M47
Nsa Sex
September 20 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
When I read NSA It turns me off mens profiles.You see, I like conversations of the mind and I'm sure a lot of women want that.Some women look for NSA as that is what suits them at the time.Quick, over done with, wham bam thank you!NSA means to me NO SATISFACTION ALWAYS...boring, boring, boring!or it could mean.No Added Salt....I like salt - rock salt. ;)FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
and I am not sure what most women mean when the say NSA.However I assume it means they don't want an ongoing relationship...they just want a fuck buddy.They just want sex,not a conversation about string theory.I on the other hand love to discuss such topics,sticky particles fascinate me
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RHP User
11 years ago
LMAO @ Sticky strings! *snorted my coffee* FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Possibly also "No Puppetry" but more likely damaged goods from a past significant other/s..See also~ Unavailable to Love, Self Preservation, Shallow Realm and Casual Arrangement Only.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi Jay, it means different things to different people so as lots of things you should always ask to clarify. For some it means they want a full friendship and dating but they don't want exclusivity, to the other extreme where women don't even want to know your name, they just want to meet you in a park for a fuck and never see you again and a thousand variations in between.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Spot on, in my view :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
When I first came on RHP , well gosh all those lovely little things and they really wanted to bed MOI? there is a god...so I pinned my ears back and went for it. Having a blast of a time. I was very lucky in many ways as most of my lovers wanted to go again, YeahSome are still in my bed every now and again, but as I am married I tend not to keep a lover for too long. But as time goes on I am comfortable with a few ,and the married guys are best for me.Less pressure on me to be available for the booty call and less for them as well.I think single women, and married women have different views on NSAI think a lot of single women want a semi relationship. The want a date, someone they can be seen in public with mostly.some one to pay attention to them in and out of bed.men when they say they want NSA thats fuck me and lets have a good time, but leave it there.women think they are kidding ,and that with their super sexual powers they can make them come back to them and give them more.On RHP or any other site that is perceived to be a sex site, thats what men are here for.SEX on tapSadly single women do not get that. To their detriment.and men get utterly confused by the mixed messages on here.they come on RHP dick in hand, and then think shit, I need to zip up and bring flowers and fluffy words to plicate the golden pussy. I need to disguise my intent with , words of wisdom to tell them I am not that kind of guy, that I care.LadyT telling it like she sees it
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RHP User
11 years ago
Now now... Not all single ladies are like that. I prefer being friends with someone and I also prefer something that is ongoing. Whether that is I see them once a week or only occasionally. The wam bam sex for me is usually pretty boring and if I want that I just go to a swingers or sex club... Don't need to look on RHP for that. God damn it... Is good sex too much to ask for? I just think a lot of guys who say NSA sex just don't put much effort in except for their own needs (not all) .... And that is plain boring and unsatisfying. I would rather use my trusty icicle dildo and get back to my good book. 😈
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RHP User
11 years ago
Interestingly you have not specified in your profile what you are after. Do you want ongoing arrangements or casual sex? Are you after NSA? I think you should say what you are after. Be clear. As I said, when a women says NSA this can mean different things to her so you will have to ask in cases where she hasn't made it clear. NSA to a women doesn't always mean the same thing it means to you!!! You have been warned. Lol.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not always. I say BS to your comment!! 😈
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why do you say BS to Tickled Pinks comment?I believe there is some truth in her statement.FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Depends on so many things, I think most of the posts add to some aspect of why people look for NSA. Some are just after sex and nothing else, some are damaged by previous experiences, some don't have time and many people define it differently. I never really considered NSA to mean a completely zipless fuck, I would find it difficult not to have a bit of conversation either before, during or after or all three. Maybe not such a deep conversation during lol. There is something to be said for deep during thought too.I think there is more truth to what Lady T says than many of us really want to be true. I think there is a flipside for confusion, expectations and crossed wires as well though.For me it boils down to if 2 people are on the same wavelength then good luck to them....be it NSA or FB's, FWB's, lovers or partners.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Now now... Not all single ladies are like that. I prefer being friends with someone and I also prefer something that is ongoing. Whether that is I see them once a week or only occasionally. The wam bam sex for me is usually pretty boring and if I want that I just go to a swingers or sex club... Don't need to look on RHP for that. Agree!
