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May 15 2018

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Hi all! First time poster here. My other half and I have been researching clubs and we stumbled across Our Secret Spot which seems to have great reviews. However I wanted to ask those who have attended what their experiences were like and also the demographic appearance of other couples that attended. Is there a typical One? Whilst we have engaged in a few activities with others we have never visited a club before and I (wife) am incredibly self conscious of my “Mum” bod. I’m currently a size 16 and am concerned that I will be in the minority and that I will have difficulty attracting others. Can anyone tell me if you are a BBW that attends? Or have you seen many others there? To me appearance of others is not what is important, I prefer to connect on a personal level. However I am aware that to others it is of importance. We are looking to attend an upcoming masquerade party and I am incredibly nervous. I appreciate any response I may receive.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Hi Newly weds As far as I'm concerned I love any size lady I have been to a few parties and have found a few ladies like your self that are a Lillie self concise of their belly after kids I just say to them hay you have had kids and you are Sexy I would say to you be proud of the fact and be proud of what you are I will always talk to you first Keep smiling

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  • HotNightsGC

    HotNightsGC

    7 years ago

    Would love to know what OSS is like. OP, but I can say that I’m in the same body region as you and have had some great experiences at clubs in the past. Our experience as a couple had been that curvy ladies are much less consumed with the need to check out and compare themselves with other women, and more interested in getting down to the fun 👍🏻. Further, some of the sexiest and hottest experiences that I’ve had with other women have been with ladies who are curvaceous or full figured. Curvy ladies really do know how to please 😉😈 Hope you have a blast wherever you decide to visit! Ms HNP xx - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Well newly weds. I think you should let your hair down and go have fun. Personally i think your look absolutely gorgoeus in your pics and im sure you will get alot of attention. Have fun

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    @leadfreeballs - Thank you! That has really given me a bit more confidence. I hope to meet people such as yourself. @HotNightsPerth I will let you know what it is like after this weekend! ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Freaky_Fun

    Freaky_Fun

    7 years ago

    I'm in Brisbane but the thing l love about swingers clubs is the range of body shapes that go. You certainly won't be in the minority. And l would hardly call you big to start with. You're a beautiful woman so own that shit. I guarantee you will be more worried about you than the other people will be. You will be pleasantly surprised how much confidence you will get the more you go. Have fun. Xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I really appreciate your comment and hope that is the case!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Being short in height doesn't help lol. I've been to clubs, been naked around others and don't feel self conscious. If they don't like what they see they can just jog on. I don't give a flying fart anymore, too old to care. Peoole are more attracted to confidence - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    We have been a few times and it does tend to have the more professional gym type couples and cant remember seeing anyone that didnt look fit but in saying that everyone is non judgemental and lovely. We have been to the couples club and that tends to be more realistic in body shape and size. Im a PT and happy to help you work out a training regime.I once believe it or not had a mums bod but have worked on it and know how you feelMischaMessage me if you want support hun

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  • FredAndGinger2

    FredAndGinger2

    7 years ago

    Curvy ladies are beautiful! Attraction is the sum of personality, style, chsrisma, physical appearance and other things. The most amazing and fun times we've had are with other couples who we feel a connection with on multiple levels. Speaking on behalf of my Ginger - she's the first to say that she's attracted to a man - or woman ;) - who connects and engages in converstaion and shows genuine interest in her as a person. Clubs and events are about letting go of your inhibitions and enjoying yourself in the most amazing ways. We've not been to OSS however we did meet and get to know the owners Lawrence and Jess very well at Passion in Paradise in 2017. They are great people and they are very supportive of newbies experimenting in this lifestyle. Jump right in to enjoy these wonderful experiences! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I'm also a 14-16 and understand the pressure to feel your good enough to be amongst those perceived perfect bodies...But I'm sure every women/man has his or her hangups..just be yourself and it will be more than enough to attract attention..Confidence is the key. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Our secret spot is far by the best club in Sydney. Coyples club we found to be very old and dirty. If your a Bbw stick to Couples club instead. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • OptionalSextras

    OptionalSextras

    7 years ago

    We have been to OSS frequently and have always had a great time. On a given night we may well amongst the oldest or "biggest" people there. We're not that interested many other people there, and they're not interested in us; but who cares? Dress and present yourselves nicely, make some small talk and have a sexy attitude ... it will be super clear who's into you or not. Even if things are a bit quiet, you're in a swingers club! Have a spa, find yourself a little corner on the bed in the front room and have a great time with each other. Can't go wrong. We always go with the attitude that it's our date night and we'll have a great time together, and if we find people to play with then that's a bonus. BTW if a guy who would write comments like "freshcpl" isn't into you, that seems like a huge bonus to me!

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  • HotNightsGC

    HotNightsGC

    7 years ago

    Oss Our secret spot is far by the best club in Sydney. Coyples club we found to be very old and dirty. If your a Bbw stick to Couples club instead. What exactly are you trying to say by your comments? That BBW couples should stick to the “old and dirty” parts of town? Your either completely ignorant with your comments or just plain rude and insulting. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • 71Camaro

    71Camaro

    7 years ago

    I must admit. I’m between a 14-16 and am completely self conscious of my “mum” bod. But once I’m at a club, have a few drinks and relax, I find I’m quite the opposite. I talk to anyone and everyone, smile, laugh, joke and occasionally find the sxc minx that I try to hide ! Go have fun, be ur gorgeous self. And remember, those young ones still have to earn their stripes. We already have! Good luck. 😊x - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • NewVicCpl

    NewVicCpl

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'HotNightsPerth' Oss Our secret spot is far by the best club in Sydney. Coyples club we found to be very old and dirty. If your a Bbw stick to Couples club instead. What exactly are you trying to say by your comments? That BBW couples should stick to the “old and dirty” parts of town? Your either completely ignorant with your comments or just plain rude and insulting. - Posted from rhpmobile Agree in full

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  • Freaky_Fun

    Freaky_Fun

    7 years ago

    Don't take any notice of Freshcpl's comments on threads there always meant to insult. Must be such happy campers. And would never say it to people's faces 🙄

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    just read your quote...where do you live? ever visit Bangkok?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Would be the oldest ones at OSS, not their RPH age though. :))

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  • bonefide

    bonefide

    7 years ago

    "But then I'm big, old and dirty" I'm of a happy active mature age, but not senile, you look great young Meander. (Ssshhhhh that's worth .75 of a browny point). But as Anti will chime in latter ,ill get mine and my seeing eye dogs looking gear checked and serviced. OSS sounds great, but isn't it all about the people your with and the people u meet not the location that makes the evening or the event. ??? Saints and sinners alone with Brisvagus meet greet wouldn't happen with out the main ingredients the people. newly_weds87 enjoy your journey, be positive and angle the shoulders at 45 deg, that will let the shit just roll off. It's your call who, were, when, and how frequently u play. Also it's the whole person not just the outer casing they come in. Just saying. Signed Itsgotfuckalltodowithme

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    We're thinking of visiting OSS as well, and being bigger than a size 16 is making us a little nervous too.

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  • lovers44

    lovers44

    7 years ago

    We haven't been to oss yet but would like to, have been to the couples club a few times and found all shapes, sizes and age so go for it I say! - Posted from rhpmobile

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