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Opening a can of worms ... why not!

January 21 2014

So I love the forums, read them regularly and would really love to add my 2 cents ... But I don't! Why? Because sometimes as a couple we worry that our opinion may turn potential play buddies off meeting us! Lets face it we all have formed good ideas of what all the regular forum posters are really like where their morals lie and what kind of kinks they hold. ( some very interesting n lovely kinds indeed) I will be really honest I love it when the forums get heated when some random gives the regulars a touch up ;) but to all the regulars .... too many to name lol you guys keep this going and seriously don't give a fark what others think so cheers to you! But do you ever wonder if what you write holds back potential play dates or do you feel happy in the fact that perhaps it prevents disaster?? Mrs Randy :)

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Welcome to the sandpit. . For me it's easy, really: If any potential playmates are turned off by my thoughts and opinions, they were never for me to start with. And it's worked well for me, I've only met men and couples with the same mindset as myself, and several of them have been other forum posters. . The same goes for my profile, it weeds out the people that I'm not interested in meeting (the ones writing the "hi" emails for example) quite nicely. .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I even have in my profile that if people want to know what I'm like, read my posts. I'm not everyone's cup of tea and not everyone's mine. If you don't like what I write, you definitely don't want to meet me. I'm louder and sillier in real life.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    'I don't need the lines to get laid'. If you don't like my posts, there's a very, very good chance we won't get along if we meet. I often repeat my quips to a non RHP female friend of mine. She's bewildered that I ever hook up with anybody from here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I always wanted to post but used to hold back because of what "people might think", or as you said, it might turn people of me. I have since come to realise that if people don't like me for what I have to say, then it's their problem, not mine. I have learnt a lot about people, sex and life in general just by reading what people have to say, but I do have to say that after meeting a lot of the regular posters I think that maybe the ideas that you have formed about our morals and kinks might be a little of the mark. We are all just regular, normal people, some are just a bit kinkier than others. Forming perceptions of people before you meet them isn't always a good thing. If what I write holds off potential play dates, or any other kind of dates, then that person isn't for me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's always great to see new people in the sandpit. Just keep away from the muddy end and wear eye protection for when the sand starts getting thrown around.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    I see it this way...... the flip side to offending someone is.... that there are people who read my (at times contentious) forum comments and find them agreeable, and even appealing. There have been a number of women who have emailed me BECAUSE of something I've said. Of course I'll never know those who were turned off email me to say so (and dome do lol). So those who don't like what I say and are "turned off".. are not a loss to me. I don't rely on RHP for my life.... it's just one piece if a very big puzzle. DG - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    11 years ago

    You may attract as many by posting as those that are turned off by your posts. Look at it as a Glass Half Full rather than Half Empty.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Well said feelin_randy! That, and the fact that when you do actually have an opinion and post it, you get slammed? Certainly keeps a lot of regular readers from ever posting a thing. Good way to get others to share opinions, thoughts and any honest questions they might have. Well done keep up the good work. Ahhh now to sit back and wait for the onslaught, while casually making a cup of tea and having a good laugh. :) Have a wonderful day everyone. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    through the sand pit when some funlover came up to paint me..He said he was looking for quality..But, I reckon he was just a mischevious lad smiling with fun..Me.. I was just waiting for lady tuscan to show back up, and be Meek!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' I was having a meander You fuckin' wish.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    I was on the site 3mths before I got the courage up to post and have my say. I too have been slammed for certain posts but you know what? The same thing happens in real everyday life at times too. I never thought I'd become a "notorious" forum regular either ket alone actually end up partying with a few of the "Royalty". Trust me, the newbs who refer to us as "stuck up, unfriendly, judgemental" should take a harder look at where these feelings are really coming from, more often than not they are projecting their own insecurities onto others. Alot of people do it at some stage, it's human nature..... But you should always remember RHP is a small part of everyone's life and we are just as normal and everyday as the rest of humanity, just naughtier fuckers.....not me but, I'm an Angel 😇 xx. PS Welcome OP

