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Older Married men
December 16 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
My opinion is that this makes perfect sense for a lady to take a mature attached man as a lover, but in my experience single ladies' preferences are highly skewed toward "unattached", because almost without fail they are actually looking for a relationship, whether or not they actually indicate this on their profiles. Looking for "friends with benefits" usually has the subtext... "until the ONE comes along who I can enjoy exclusively". Ladies also seem to be instantly attracted to young single fellows, with height, good looks and abs, and then cry when these young guys move on right after they've gotten into their knickers once or twice. Ill mannered and erratic, because they've never learned how to interact with women more than for a night. Nor have they had to. Then ladies move right on to the next hot prospect, on a roller coaster of hope and disappointment. I listen to their stories, as a "platonic friend", and just shrug. Finally, there is a high likelihood that an "attached" man doesn't have the permission of their partner to play (eg. the classic cheating guy) so I think there is by default an automatic disdain that women have for attached guys. Ladies put themselves in these guys' wives shoes, deceived and ignored, and find it untenable to be part of the deception. Coming to understand that when a man is part of an open relationship that there is no cheating is difficult for ladies to come to terms with. As a side issue, guys seem to have no problem at all hooking up with ladies who are playing without the permission of their hubbies.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If it appeals to you then why not make it happen, I know they're are ladies on here who have similar fantasies and have acted upon them. As long as you find an appropriate playmate you can trust then it should be fun. Just be prepared to sift through the hundreds of messages you'll probably get though! :-)
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twowithnolimits
11 years ago
I have a woman here who enjoys being ravaged et al by older men
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RHP User
11 years ago
hi i recently had this type of experience with an old guy (in his 60's) and it was the best encounter i have had for a long time great sex long lasting it was awesome id happily do it again.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Good evening all.... I am a married man, and have been a bit of a lurker here for the last couple of days. And am still deciding about photos and paying money and the like...I stumbled across this post as I learn more about the site and feel I have something to add. My profile is honest. I love my wife- dearly. We have a wonderful life in every way except sexually. Have we tried to get it to work- absolutely... Doctors, steroids, porn, foreplay, same room sex, exhibitionism, you name it we have tried it. She is just not all that into sex. She is happy to be my "cum bucket" if you will, but I get satisfaction out of making a woman happy. I am middle aged, and do to want to go through the rest of my life in a platonic relationship. If I can - through this site- find sexual gratification, I will take the pressure off her to perform, and will not be frustrated. Do I want her to know? Absolutely not! That would kill her confidence because she cannot " please" me. Have I thought long and hard about this - yes. Will I follow through- yes. I would dearly like to enjoy mutually satisfying sex again. I do not want to fall in love, I already am. I would like a relationship that is ongoing as time permits, so that I can get to someone's quirks and foibles. Hell I just want a bonk where my partner groans, moans and gives back. It is frustrating that some ladies immediately put me in the "you bastard" basket, when my circumstance is a long way off being normal. I realise fully that I am cheating, but the other two options, abstinence and divorce are not something I would like to contemplate. One day I may broach the subject of an open marriage, but I would like to give his a go first. I guess ladies, what I am trying to say is that not all of us are bastards, by some standards I still will be for some who have been hurt in the past, but I am here not to be judged for the decisions I have made, but to be taken at face value for who I am. So I ask ... Ubthejudge
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just read the post, and here are a few grammatical and spelling errors.. I am on an iPad, and have no fckn idea how to get back to the post and correct them. I apologise to the grammar and spelling buffs!!!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am one of those older men who would gladly have a younger single lover.There's that formula of half your age plus seven years so I doubt that I would be approaching women under 37 yrs so that decreases the chances of it happening to me...but if I were approached then who knows.
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MinisterDA
11 years ago
This is a very interesting thread and one that is guaranteed to have split responses. You either agree that it is acceptable or disagree entirely. There is no right decision and all users are entitled to their opinion. I guess as a married guy, I joined this site approx 3 years ago after getting nowhere in the bedroom department. Despite many different approaches, this just never changed. So what do you do as a 38 year old, you either go without or you find it elsewhere. This is where opinions on extra marital affairs get split very quickly. I decided to find elsewhere hence becoming a member on here.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My guess is they are very few and far between. I'm in an open marriage and have my wife's full blessings to play alone. ( wife is only interested in MFM ). Have messages many, mainly those who indicate no preference towards unattached. Replies would rate at about 2%, most can't even be bothered with a simple no thanks. Maybe my wife's right, being honest gets you nowhere.
