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Noisy or Quiet?

May 01 2015

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When you come does the whole neighbourhood get to share the experience, or are you private with your pleasure? I've always been most turned on the louder my partner is. My playmate from my previous post (the Mauler) is so deafening I've been seriously thinking of putting in earplugs when we do missionary. And a previous playmate now sadly gone was a tiny thing but she used to physically throw me off when she came and then proceeded to tear the bed to pieces - it was like watching something out of the exorcist watching her cum - incredibly exciting. But my new playmate is so quiet that the first time we had sex I couldn't tell she'd cum at all. I've never had that experience so I just kept going until she eventually pushed me out of her and said "too much - can't take anymore". "You've cum?" I said puzzled. Big smile from her "Lots" she said. "Oh great" I said even more puzzled. In fact I wondered whether she was just saying it to be nice but she assured me she didn't fake for anyone. So that left me even more puzzled. And then it hit me. I've got so used to loud sexual partners that the sex was effortless - what worked and what didn't work for them was instantly obvious so I'd just adjust whatever I was doing automatically without really having to think about it. And it also meant I could be more of a tease and take them right up to the point of cumming and then ease right off over and over to drive them right over the edge. But I've now played a few times with my new playmate and she is way way more subtle than that and I'm really loving the difference. Despite me encouraging her to be a bit more demonstrative she hardly makes a sound and directs nothing. And so I have to tune in more closely to her. It's subtle but her breathing changes ever so slightly as she's coming and will quicken or slow just a little as I stimulate different areas depending on how well it's working for her. But when I say subtle I mean subtle - it's barely noticeable. So I'm finding that I intently focus on her subtle body signals and the whole way I have sex with her is different to the others. It feels particularly intimate - that at this moment there is just her and me in this cocoon of silence. Would never have anticipated that silent sex would be so erotic. On the other hand when she goes down on me the whole neighbourhood does get to hear about it. "Mauler" playmate trained me up from the almost silent cums that I used to have to what she called the Pirates Song of a "yo ho me hearties" deep bass guttural primeval rumble. So the first time my new playmate made me cum she went into hysterical fits of laughter with a mouthful of my cum spraying all over both of us as she'd never heard any guy cum like I do - very very messy and not a little disconcerting so I've toned it down for her since So what's your own style and preference and experiences with noisy and quiet sex been?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Noisy here.... love others hearing us - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    what a long story-Yes probably all have experienced similar, one will orgasm and you have no visual signs or verbal feedback.another s body trembles.quivers and shudders uncontrollably leaving you in no doubt of your skill or prowess in getting her/them there

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  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'hotinme69' Noisy here.... love others hearing us - Posted from rhpmobile Yes that exhibitionist side to noisy sex is fun :)

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  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'xoJulesox' what a long story-Yes probably all have experienced similar, one will orgasm and you have no visual signs or verbal feedback.another s body trembles.quivers and shudders uncontrollably leaving you in no doubt of your skill or prowess in getting her/them there Yeah my stories usually are but I like to give a context - surprises me more forum posters don't - I love reading other people's stories and what prompted them to start a thread.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I know i'm noisy .. lol plus have been told that but hey like i say at least if i'm noisy .. you know your doing it right aha ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If u really know how a woman cums doesn't matter if she makes a sound or not! It's all internal u will feel the tightening of her feel it through her body u can't fake that. PS I'm noisy and squirt everywhere too so u will never miss me cumming unless u aren't doing something right lol Miss B x - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Variety is the spice of life.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    She did,perhaps she didn't...I hate it when a man says...did you cum?...if you have to ask,then the answer is obvious...but for me cumming isnt the be all and all..it's the journey,all the delicious peaks,all the delicious stops along the way...xxFreya

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm very vocal when I cum. If my children are home I will bury my head into a pillow an cry out into that but if it's just us then it's a free for all. I moan scream yell call out names swear talk dirty anything goes for me - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Exactly Freya x Miss B x - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    A guy who is noisy tips me right over the edge. Its so hot when a guy groans or screams. I like to think he has had a mind blowing Big O. : )

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I was once with a guy who was very quiet. After the third blow-job that evening I didn't realise he had come until he told me (I had noticed he was going soft in mouth mouth, but he was rather... empty at that stage). As for myself, I'm more of a loaner than a screamer and I find too much noise distracting. Give me a simple "Oh, fuck" any day, that really tips me over the edge.

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  • Bazingal

    Bazingal

    10 years ago

    More of a moaner than a screamer. I tend to whisper "Oh god" and "Fuck" a lot. But as Ms B said there are are other tells. My whole body tightens, arches, shudders, my breathing changes. Those that have taken the time to explore me know what I like. I find observing my partner's reactions to what I do doesn't mean they have to be loud to indicate what they like. A small moan escapes their lips or their pelvis arches into me. If anything I find really loud a bit off putting and fake. Maybe a reflection of some porn I have seen.

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  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'MissBrunette69' If u really know how a woman cums doesn't matter if she makes a sound or not! It's all internal u will feel the tightening of her feel it through her body u can't fake that. PS I'm noisy and squirt everywhere too so u will never miss me cumming unless u aren't doing something right lol Miss B x - Posted from rhpmobile Quoting 'Freya79' She did,perhaps she didn't...I hate it when a man says...did you cum?...if you have to ask,then the answer is obvious...but for me cumming isnt the be all and all..it's the journey,all the delicious peaks,all the delicious stops along the way...xxFreya Well until recently I would have agreed and I can't remember ever needing to ask if my partner has cum before but with new playmate the signals are almost subliminal - they're there but so subtle I have to really focus to pick them up. And yes loud cums and squirting are exciting but the sheer difference with new playmate I'm finding delicious.

