RHP

RHP User

M45

Not a dating site

August 01 2013

While I know this isn't a dating site I am looking for someone to actually have a relationship with who is very sexual. I have gotten over all the other bullshit dating sites and just tired of either being ignored or stood up, I honestly don't think I deserve it. I'm a gentleman (one of few left apparently) and my woman is my princess but it's just too difficult to find someone who will give me the opportunity to show them the kind of guy I am. So there is my rant.... - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • Beachlover1999

    Beachlover1999

    11 years ago

    It might not be a dating site but an opportunity to meet people and therefore an opportunity to date!!! I have said previously that the people on RHP communicate quite differently from my experience on other sites, and that's a good thing!!! I generally find the men here open, honest and communicate well - how refreshing!!!! I to am here to have fun but ultimately would love to find someone to live the lifestyle 24/7....... In the mean time!!!!! Fun fun and errrrr fun!!!!!! Keep an open mind and hopefully you will find someone when you least expect it Brevil!!! :))

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Good luck in your search bud! :) Rhp are super nice people I am sure you will find what you are looking for - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But everyone is here for different reasons.I am sure you will find what you are looking for eventually. Good luck! L- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Anyone???? DG- Posted from rhpmobile

  • talltonednhny

    talltonednhny

    11 years ago

    Keep on looking. I was very lucky and found a woman that is wonderful, sexy, caring and very sexual. They are out there. You just have to put up with the bad to find the good. Best of luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    No reason it can't be a dating site. I know a lot of people here have expressed the view that they would never consider someone they met on RHP in a relationship sense, but to be honest, what I am looking for on here would also be what I would look for in a relationship. Someone I can be completely honest with about everything, sexual and otherwise. Someone I need not hide any part of myself from, all my good parts and all those little sexual quirks many in the vanilla world would find difficult. I am not actively seeking a relationship but I wouldn't run from one if we both developed those feelings. This site can be whatever you make of it, it's up to you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    expect nothing,hope for everything....good luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm on a dating site as well but I happen to like anal sex and it can be a let down to find out a person Im intrested in doesn't like anal. Not that I'm shallow enough to not be with a woman in a relationship just because she doesn't like it.   This site is mostly sexual intrest but it can lead (hopefully) to finding someone who has the same intrests and you end up in a relationship.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Love the aura of the picture. The colors are great. The thing that confused me was your carefully composed well worded message accompanied with a photo looking more akin to a ad for world series wrestling. ?I know everyone needs to sell themself somehow, but I think more females than not would find the pic somewhat daunting. I say that only after a recent discussion with a group of friends mainly female.The discussion was on bulked up guys pushing their body instead of concentrating on their face and personality. All were of the opinion the latter was the important.. Food for thought...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Everyone just comes here for casual NSA sex.... Until you meet someone you can't forget. ^_^

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    What does that mean? Look, someone like the whole princess treatment but a lot of us do not. Your profile doesn't say you are looking for a relationship either. Maybe it would help if your intentions were clearer.

  • talltonednhny

    talltonednhny

    11 years ago

    So so true meeka.. And you never know when you will find that person

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Google Redhotpie, and the first words that comes up are "Adult Dating Site for Singles and Swingers". And Freya: I expect everything, and don't settle for anything less.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    advice there Brevil, take heed /rant

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sorry OP but reading the above and your picture...will really put some women off guard - looks like your about to take someone down in a WWW wrestling rink.Maybe change your profile pic, to a more relaxed one and not a penis one, as women see plenty of those on this site...seen one seen them all! boring....Women want to read profiles with substance and charm.Write exactly what you are looking for, about you etc..Good LuckFOXYPS- shhh but some women do not like to be called "my women is my princess".

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    in your profile you say''if you don't like anal sex ,look elsewhere'' Mesmerised,and that is why so many people end up disappointed on this site...and yes dear we know you is very happy here.

