing. One off's no, but fwb yes. My fwb takes me out places, apparently that's bad too. But it's nice.
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RHP User
12 years ago
After a sleep in, some good coffee and a yummy breakfast, we then return to the hay for another good roll so to speak. Why waste the opportunity for an extra bit of fun. And sleepy morning after sex is so much fun!
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RHP User
12 years ago
If I'm out the door after sex I'd feel like I've been paying for it........ Nothing better than a sleepover, cuddling, morning lovemaking, and either cooking or going out for breakfast.......then going back to bed again :) Hp xo
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't like it if my guy has chicks stay over the night or if he has stayed over at someones.....leave..and he has been advised to not do this anymore..... It can muddle what other woman think is going on.If I was to have a lil thing going on with a man, he sure wouldn't be staying the night. I like cuddles with my fella...sex is sex and there aren't gong to be any boners in the night...I like my sleep thanks
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RHP User
12 years ago
just how it comes. Some stay I like it, some go.I have nothing against it either.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nothing better than early morning cuddles followed by some shower sex :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
yes to sleepovers if the situation is right....
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RHP User
12 years ago
I forgot to mention the shower sex!
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RHP User
12 years ago
A sleepover isn't really my thing on the rare occasion it happens is at a hotel not at my place especially for first time sleep overs having said that a dirty weekend away is a different matter
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RHP User
12 years ago
I personally prefer sleepovers. It is genuinely nice to sleep next to a woman, and it also means more sex in the morning, and I can't think of a better way to start the day.
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RHP User
12 years ago
There is morning sex, cuddles, as Ms D added shower sex... And mid night snacks... Nothing nicer than being woken by soft kisses and a sexy girl reaching down for... :-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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jensta
12 years ago
Why would you want to Fuck someone but not Sleep together? I know what I like & what I want Flirty Fun ... Sex ... Chocolate ... Sleep & more Sex
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me a sleep over is essensual, I do not demand it but really I am not interested if it is not wanted or permitted. Sometimes as i awake from blissful slumber and explore the bed to find a warm body and receptive touch from a lady I met just the night before, the erotic devil may care lustful grin is ear to ear. Anyone for a coffee.Once a year or so back a very sexy and lustful lady invited me to her place, late. It did not take long for there to be but only skin, there was no discussion of can I stay. Oh a very memorable night. I finally got to sleep. Less then an hour later at 6am she jumped from the bed in a panic. I roll over and smile, "whats up?" In a rushed matter of fact distressed voice she informs me that her boyfriend will be home from night shift in less then half an hour. "Boyfriend!!!!" naughty naughty girl, there was never any mention of a boyfriend.Oh but so worth it, never saw her again and in the rush to get out and on my way I for the first time left an item of clothing behind. I hope she found it and think that still counts as a sleep over.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dont like a sleep over to be honest..... Unless im in my bed i dont sleep, the slightest noise from my 'sleeping partner' keeps me awake.... Im a really light sleeper.... i mean i lay in bed on the weekends pretending i have a sling shot in my hands to get rid of the bloody birds outside my window! Oh & then theres the mouth guard im supposed to be wearing! Soooooooo not attractive!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'goinghard1981'And mid night snacks... Cheese plates and crackers and wine, oh my.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'goinghard1981'And mid night snacks... Cheese plates and crackers and wine, oh my. Raspberries and ashed chevrè
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sweetgem
12 years ago
With the right man, right timing, right vibes, and mutual chemistry/connection!!! I love everything about sleeping over with a man who I can connect with from head to toes, back to front, and inside out lol I am a big morning sex lover too, so with the right man, I have no hesitation to fall asleep in his arms But I will only have sleepovers in a hotel room. My house is a forbidden territory to enter lol Had a great date with a charming man this week who has generously given me his body warmth when he felt my body was shivering from the cold temperature in our hotel room.Ms_Devious, there goes another big thumbs up from me for a man on RHP PS: However, I can understand and respect people who have "no sleepovers" policy, it's a personal space that everyone should respect :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Once had a guy literally pick up my clothes off the floor and throw them at me after sex -.- sigh
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sweetgem
12 years ago