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On_Safari
11 years ago
When I see them I on a profile I immediatrly think "lazy fuck lacking substance or anything worthwhile". Yes that is extreme, but as the beautiful and mostly fair-minded Meeka has pointed out i. A previous thread NSA = No Satisfaction Always (my word Assured!!). Like both ladies and her grace Lady T I want a MAN not a meaningless, insensitive, uncaring, empty fuck. Believe me I can have THAT SHIT anyday ofthe week if I didn't value myself or hold a higher standard. As Freya said "sticky strings" can be incredibly satisfying between ongoing lovers. And no OP that doesn't mean or have anything to do with emotional stress and traditional relationship hassle. I'm also inclined to disagree with the broad generalisation that NSA implies "damaged goods" history of being jilted or representing a flawed personality/character, maybe the people using it don't really KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. I want the ongoing mutual satisfaction, respect, benefits and friendship that regular contact with one or indeed a few lovers brings. By benefits I am referring to "helping a friend when down and out", being "emotionally available" as best they can, "interested in you both physically and mentally" and WOW the fun and companionship of NOT being "just a shag" and being told not to "let the door hit you on your way out". If people really admit what they want from a "lover" to themselves I'm sure the best way to describe it is as I always do "a relationship without the traditional encumberances" and for those of you in Pie Worldwho want nothing but empty meaningless fleetingly satisfying empty sex there's NSA and the escorts who advertise in the newspaper.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
I love you all my Pie World friends and forumite whores. Thank you for the live and support your txts, messages and phone calls have graced me with. :-) I'm ok, I'm on safari and rolling with it..... Meeka and Paintme am unable to get to theSydney drinks next month, damn school holidays and the floty final blasting flights and accomodation clean out of budget!! BUT there will be another social event no doubt on the Sydey-sider's calendar!!! Indagine On Safari xx❤xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
They're NOT looking for herpes.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hercules, not herpes......- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
For me. Like indi so eloquently expresses I don't want to have sex with someone I don't like... I want a friend... And the more levels we connect on the better... Ultimately we will enjoy each other's company to the point where we are what each other is wanting (whatever the hell that turns out to be...) As an aside has anyone else read indi's story submission ? Take a look, it's a cracker... Hp xo Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
It can happen it does exist....Guys love the idea but many just dont do it well.As in guys really want a free hooker....sex without paying, and for 99% of you its not going to happen. Why? You still have to be sincere and polite what woman wants to come over wait till you finished and say Thanks? So I suppose thats it it must be mutually satisfying and there has to be respect. As the gilrs have said.... the ones that aren't "married" that is, they need something more intimate.......as that is the better experience.NSA sex doesnt usually last either because it is fleeting and both people tend to find other people to fill other voids. So another reason to be nice to your nsa partners.Ofcourse guys worry if they are too nice the girl will think it has become something more.People really dont communicate very well.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sir Lurk ,we are looking for Hercule Poirot xx Marple
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RHP User
11 years ago
Remember we talked about that..."liking" the person.LOL can't have sex with someone I don't like!FOXY
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Huh what Story submission HP????
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On_Safari
11 years ago
It's waaay old.....there are 3 others and I'm inspired to do another.....just have to find the words. http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Story/StoryRead.aspx?story=623
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RHP User
11 years ago
Foxxy, yes we did talk about this very thing... Why would you ? Anyone ? Great post sir lurk... 😄😄 Link to indigene's story: http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Story/StoryRead.aspx?story=623 Seems it's over 12 months old ! Love rhp 😄 Hp xo 💌 Because eventually... You're worth it...
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Lol..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mmmm one day I'll write a love letter to the lovely Rebecca and ask for her hand in granting me instant posting rights... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lady_Tuscan'men when they say they want NSA thats fuck me and lets have a good time, but leave it there.women think they are kidding ,and that with their super sexual powers they can make them come back to them and give them more.I keep finding the opposite - that men say they only want sex but next thing they are talking ongoing relationship and I am pretty sure its not due to super sexual powers. It is one of the reasons I like groups or the club scene - where there isn't that personal interaction.
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RHP User
11 years ago
NSA has absolutely nothing to do with sex to me. It's more of a personality thing in terms of having everything to do with no expectations and being free of conditions and or restrictions. Doing what I can when I can unconditionally with no expectations of a return favour be it friends, family or perfect strangers is a huge part of who I am. Given that it is open to interpretation, if it is of concern - ask the question straight up to avoid confusion.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh my god!!! Has nobody had hate sex??? Now that is hot!! Slap his face, hate every minute of the fact you just can't say no because its sooooo good. Mmmmm
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Playful2looking
11 years ago
Bugger I thought it was about space probes. You know penis shaped rocket lauched from the good old USA. I really dont know what NSA means really I don't . I like lady T 's post made sense but yea never walk around with dick in hand better go and get some flowers maybe some chocies.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I say BS to TickleKinks comments because they are insulting. Not all women who are looking for a casual relationship are and I quote. "Unavailable to Love, Self Preservation, Shallow Realm." Really? What's tickledkink looking for? A third person to join their relationship? Are they looking for someone to love? As a couple are they looking for strings? No, they are not, although I haven't read they profile so maybe they are looking for a poly relationship. People in glass houses shouldn't through stones. Or something like that. 😈
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Splicey
11 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot' Hercules, not herpes......- Posted from rhpmobile I don't know about you, but I'm not looking for herpes either
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Ppfffft hahahahahaha I'll second that motion
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm a NSA person to me I'm looking for something friendly with beasty sex. It's not a oncer but its also not someone interfering in my life or trying to look after or fix me like has happened on here. I'm not damaged goods I find there's a lot.of rash judgement on herre. In looking at the profile I look for non generic quirky and not a mic with cock or pussy in it- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was being totalitarian in my viewpoint. NSA may be a good policy esp if their strings turn to chains of possession. I wonder when NO string theory necessitates a couple of threads of cotton in time?. Do you throw a line or bait-up and catch a new experience... Until one day you do the NSA to "the one". Careful not to do that out of "fiercely independent self testament" (f.i.s.t)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi! Jay:) Welcome to RHP and the forums Thanks for your Interesting Topic:) NSA= Sex no real Emotional Connection maybe in the moment . A 1 off or a casual thing.. But they are Generally Fuck Buddies.. Personally I'm not Interested in that.. I prefer FWB in all it's ways F=Friends so socialize. with B=Benefits = Sexual Encounters .They're usually casual maybe more regular. It's important for me to have a well Rounded Relationship with a Lover as it enhances our Connection on all Levels . It works for me and all concerned Big Time! so I'm not changing the way I do things... Good Luck! in your Search Hun for the Playmates you require ..Cheers Lu :)
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On_Safari
11 years ago
"Quoting you: It's important for me to have a well Rounded Relationship with a Lover as it enhances our Connection on all Levels. It works for me and all concerned Big Time! so I'm not changing the way I do things..." That was perfect and exactly how I feel and what I also seek.
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