  • Curious1965

    Curious1965

    11 years ago

    Sometimes you need a drink between sex so a relationship which is casual but has a conversation would be good does that classify as a date?- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think that came out wrong.

  • Curious1965

    Curious1965

    11 years ago

    I think you are right but I was standing in a bus queue admiring the pub nearby so I was random I will try harder next time- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Just go to a drinks night or post in forums so people get a feel for the type of person you are.I am looking for a relationship to , its hard to find but well worth searching forGood luck mate we all want someone to have a connection withCheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya77' in your profile you say''if you don't like anal sex ,look elsewhere'' Mesmerised,and that is why so many people end up disappointed on this site...and yes dear we know you is very happy here.   I have been in relationships with women that didnt like anal and while the relationship was good, I was sexually frustrated. Did I leave them because they didnt like anal? no.   I'm just being clear about what my sexual intrests are. I'm making it clear that anal sex is a big thing for me.   Its like all the women on here that only want guys with huge cocks.... I even dated a lady for a month, everything was going great but when we finally got into bed together, she left and broike it off because I wasnt big enough for her.....

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    I like dates as well ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' I like dates as well ;) They give me the pitts, especially the used by dates. ;)FOXY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    would that be ''a little bit of honey for the royal date''

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Wow, I finally got back on to find some very interesting replies, I would firstly like to thank you all for your input, and secondly I choose to take some very worldly advice I have seen from some of you. Time for a new profile pic (although I'm not a gym junkie or professional wrestler haha) and a new outlook on the reason I'm on here....to find someone I can enjoy some time with and see where things go from there. I am truly impressed with the caliber of outstanding and helpful people populating this site and applause you all for your honesty, bravery and willingness to help. Sincerely Brevil :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Thanks for the opportunity to "plug" the night Kizza.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I don't get what is the difference between this site and the "real Dating sites"The men I look forward to meet mean all something to me. I dont know whether anything more develops or not. Nothing is a requirement.How else and where else can you find a male with attributes I like. Sexual, sensual and a great conversationalist, someone who can match my mind my body and my desire.I think many are to negative with RHP people.I med wonderful caring males, some are still around me and others moved on. I would have had the same on " RSVP" just maybe not with a sex play. So really I prefer this site. Tell me what should I wait for? Does it make a better partner when I wait for sex .......? for how long???? No I want it when I click with a person. So whats the difference......I dont understand? RHP via RSVP????

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    that is any date and I have a yummy date tonight who shall be smothered in honey and told he is a good boy

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    that is any date and I have a yummy date tonight who shall be smothered in honey and told he is a good boy

  • JessicaRabbit

    JessicaRabbit

    11 years ago

    I go on lots of coffee and drinks dates from here and met my partner in the chatrooms. I do believe though that things happen when you least expect them to. Just try not to take it too seriously and think of anything that happens on here as a bonus. Jess xx- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Litonya' I don't get what is the difference between this site and the "real Dating sites" ABSOLUTELY RIGHT.Judging by behaviour, and forum observations..... many guys join adult sites, with loaded expectations.... and testicles..... looking for somewhere to unload... and then complain when the site doesnt deliver their expectations because their behaviour was a serious impediment to them attracting anyone in the first place.Vanilla and adult sites are both adult sites..... 18+Yes, sex is more openly represented in RHP ......but you're never gonna attract anyone in the first instance if you creep people out or act like a lecherous sex offender....... .......and its funny how that works in here, in mainstream dating sites..... or out in the real world away from the internet.It always strikes me as strange that a lot of people just dont understand that.DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Honestly DG, I think men that act like that don't have any respect for women on an adult sex site. They think we are easy and desperate. They don't see that the same rules apply in RHP land because we don't deserve their respect. It is insulting.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    As you know...... Ive said that all along.Strange then, the number of emails that guys go out of their way to send me telling me how much BS that is, and that its an adult site and they should be able to behave that way. And then.... they make forum comments about being ignored.Bright sparks. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Have hit it on the head. - Posted from rhpmobile