One of your SO's friends expresses sexual intent towards you - how do you react ?

Comments

• 

  SpicyKale

  5 years ago

  I think for most of us on here we'd just ask our significant other if they were interested in the threesome 🤷‍♂️ What's the term for it in the lifestyle? Flipping vanillas? 😬 In all honesty, we made the mistake of hitting up a guy when very drunk at a friends wedding! Back-pedalled very quickly the next day 😳 It's a recipe for destroying a friendship for a lot of us! Just blamed the booze and apologised... never again!

  reply

  like

• 

  86Jasindy

  5 years ago

  Years ago, i think I was 22? My best friend got engaged to her by they had been together since 16 💞 A couple of months before the wedding, she asked me if I would sleep with *Bob (not his real name) as he had only ever been with her, and had a dream of being with just one other woman before they tied the knot. Bob was sexy, handsome, fit... but also like a brother to me. I considered it but no matter which way I looked at it things couldn't be the same. I declined, our friendship was never the same after. Their marriage lasted 18 months, and it was her that was unfaithful. I'm not sure if I had actually gone through with it anything would have been different

  reply

  like

• 

  KittyDeluxe

  5 years ago

  If the wife's friend approached hubby, the best thing is to politely decline and tell the wife asap. If the wife approached the hubby with this information, ask her how she feels about having that info. You never know, it could lead to fun - but if you express interest in fucking the friend before finding out how your wife feels be ready for chaos and disaster.

  reply

  like

• 

  Sawadee

  5 years ago

  A cousin of my ex who was working casually where i worked , suggested we go out to dinner . Seeing her husband who was away working' and him and l were very close friends, I didn't see a problem . Just company for each other seeing we would have otherwise both gone home to a empty house's. After dinner she dropped me back at home and because we had a few drinks, l suggested she come in for coffee. She agreed ' we had our coffee but she wanted more.. Me being moralistic when it came to fucking a friends wife , specially your ex's wifes cousin , made me uncomfortable. Long story short , l made a joke of her advances and told her it's not going to happen.. and it didn't. Apparently this didn't sit well and she told me she was'nt going to give up and will fuck me next time, but there was never a next time .. Anyway' the following day she rang and apologised and thanked me for being a gentleman.. Moral of the story , we remained friends for the rest of her life. And sadly ' we lost her a few years ago.

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  5 years ago

  If one of my partners friends told me that I’d near spit my coffee over the floor...probably tell her to get out, and then tell my partner so she can deal with her herself.... Mr dragon

  reply

  like

• 

  SpicyKale

  5 years ago

  I think you're spot on there Mr Dragon! We're more than happy to have lifestyle friends that cross over to vanilla friends. There's no way we'd do it the other way around, especially with someone we'd know for a long time... just not worth the fallout and risk for us. As secure as we are about doing all of this, sex unfortunately changes everything for some.

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  5 years ago

  When I was a married man one of her friends got wind that the sex was “infrequent “ and offered to help me out. I asked her if she liked it up the bum and knew what watersports were and she kept her distance from that point on ! I wasn’t into watersports at that time, nor had tried anal, it was just a massive bluff.

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Spicy... I’m just hopeful it’s sorted out with a bout or 10 of jelly wrestling really 😂😂 Mr dragon

  reply

  like