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Open minds..what does being open minded mean to you?
May 27 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nothing I've tried I wouldn't try again... and again ;) However, due to my nature, I'm not big on inflicting any pain or being too rough, even if requested. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
what i've got the urge to do, i've always had the urge to do. my mind is completely open, so much so that a lot of the info that goes in goes straight back out the opening
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RHP User
10 years ago
understanding Acceptance Knowledge Respect Thrills Rush Nerves Scared Funny Pleasured Desires Needs Possibilities Individuals Differences Loves Hates Life. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've not been here long & I only get involved in the forums at the moment, but it's certainly been an education to hear frank and open discussions about topics that would rarely get an airing in 'polite society' I've never had any objection to other's desires - so long as they don't intrude badly upon the lives of others. It's been refreshing to see the number of people who are so sexually active & liberated beyond the norm, though these forums do seem to be driven mainly by a hardcore quorum of regular contributors - wouldn't you agree Freya79 :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
My mind has been open for most of my life just never had the opportunity to see what I don't like in the way of so called kinky sexuality as far as being a straight male goes. I do know there are a couple of things I will not go near and are not suitable to mention. So for me it is give it a go and if it is not for me that's cool. As far as being on this site I am yet to see or hear of something I have not seen or heard before apart from some of the terms used so that side has opened my eyes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Freya, I joined this site to explore my sexuality after having had my mind 'opened' by someone. Previously I had a very narrow view of sex and what was considered acceptable by 'society'. I was embarrassed by some of the things that I was turned on by because they were regarded as taboo by what I saw as the mainstream. Anal sex being a classic example for me... I thought something wrong with me for being attracted by it. Since being on RHP I've realised that most of my so-called kinks/fetishes are actually quite vanilla here, and that I've missed out on a whole bunch of enjoyable things because I was closed off to them :) Without a doubt, I've become far more accepting and knowledgeable of other people's kinks and fetishes. Yes, there are things that my mind is still 'closed' to, in that I don't find them to be a turn on for me personally. Needle play, for example. Its a turn on for others, but just because I don't want to do it, doesn't mean it's wrong or that I should sit on my high horse and judge. Which, in all honesty, is something I would have done pre-RHP :/ To answer your last question, so far I've been fortunate enough not to have tried anything that I wouldn't do again :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've learned a lot about blokes and this has been good. I find them a lot easier to understand thanks to the conversations I've had with blokes from RHP. I've tried some new things which I have enjoyed. There's been nothing I wouldn't do again so far. I think I was broad minded when I joined in as much as I have long held the view that what others do is not my business, barring the obvious exception. I still hold that view, I just now more of what people do
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
BigO I love, love, love your list..... My mind is open, open to possiblities, open to people, open to other people's choices, open to experiences, open to exploring, open to learning As much as I can, open to sharing my stories, open to teaching my learning, open to whatever might come my way... I've done things that I would never have thought I'd ever do in a million years, amazing things. I've pushed myself and been pushed, beyond what I thought possible and I've met the most incredible people along the way. I haven't done anything I wouldn't do again, I still have things to do, I still haven't been pushed to my limits, I still haven't pushed someone else to theirs..... I have changed dramatically in the last 18 months and I have to say I very happy with whom I've found and she is extremely open minded.....💋
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donnamick
10 years ago
I recently tried being Sub to a Dom, just thought I'd give it a go. After the experience I realised that I missed the point, I didn't put my mind into being ä Sub", I walked the walk but didn't talk the talk so to speak. So, although I am less likely to go there again, I can't say that that I've ticked that box properly so will need to find another Dom to put me through my paces. Everything else I have tried, I continue to do when the opportunity arises. My fuckit list is obsolete now and in the last few months with the guidance of one mainly but a couple of formites I have experienced things so far out of my comfort zone that the lines are becoming hazy as to where I draw the line. My only absolute is Filth.So yes, my eyes have been opened and realising that other kinksters are here with me, helps to push my limits and expand my experiences.Mr donnamick
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RHP User
10 years ago
I wanna fuck a handbag 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
... can be confronting, challenging, inspirational, motivational and can make or break you being a test of strength & conviction when pioneering new ground, attempting to revolutionise the way we do things or simply holding your ground and making a stand – dividing friends and family – leaving you in a lonely spot up against criticism and ridicule. It promotes change in perspective and/or direction and is room for growth.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
An open mind to me means being available..... to opportunity..... in whatever form that takes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Willing to listen to others opinions and looking at things from someone else's perspective other than our own. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
The origin of pussy is purse,will that do ?xxFreya
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Someone did fuck my handbag at a gangbang. Left it on the sidetable and when events had finished, things were quite damp. Did remember seeing a gent hovering in that general direction but didnt think much of it at the time due to being "busy". Wasn't you??
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Baileygirl
10 years ago
I experienced my first MMF 3sum through this site upon some initial encouragement from my then partner. He assumed all women fantasised about 2 guys at once (which certainly wasn't the case with me) in fact, to the contrary...sounded too much like hard work...lolBut I gave it a go through RHP....had an amazing first experience, and second....and have been attempting to replicate said experiences ever since.I am now an advocate of MMF and delighted to share those memories with anyone who will listen :) In addition, I have always been fascinated by the concept of open relationships among loving couples and the couples I have met have given me such delightful insight into the why's and wherefore's, it seems far less scary to me now than it ever did before.... Not sure I could personally do it with a love interest yet...but I'm a hell of a lot close than I ever was before! In saying that, try as I might to be open to the idea of being bound, gagged and blindfolded and demonstrating a genuine interest in it, the practical elements of it make me crazy, so just won't venture that way! :D
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PatchworkGirl
10 years ago
I've definitely hard more interesting experiences since joining this site. I've also given a lot more thought to my own sexuality and sensuality - it was never something I considered in my life before, sadly. As to open-minded though - I've always been quite accepting of others' quirks, kinks, interests, and I remain so. I've never been judgemental of anyone but myself. So I guess I'm more open minded about me. That's gotta be a good thing, right? :-)
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Seachange
10 years ago
Freya, I remember a quote on that 'The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.' - Terry Pratchett
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