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OK a simple question

March 26 2015

This was a topic at a club last night.What do you feel makes the perfect and does sex have to be close to perfect.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Makes the perfect what? Question doesn't make any sense. Pusscat

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The perfect sex? Two X chromosomes. :-p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    More often than not it means you have a very deep connection, dare I say in love with each other, and you are both sensitive to each other's needs. Or you are ovulating and horny as and sex with anything with a pulse will get you going. :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Love makes it perfect.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Or does lust make it perfect? Pusscat

  • Dryphuz

    Dryphuz

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' The perfect sex? Two X chromosomes. :-p Mwahahahaha! Quoting 'Meeka100' Love makes it perfect. ^ This... I've had nasty, dirty, lustful sex and it was never as memorable as sex when i was truly in love. you become so much more involved. Everything seems to feel better, not just foreplay or penetration, but just the warmth of your lover, their smell. Its fantastic.

  • LifeUnscripted

    LifeUnscripted

    10 years ago

    Honestly for us I think it depends on what you are trying to achieve. We have sex for different reasons. Sometimes it is connective sex, where love and tenderness can bring us together in an amazing erotic connection. That is great sex. Other times it is just about the animal lust, the desire and need to fuck each other. And that doesn't require love or connection...trust maybe...feeling comfortable together...that can help. But that animal sex is also great sex. Then there are times when we are with other partners, and those are different again. Often that reaches a level of erotic excitement that we rarely get to with just the two of us. Not that it is better than the previous types of sex, but just different again and great in other ways. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Could be at a club that Chevs not at....

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    10 years ago

    Claws retract Annie?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The answer to your question probably varies with the individual, sexual act and stage of the individuals life. I wouldn't purely assign love as a prerequisite to perfect sex.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    They are in more than they are out Mr Smiles.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    MEEEEEEOUW! And Chev, its perfect when you have feelings for your partner, maybe not always true love, but someone you care about and lust after, love to be in their company....just want to take them by the hand through to the bedroom and take them to the point of no return........I suppose giving pleasure is "perfect sex" for me?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    When I hit the big 'O'hhhhh 🙌 He can cum any time after that, or not at all. I don't care too much after cumming. Which leads me to conclude that the last time I had perfect sex was a while ago, but he made perfect love to me today and every other day 😍😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    But if you wont give me sex, what am I to do...................................

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yes and no. I have been in love and yes it was mind blowing stuff. Laying there exhausted and entwined , you can't beat it. Yes great sex can happen even with a one night stand. I think again if you lay around after. Just so you can come down and be appreciated. It's the whole package not just when your bits are connected. I had a very errotic threesome the other night. Because the guy connected. He did not just head for bed. We talked got to know each other. He did not rush at all and his attention was equal. Then he stayed in bed just relaxed and talking to us both. I think that makes a difference any one can fuck but to create a sensual delicious sex takes consideration , time and effort to enjoy the journey not just the destination. And laughter one has , to be able to laugh in bed. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    .In our secret lives of passion we explore the deliciousness .Of our obsession,one with the other,this is not a meeting of .Minds,just a sinking into flesh,a tasting,just sex and yet .It is a trembling on the brink of more,it is connection......xxFreya .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    When my heart and head are involved,Ive had some pretty perfect love making. But Ive also had some amazeballs sex when the heart wasnt involved and it was a great connection with a person on the same wave length, with no inhibitions,no expectations, same kinks,crazy,mind blowing raw sex, that I thought was as near perfect as I will ever possibly top again.... but here's hoping😜

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    10 years ago

    As Willow says, its about connection. You can have a fabulous connection without love, where you are so into each other the mind and body entwine together. Its where the touch is perfect, the desire is the same, inhibitions disappear, time stops, your awareness is heightened to another level and it's no longer possible to separate conscious thought from desire and action. Mmmm... I think I need to go send a text......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Annie_Whichway' But if you wont give me sex, what am I to do................................... Be careful what you wish for...............

  • TallBaldSexy

    TallBaldSexy

    10 years ago

    Getting The big strappy would be perfectly flippin hilarious.... Ringside (oooops) tickets $5 which we'll use for the pizzas !!..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Simply a true honest heart felt connection

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    10 years ago

    Some of us have high sex drive and at my age still damn good .But have you been with a person that sex becomessecond and being with them is all that matters.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    Soul Fucking! When time stops and nothing else matters. Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    Soul Fucking! When time stops and nothing else matters. Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    Soul Fucking! When time stops and nothing else matters. Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That was soooo sensual...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    some people you just dissolve into and become one when you have that connection. I have had times where I am not even conscious of my surroundings because I am so involved in the person I am with. It is like nothing else exists and you are in a time warp, lost from reality, nothing else matters, you couldn't possibly think of anything else. Your bodies flow in unison, your minds meet, nothing needs to be spoken because it all just is....perfect.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I thought you'd have written the book about it.... 😳 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    That is how we feel and we are in love, we have the connection, dunno are you in love at that moment, or is it we are in lust at the moment? Bit of both, maybe but you described it perfectly. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Sounds like you might be in love, Chev. Which of your subs is the lucky one? I did have perfect shower sex last night. Getting fucked from behind by my lover while he washed my hair. Sigh.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    things are lustfully great ;)

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'chevtrek' Some of us have high sex drive and at my age still damn good .But have you been with a person that sex becomessecond and being with them is all that matters. People call that "Marriage"

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    10 years ago

    I have been in loveI have had that need to be with another.This goes so far above that even to the point of knowing thoughts , wants and needs.In fact because we are so far apart in agesits a bit scary as its easier to lose it.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'chevtrek' I have been in loveI have had that need to be with another.This goes so far above that even to the point of knowing thoughts , wants and needs.In fact because we are so far apart in agesits a bit scary as its easier to lose it. That's what we are all afraid of Chev!!

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    Going to tell us why your hair needed washing.....huh huh huh

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    ... and you need them around to make the coffee

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    Sounds like you have love arse about face. If you think love as "that need" to be with another was of love and these new feelings love is sharing with you now? Gee whiz Chevy darling, it could come across as "that need" (is not love), to be with another is a possessive nature under the guise of love and it could be perceived as a dirty old man taking advantage of the vulnerable feelings a young woman is entrusting your intentions are true, shy of the title dominance just a cover of a man that thinks control over love is what brings needs to be with another perfect. It could be seen as you are training the innocence of a young woman's love to suit that need you lust, for a second shot at it. Scaring you that she comes to her senses if she figures true intentions. Just how it could look by the way you express these crazy ideas as certainties. But hey, I put my hand up as easily being misunderstood, writing of feelings especially difficult. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Love.... and daddy figures....... is best kept for daughters.