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  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' A guy who is noisy tips me right over the edge. Its so hot when a guy groans or screams. I like to think he has had a mind blowing Big O. : ) When my mauling playmate first raised it with me as something she'd like I have to say it felt weird to vocalise at first but then when I did the cums themselves got more intense so now when we're together the street brings down the shutters

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  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' I was once with a guy who was very quiet. After the third blow-job that evening I didn't realise he had come until he told me (I had noticed he was going soft in mouth mouth, but he was rather... empty at that stage). As for myself, I'm more of a loaner than a screamer and I find too much noise distracting. Give me a simple "Oh, fuck" any day, that really tips me over the edge. - can just imagine. Yeah horses for courses I guess. Going between loud playmate and quiet one the difference is really electric - so I'm now finding both ways work for me.

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  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Bazingal' More of a moaner than a screamer. I tend to whisper "Oh god" and "Fuck" a lot. But as Ms B said there are are other tells. My whole body tightens, arches, shudders, my breathing changes. Those that have taken the time to explore me know what I like. I find observing my partner's reactions to what I do doesn't mean they have to be loud to indicate what they like. A small moan escapes their lips or their pelvis arches into me. If anything I find really loud a bit off putting and fake. Maybe a reflection of some porn I have seen. Yeah porn does have more than a little to answer for. That's a beautiful description btw

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  • TheLuckyOne

    TheLuckyOne

    10 years ago

    I'm a quiet one. It just seems very unnatural to me to start screaming out or yelling obscenities. And I won't be changing that for anyone I'm afraid! One guy I was with wanted me to talk dirty to him. I gave it a shot but I felt like an idiot! I don't expect my partners to be loud either. Like Bazingal, I find being really loud quite off-putting. You can usually tell by body language exactly what turns them on.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    We all react differently each time? If the sound level is natural that's all that matters ??

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    was seeing this guy no matter what she done how hard she tried,every trick,position,sucked and fucked him vaginally and anal he simply didn't cum.both had an sti check so he could ride her bareback but still to no avail.Frustration set in as she would orgasm and he continue on and on. Physically and emotionally spent she couldn't continue with him and moved on.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Enough that you know what's happening, I moan and swear a little and call out to random deities... But the other night I experienced an orgasm with my FWB that lasted nearly a minute with several peaks that had me crying out uncontrollably and then collapsing in a fit of giggles afterwards (for some reason I always get the giggles after good sex). I can't imagine trying to moderate the sounds I make either way, the last thing I'm worrying about is what I sound (or look) like when I'm having an orgasm.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I must say the giggles will do it for me every time. I find that just so sweet and a very cute and wonderful thing. Not so into the noisy thing but I know some just can't control that.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I shal try and imagine .GANESH.OH.GANESH..nope,not quite the same as the usual one.xxFreya

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  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    And he was a one time 😁. I am noisy! A good lover will have me writhing, trembling and mindless with desire. Like KIS, I seem to find religion during orgasms as well as throwing in some obscenities. I get lost in my lovers and how my body is responding to them and I don't think of controlling what is coming out of my mouth ( or anywhere else). One time in a hotel room, I was very vocal with a gorgeous lover. The neighbors decided that a thorough banging on the wall was needed to stop the moans and groans coming from our room, and to remind us it was 4:30 am. Mary xx

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  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    I'm as quiet as a mouse......💋

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  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Use a lot of duct tape for quiet times. A bit around the ankles and wrist as well....

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Was it in Russia. I have never heard anything like what I did in the hotel there. I had to put the pillow over my face as I was laughing hysterically. Strange how some think others are not awake at three in the morning

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It's kid week we're quiet, when it's not, we're not. I'm not a hugely noisy, but I do giggle like a naughty boy after.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    In summer at night I picked up a sexy blonde. I did know it but my bedroom window was fully open with the blinds closed. She was screaming out load about cumming and squriting, then she yelled for me to do her rear end. I did and she swore the whole time, it turned me right on. The next day my neighbour and I were having a friendly chat and he said he and his wife heard the whole thing, including the bed squeaking. He shook my hand and said he and his wife had the best sex in years at the same time I was. Ha. Now I hear them going at it, it's great. I might try his wife one day.

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  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    I know a lovely lady who is rather vocal.... to the point she'll cover her own mouth. She knows.... I'll move her hand away

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  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    No, nothing as exotic Russia, alas it was sunny Frankston! Mary xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    So far, although I have experienced a whole body giddiness, which was amazing.... I also enjoy the whole experience, it's not about the end result for me.... That's just the icing on a very delicious cake 😝

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  • PatchworkGirl

    PatchworkGirl

    10 years ago

    I'm not one or the other ... a change in breath. A gasp. A moan. For me, there's something incredibly sexy about whispers, words uttered softly in the ear as the intensity builds ... I don't mind an occasional shout of my name, or an "oh God yes", but all the time shouting during sex is a bit off-putting for me. Complete silence also feels a little strange. I little fluctuation between the two extremes works very nicely, thankyou very much. :-)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    LOUD NOISY ANNOYING there is no other way.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I had one lady partner for a while who was extremely loud in her vocalisations, so much so that the dogs next door would start barking, though not exactly off putting , it did create a certain amount of humour at the time, resulting in the moment being well and truly lost, and us both rolling round the bed laughing hysterically

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    In the country... no one can hear you scream/cry/moan etc

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That's great that you make noise girls I've been with are too quiet , I think it's a big turn on myself I would love hearing a girl scream and moan

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Then say fuck fuck fuck I'm cuming and then spasm around for a while never been told to keep quiet - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I love a girl that likes to let go and express her self. Its primal, raw, and sexual freedom. But I draw the line at 3am on the front lawn screaming. "I know where you live scumbag" that is why I like to be picked up two houses down the street.

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