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Oral....meh
June 03 2014
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Mr_MrsAraps
11 years ago
LD, You know your body and what gets you off and if thats not oral then thats totally okay. Rough statistics are 75% of women need clitoral stimulation in addition to penetration but that still leaves 25% who can. Only thing I would say is its going to be hard if your paired with someone who really gets off on giving oral if your ho hum about receiving. Lets face it half the reason why guys get off so much on giving oral is cause of the way it makes their partners feel and orgasm (well for me anyway). Cheers , W.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Araps' Only thing I would say is its going to be hard if your paired with someone who really gets off on giving oral if your ho hum about receiving. Lets face it half the reason why guys get off so much on giving oral is cause of the way it makes their partners feel and orgasm (well for me anyway). Cheers , W. but as long as they throw some penetration in there as well I'm happy. I'm just not one of those women that needs or wants a guy to spend ages on oral, but if he needs to do that for his own pleasure then yeah I'm probably not the woman for him.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Those who have been giving you oral...... have they not been including the stimulation from fingers as well? And if not... why not?!!! A mouth can only do so much DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Those who have been giving you oral...... have they not been including the stimulation from fingers as well? they do but it often takes a little 'encouragement' from me to get them to start with the penetration.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can i have a crack at it ? :-/) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
It would be a boring world if we were all the same!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I used to cum from oral, but have not in a long long time (I know it's me not my hubby cause he used to make me cum & it has been the same with FWB). Some times I still enjoy it & others it's just OK. Same with fingers though, I had not cum for many many years, but that did change with a new FWB a couple of months ago. Oral does seem to be making a bit of a cum back with my body, but not sure I will cum any time soon from it. My nipples went off line for awhile, but I am very pleased they are back. It just seems the body likes to change what it likes lol I'd say go with what ever feels good, but give other things a try once in awhile to see if your body went & changed on you.
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Missb4u
11 years ago
Is a waste of time in my book. They are what I call token lickers. I don't want just a tongue on my clit cause that does nothing for me either. Oral to me includes the use of lips, fingers, nose, chin, dildo, hell even a mars bar.... Have experienced both good and bad. The good ones are hard to find though. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
69er. I find my wife will come 100% of the time whilst she is doin' the tango on me at the same time.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Mado Tara xx
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Chillihoney
11 years ago
My clit is sooo super sensitive... the simple feelling of warm breath on my clit and then inhaling my scent (prior to any touch what-so-ever) makes my clit pulse and grow... The incredibly gentle touch of moist lips with a soft relaxed wet tongue simply resting to the side of my clit makes me gush with wetness. I won't date a guy if he doesn't love going down....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not having female anatomy, I can only comment as a giver / observer / feeler. Most of my friends have enjoyed this. The Active Shocker Fingers curl for G Spot Massage. The Passive Shocker Pinky, one joint, maybe two, is there for some anus / short rectum stimulation and for clamping down on. Generally, the anus / rectum muscles tell the truth. We can all fake orgasms, male and female, vocally and emotionally, but when your partner's finger is inside your rectum, mine or hers, and you cum, you clamp, and clamp, and clamp, and they know it's been good.
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
I'm a bit the same way, I defiantly prefer penetration over oral..don't get me wrong it feels nice but I don't need it.....and have not had an orgasm from oral alone......💋 What Miss B said......😍😍.....yep that would do it for me.....💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
I come from Oral.... No fingers required
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't feel the same. Lucky you. I like oral. I like giving and receiving. For me it is a deal breaker! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is that a mars bar in ya mouth,or are you just. pleased to see me:-) :-) xx Q
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tamworthguy46
11 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2' Is that a mars bar in ya mouth,or are you just. pleased to see me:-) :-) xx Q Yes a Mars a day Helps you work best and play, and fits nicely in a pussy !
