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July 11 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have only known two girls who would suck cock and want nothing in return.However I never expect it to just happen. If she does great.But I like to return the favour.. yumm !
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is that a rhetorical question?
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Missb4u
10 years ago
Have had many request it, the blow and go......only one has ever gotten it and that dynamic works for us. I think lots of guys want it as a fantasy but go about it the wrong way.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'll see you at the meet and greet ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I would. To me it makes me feel powerful that with my mouth I have full control over him.
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Seachange
10 years ago
I think I know who you are referring to in the thread and I also wondered who would want just such a one-sided approach to a meet or a 'relationship' (read nsa relationship -fb or otherwise). Depends on what you are after.. I personally would not indulge the man on a blow and go type approach as I am after more of a FWB relationship, not a ONS. If I want to meet with someone, I want to have a more dynamic approach to the meet where I will also get as much from the meet as possible, equal satisfaction. not that you wont be satisfied in just giving a blow job if that is your thing but I know from experience and my girlfriends that I/we prefer something more than a blow and go.
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
He's put blow and go in his profile as a preference, then fair enough I guess. BUT- if he's put an entirely different thing in there (massages, long walks by the beach etc), then I'm sorry but he's just a liar. Pure and simple. Sorry you had to go through that Ralf. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm sorry to read of your experience. One word for it horrible another word in answer to your question No When I'm with a lover I'm in it for the whole enchilada and I would hope he would be of the same mindset and if not then Ive screwed up with my screening/judging process or he has well and truly sucked me in. Pun intended And to be honest as LilyOrchid said, in all honesty I don't know of any woman that is completely just into that , not judging, just don't know of any. I guess in some ways, maybe a lot less complications on many levels - maybe ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Jeeze what's the point in that !! An angelic curvy or not curvy ( just being pc ) body in front of you and that's all he wants, miss b if these guys look at this as a fantasy - they have lived very sheltered lives, ffs my fantasies are unprintable ☺ and there far more intriguing 😇 - Posted from rhpmobile
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machoman78
10 years ago
Nothing worse than lazy lovers. It takes both people to make the experience mind blowing. One way traffic is the quickest way to leave a less than memorable impression
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
I'm perfectly happy to accommodate a request from a FWB for a blow and go, but a random.....nope. Not a chance in hell :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well.... I got a headache!!! :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Exciting if it's someone you know who will the favour later on. Or if you are out somewhere and just can't wait . Have had requests like , meet me in my car , hmmmm, a little respect goes a long way.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Are frequent forum posters classified as Randoms ?..... just asking
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passion8_l
10 years ago
No way in hell, absolutely not! Just thought I would make myself perfectly clear
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RHP User
10 years ago
If it was a golden dick and spurted skittles I would. Damn straight!
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tamworthguy46
10 years ago
Selfish Arrogant fuckers, I prefer Sex to blow jobs anyway ! ......... also I can only recall one time in my life when I received a blow job from a random, that was at a night club, I was there assisting the DJ, and he told me she gives them to every one...lol
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
There are plenty of those selfish types around. Not interested . - Posted from rhpmobile
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Violetincredible
10 years ago
A golden dick would break your teeth... I'd prefer a marshmallow one that squirted skittles hmmm or m&ms That would be awesome!! Xxviolet
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RHP User
10 years ago
There is a song by Shaggy where she sings "Boy, what have you done for me lately, I've been going down on you but you're not not going down on me". He replies with "Girl, that's just how rude boys play". That just about sums it up for me, so rude! Don't expect what you're not prepared to give, and I'll give as good as I receive :-p
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' If it was a golden dick and spurted skittles I would. Damn straight! I am not a sweet tooth
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've a couple of lady's that just wanted to suck cock? And a couple of couples that he wanted to see his lady suck cock... For me I must admit it really left me feeling some what left out, sure it's always nice to get my cock sucked but I'd like to give the lady some as well... I think most guys would be happy to return the favour but sadly a select amount of guys simply send the wrong message for the rest of us males... Like your profile as well;) I guess it's like buying a car you just can't tell until you least take it for a run? Either you drive it well again or do a runner lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' I'll see you at the meet and greet ;) I will be under table number 32 ;)
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mpowered' Are frequent forum posters classified as Randoms ?..... just asking Yes they may still be random. I think the reference here is someone who is your FB or FWB as opposed to a ONS (random)? I believe that is what I consider is random, regardless of whether I have spoken to him before or in the forum. If I have not met him before, they are a random person, like a comet. They cum and go...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'll go down on a woman before I'll let her go down on methere is nothing sweeter than a woman exited about being with you I'll stay down there until she pulls me up and I'm not just saying that and there is no way I'm cumming before her.