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RHP User
11 years ago
An honest man gets to keep his self respect...and if a girl accepts that then he could get lucky too. notathome I think we both know how lonely it can be to be married and looking...but look we do and you never know...I believe there are women out there who don't want to take us away from our wives but do want to take us to bed. Ubthejudge76 there's no edit facility here post it right first time or correct you self afterwards but think before you post...that's the way the site is!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Older for more experienced and married for the no attachment side Missmouthy... you could be onto something there
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RHP User
11 years ago
luv to provide and fulfill fantasy
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RHP User
11 years ago
i feel i now have hope , so will be glued to the PC in anticipation LOL , seriously though IMO to each their own but older is wiser and more appreciative , young or younger is in general terms more about conquest ,
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well my wife decided 5 years ago that she no longer wanted sex. I love her to pieces but whats a man to do. I want sex no strings attached. I love my wife dearly still ....but...hey... I got feelings too that need satisfied. Any ladies up for a night of steaming pleasure with no strings... I'm in
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RHP User
11 years ago
of horny old buggers
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james71
11 years ago
Would love to help you out if the young lady likes
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kangawallofox
11 years ago
I HAVE MET A FEW OLDER GUYS FOR FUN, I LIKE THE CONFIDENCE THEY HAVE TO TAKE WHAT THEY WANT.
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RHP User
11 years ago
my hubbys a tradie HOTNESS, i know mr skillful mmmmmmm, and hes older like a decade older than me and we have great sex, so I SAY GO FOR IT GIRL!
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bacardi2014
10 years ago
My wife likes to play with married men she says it makes her feel special. To know a married man has come to enjoy her and then go home to his wife. She used to have one come over when I was at work it was a turn on for both me and here. I would like her to meet more and continue the thrill of fucking a married man.
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RHP User
10 years ago
wow wow wow and wow i think more woman should open their eyes to older gentlemen i certainly will be lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'MidnightMoon' My opinion is that this makes perfect sense for a lady to take a mature attached man as a lover, but in my experience single ladies' preferences are highly skewed toward "unattached", because almost without fail they are actually looking for a relationship, whether or not they actually indicate this on their profiles. Looking for "friends with benefits" usually has the subtext... "until the ONE comes along who I can enjoy exclusively". Ladies also seem to be instantly attracted to young single fellows, with height, good looks and abs, and then cry when these young guys move on right after they've gotten into their knickers once or twice. Ill mannered and erratic, because they've never learned how to interact with women more than for a night. Nor have they had to. Then ladies move right on to the next hot prospect, on a roller coaster of hope and disappointment. I listen to their stories, as a "platonic friend", and just shrug. Finally, there is a high likelihood that an "attached" man doesn't have the permission of their partner to play (eg. the classic cheating guy) so I think there is by default an automatic disdain that women have for attached guys. Ladies put themselves in these guys' wives shoes, deceived and ignored, and find it untenable to be part of the deception. Coming to understand that when a man is part of an open relationship that there is no cheating is difficult for ladies to come to terms with. As a side issue, guys seem to have no problem at all hooking up with ladies who are playing without the permission of their hubbies. Hmmm, we love all types but have a real thing for older guys too, especially 60+ bigger build 'daddy' types ;) We tend not to ask nor care about attached or not but agree that thoughtful guys who respect boundaries are much more fun!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'recenlty_single1' wow wow wow and wow i think more woman should open their eyes to older gentlemen i certainly will be lol Great comment there recenlty_single1. For me older means more experience which equates to the simple fact that older people are better at things. As long as they have good health to keep the stamina going it's all good. When I was a younger man I was a toy boy a couple of times and it was the best sex of my life. Now that I'm a bit older I've been lucky enough to have some very good sex with younger women and give them the benefit of my experience. I've also been with a couple in their late 50's and it was fantastic as well. I said to my nephew once, never knock back an older woman, she'll give you the time of your life. Which isn't a bad mindset to carry through life I think
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RHP User
10 years ago
What have you young ladies have to loose nothing, to gain old men knowledge and a lot of fun, Try one some time !
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RHP User
10 years ago
i must say i have a bit of an older man fantasy i always have so reading all these comments is just now making me know it soomething i must explore sooner rather than later
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RHP User
10 years ago
While and older person... not old but older... has experience and knowledge that a powerful, pneumatic person in their 20's will not have...that applies to women also...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hey there ontheprowl2015, PM has been sent
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sensastiff
10 years ago
Very happy to meet with any younger passionate women who enjoy their body and mind pampered by an older experienced lover.
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RHP User
8 years ago
but I been wondering who would you call "old" man, 50-60, 60-70, 70-80? I am 76, I am fit for that age, the old fella gets hard (with a bit of help from a little pill) and I been told by a few of my friends that I look younger and handsome (?). I like sex, being European may help and I like woman. What all you man and woman thinks about it?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Interesting topic....I've only had one partner in my youth and didn't have the chance to explore young or older men and now I'm older younger men appeal to me...I guess, if it was an older guy or men I'm quite superficial...not good I know as that limits me but I would have to see past the beautiful "bookcover" so to speak lol and read what's underneath it....I could consider "playing" with older men if my "old" man permits I mean, I'm not hot or anything nor very attractive so I guess goes both ways lol...
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RHP User
2 years ago
Some girls love it because it’s basically safe and they know he will be discreet I’m in a discreet ddlg relationship with a woman half my age It’s been great and not just about the sex although that is fun too
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jfrost99755
2 years ago
Im keen
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