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Oral sex - optional extra ??
September 30 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe your table needs to talk a little quieter. Can't say its ever a conversation I've had over any meal.Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oral is a staple of the sexual diet. Sometimes it's a meal on it's own. Just ask Monica Lewinsky.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Meeka, I really hope your friend is wrong ... these people are really missing out :) Perhaps for some (definitely not all) much older couples (say, post 70s) who may have been raised in a era when anything other than straight intercourse may have been considered dirty or somehow kinky, but here is definitely one couple in our 40s and 50s who cannot get enough (and definitely don't consider ourselves old or conservative!)Agree with Jensman, sometimes a good oral session is just as satisfying on its own. And BTW, we often find ourselves chatting about intimate things in a restaurant or cafe and then suddenly realise the whole place has gone quiet ... whoops!!
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
Why that's just rude. As is eavesdropping.
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Oral is in our sex with our sex life or with another couple
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RHP User
12 years ago
Optional.....Hell no! Not in my life!
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RHP User
12 years ago
... bonking at brunch! ;-) I consider myself to be a bit vanilla Meeka but oral is definitely a part of every play. KK xx
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ruby_blossum
12 years ago
That is like a pie without sauce........or icecream with out crushed nuts....fish without chips...... I bet the table next to you listening in were vegetarians
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razor2000
12 years ago
How else are you supposed to wake her up in the morning?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' That is like a pie without sauce........or icecream with out crushed nuts....fish without chips...... I bet the table next to you listening in were vegetarians Dunno about the crushed nuts....sounds kinda painful!
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ruby_blossum
12 years ago
exchange the crushed nuts for sticky topping
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RHP User
12 years ago
....I think it's the first thing to go.
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RHP User
12 years ago
No matter what age you are! Oral sex should be a part of your play.. ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I only give head to get headSeriously I love to give a great blow job and love to go downn on a woman. Something definatley not to be missed for either partner.One of the worlds best pleasures.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am of the same age as the people you are talking about and I can't recall not giving oral since I was a kid...OOPS there was this one time but she was so horny and we were on the street against a garden fence, she said to go for it.. mmmm just thinking about that was fun. I am about as vanilla as they come and I just consider it normal to give oral but sometimes women aren't all that into giving it... Its great fun and I can check out her clit up close.. Mike
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RHP User
12 years ago
Personally I can't live without oral... giving, receiving and swallowing .But... I've spoken to lots of women who won't give oral or will only do it as a "treat" (birthday, Xmas etc) and even then they don't swallow or let the guy cum in their mouth.I believe that too many women over think sex. If they just jumped into it and let go of their inhibitions they may discover pleasures they never thought possible!As for men... I've had a couple of men who weren't that into it (giving that is). When they did make an attempt it was quite lame and clear they weren't enjoying themself. I'd rather no oral than bad oral !Hugs, Saturn
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RHP User
12 years ago
ha!ha! that was warped but true thanks for the laugh!! An answer to your question Ummmmmmmmmmm an Alarm Clock! wakeup call..Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! Meeka Thanks for the Topic :) Hun I was in a Loving Relationship for many years we both certainly enjoyed Oral..It's still enjoyed with My Partners equally be they Younger or over 40..It depends on the Couples Concerned.. However I think it sometimes isn't shared with sexual Intimacy for different reasons and age doesn't come into it then ..Their Ethic Background can be a Factor..Differing Sexual Needs between Partners.. Inexperience the thought makes them want to gag.. Their Relationship isn't in Harmony in other areas so they have sex as a chore get it over with as quick as Possible.. None of these are age restricted but I hope by the time they're Mature they won't be Inexperienced.. As I was typing this reply it reminded me of a True Story ..A Young Chinese Couple wanted desperately to have a child.So every Night they would do all they new to achieve this ..After a few disappointing Months of trying She still wasn't Pregnant.. They decided to see the Local Doctor to find out if all was in working order..The Doctor asked them what Positions they had tried so on .. They replied that every Night they go to bed, Lay beside eachother very still and thought the Vapours they gave off would cause her to become pregnant he!he!.. I'm not sure how the Doctor kept a straight face .However they went home did what the Doctor instructed..3 months Later she had conceived.. I'm Pretty sure at No time did Oral sex come into it ..Enjoy Lu :)
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razor2000
12 years ago
Glad I made you laugh madamdragonfly. As for clocks and wake up calls, we rely waaaaay to much on technology as it is. I like to apply the KISS methodology,both the acronym and the real version ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've met men who flat out refuse to go down on me, yet they expect me to give them head! How's about no Scott?! So rude. Oral is essential in my book!