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Seachange
10 years ago
I believe one can only judge whether they are lazy lovers when you have met them personally and had spent some time with them in an intimate setting. It can be difficult to judge if you have only spoken to them via chat or emails or texting as that does not really cross the line into reality. Up til then, all is just a fantasy but yes I agree. I can think of some worst ones like people who are all talk and no action or people who insults their potential lovers or just players (which can be for the one-sided blow and go type people). It is all about them and I am not attracted to these people. Go well.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Of course it dependson the man whether or not I give him one. Because I always get the Lioness' share. 😇
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Sharing's caring.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
that he once had a chick who was happy to come and suck his cock and that is it. So I asked, so where is she now? He said, they weren't really compatible out of bed?? I know plenty of women enjoy sucking cock, me being one of them I just don't want it to be expected like it is my job to do it. I would gladly turn up unannounced and give a blowjob and leave again to someone who was worth it but if I am told to do it then it would be very unlikely.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
A gentleman always goes down first......the Guy you met, abd any like him wouldn't get beyong my bullshit radar.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Expect nothing and you won't be disappointed... unfortunately it sounds like you hit an overly selfish rotten apple. Sorry to hear that OP. "Men, are there many women who are willing to just show up for a blow job?" - I wouldn't know... would never ask nor expect a woman to do that and have never had the offer (that I know of). Whilst I quite enjoy a "booty call" there has to be a lot of give and take and it wouldn't feel right leaving without saying that special "thank you". SG
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RHP User
10 years ago
A gentleman ALWAYS goes gown first? Sounds like an obligation to me.
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Circe
10 years ago
That the blow and go is popular in the gay community. Certainly lots of ads on craigslist are asking for or offering that.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Funlover I agree with you. All these rules suck.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If a spunky man brought me a chocolate cake with cream and maybe some ice cream when I can't be bothered going out, I would gladly go down on him before shoving him back out the door. That is what I call the barter system.
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Missb4u
10 years ago
I totally agree with you meeka...and coffee, on a cold Sunday morning....always worthy of a reward ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
This wonderful number is the answer here.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
I mean barter.
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RHP User
10 years ago
A blow job isn't sex is it?..according to Bill...and he didn't even pay the dry cleaning bill..:-) xQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
Monica shouldn't have spilt.
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RHP User
10 years ago
He sounds likie a bit of a woman~hater. Or has Penis-Envy...or just a Tosser.
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RHP User
10 years ago
So how many guys would be happy to turn up give me cunnilingus and leave?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' A gentleman always goes down first......the Guy you met, abd any like him wouldn't get beyong my bullshit radar. a little cock hungry
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' If a spunky man brought me a chocolate cake with cream and maybe some ice cream when I can't be bothered going out, I would gladly go down on him before shoving him back out the door. That is what I call the barter system. I think I should start wearing my glasses, I thought I just read, shove him up the back door, lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' A gentleman ALWAYS goes gown first? Sounds like an obligation to me. I am happy to pamper my partner without expecting in return and I think what comes around should go around, and not all in the same session. I have been told by a lot of women though to make sure the man goes down first so that is a sad reflection on guys if you have to demand a man pay his dues to get his reward. On the other hand, I have heard of plenty of women who 'don't put icky things in their mouth' . It just stinks that people can't go into sex wanting to please their partner rather than trying to get what they can out of it for themselves. I figure if everyone's aim is to please then everyone is happy.
