Oral anxiety

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I had this when I was younger ....i had to be really comfortable with someone....

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I'll spread my legs as quick as look at you 😄 and love self pleasuring for guys if they're into it. But when I was young, different story. I think women worry about what they look like down there, the most freeing thing in the world for me sexually has been becoming comfortable with my body, learning to love ALL my body, and appreciating how much guys (not all) love pussy. At least they're the ones I search out. I love all of a man's body, worship it, and expect them to give me a little worship too 😊

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I disagree, I have no issues with my partner going down on me, actually I feel annoyed it we play and he doesn't! Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Have had issues with it. Its one of my favourite things to do as it massively turns me on!

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  EarthQueen

  7 years ago

  But with a casual partner it's sometimes hard to ask for what you want. You haven't got that strong connection where you can always communicate what works for you. You are right though it is intimate and if she is young she may not have the confidence to ask for what she wants or likes.She might not even have worked that out for herself yet?You can try to ask her and see how that goes. Maybe after you have had sex and are lying there in the afterglow you can just say you what you have noticed? It depends how comfortable she is with you if you will get an honest answer. Sometimes women will just say that its all good when its not because opening yourself up to someone about what you like in sex is again, intimate. Or you can just keep practising. ;-)

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  DynamicCouple36

  7 years ago

  Why she is apprehensive? There might be a few reasons. For example she may be concerned that she might not smell or taste nice? Perhaps make mention that you understand her shyness / apprehension and addie her that you feel she smells and tastes really nice, and that there is nothing to be shy about - Posted from rhpmobile

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  PurePeony

  7 years ago

  ... react differently, depending on how at ease I am with the man. If he's open and honest, and we are able to crack jokes and laugh about anything and everything, and I do not feel like I'm under scrutiny, then I don't become self- conscious and "reserved". If he looks like he's really enjoying himself, oh my gosh that gets me extremely turned on! I've met two men who are fantabulous and absolutely outstanding in giving oral sex. One of them puts his face so close to pussy and rubs his entire face in the wetness with such ardour that when he was done, he had to wipe his nose and face with a towel! Pussy facial! 😁😁😁 The other would really lick ardently and at the same time, use his fingers to play with pussy and then look up with a huge Cheshire cat grin and lick his fingers dry and then kept on sniffing his fingers afterwards because he loved pussy's lingering scent on them. I'm getting so horny just talking about them! 😁😁😁 TBH, I used to be simply ok with oral sex and could even skip it altogether but these two pussy lovers are game changers! 😁😁😁 Conversely, there are men who kinda give you the token act. It's mechanical oral sex with no heart, no soul, no passion, no gusto. If it's going to be cheap and nasty, I'd rather not have it at all. 😛

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  PurePeony

  7 years ago

  ... I did feel very conscious and uncomfortable with oral sex because I was worried that pussy didn't look pretty enough. I've since learnt that there are men who are pussy worshippers and they get so into it that they don't even bother scrutinising pussy for some beauty contest! 😁😁😁 I suppose it's a two-way street - the more I love myself and the more confident I am, the more I can relax and enjoy oral sex. The more comfortable the man makes me feel, the more connected and "aligned" we are, the more I enjoy oral sex. You can have a man with the best technique, but if the woman hasn't learnt to relax and immerse herself in the moment without restraint and reservations, then she may not enjoy the oral sex fully. Being totally comfortable in her own skin, and developing a love for her own body usually helps a woman not be so worried about how she looks "down there" and just lie back and enjoy the magical moment. OP, I think it takes two hands to clap... or should I say, it takes an expert tongue and a keen pussy to turn on the tap for the sweet pussy juice? 😉 You sound like a lovely and patient man and I hope she realises how lucky she is, and that eventually (sooner rather than later), she will no longer "shy up". Keep on keeping on, OP! Practice makes perfect!

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Everythings a little new at the moment as we've only had sex a handful of times. She is from a religious back ground so it is only the start of her sexual awakening.I'm wise enough to only show her the door and allow her to open it herself. I took her to a sex shop the other day which was pretty amusing :) at first she was very apprehensive but when it was time to leave I had to pretty much drag her out of the shop!

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  "Several partners Have had issues with it. Its one of my favourite things to do as it massively turns me on!" God, where have you been all my life 😍

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  mrnorti69

  7 years ago

  i love to eat pussy the taste of a sweet pussy turn me on so much and when am eating pussy love it when she is playing with her clit and she cums and i can lic all her sweet cum up

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  If I've been out and had a few naughty drinks and I'm struggling to get it up it's my go too thing to do. It turns me on that much it always gets me back in the game :)

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  Meuner2

  7 years ago

  Quoting 'Pommyfucker' Have had issues with it. Its one of my favourite things to do as it massively turns me on! Hell Yeah , I luv to put my tongue to work for pure pleasure for a woman.Even to the point where its all about her & luv to get them so wet to lick her dry & start again.Let my fingers & tongue do the work & make sure they enjoy

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  Hottie1

  7 years ago

  When we started swinging I did develop a greater sensitivity to being exposed to someone new and going down on me. We attended parties where in my experience there was very little effort or expectation to provide oral sex for women. This is not a reflection on you OP but for me I was hesitant because very few men could actually make me cum orally. If they could, it would take quite a while, so I really didn't like the thought of someone's face buried pussy deep lol. They would often use fingers, a quick stroke or two with their tongue, I'd squirt because of the fingers, job done they thought lol! Honestly, I can't fake it and really just lying there pretending a bloke is some sex God wasn't worth the effort. I often discouraged oral sex quite regularly. As a woman I often wondered whether my pussy was pretty enough. I often wondered was I clean enough, did I smell, despite being OCD about personal hygiene.... once those thoughts manifested themselves in my mind, I couldn't relax and enjoy oral sex. What has enabled me to overcome this ... having a gorgeous man appreciate my pussy (with words and actions lol) ... being able to sexily discuss or be asked what I like .... listening to my sounds and body and using the clues to guide his action .... bliss :) Ask her OP ... if not directly, maybe watch some porn with her ... discuss what you see ... discuss if she'd like to try something of what you've watched :) Good luck Mary xx

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I have awesome tongue I'm told ... gals have multiple orgasms and love making them cum and hearing them njoy it!!! Any ladies in Canberra or don't mind travelling to Sydney and/or Melbourne 🖒😁😎 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Mischeviouslad

  7 years ago

  There are always guys who can't help but use topics like this to sell there wares 🙄 Pommy, you play a big part here. If she doesn't, it's not necessarily because she won't.... but likely because you need to inspire her. Verbalising to her IN the context of heightened sexual arousal... how you see her body responding to you, how she is making you and your body feel, and those things you want to do to her and have HER feel, may really help heighten the moment. Some call it dirty talk I just call it sexualised communication. Talk to her in a soft, deep Manly voice while stroking her, teasing her skin, reassuring her why she turns you on so much, and how much it excites you to observe her responses to yiu turning her on. Detail is important in this context while you are both highly aroused. Don't get caught in your head, at a time when you're meant to be focusing on eachothers body and pleasures Happy to discuss via PM if you'd rather. DG - Posted from rhpmobile

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