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Not much desire for Asian guys?

November 17 2017

Hi, I'm not sure if it's my profile or something else, as I'm still relatively new to single rhp profile (used to have a couples profile), but I haven't had many responses (flirts or messages) so far from single women. Is it the right way to go about things by sending a flirt first? Or should I be sending messages? Is it my profile? Or are Asian guys just not that attractive? My previous girlfriends have always been very satisfied in the bedroom... Any help, comments, tips or feedback would be greatly appreciated! Thanks, Mike - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    Of all those things you say. You're not on your pat malone in this situation either, most single blokes struggle to get noticed...... it's a numbers game. You should send messages first and not wait for women to initiate..... I never have and never would. Plus, everyone has preferences....... I'm only attracted to a very specific type of Caucasian man and I'm content with that. Don't give up though x - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Hi MIke, You are probably confused due to your couples profile. I guess you would have received interest from men and other couples. Being a single male on RHP is a different thing altogether. You need to send flirts and messages and have an exceptional profile to get anywhere. Most women are not bothering to search for profiles, they just wait until something interesting comes into their inbox. Ya know? They don't need to chase you, but you will need to chase them. 2c

  • swingalingson

    swingalingson

    7 years ago

    You being Asian is what you are. So be proud. There are heaps of girls that are looking for Asian guys. But yes being a guy you have to compete against other guys. So you have to try harder or differently . Send messages, perhaps go to meet and greets, parties and events that are posted on here. I have not and am not going to read your profile and not judge and stay neutral. Just keep it to the guy thing. You are a guy who needs a chance, try different avenues of communication and broaden you network.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    All males here are NOT in short supply.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Asian is not for me. Is it because you're not attractive? Absolutely not, just personal taste on my part. It is what it is. I have no clue about other women, don't ask them about this sort of thing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I think I was unsure as to the best approach as most women didn't look at my profile or respond to flirts (where as most couples would respond in some way to a flirt). Wasn't sure if single women were just ignoring flirts and focusing on guys who were directly messaging them, or if it was something in my profile. Well guess I'll just keep at it. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Many women ignore flirts, going by what I've read on here. I however prefer guys to flirt first. A message is too personal without first knowing there is mutual interest, for me anyway

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    7 years ago

    I'd suggest more than a billion Asians in the world would suggest that there are OLENTY of people who have found Asians attractive. Therefore..... you can erase that and focus on all the other elements you've raised. Always remember that RHP is NOT representative if the bigger better world beyond the site. DH

  • kinky_and_bi

    kinky_and_bi

    7 years ago

    I think the Asian part does play a little part into it, and that’s fine. The demographic on RHP (from my subjective observation and experience) is definitely more Caucasian. Not to say that there aren’t interracial couples (my first Mistress and partner was Caucasian) but as in the general population, it is a smaller percentage. Oh, and yeah, the single male thing as everyone else has said :-) Depending on how much into kink you are, you may find it worth your while to check out the local BDSM scene and go to a few munches. People are more receptive to chatting to all sorts of different people in a real life scenario. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I’m simply not attracted to Asian men. But I get the same thing from Asian women they don’t go for me either. Don’t bring race into it as we are al Australian.

  • kinky_and_bi

    kinky_and_bi

    6 years ago

    I didn’t express myself very well. It’s simply personal preference rather than racism. My point is that Caucasian men and women have a tendency to prefer Caucasians. But not all. Similar thing with Asian men and women. - Posted from rhpmobile