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'cavey50' I was having a meander You fuckin' wish. "Tell me and I'll forget. Show me and I'll remember. Involve me and I'll ... rip you a new arse-hole." OP's So long as you respond / contribute honestly then you are simply adding depth and perspective to your profile IMO. Start worrying about expressing a different opinion to others (or worse - parroting them for the sake of acceptance) and all you are doing is proliferating a boring mono-culture and inviting the wrong people to connect with you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' through the sand pit when some funlover came up to paint me..He said he was looking for quality..But, I reckon he was just a mischevious lad smiling with fun..Me.. I was just waiting for lady tuscan to show back up, and be Meek! That was farking awesome, lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hardly any guy I met on RHP ever read the forums. Besides that my mouth is other wise occupied when with a guy offline. I am more than the forums and less than the cyber goddess that people think I am. People play with someone because that are attracted. Attraction is only felt when your right in front of them, before that its just the great cyber myth. I loose sleep over what people think of me. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz ohh what? now where was I zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz LadyT giving a fat rats arse.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We are extremely new to this, less then 3 weeks i think, but in no way shy about how we feel, or adding to content on here. We are actually very non judgemental, we have very broad shoulders and are both angels ourselves. Absolutely the same thing happens in real life, where one person voices their opinion and alot, or the majority who have found a voice feel the need to correct the others opinion. I guess we have always barracked for the underdog and have never felt intimidated, obviously this is only a forum, but you know the old saying, ld rater live on my feet… . But, have always seen very clearly, that some are incapable of using the english language calmly to express there feeling and thoughts (before opening their mouths or using a keyboard to type, as in this matter), as sometimes might happen on forums, before going on the attack, because they have a different perspective, and because of their lack of language skills, some might resort to name calling, making others feel their opinions, thoughts, questions or honesty, for that matter are wrong then they are left feeling intimidated and never post again etc . To answer your question feelin_randy, it doesn't bother us in the slightest. Like I have said we are both very new to this site, have only commented a few times in the last few days. We are both very confident, have nothing to hide, we are very honest and we think we are really nice, easy to get along with people. If others don't like what they see, it's completely fine with us, you will always find haters.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    it will be with the candle wax ...

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    11 years ago

    Of writing what I really think, and then deleting it instead of hitting send. The cyber equivalent of biting my tongue. Only because trolls shouldn't be fed. There is information we don't share on rhp, because it helps us weed out the 'undesirables' who might otherwise temporarily tweak their profiles to match. The forums are fun, as long as you're not an ass (and we've met you in person and you both seemed lovely) then voicing your opinion is not going to do any harm. If someone judges you from what you say and holds a vastly different opinion then they are probably not the playmates for you anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Paradisepair!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think that the things I write do scare off the good men and I am sure a lot of them would not even bother to message me. 😞

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Nothing wrong with being unique.. We own our words and thoughts if others are turned off or don't get the writer than it is their loss..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    A fallen angel maybe ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Lol, A lot of people don't even read your profile, why would they bother with the Forums. My 2 messages a day are never of "who I am looking for" Just Young studs asking me to make an exception...over and over and over again.

  • ruby_blossum

    ruby_blossum

    11 years ago

    I have never met anyone off rhp who has read the forums so I have no idea if they are turned on or off by the occasional comments I make here. If someone is put off by my words....meh. I consider myself lucky as it would be a waste of time for the both of us. It is great to see so many new posters lately... of all ages .