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inspirit
12 years ago
is a given
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'wiccan_beltane' ....I think it's the first thing to go. I would definitely agree with that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' is a given and a taken.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well, would you say that a lot of people on RHP are not the average joe blow on the street? Would I get a different response if I went down to the church on Sunday and asked the same question? Although what about all those married dudes on here that rarely get sex let alone a head job from their wives and vice a versa. I think it is very sad. EVERYONE YOU HAVE TO SUCK MORE! WHETHER IT IS A COCK OR A CLIT.GO FORTH AND SUCK SUCK SUCK.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oral sex is just like milk to cereal, you must have it or otherwise it would taste right.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oral sex is definitely my favorite chocolate syrup to my vanilla ice cream... If I guy can't properly go down on me, he's out in my book. Also, I don't mind talking about oral sex over meals. We were talking about cock over steak dinner overlooking Terrigal tonight. Makes my meal more scrumptious in my opinion. :)
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Lifes_great
12 years ago
Than eatin' in that diner! I'm sure the couple next to you will be eating there everyday waiting for you to return to give them the next instalment. Quoting 'wiccan_beltane' ....I think it's the first thing to go. Definitely agree with this one! Well I'll take your advice Meeks....go forth I shall
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me, I am seriously not sure I could be with a girl long term who didn't like me going down on her. It's my favourite part of foreplay and there needs to be lots of it.....like kissing. I was talking too fairly vanilla friend recently and she reckoned that in conversations with lots of her girlfriends, the man who genuinely enjoys going down on a woman is a rarity! I was stunned! I made no admissions, although I think she could tell I was in the camp that loves it from my reaction. But she reckoned that the number of men who really liked going down on a woman was small and the number that were any good at it was even smaller still. But she reckons all guys expect to get head. I and many others on RHP would seem to be a little weird! In an entirely good way though.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sometimes penetrative sex doesn't get a look in.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I know a few people who arent all that enthused about oral. ONe woman my age just doesnt like giving nor recieving A guy my age doesnt like giving A woman in her early 50's isnt all that fussed on it (but she will if necessary as she is coming to realise that it is more of the 'norm' now to perform oral, she figures she just needs practice and to see if she will enjoy it - but she will not under any circumstances allow a guy to orgasm in her mouth. So for some I know its is most definately an optional extra or not even on the table at all. For me I feel its an integral part of the session however if I am with someone who isnt all that into it I wont force the issue. I dont want my sexual partner at the time to feel uncomfortable in anyway. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Lifes_great' Than eatin' in that diner! I'm sure the couple next to you will be eating there everyday waiting for you to return to give them the next instalment. Quoting 'wiccan_beltane' ....I think it's the first thing to go. Definitely agree with this one! Well I'll take your advice Meeks....go forth I shall Lifes_great, the restaurant of choice was Onda. Spectacular view overlooking the beach/ocean, amazing food and fantastic cock conversation. Lol. Only if my favorite cock was there. ;) Yes, the couple nearby did listen in on our juicy or should I say hard conversation. Lol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would so love to be an observer when your down at the church asking those questions.Excuse me dear, but how often to do you blow your hubby.Priceless!Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
12 years ago
What the hell is wrong with the world! Sex without oral would just be plain boring and in my book RUDE!! Lol, I know exactly what you mean Meeka, I am very open with most of my friends, just last week I was telling my gf about my sex life, after apologising about my attention to detail, she responded with "Nothing you could say would shock me... after 20 years of friendship I have just about heard it all." I am fond of speaking candidly, I love to find out what makes people tick, I love to know peoples opinions on all things sex...
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RHP User
12 years ago
You would be surprised how many guys out there say no to eating pussy. or a quick lick and onto sex. We dont think that constitutes playing with others, its using others. We seem to expect any couple that swings are into oral.....but sadly
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love to give, receiving is good too but no one has ever finished me off with their mouth. I guess I'm missing out
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RHP User
12 years ago
Arent we lovers of Oral !!! Tell me a healthy relationship without Oral sex...It even got a run in the White House !!
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RHP User
12 years ago
in regards to oral sex I'd be inclined to think he doesn't like to go down there because he generally percieves it to be smelly or dirty (and generally they are NOT!), and that would leave me thinking how many other things he wouldn't want to engage in or try. If on the other hand he just doesn't know what he is doing or doesn't think he is all that good at it, I am more than happy to lend a hand and some pointers along the way. Nothing ventured nothing gained ;) I mean come on, experience tells me he's gonna want some oral action.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Miss_Saturn'Personally I can't live without oral... giving, receiving and swallowing . But... I've spoken to lots of women who won't give oral or will only do it as a "treat" (birthday, Xmas etc) and even then they don't swallow or let the guy cum in their mouth. I believe that too many women over think sex. If they just jumped into it and let go of their inhibitions they may discover pleasures they never thought possible! As for men... I've had a couple of men who weren't that into it (giving that is). When they did make an attempt it was quite lame and clear they weren't enjoying themself. I'd rather no oral than bad oral ! Hugs, Saturn Unfortunately my wife falls into that category. She hasn't done it for a while, quite frankly she never did it much anyway, she just doesn't like it (giving it to me that is). I love to go down on her, and 10/10 times she will climax from it but unfortunately it's just an issue that if I push it, she will just get the shits. Doesn't mean I still don't let her forget I enjoy receiving it too!!
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flimac
12 years ago
Well I dont know about the age group you and your friend were talking to, but I for a long time did not enjoy giving oral, liked receiving to a degree (I think the skill set of the boys in my early 20's was a little lacking) BUT then I had a brief but amazing relationship with a woman and now I LOVE receiving - although its hard to find someone as good as her As far as giving, took me a long time to enjoy it, but I think for me that was more about my lack of confidence in skills, then I met a guy that I really really wanted to please, so I googled and took tips from anywhere and everywhere, asked him how he liked it and now I love it! It really was about feeling confident in my ability to get a man off orally, and apparently that worked haha, Ive received some positive feedback so I must be doing something right!I have never really been with a guy that doesnt like it, and if I find one that doesnt he aint getting a second chance!
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