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One person's kinky is another person's vanilla

March 11 2013

Please help me understand something, forum peeps. What are the absolute minimum kinks you require from any partner? Having sex with the light on, or something more? I'm not interested in your most kinky desires, just the minimum that needs to be involved, or possible, for you to still have a truly awesome time. I'm entirely happy with vanilla sex (bed, missionary or doggie, day time or night time) as long as it's intense or lots of fun, or both. But I'd lose interest pretty quickly if my partner was a definite no to outdoor, public, different rooms, different positions, a bit of hair pulling, bum slapping, the odd visit to a swinger's club, strip clubs, classy or slutty lingerie and similar. Still pretty vanilla, and I'm certainly open to other sexy adventures, but these are my must-have kinks. Yours?

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RHP User

12 years ago

You forgot anal!!! (⊙＿⊙)

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ruby_blossum

12 years ago

@meeka

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ruby_blossum

12 years ago

I am open to sexy adventures with the right person.I find it limiting to list what I like as what is fabulous with one person can be very average with another...it all boils down to the level of trust of the one you are with at the time.I do know however, what is not for me!.....wham bam will probably not see you again mam type sex.

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RHP User

12 years ago

I have found that the thing most lacking in any encounter and is hardest to find is a damn good kisser. So hard to find someone that can really kiss and make you want to do it all with a great kiss. While I love all the kink, the hottest thing is a good erotic sexy long hot pash!!!!

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RHP User

12 years ago

Oh so true! Kind of a given I thought, but now you mention it I've locked lips with some truly awful kissers in the past. Magical kissing is definitely a must have.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Forgot ... or ran screaming at the thought ;)

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RHP User

12 years ago

I dont think I am vanilla as I have seen and done too many things in my life. Personally I think the the more so called kinks and fetishes that a person indulges in then the more and more outrageously kinky they need to get in order to get the same buzz. But that is just my opinion. Wat back when porn was the non airbrushed pics in Playboy or Penthouse. Internet of course what not available So for me it is not the kinks that they like to do but more about the kinks that I will not accept. I dont like hair pulling or slaping on the arse (or anywhere else for that matter) Fortunately I have tried most of today's kinks way back in the 80's and realised then they they just dont do it for me anyway so now I can quite happily rleax into a slow and sensual, soft and luxurious play time.

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cbdlivin

12 years ago

An open and non judgemental mind....

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RHP User

12 years ago

Intensity... it's my deal breaker. That can be a random, aisle 3 of woolies pick up, relaxed and humorous group sex or anything else, but if their heart ain't in it, I'm wilting... And another vote for kissing. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

12 years ago

or miss,it is indeed essential to any encounter for me.The indicator as to whether or not it's gonna be a happen' thang.As a good friend of mine says''when it comes to sex I don't require a conversation about quantum theory,that's what I have friends for''.

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