Sorry to hear about your terrible experience 😞 what a total scum with no demeanor he was to do that to you!!! 😡 Perhaps be more selective in whom you meet in future, but never ever let this one bad experience pulls you down! There are still plenty of nice gentlemen on RHP 😀
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'd have to give myself a F grade for my ability to fuck but an A+ for my ability to Make Love.Thanks to RHP I've realised I'm quite an emotional fucker. I love to look into a man's eyes, run my fingers through his hair and touch his body all over. I love touching, feeling and breathing every part of a man. The problem with this is that my heart goes on the journey too. It's what makes sex incredible. It's what gives me the best orgasms BUT I usually want more, particularly if there's a connection.I prefer to have sex and leave. It protects my vital organs !!!!Hugs and sloppy kisses, Saturn
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'll put my hand up as one of those light sleepers... the slightest movement of the bed and I wake up! While it's lovely of people to offer, no matter how exhausted I am I always head home for the (cold) comfort of my own bed.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SassyMissM' I dont like a sleep over to be honest..... Unless im in my bed i dont sleep, the slightest noise from my 'sleeping partner' keeps me awake.... Im a really light sleeper.... i mean i lay in bed on the weekends pretending i have a sling shot in my hands to get rid of the bloody birds outside my window! Oh & then theres the mouth guard im supposed to be wearing! Soooooooo not attractive! Oh but when it clicks, inhibitions, insecurities, and being just human is forgotten. When it clicks you relax and the noise of a partner just brings a warm fuzzy. If its stressful there is no point of course, but a great intimate orgasmic night of lust so helps sleep. Hope you find the right person to make a night worth every second. Gosh I struggle to try to stay awake if its right.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sleepovers all the way I say! Sure, there is those where a few sessions is enough, but normally they don't get invited back! If you happen to find a great girl, have some hot sessions during the evening, what's better than to top it off with the great feeling of bodies coming together fir hours! And then as many have mentioned, the morning session! When you're single. Its not just sex you're after (well, I'm not), but the whole intimate interaction with someone! I've had a fwb fir 5 months now and we sleep over about twice a week, and its great! Some might say you'd get too close, but we both know what we have and why we like it! So far so good! Lucky the week has 7 nights! Lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Those Dutch are some horny fuckers, aren't they Blindman? (Especially when you have three in a row.)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Impressive. Three guys in three days?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Impressive. Three guys in three days? No, three Dutchies in a row on this forum. I haven't slep with a Dutchman since 1998, and intend on keeping it that way.
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RHP User
12 years ago
To keep it that way*. And it should have looked like this.
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RHP User
12 years ago
What's wrong with Dutchmen?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'PeppermintTea'Once had a guy literally pick up my clothes off the floor and throw them at me after sex -.- sigh we could rip them off you again!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'What's wrong with Dutchmen? To get back on topic: I wouldn't mind a sleepover tonight. Mr Jameson keeps me comfy and warm, but he's not a very good nuzzler.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Morning sex.....sex in the shower...and then spend the day in bed going at it!!When you have sexual chemistry with someone, I think it's fine to sleep over....
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subgal_gc
12 years ago
With the right guy are awesome. I love to fall asleep wrapped up in the arms of my gorgeous bed mate, then wake thru the night to continue the fun, then morning sex.....omg I miss that!! Hopefully I will find the right person to share all this with again soon.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Okay.... maybe something I have to find out for myself. One day, maybe although they are all so TALL compared to short arse me. Well I think I need to head of to bed and cuddle myself.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I use to have a sleep over rule when I was extremely highly sexed and dominant. If there is a sleep over i can use you awake or asleep. This stopped 99% of wanting to stay over because they had no more energy and the 1% that did I collared for 6 months as my live in pleasure warrior. He got used so much he hasnt had sex in months.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The worst thing about Dutchmen is their arrogance, the best thing about being a Dutchman is knowing I have a reason to be arrogant. Now where did I put my rose coloured glasses.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes I love cuddling and spooning and morning sex but I really struggle with sleep overs, maybe a fwb or someone like that but I need to feel very comfortable to sleep over, normally I toss and turn till I eventually wake the poor sleeping guy to let him know I'm going cause cant sleep or I just leave allot earlier ;( I mean how embarrassing if you snore or talk in your sleep or visa verse ??? easier to go home and be comfortable .....