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    11 years ago

    I think it does both. I have had comments from numerous guys that say they like to read the forum posts as it gives them more of an insight into my likes and dislikes and general personality I think. By the same token I'm sure it turns some away and that's ok cause we obviously wouldn't make a good connection anyway. All in all I think it's a positive thing as it cuts down some of the weeding out I have to do. As long as you stay true to yourself what does it matter if others don't agree with you in here and express their opinion? That's life. Be pretty boring if we all thought the same and agreed on everything don't ya think? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That people think there is some intelligence on the site. I like to read the forums so I know I am not the only one who thinks the same way as a lot of posters...it is refreshing to know I am not blowing hot air out of my ass with my opinions. I have been pleasantly surprised with what I have read so far. Wow it is not just me who thinks like that...Hallelujah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    "Trust me, the newbs who refer to us as "stuck up, unfriendly, judgemental" should take a harder look at where these feelings are really coming from, more often than not they are projecting their own insecurities onto others." Bit of a derogatory term. No-one on here is "newb". They're adults, they've been having opinions and voicing their opinions for years. It's that sort of reference that puts people off posting. People get flamed by a pack mentality here all the time. Just how it is.. Many people will judge you as a person by your posts. Fair call too. Many wont! Que sera sera.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72'I have had comments from numerous guys that say they like to read the forum posts as it gives them more of an insight into my likes and dislikes and general personality I think. After 16 months here I deleted my previous profile and started a new one. I was probably a stalker's dream.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ruby_blossum'I have never met anyone off rhp who has read the forums so I have no idea if they are turned on or off by the occasional comments I make here. At the Meet and Greet in Sydney last weekend, a couple turned up who had never heard of the forums. They had merely come across the Events pages and decided it would be fun to say hello. . As a matter of fact, when I mentioned the very long forum about the Meet, they looked puzzled, then said "I think you mean Chat". Go figure.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I agree with others, I have messages and flirts every day, so it hasnt put anyone off, and those i do chat with or meet never visit the forums, some have even asked me what it is!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Iv'e haven't come across any "newbs" (as you like to refer to new posters), as calling any regular posters on the forums as "stuck up, unfriendly or judgemental". We obviously haven't read enough of the forums, but we are very new to this site, so we will keep checking the forums.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks ApolloThirteen, that's one of our favourite sayings.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    not looking for play dates, and if what I have to say holds off potencial play dates, lucky me. Over the last year I have not made one advance to any profile at all. The only people I have met are people that have contacted me and almost all have contacted me because of something I have said in the forums. Of those that I do met I make it clear that it is friendship first and foremost. A few that know how to turn me on have lead to more but for the most part i am so over boring pointless sex. A night of good conversation is so much better than a night of dull sex and if that means I have to go months without that's fine by me.

  • ruby_blossum

    ruby_blossum

    11 years ago

    compared to the amount of forum posters, there is a massive difference. Only of a "poofteenth %" of posters....who knows how many readers of the forums?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I don't post on a thread because I'm not sure my opinion will come across the way it is intended. And I'm not one of those people that have to comment on every single thread just for the sake of it. Most of the time I just share my opinion, and if that puts someone off contacting me, so be it. What's meant to be is meant to be!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    some will love you,some will loathe you,some will be exactly like their posts,others will have an alter ego...some will reivent themselves on a regular basis....but to post or not, to post that is the question....do what you wanna do,say what you wanna say.. and enjoy.xxQ

  • ruby_blossum

    ruby_blossum

    11 years ago

    to how many actually post in the forums....the percentage is extremely low. And how many read the forums without ever commenting?

  • ruby_blossum

    ruby_blossum

    11 years ago

    wasnt meant to post twice .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    For me I'm just going to post what I think, if some likes it fine if someone doesn't like it well that's their opinion. It's hard to get a good picture of someone from 1 or 2 posts even if they are lengthy and well written, as a lot here are. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I know there are many that read but never contribute judging by the number of people that privately message me regarding the forums but never see them post.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I can't help but post on some topics, even if I know it goes against the grain.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That if you just sit back without saying something, then you're a soft cock!!!! :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have found myself contacting the odd poster because I find what they have said interesting and worth commenting upon. The opposite has also happened, others have contacted me. Hello HP, waves from W. A. ( cos he's worth it ya know )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ..this is the most relevant thread I've read since joining in October or November..whenever it was. It didn't take me long to figure out that the Forums were a useful way to "put myself out there"..as wellas picking up some tips and just following the more interesting topics. I imagine most of them of them havebeen done to death many times over anyway!A friend I've made on here..who I haven't met in person..told/messaged me that she didn't like theForums( she preferred the chat rooms ) as they were mostly the same people posting. I agree with her on that score, but I don't see it as a negative.And as Funlover suggested earlier, the Sandpit can get muddy if you want to start playing with the big kids.That too I noticed pretty early. And it's certainly entertaining sometimes.I'll learn to walk first, I think..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Everyone I've met or communicated with on RHP has read my Posts on the Forums . Sure , I may have missed my chance with some Women for the same reason but that is something I'll never know ... Considering there are so many Men on RHP , I definately believe the Forums have given me an Edge , a chance to prove that I don't just think with my Dick . But I've also heard that some people feel too intimidated to approach a Forumite , despite the fact that they have been attracted to that Forumite's Mind ! GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • lovman8

    lovman8

    11 years ago

    I only post on the forums to impress women with my intelligence, wit and charm to encourage them to contact me. ???If I stick at it longer enough it MIGHT work..........although I suspect the intelligence level of women on the forums enables them to see straight through this superficial tactic

