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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  There are a fair few forums about this, have look for them here:   http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Profile-Clinic-Tips-Advice   My top 5: 1. Give your email and interesting heading, not "hey" or "hi hun". 2. Call people by their username, don't use words like babe, sweetie, etc. 3. Mention something you liked in their profile to show you actually read it 4. Open your PG if you want them to have a look at you, and especially if you ask for theirs, but save the explicit shots until asked for them 5. Say you'd love to hear back if they are interested and wish them a great day. Good luck!

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Hi Im having fun thank you. :) How about...what Ms.M said and.. "Your profile caught my attention *insert what it was*..I really like the part *insert* . I smiled at *insert what it was* Hope to hear from you, if you feel we have something in common. *insert both your names* Foxy x - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  trouble is most lead a 2nd life on the www. We all know what happened to 2nd life, was going to be the next best thing....

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  Coops27M

  11 years ago

  Step one, read their profile in full each and every time! Do not stalk it checking back on things you miss. Step two, formulate a reply specifically to the individuak/couple that is personal and tailored for the person/persons. Highlight something from the topic to emphasize that you show true interest rather than you like their pictures and want to fuck. Use your imagination. I haven't bothered messaging many people but i've had a 100% responce rate. Good luck.- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  You need to be honest to yourself and the person your contacting.. No one here can instruct you what you should write as thats what THEY would want you to say and that may not be you at all..Regardless' until you meet face to face ' words are just that. I object strongly to anyone trying so hard to write what someone else expects them to write.. Is that really you ? no, dont think so.In my experience ' too many potential match's go by the wayside because they get caught up with snobby expectations.. A big waste of emotional energy when you could be out there enjoying yourself with someone more realistic.. If what you convey is not what they want to read , its up to them or you if its worth pursuing. Still' I believe there are some I think I will eventually make out with, but I refuse to play their snobby games' if it happens , it happens.. Jay

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  To what everyone else has said. The header needs to be something that will grab their attention as most women receive excessive amounts of messages. I base this either on something in their profile that interested me to start with or something they've said in the forums. Occasionally, it maybe something a little cryptic, hoping it may pique their interest. Showing your personality is what it's all about though. And I have heaps of that ;)

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