RHP

RHP User

M49 F49

One Or Many??

March 23 2012

We were wondering when you first started did you think you wanted to meet one couple that you clicked with,becoming good friends with benefits. Or were you always out for some fun and move on to the next couple? What’s best one couple for regular fun or many?? Does it get complicated??? Thanks for your feed back

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Regular friends with benefits sits well with us. Not always easy with singles and they have a life to live to and usually don't stay single for ever. For us a Regular couple that you can trust and count on to thats into you as much as you are them is enough to keep us content.Perhaps a small group of say 3 or so couples that all new each other would be a nice middle ground.Tim

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    i've only been on the site a month and was asking myself the same question 2 weeks in.... hmmm. what's a good number.... 1, 2, 3 Naturally a connection is a must if i'm going to sleep with someone, At first i'd planned on sharing myself with a few lasses at least, but i'm finding now i don't want to spread myself to thin 'emotionally'........ I'm just built that way...... different for others. So naturally it's hard for me to fuck and forget. i'm wanting a friendship and an on going thing....... i wanna hang out as well as shag! i've found a good buddy, and i'm qiute happy to explore with her exclusively for now.... any more would be complicated for me. Depends how much your willing to spread yourself around... If you can handle the head space of many couples...... go for it! I guess the variety of many keeps it interesting, but for me this is a little less intimate and personal

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    WE appreciate your Comments! As we are new here, we find ourselves curious and keen to meet people, who feel simular to ourselves, WE would love a coupe to become great friends with. We are unsure if this will occur, Time will tell. Lol! If nothing ells we will have fun along the way!!!!!! We have noticed that Qld seem to be out there more than Adelaide. Love Qld (sunshine coast) We agree with kinkisthenewpink when all is said and done ending up with a wonderful friendship would be sort of cool.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Many friends :)Cass xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Well, you have to dip your toe in the water a few times to find what suits your own relationship. That often means seeing different people for a while.For us, its great to have a couple of couples that we enjoy hanging out with and playing with. More than that and it gets complicated. Plus, being able to build trust with a playmate makes a lot of difference to the playtime you have.So I reckon do the 'many' until you can find the 'few'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    As a single on the site, I'm highly interested in meeting as many new people as possible.... been on the site a couple of months, haven't actually made any connections offline yet, so still waiting.... not too many girls willing to come without the boyfriend, unfortunately... will keep looking...