Hottie1

Hottie1

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On the menu tonight...

January 03 2015

I'm currently recuperating from surgery and have been told to not do anything strenuous, rest often and take it very easy. I've been doing this for three weeks already and I am going stir crazy. Before you state the obvious, I've also been told I'm not allowed to have sex either 😫 I'm a highly energetic person and so the only thing I can do to kill the boredom is to cook (I do love it). I have cooked so much this week I could probably have you all over for dinner ( now that would be fun). So with hubbies needs taken care of and feeding my family taken care of, what next? How do you kill the boredom when physical activity is limited? What unusual, unique things have you done ? Please share, Mary xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

  • Twisted_Mister

    Twisted_Mister

    10 years ago

    Although it's pre surgery - I'll have to stop work this week sometime, although I won't be cut for a month at least. Drives me insane. Have tried sleeping, but the longer I stay in the cot the longer it takes me to warm up to the point where I can function. ATM it's gimping outside to watch TV. Cooking won't cut it just yet!!!! My cooking skills are legendary. Who likes toasted cheese and Vegemite sandwiches? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Mary, I was going to suggest you try your hand at writing some erotic 'literature', until I remembered that you said sex isn't allowed yet. And in my experience writing about sex just makes you want the real thing... so forget that, it's a dumb idea under the circumstances. All I'm left with is knitting?? Hope your recovery is going well gorgeous girl, and that it's not too long before you're back in the saddle :) Much love, Elle xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Get someone to go to the library,borrow all the books you ever wanted to read...watch great tv series...films are good but I love whole tv series..can entertain you for a least a whole day..I feel your pain hugs xxFreya

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    Elle, I've even stopped reading erotica (yep, I have a very fertile mind) let alone writing it ;) and yes I am recovering well, I'm just doing what I've been told be the doctors so that I truly recover properly. 💋💋 Freya, lovely if I sit to read anymore I'm going to go crazy, my mind says rest and enjoy, my body is saying get up and go! Twisted_mister, if you were closer I could feed you and look after you, of course they would be simple pleasures ;) sudoku, I'm downloading the ap tonight. Mary xx

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    I'm a dessert girl so we have banana cake with cheese frosting, orange and almond cake with a creme Fraiche topping. For mains we have had, steak with homemade pepper sauce, roast chicken, spinach and pumpkin risotto, stuffed tomatoes and capsicum and for the kids at heart, Mac and cheese - all homemade and nothing out of a box. Bon appetit Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'ag4mg92' I'm a dessert girl so we have banana cake with cheese frosting, orange and almond cake with a creme Fraiche topping. For mains we have had, steak with homemade pepper sauce, roast chicken, spinach and pumpkin risotto, stuffed tomatoes and capsicum and for the kids at heart, Mac and cheese - all homemade and nothing out of a box. Bon appetit Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I should help you !!!! Mary.....maybe some non sexual dinner packs?Gosh it must be hard for you.I remember having my vasectomy....was similar...hard to sit......love grant x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Plan the next Melbourne Meet and Greet ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'ralf74' Plan the next Melbourne Meet and Greet ;) shall be there........let me know where and when.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting ag4mg92..."I am going stir crazy." You ARE only human 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    be careful what ya wish for 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    Mmmm nothing sexier than someone cooking for me Grant, come on over gorgeous 😀 Guide me Ralf, and I will most certainly help do my bit for a meet and greet 😘 Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    And just go where it takes you... hopefully it will eventually loop back to where you started... bring some snacks and people watch.. maybe even start a conversation or two! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Hawt1

    Hawt1

    10 years ago

    I find television greatly distracting from my woes, also can be quite addictive. There are some great series available on DVD... a few of those should fill up a week? I recommend "True Blood" and "Game of Thrones".I like these while they have some entertaining sexy bits. Invite some friends for the weekend for Movie Marathon, I don't reckon they need to bring food with all you have prepared O.oo.OO.O (Which did sound delicious!!) Best of luck on a good recovery xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Probably not an idea for you as you are so active but I read 27 books when recovering from a hysterectomy early last year.. I loved it Shaz

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    There are many lonely people out there and they love a visitor. It is not only good for them but also rewarding for yourself.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It will surprise you how much will pour out once you start..

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    10 years ago

    I am not for one second suggesting you fit the usual demographics Mary but you might find something interesting through University of the Third Age. They have online courses you can do at your own pace, so you don't have to get yourself to a particular venue. When physical activity is not allowed, mental activity can be the next best thing.

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    In spirit , I'm going for the small walk to the elderly home near my house, great idea, I certainly can do some things like paint the nails of some of the elderly ladies or simply be. Jay-me, I had a hysterectomy 5 years ago, and I started my book which will be titled 'good little Greek girl'. It is my story of survival from domestic abuse and violence, I just can't face it now (great idea though). I've considered the TV series Hawt1, I might have myself a Jax marathon, a sons of anarchy session, I'm sure I can get some friends over ;) thank you for taking the time, all great ideas and some I can put into place quickly. Mary xx

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    What can I say, you had me at Sir 😉 Mary xxoo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Sorry to learn of your violent relationship. I can imagine how you would need to be in the right frame of mind to put pen to paper. My parents were in a volatile relationship, so I know where you're coming from. Good luck with whatever you do... Jay..

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    10 years ago

    I had surgery and yes told not to do the same as youbut got my partners to take control just let them do allthe strenuous stuff.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Nawwww 😘 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    Weren't you in KTown? Nice pic of Fern Pool......... Mary - There is great satisfaction in visiting the elderly. So many funny stories form the ladies and gents.