M62

Optimism

August 27 2015

"A pessimist sleeps alone. An optimist is just two people short of a threesome" How do you deal deal with the difficulty of making friends and having fun? Humour or deleting your account? I swing between mania for checking profile and attempting contact, and putting it all away for a month.

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RHP User

9 years ago

Gets frustrated at times when trying to seek whoever they are seeking. Some will complain about the trouble finding genuine guys. Others will have trouble finding genuine, good natured couples. And the word "unicorn" is used for a reason. But messaging alone has very little success at best. Your best bet is to become involved in the "community" in whatever capacity you can, via forums, chat or in real life meet/greets. Eventually you will get known by people and then follow up messages will have more success. Although putting it away for a month is not all bad. You can reassess what you really want, reflect on any issues that have come up, and also there will be new members to try contacting.

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RHP User

9 years ago

Never give up. - Posted from rhpmobile

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AnnieWhichway

9 years ago

Probably a case of your messages falling into the non matching basket as your listed as attached. Less opportunity presents to those who are attached so your market has shrunk even further than the 10-1 ratio. Perserverance is required to overcome your frustration. No easy answer. Maybe change things around. Perhaps a new photo with a nice smile. Few more photos to mix it up with. If its not working try something new.

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RHP User

9 years ago

Are you messaging Henry?..You have women 30 -55 in your seeking criteria..I doubt that women in the lower age bracket would respond to a married man here..Too many other choices...Good advice from the other posters..why hide your face pic?...women want to see a face...posting on the fora,attending M&Gs will at lest provide opportunities to meet people.xxFreya

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0z_boy

9 years ago

96 .768% of my messages do not even get read. 99.00% do not get answered.93.97% of my profile views are from men.Ive had only two answers to any messages sent, one a knock back and another seemed hopeful but they deleted their account.I wasnt expecting sex on a stick but crikey!

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