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madotara69
10 years ago
What happened to the good old 69er? Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I couldn't just ask for a blow and go type meet, I like more involvement now. When I was younger maybe but id like to take my time and and really enjoy the experience. This sort of reminded me of my first couple experience, id always wanted to try it, no bi involvement with the guy but I was hoping to enjoy it but he couldn't get it up and she got shitty and killed the mood, they later said she can blow me for my time but it put me off altogether. Ruined a fantasy of mine thats for sure. I do have a friend who meets guys regularly and a lot are just like the guy you describe, some even give her money and she gets offended which I completely understand. Some are just so desperate for for sex and only care about themselves, its a shame you don't know these things till its too late. Sex is such an amazing experience, yet so many people treat it with disrespect.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It don't matter what you write, what you ask for, it mostly (98.6pc) falls on deaf ears, I could be pissed off because I am not the centre of attention I so love, warm sexy bods or four, touching. kissing. being your self in good company.....room all mattress and comfy, hmmmmm blow job was that what he wanted??? he probably asked for a blow job last month and got no takers, poor sod...im on the fenceM n M sound great too...ate half a packet today
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RHP User
10 years ago
But the question is about expectation, that's a complete turn off and I wouldn't do it on principal. But girls what do you do when a guy lies and takes the blow then asks you to go? 1. If you changed their mind whatever they do won't feel great (to me) 2. Do you ever feel intimidated or concerned for your safety if you Have a go? - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissSarahCurious
10 years ago
Quoting 'Violetincredible' A golden dick would break your teeth... I'd prefer a marshmallow one that squirted skittles hmmm or m&ms That would be awesome!! Xxviolet Gold is actually pretty soft :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
never felt any obligation to anyone else met here or places like this...and never put any feeling on anyone that they were obligated in any way to either of us.....the precondition of mutual attraction has to exist before we'll even consider meeting anyone privately for a little fun, its why we say 'yes' so rarely, we have to be sure
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RHP User
10 years ago
Receiving is not that big a turn on for me. I'd much rather put the time into giving till my partner can take no more
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yankmychain56
10 years ago
I would NOT feel complete until she has multiple orgasms, and has to push me away to make me STOP sucking that clit.love going down on a woman, and would not feel right if she didnt get off. I would have to keep trying until i 'got it right'.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'yankmychain56' I would NOT feel complete until she has multiple orgasms, and has to push me away to make me STOP sucking that clit.love going down on a woman, and would not feel right if she didnt get off. I would have to keep trying until i 'got it right'. I find that attitude to be almost as selfish as those who won't do it, or only put in a very minimal effort. Not all women want a guy down there forever, and not all women cum from oral no matter how good the guy is (or thinks he is). How about you let what you do and the amount of time you spend down there be guided by the woman's preferences, instead of focusing only on feeding your own ego.
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RHP User
10 years ago
i get days where all i want to do is suck a cock and walk away, i do that to my FB often.
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melb_mike
10 years ago
hello Cinnamon I would love to give you cunnilingus as I enjoy giving oral and if that is all you want I would be happy to provide you my tongue for your enjoment, naturally I would enjoy it as well
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RHP User
10 years ago
I would never ask someone to pleasure me and leave... I was just being 'devils advocate' there. It is a ridiculous notion in my eyes. Sex for me is not about JUST physical pleasure or relieving tension (I'm quite good at doing that all by myself thanks) If a guy came to me to just be sucked dry I would tell him to go and pay a professional. Talk about using women... Just plain appalling and incredibly shallow... Boring.. Etc.. I could go on. For me...good sex is deep, divine as well as dirty, lustful, animal.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm not a 'random' hook up girl anyway. If I was going to give a guy a blow job it's only in return for the sex I'm planning on getting afterwards. Sorry to sound as selfish as the guy here, but what's in it for me?
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RHP User
10 years ago
how cum every time I write a post it gets taken down...is my spelling shit ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
call me old fashioned but If it is vanilla I am eating I like it fully reciprocal as while i do love receiving any attentions, I soooo love giving them , Oral or any which way is desired
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sometimes posts seem to disappear because the mods ate looking at them..confusing I know...this is whast hasppoens when you don't have instant posting....when you post initially only yuou can see your post until it is approved xQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
That some women have a mindset about BJs....I have heard a woman say"'Oh,and I didn't even give him a BJ".....Quite frankly I was a little shocked.....why would someone think like that?....Perhaps that has been her experience with men and amongst her women friends it was the norm...so if women made it clear that they won't do it,perhaps men will no longer expect it..XQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'hasbean' how cum every time I write a post it gets taken down...is my spelling shit ? They will delete comments if they are contentious or rude or inflammatory in some way. Usually if someone complains about something you have said. Have your posts disappeared? As Q mentioned if you don't have instant posting rights you can see your unapproved posts when you are logged in but when you log out you will not see them any more and maybe that is why you think they have disappeared. Its only when they have been approved that you will be able to see them without having to log back into RHP. Hope that kinda makes sense. Comments can take 3 - 24 hours to be approved I believe. Depends on how long you have been on RHP and often you post I think.
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hardnslow
10 years ago
I am sorry but I get more enjoyment from ensuring my FWB/ partner enjoys the encounter first. I would go to the Olympics to win a silver medal I want to cum second. In saying that if I was contacted by someone who just wanted to give me a blow job then ,who would I be to deny this poor individual their fantasy.For me sex is about enjoyment for all involved and preferable my partner first so ralf if you ever meet me you will be cumming before me and probably after me again and again lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
then I certainly don't want to please him. And I like a man who's a stayer too.
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