M55

Older or younger...

October 09 2013

All my adult life I have been in relationships with older women. perhaps its something to do with my upbringing, raised by my mother and grandmother. My first girlfriend was 2 years older, my first relationship was with a girl 4 years older, my 15 year marriage, 4 years older and my current open relationship, 3 years older. Now, seeking a casual lover/play friend, I find myself drawn to women younger than me, say 25 to 35. No, I am not closed to women of any other ages, I just find that these days I am generally attracted to women younger than me. So, are you attracted to older or younger people than you and why ?

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RHP User

11 years ago

All my previous longterm partners have been a few years older. I've been with younger. Now adays I got for the "person" for who they are..a connection, common interests. Age means nothing to me. FOXY - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

I've had both each have their pros and cons, I tend to go with younger as Im a pretty relaxed and act younger than I am. I find them to be more fun and like the things I do, I'm not a book reader, wine drinker and talk about culture. I like to have fun and do crazy things!

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RHP User

11 years ago

... is that a trick question ? If you break it down you have been attracted to 25 - 35 the whole time. While you were younger they were older and now that we are older ... they are younger ... and then much younger ... and then ?Ah the good ole days ... things were a lot easier to manage back then.

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Cheekyarses

11 years ago

Superfoxxy said it! I agree! Give us a connection xx- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

Yes when i was young i seek knowledged so i went with boyz older than me , now that i am older i like them young they seems just more fun, alive and will just do whateva i asked , they work with me better ,than the older boyz and seems to wanna please me more ,where the older boyz more predictable, bit boring at times and sets in their ways too ..so yeah i understand why i want them , i must admmited i love those young Cubs...especially the smart ones, and the classy ones , and btw some are very matured( without being boring) for their age as well, making me want them even more hmmm ! ...

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RHP User

11 years ago

Definitely more about the connection.

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FunTimeLords

11 years ago

when you meet someone who engages you completely regardless of if it is for a one off or something more!

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RHP User

11 years ago

I tended to be with older men in my younger years. Now I tend to like younger....i am younger than my years....however I can also be attracted toan older man...it depends on the person...non?- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

Quoting 'Dungeonlovers' when you meet someone who engages you completely regardless of if it is for a one off or something more! yes totally agree with this, connection is more important. My best experience with meeting someone on RHP was with a 24yo which i almost didn't meet cause he was just under the min age bracket i set for myself....so now trying to learn from this :)

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RHP User

11 years ago

+\- 8 years IS my age... 3 years is an age difference when your 18... By the time you're 30, it is nothing... Or should be nothing. Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...

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RHP User

11 years ago

much younger lovers,and older lovers,but now my preference is for men over 50...yes you can have a connection with a much younger person,but could I take a 28 year old home to meet my daughter?....No

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RHP User

11 years ago

I agree it's mainly about connection but I generally connect with guys a little older than me. I have been with younger but found the connection wasn't as good.

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RHP User

11 years ago

I have been always attracted to older ladies...I find them easier to talk to not superficial and also I know I am going to get some flak for this so ladies please don't take offence....the older women get generally they tend to get curvier and their nipples get darker, and also some older chicks prefer to have the natural look "downstairs" all of these things I find very lovely...

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RHP User

11 years ago

I'm drawn to older women. That's how I started and those lovely, lively, wise, experienced and assured ladies still provide me with my greatest thrills! Not just sexually. I find a greater connection mentally and creatively with them also. Most experiences with younger girls (20 to early 30's) have left me a little cold. A magnificent, dynamite older lady told me older men are the best lovers and that I won't peak until I'm closer to 50. Shit, where to then!?

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RHP User

11 years ago

It depends on the individual for me and the level of connection. I have traditionally gone out with older men. I've found those around 50 to have their shit together and to be fantastic in bed. They know how to converse with a woman and behave respectfully. They don't just want sex but also like to do things, go out and have fun together...then great sex. Younger men seem to just want sex, some of them are freaking amazing in bed but they don't seem to really want to connect too much. That said I've been converted lately, gorgeous man and goes off in bed, so young and hard! Yum!!

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Fantasyplus

11 years ago

I have no time what so every for men younger than me...sorry but if they are younger the saying "Young, Dumb and full of cum" always comes to mind.Since my 20's my boyfriends/partners (husband included) have all been older than me...ranging from 5 to 30 years older than me.I want a guy who knows what he is doing and can go the distance...older guys can do this. With the younger ones its just Wham, Bam, Thank You Ma'am.....

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RHP User

11 years ago

A connection is a must as it's the key to hot mutual passion ;),, in or out of the bedroom :))

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goodboyturnedbad

4 years ago

Send me a message and may b we could talk & I could help u with yout situation much love xo

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I_touch_myself2

4 years ago

Same as you, when I was young I was attracted to older men, as I got older I found myself attracted to young men. Now it is young or nothing. I met one recently, just random in RL, who was about my age, thought he looked alright, he grabbed my number, all seemed okay until I met him at night and saw him for the first time without hat and sunglasses and he looked soooo old. Not only that, he told him he didn't drink much. That was a lie. I kissed him when we first met though. Like to try before I buy LOL He also rolled a happy smoke 😉 5 minutes into our date wtf why are men still doing that at that age? That's typical of just about every older man I've considered whereas my best have been 20's/30's age bracket. I've found young guys a LOT better sexually too but that would be partly due to my filtering and fussiness. As for a partner being 3 or 4 years older, that's neither here nor there

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RHP User

4 years ago

In my younger years was attracted to older men, but then I figured out the reasons behind that years ago, after being with someone much older for many years, also realised that in terms of intimacy it wasn't happening or petered out, but we grew apart totally on a relationship level as people who are older tend to be fixed in their ways and seem to have different expectations. So I avoid people with a 10 year plus age gap over my age, and at the same time I'm not going to go for anyone that is at my child's age. Now it's a case of being drawn to someone closer to my age or level. It's not a validation thing. A meeting of mind and body - a connection of some kind that isn't based on any historic childhood/adolescent issues.

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