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    We all have them, it's whether or not we choose to voice them.. For myself, I like to voice mine just as I would if I was sitting around a table having a conversation with someone. Everyone is different and our opinions will differ from others, but it makes for some interesting conversations and debates at times.... If my opinion is going to hinder who I attract on RHP, well it's probably for the best anyway.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Well funny you posted this :) I meet a lady the other day based on my small input here with the forums :) Well I wrote what I feel if people like my input great if not they let me know lol Based on the forums I got to meet a lady based on my head meant only for radio I was rejected lmao.. Point is regardless of what anyone writes we all have taste of appearance that differs in everyone...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ruby_blossum' to how many actually post in the forums....the percentage is extremely low. And how many read the forums without ever commenting? There are a hell of a lot of people reading and not posting. Less than 10% of the people looking are from women that live in Victoria. That ok, it keeps my stats up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think posting on here and having your say....opinion is great....the men who contact me know what I look like and what I think on a wee tiny scale....my mind is much bigger, much bigger in deed.However as most already stated you post on here have your say people look at your profile and contact you or not...so yee ppeeee.... lol ....I made my own advertising with out shouting HERE I AM LOOK AT ME.OR DID I SHOUT THAT JUST NOW?

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Thank you Apollo Thirteen for taking the point out of context and shedding another light on it. I've actually been a "newb" to many things here not just the site overall. Everyone's been a "newb" to something at some stage in their lives be it a school, job, sport/hobby. You've been around as long as I have. And from the odd general discussions over the weekend the term "newb" was never uttered condescendingly by anyone. (Gentle smile) it's all gooooooood. Sorry to go off topic OP but as I stated earkier everything is open to interpretation. Am actually surprised that most of the men contacting the ladies here also don't read the forums. Some I've spoken to/met have tried the chat rooms with no joy per se, others have stated the forums are for people with nothing better to do with their empty lives.....😳.....for me they are a place of fun, laughter, enlightenmrnt. The occasional reflection on self and at others a short shift on inappropriate behaviour/comments. Art imitating life. But overall if someone doesn't like what I have to say that's fine too, you take the good with bad and learn/grow from it. I don't need anyone's approval here, I get that in real life just by being me. And I think those who've met me from here are delighted that I am as I am here. If people are turned off by my profile or posts and don't make it known thrn in the words of one of my girlfriend's "Can't know, can't care." 👍. ~ Indy on the move again, 🎉Thank You Sydney!!

