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Not having any luck

November 09 2016

I have been on the site for a couple of months now and not really having any luck! Any tips? I would put up a photo but bit vary of someone I know my professional life stumbling onto my profile :) Thanking you all in advance!

Comments

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    First impressions. Which means a profile pic that standsout. ie not a bathroom selfie. At the moment you look exactly the same as everyone else without a pic up. Women get a lot of attention here and will go where their eye takes them rather than the time consuming task of having to try and get a pic. Points if you open your album with your first contact message.

  • lovebitten

    lovebitten

    8 years ago

    Unless you are the Prime Minister, I think you can take the risk! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    8 years ago

    Ice..... photo aside...... your profile description is 5 rows of stuttering *I* sentences. IE.. I this, I that If you can edit your description to sound more human, more engaging and less robotic...that will help outline more of who you are. How you message... thats a whole other topic.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    reads well and you sound interesting, but yeah... You need a photo up. Most of us don't want to be identified by any random person on the site but we still have pics up that wouldn't identify us to anyone who didn't already know us intimately. Try something a little different... Black and White is nice, you say you have an athletic body? Perhaps a shot of your stomach with your jeans and belt open showing just the top of your underwear.... Ideally you want to want to pique interest while leaving us wanting to see more. And as Annie said.... Don't take a bathroom selfie. If I see one more chest in a toothpaste-splattered mirror I think I might vomit.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I have a very modest pic up for my profile that doesn't show my face as I am a professional woman in a male dominated industry. I don't want any one recognizing me and any gossip Ruining my career and reputation. However, my galleries have face pics in one and more erotic (not explicit as that's not me) in another. This allows me control over when and who gets to see my face. A more artistic selfie that doesn't show your face rather than the bathroom selfie (as Annie and Keepitsimple said) really do stand out. Personally I'm not a fan of a dick pic as a profile pic - others are. However, there are a lot of those here too so not so original;) A bit more about why you are here/what you are looking for with some humour would be great too. When contacting people, please read their profiles first and use something personal in the first contact message. Make it interesting so it stands out and isn't just a 'hi I've got some spare time' kind of thing. Make sure,however, that they haven't said 'no contact from.....'. Again, as Annie said, open your face pics straight away so women don't have to ask. Definitely bonus points!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I've added a photo rolled the dice lol ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    8 years ago

    1) Only capitalise the first letter of the first word of your profile headline. 2) Do not be afraid of being seen on RHP by someone, or some people, who you may know personally and professionally! Just remember this, if they see you on here, that means they are likely here too. Even if they aren't, I doubt if they would care much about what you do in your private life! :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Nice pic

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Thanks Keep :) let's see where this leads. Thanks for the tips peeps!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Your picture will be reverse searched on the interweb, but not by me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    you've been on here for more than a couple of months dude, just sayin

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Well done with taking things on board

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    years if I recall correctly, and you have had pictures up before, so this is a crock of shit. Sorry, But how about keeping it real here, just a lame attempt to advertise yourself

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    but don't deceive people along the way, that won't do you any favours

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    A great way of meeting people is by going to meet and greet style events. Keep an eye on the Events pages on here. We are organising a Xmas Party in December, its social until the end of the night then its what you make it. Thats how most people meet lots of people on here and Perth RHPers are a very social and friendly ( and sexy ) bunch! Good luck

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    8 years ago

    *chest/torso only* type pics...... dime a dozen in here. & IMO... selecting the (very attractive) description is probably more of a turn off, than a turn on to others. 2c

  • Supernova

    Supernova

    8 years ago

    ...The rest doesn't matter (they say it does - but it doesn't really) Just get the best possible pics up based on feedback and you'll have more success, trust me!!! The hotter women think you LOOK, the more attractive your PERSONALITY becomes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Summersolstice' Pic gone (guessing it was indeed a borrowed one then), and profile locked. as I had access to his PG, but I_touch was right. He's not a newbie either.... Come on guys... how about you give us a bit of credit? Say you were here before and you want your new profile to be better. Say your profile is feeling stale and want a refresh, but don't fucking lie and say you're new when you're not. The number one thing most women hate? Being lied to.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I was on here a while ago but only recently joined up again. Look I wasn't trying to mislead anyone. It was a genuine question. I apologize if it came across as such, anyway I didn't except it to be such a firestorm. I should have been more clear lesson learnt. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Well.... At least you now know, like the rest of us, who you WON'T be shagging hahahahaha - Posted from rhpmobile

  • cleopatrababe

    cleopatrababe

    8 years ago

    Be honest mate we arent stupid .. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    lloollll.... I thought the cheeseburger was good but this has made my hangover sunday!