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RHP User
12 years ago
I had a dutch bf who sleep humped. First time it happened I thought "what the hell!?!?!" Next time it happened I thought "giddy up, bonus round!" i won't go there again though. I like a sleepover, I like the warmth of a man's body next to mine, after all the slow lazy morning sex is always worth his snoring. I love the morning groggy grope around, best way to start the day.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
...and peppermint tea is so lovely in the morning too..Quoting 'PeppermintTea' Once had a guy literally pick up my clothes off the floor and throw them at me after sex -.- sigh
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Miss_Saturn' I'd have to give myself a F grade for my ability to fuck but an A+ for my ability to Make Love.Thanks to RHP I've realised I'm quite an emotional fucker. I love to look into a man's eyes, run my fingers through his hair and touch his body all over. I love touching, feeling and breathing every part of a man. The problem with this is that my heart goes on the journey too. It's what makes sex incredible. It's what gives me the best orgasms BUT I usually want more, particularly if there's a connection.I prefer to have sex and leave. It protects my vital organs !!!!Hugs and sloppy kisses, Saturn thats it for me to, im a bit of a softy at heart thats why i gotta keep that shit in theirs no time for feelings . their was one girl that id stay the night or two cause i was able look at her purely as a friend and we would get drunk and high then fuck for ages then stop, drink some more and get into these intence convorsation and debates as she was a psychologist she had many opinions which led to more sex so fun times
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Cassy_74
12 years ago
I do on occasion with a friend but we make it a fun night and enjoy the night for what it is. I have a couple of reasons why I dont really do the sleepovers often: Avoids attachment for both parties, do it too often and you fall into the comfort zone. Then one person starts wanting more then and then it becomes complicated blah blah blah blah blah..... you get my point. My main Number 1 reason is because, I have a 9 year old child that I dont want exposed to my personal life. My FWB comes over after she has gone to sleep for the night and leaves after, so in the morning there is no awkwardness and I dont have answer 20 questions. Plus she doesnt get confused....................and also it allows me to lead my non-monagamus lifetstyle without having to explain myself to my daughter.
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RHP User
12 years ago
and my lack of sleep (from a snoring hubby) I am offering him up for anyone who would like a "sleep over" - be my guest! :)Cassy - shhhh, don't tell him ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'somethinew'I had a dutch bf who sleep humped. Sure it wasn't a Dutch Shepherd?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well I for one am a fan of sleep overs, they may not like ot as I do snore a tad, but a nudge soon quietens me down, or wakes me up if they have a midnight urge Morning sex is soo good and gives a chance to improve upon the previous nights performance if required..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Having been married, I have only shared my bed with my ex-husband. Now my silly brain sees bed-sharing/sleeping as far too intimate (yes more than sex!!!) and I can't form that sort of emotional connection. Once I almost did as I felt so comfortable and then freaked myself out and I habitually did the usual runner. If I have had anyone "stay" at mine, it's just constant ongoing attention all night and morning so sleep doesn't happen. And I rarely play in my bed!!! Weird I know but this is confession time. I long to overcome this some day. What's the saying "it's me - not you"!!! Sleepless in Bris Vegas :(((- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Love your comments :) xx I love a sleep over, yes I don't sleep well but isn't it worth it to have that pillow talk, spooning then morning sex?? What more could we want?? 😘- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I had a lady call me the 'package deal' once because we went for dinner the night before, had some really good sex in the spa & bedroom then the next morning I cooked her a big brekky. Then another woman (whom I met at a random bar pick up when I was on a night out in Melbourne) came back to my hotel room for some really good sex then when it was super late she was surprised when I asked her to stay the night. The next morning we had some nice morning glory sex which included me licking my cum off her lovely smooth skin which she was a bit surprised at. I asked her to stay so we could get a breakfast together but she left never to be heard from again.So for me a sleepover is good
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Lisalee69' Love your comments :) xx I love a sleep over, yes I don't sleep well but isn't it worth it to have that pillow talk, spooning then morning sex?? What more could we want?? 😘- Posted from rhpmobile Spooning is the ultimate morning sex position when a little bit tired & hung over
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RHP User
12 years ago
Until seperating from my husband.......i had "SLEPT" with only one other man....I do still see it as being intimate and something i don't share lightly. Very Very few men have ever been inside my inner sanctum..... Only one man has ever been invited to stay the night in my house, a very special friend who will always be in my life. LOL, i think I sound a little emotionally gun shy! Quoting 'ParisLolly' Having been married, I have only shared my bed with my ex-husband. Now my silly brain sees bed-sharing/sleeping as far too intimate (yes more than sex!!!) and I can't form that sort of emotional connection.
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RHP User
12 years ago
no...we have 5 kids...from late teens to mid 30's...we don't know from one day to the next when they might be calling, or even if their plans may have changed...its why we don't host easily...we never know who will come thru the front door...or when...
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's a must for me!!! I love it - it's my thing... I don't allow just anybody in my bed, nor would I have sex where we did not spend the night together - 2 nights for the special ones ;).
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thank u darling - I get u completely! Yes it's commitment fear for me. With time I know I will overcome it. I haven't even had a bad relationship experience, I think it's more about protecting myself. Some women associate sex and love, for me it's sex and lust, and emotional commitment is love in some form or another. I'm able to show and say my love for my gay male friends because I know they understand where I'm coming from, and it's absolutely never about sex. Straight men can take it the wrong way. Emotionally gun shy definitely! Even emotionally gun shot perhaps lol Kisses to u and here's cheers to our journeys! Lolly xxx- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You can take your time, multiple sessions, tea breaks, spooning as you fall asleep, accidental middle of the night bumping leading to another session, waking up session, and somewhere in all of that soapy slippery hot steamy shower session! :)
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