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    11 years ago

    a good way for us to find out if we are going to be compatible with others or if the practices / preferences of others are going to be compatible with our standards when it comes to safe sex / hygiene. As an example, there have been many threads about safe sex, anal sex, snowballing etc. The comments made, by others, give us a good idea as to who practices safe sex and who does not. And safe sex is not just about wearing condoms... it goes a lot deeper than that and also includes hygiene, where one puts ones hands, fingers and tongue and whether one washes in between all of this. At Saints we witnessed people being fingered [bum and vagina] and then those same hands and fingers going on to finger the next vagina and so on and so on, with no washing of hands in between. Now considering there were 1300 + people there, you can just imagine the ramifications of this. Many, in here, have seen no problem nor health risks associated with unprotected anal sex, snowballing, nor fingering one vagina and then going on to finger the next without first washing hands. Many in here are of the opinion that "rimming" poses no risk of receiving nor passing on a STI, and have no problem from pushing their tongue into an anus and then into a vagina. They dont seem to realise that this is highly risky for the receiving woman as her chances of getting a UTI from this greatly increases. But there are those who feel that an anus is clean and risk free if it has been washed..... Its those people that we avoid, like the plague. For us, a couple that does not practice safe sex is a "NO NO" as are those that engage in potentially unsafe risky sexual practices and so yes, in this regard the forms have been a GREAT source of "information" as to who not to play with. To be honest comments made in the forums, have certainly put us off from many potential couples. Not that we have "played" with many couples from RHP - so far just 1 couple on two occasions and then some same room sex with another couple, just once. We are not pushy nor do we "shout the odds" and set down hard to follow conditions/rules . But when it comes to safe sex and hygiene, we will not compromise for anyone. The forums have certainly opened our eyes as to peoples true feelings. Have our standards with regards safe sex & hygiene, as made evident in our posts, turned people off us ? Perhaps yes. Do we worry about it ? No ! Because we would never have played with those types in the first place.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Plain and simply No I don't care what others take of my opinion, I wouldn't change mine for them & I wouldn't expect them to change theirs either.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have really enjoyed reading everyone's response, and it's refreshing that you all feel no hesitation to post your opinions and thoughts. I still have some curiosity as to the ones that read and don't post and would love to hear why, but like me in the past I'm sure they will not post their comments. I understand that like you all say many don't bother to read the forums, but I'm sure you have all noticed that once one of your friends or someone you have on your hot list posts something it pops up in the home page feed (Feelin_Randy replied to this thread etc) I would much prefer if it didn't advertise that we posted! I have also noticed that the majority of regular posters are single male and females, with only a handful of couples.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Welcome new comer's.. Please dont be affraid to post whats in your mind if you feel you have something to say. These forums belong to everyone, so go ahead post and have a good time. We all have differing opinions on different things , so we dont always agree, but thats par for the course... You may have noticed a fair number of regulars are over 40 ' female' and have lots and lots to say .. which btw I wont comment on today because it will only start world war 3.. haha Just dont take them too serious... oh oh.. Jay runs for the hills.. hehe...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Of being a member, I couldn't get any ladies to return a message. Bored one night, I explored the site and found the forums. Nervously, I typed out a response and no one ripped me apart. (Too late now peoples, there's no stopping me.) All of a sudden, women were sending me flirts. Now you can't shut me up. And that's not a challenge ladies.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I was just accused of having a 1950's attitude to sex because I don't want ONS. At drinks night three men told me they were scared or intimidated to meet me because of comments I have made on the forum.... So I just don't know what to think anymore!!' Except fuck it! :p

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Your all a bunch of fckn lunatics and I am the only sane bastard in here, Just having a rest from things being the other way around. he he, Tara has always been gorgeous We haven't made any plans, so no expectations, we are riding the wave, all you happen to be on it. We can back ourselves up when the times come to these adventures, no problems, lots of friends and we have a place to belong. Stress is worry to something that has not happened yet, probably won't, not the healthy way to be a part in this world. So why worry about what others may think of us, they probably aren't any way. They will let us know if they are, jump off that bridge when we get to it. Heads up. By the way, Meeka it's funny how some may be a little intimidated by an intelligent, modern, confidant and outgoing woman. Yep fuck it. Mado Tara xx

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Except Mesmerised, she has had me improve my gramma, it plays on my mind.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I like being able to contribute so I usually post if I have something to say/joke. It's hard not to know if anyone finds any value/humour in my comments though. The silent audience, are they there, laughing so hard noone can hear them? Or is there just blackness punctuated by empty seats? That's the hardest thing as a newcomer to this scene, watching others have warm exchanges that you wish you could be in on... then suddenly you're an awkward social stalker peering in the windows at the popular kids party again. Oh shit, was that just me? I'm conscious of what I reveal about myself in my comments here, try not to let too many details get out that could be used against me by malicious parties. But as for sharing experiences, opinions and advice, if that puts people off me, *shrug* their loss. I'd rather be lonely than stuck with someone who doesn't like the way I think. Thanks for this post

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    11 years ago

    If your profile is so seriously fantastic that the people your are interested in approach you, and nobody else, then all praise to you. If, you use the forums to communicate with like minded people, because they're the people you are really interested in, then that's brilliant too. If, however, you're concerned that what you think and say could drive away the people you're interested in, then I think you need to adjust the value to you, in your own mind, of those potential friends and lovers. The more you say, the more about yourself you give away. Saying nothing though, also gives an impression of your personality. There's no avoiding it. Participate, or not, you become part of the community the minute you join it, and from there on, members of the community will evaluate you. In any case, the forum portrays only a snippet of your personality, whether it's a fake profile or an honest one doesn't matter. It's unavoidable. Hugs Gazpacho

