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Opinions on men who don't go down

February 26 2010

After talking to some friends recently i realised that alot of them don't like going down on women or will not do it at all.Ladies, what is your opinion on men who don't go down whatever their reasoning for it might be.thanks Absolute

Comments

  • Mr_MrsJones

    Mr_MrsJones

    15 years ago

    Well that is their choice of course.  There is more than one part of the body that will please a pussy if used correctly.    As far as I (Lady) am concerned if a guy doesn't want to lick my pussy that is fine.  In a lot of cases no head is better than bad head.  Of course he will still be expected to give pleasure it is all about give and take.   I can sympathise with guys who don't like giving head.  Giving head to a girl is HARD even for another girl.  I have recently made it my business to improve my skills in this area and have made some discoveries. 1)  Not all girls keep theiir pussy nice and clean and smelling healthy 2) I don't find all pussies attractive 3) All women are different and one technique does not necessarily work for everyone.    So I sympathise with guys who aviod this thing because of bad experiences and a complete lack of knowing what to do.  However laziness or selfishness is never tolerated.  If you expect a girl to give you a good time then be prepared to give the same.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hi Absolute,  Having experienced a few of those you mention, my opinion is not a favourable one. Various rationale's attributed blame for their a no oral policy due to previous partners poor hygiene & other similar excuses, however, strangely enough, they expected me to lavish attention to their bits, no questions asked. Whatever shape or form the intimate relationship takes, I believe equal pleasuring is essential ergo...no oral...not interested...NEXT!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Absolute, i think it is also an age thing, like often younger guys don't like to, but as they get older then they do. If a guy wont go down on me, then I wont play. I always go down on them, and I dont get enough from f...... alone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I'll never understand it. Unless my mouth's invovled somehow I usually find it really difficult to get off.   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thanks for the opinions.I totally agree on the mutual pleasure Myname, the only time i seeit as acceptable for the pleasure to not be equal is when its a special occasion and its your treat to the other person or vice versa.I myself have not come across a partner with a poor hygiene problem so i can't comment there but cleanliness is easy to maintain so i don't see it as a real excuse.lord_lady69 giving head to a lady is not hard, you just have to put the effort into quickly find out what makes the particular girl tick so that you never give bad head.thanks Absolute

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Easy answer....NEXT!     huggies   sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I can't understand why a man wouldn't (apart from poor hygiene and that is totally different) It is sooooo much fun and I just love it The pleasure is in giving pleasure So maybe it is the guys that take and don't give?ciao Hermes

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Mmm...most definately a time to treat your partner to something you know will drive them to distraction. Forget the choccies & flowers. I for one would much prefer my partner give me the gift of his imagination...and prove just how well he knows me! And, naturally, vice versa!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    bring it on I love kissing pussy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ...they r stupid not 2. 2b :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i've only had one girl i've been down on, and that was my ex she has been pretty much all my sexual happenings and i really enjoyed giving her lots of oral pleasure, but if she didnt like what i was doin she would tell me or id ask what she would like maybe it takes the imagination out of the whole situation, but hey she got what she wanted and i enjoyed giving it to her, by the end she could just enjoy the time i spent down there... now to find a new girl to play with not so much luck yet lol...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Stupid, Lazy, Selfish and maybe, just uneducated in the art of oral...   Never too late to learn something different when it comes to sex and practicing is soo much fun!!!     I usually start with oral & finish with oral, the more I give the juicier I get!   Hugs,   Shell

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Absolute,How many guys have expressed this opinion to you? Gee my opinion of Gen Y gets worse by the day! The only person I've met who is absolutely disgusted by the idea of coming face to face with female genitalia is a lovely big Poof!There is nothing better than taking in the scent of a woman!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Who want go down..get that mans number and kick him off the team..Someone call the Sheriff

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Puppy,A fair few have this opinion and i'm not sure why and i can't see why they would but i can only assume that they are more concerned about getting off and not concerned about their partners.I don't think all of Gen Y is like that so don't worry, i just seem to know a fair few of the self centered pricks.Absolute

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It may say more about the owner of the reef than the fears of the diver... Ehh... lol. A bad experience (and let me tell you, they can be pretty bad) here or there can turn a bloke off for life. Especially if he's young and only on his first few outings. A bit like that time you got really sick drinking rum... and now you can’t go near the stuff.   Plenty of guys don't go down on women... Just like plenty of women don't go down on guys... It's really not that big of a deal. It certainly wouldn't end a relationship I would have thought.   Speaking for myself... There are some pretty rank vaginas getting about. I won't just wolf any old bag. And certainly not on a one night stand. Call it "selective dining". However, gimme a nice clean fresh one and I'll dine on you for as long as you can stand it. haha.   They're especially yummy when they're fresh out of the surf...   My tip for the ladies... Find the douche aisle at the chemist. It will give you piece of mind, and the lads will love it.   That might be an idea for another thread... How many women regularly douche their privates?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well Absolute is going to get laid a lot, just hang around your mates and you'll have the girls picking you all the time!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i found that guys didnt want to go down on me because either they claim o not like i, or they just want me to go down on them and get nothing in return, if i didnt do it to them first then they would do it to me, i quickly got rid of any guy who only wanted his head blown and refused to blow anyone else's, my housemate didnt like going down n his gf because she would sweat alot and it wouldnt smell very nice, she didnt keep it nice and clean down there, and she didnt taste very nice

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Dust.   T.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    What does their garden look like ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Stalky... could you have put it any better? I think not.

  • x2ForU

    x2ForU

    15 years ago

    in regards to all these threads i am reading about vagina's and who's not going down on vagina's, who's got smelly vagina's, fresh vagina's straight out of the surf, sweaty vagina's, going to a chemist and douche  your vagina, rank vagina's getting around, only go near a vagina if you want to treat the owner, gee i think i am going to keep my vagina under wraps... for me only!!  totally lost all confidence now....haha....xx