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    11 years ago

    Great sentiments, which I share! Hugs Gazpacho

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'At drinks night three men told me they were scared or intimidated to meet me because of comments I have made on the forum.... I've had people say they were nervous to meet THE elusive "insert old username". And I've been called Forum Royalty, like I'm sure you have been too. It's weird, some people seem to think we're celebrities. And just like people reading gossip magazines about the stars, they think they know us intimately. But really, they don't.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes, we talk about debaucherous things, and some people tend to forget that we do these things only with people we know well and trust explicitly. It even says so in both our profiles. . So asking me for a DP in the Couples Club is not the way to go.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'gazpacho51' Great sentiments, which I share! Hugs Gazpacho Woo I get some audience participation today! Cheers cold soupy man.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I thought they were scared because little old me would bend those 6foot boys over, pull their tighty whiteys to the side and bang their butts with my strapon!!! I am sure when they saw me standing at (almost ) 5 foot they were shaking in their boots. Lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I heard it all now.. lol..

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Even the court jester rings some peoples bells. Craving Touch I like it when you post, you're always very honest about what you think and in the way you express yourself. (Gentle smile) Welcome and looking forward to someday meeting you too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You know it's mutual, and we will have drinks before you know it (if not here, there, I go to BrisVegas now and then).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'CravingTouch' Quoting 'gazpacho51' Great sentiments, which I share! Hugs Gazpacho Woo I get some audience participation today! Cheers cold soupy man. Watch out, once you start getting attention from others it becomes rather addictive.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I don't give a rats arse if someone likes my opinion or not. The thing is...... It is MY opinion and I am entitled to it. More than happy to enter into a heated discussion or spirited debate. Can also back up my convictions convincingly. If it turns away potential playmates. I don't care either. Obviously if they have issues with my thoughts, morals or ethics it was never going to be a match made in heaven. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' I thought they were scared because little old me would bend those 6foot boys over, pull their tighty whiteys to the side and bang their butts with my strapon!!! I am sure when they saw me standing at (almost ) 5 foot they were shaking in their boots. Lol. Would have though it a bit difficult to stand upright with Meeka's strap on firmly strapped on. Dam now I have a vision of you and me in a rather unusual tug of war. Would be a prize indeed, will forgo the lube so i can get a good grip. LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    RHP is a small community and i am constantly surprised as to the connections that exist. There are not many degrees of separation between all of us and the RHP grape vine is vigorous, strong and active. Always love a good bit of gossip The forums leak into the real world and I have on a few occasions met people via random chance that I discover are fellow RHP members and have read my forum posts. Hearing "So you're blindman.. I've read some of your forum posts." always has me slightly on the back foot. So far nobody has slapped me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Kneel my child whilst I place my trusty sword atop your brow , dub each shoulder and declare you pure of sin.. Arise pure one... C'mon you can get up now.. ? Agree with your comment for Craving Touch.. She comes across a gentle soul...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    feelin_randy this is one of the best post ever, I'm back here solely for the forums. As a married and looking man I'v already found there's not much here for me.Interesting comment about a random giving the regulars a touch up, that of course is somewhat limited as the moderators here will nuke posts if thy feel the urge. Having said that I'll wait to see if this post survives...enough said.

  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    11 years ago

    ...and you'll probably attract all sorts. So many people I've met have remarked on what I've written on the forums (way back when I was active) and I tell them not to believe half of it. Even if it's mostly true, it's probably just safer that way ;) xx Sarah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Blindman67' Watch out, once you start getting attention from others it becomes rather addictive.Blindman I've been an attention-whore for many years now, goes with the character type I think, it's too late for this one.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You just took the wind outta my sails.... Quote ' I've been an attention-whore for many years now, goes with the character type I think, it's too late for this one What ? and I thought you were a gentle soul.. ? See' even Jay gets it wrong sometimes... lol...

  • Plain

    Plain

    11 years ago

    Do I care nope, If I have helped some one along the way, all well and good, do I jump into the muddy pool, celebrate it like a birthright. Have I met anybody ,nope, do I care cast la vie peoples.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ... either here or in the real world, they go and surprise you!! Hopefully in a mutually agreeable, kinky, OMFG or downright naughty way. To quote you FR: "Lets face it we all have formed good ideas of what all the regular forum posters are really like where their morals lie and what kind of kinks they hold. ( some very interesting n lovely kinds indeed)" On the odd occasion, that "good idea" I formed turned out to be but a hint of what lay beneath ... in them and me! I'm doing what now???