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madotara69
11 years ago
The red bull gives Tara wings. We have a kit, especially accumulated for just such creative moments. She does not get off so lightly.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just wondering if there are any underlying issues like being brought up being told it is dirty, some women are embarrassed by the smell or consistency thinking it is just them, think men don't enjoy it? I am not saying this is the case for you personally but it may be the case for many other other women reading this and food for thought. Everyone is different and some guys may think they are lucky not having to do it as some women don't like to suck cock either. I get off via the clit easier than the g-spot and as Araps said, a huge majority of women need that stimulation. I wish I could easily cum via the g-spot :(
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' Is a waste of time in my book. They are what I call token lickers. I don't want just a tongue on my clit cause that does nothing for me either. Oral to me includes the use of lips, fingers, nose, chin, dildo, hell even a mars bar.... Have experienced both good and bad. The good ones are hard to find though. - Posted from rhpmobile I love a man who knows how to use his whole face!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have only had 1 orgasm from cunnilingus once, and I was surprised the door was not beaten down with rescuers as I was screaming so loudly. I still like to have it but I don't expect rockets now. I get that from intercourse. Today was a good example. Score: me 20 him 1.
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' Just wondering if there are any underlying issues like being brought up being told it is dirty, some women are embarrassed by the smell or consistency thinking it is just them, think men don't enjoy it? I am not saying this is the case for you personally but it may be the case for many other other women reading this and food for thought. Everyone is different and some guys may think they are lucky not having to do it as some women don't like to suck cock either. I get off via the clit easier than the g-spot and as Araps said, a huge majority of women need that stimulation. I wish I could easily cum via the g-spot :( You make a valid point about some women considering oral to be 'dirty' and being ashamed of having guys go down there for various reasons, I have read stories from women who feel that way either because of their upbringing or because of something an ignorant guy has said to them (I watched a video just yesterday of some women who were looking at their vaginas for the very first time; one of the women hadn't ever looked at hers because the first guy she was with had told her it was disgusting and he never wanted to see her again). For me personally though that has never been a contributing factor, I've never had any negative feedback from a guy or had any fear of having a guy go down there. When I posted before about the fact that clitoral stimulation alone doesn't really do it for me, I mentioned that I started masturbating pretty late, well after I started having sex. By then I was already associating penetration with the most pleasure so when I masturbated I always incorporated penetration. Whether I was always hard-wired to not be very clitorally stimulated, or whether it was something I 'trained' myself into I don't know. I can give myself a G spot orgasm pretty easily as well.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You gotta get Creative . Women seem a bit jaded by Guy's inept efforts . Chair legs , blow-driers , alarm clocks ... The bedroom is full of stuff you can use . I like to use tongue and fingers but I also use my nose ;) GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Even though I had a strict moral upbringing, I started masturbating at 8 and reached my first orgasm at 12 through clitoral stimulation alone. Now I can rarely cum like that without penetration or through just penetration alone. I was a virgin till I was 26, and never received oral till I was 40 and I knew I didn't need it to reach orgasm so it wasn't a big deal. But, like everything, you always want what you can't have. So I did want it in my years of marriage (it was considered "dirty"), and received my first oral when I joined RHP - a full 5 seconds of it. Woohoo!!! And some wouldn't even go there when I specifically asked and they confirmed they loved it blah blah blah WTF?! (I always loved giving, don't get me wrong.) Well, my first oral experiences weren't the mindblowing experiences I'd read about or seen at all. They were disappointing and left me more frustrated! So, unless he knows what he's doing and enjoys it, I'd rather go without. But since meeting my current lover, I've not spent a day with him without his face between my thighs, and to have a lover who enjoys devouring me so much is the biggest turn on and I do wish for it more :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Yes I'm sure for some women, you have hit the nail on the head, but not the case with me. I don't have a problem with a man going down to my pussy and tasting me, I think I taste pretty good, so I don't see why a man wouldn't like it. I can cum with just clit stimulation (bullets, masturbation, vibs etc) and also have no problem with cumming from g-stop stimulation. But I have never had the pleasure of having cum from someone's tongue or mouth alone......💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Nothing better then giving oral whilst I fuck her with dildo ;),, yet to try it with a couple no dildo but real cock while I suck hard on her clit...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Love to give, but doesn't do much for me receiving. I like the idea of it but ive never came from it. though many have tried even some that claim to be great at it.. I guess its just me then? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
wow , id say if you have never had an orgasm from oral alone , he's been doing it all wrong !! just sayin
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RHP User
11 years ago
oh and don't get me started on making u squirt for the first time either !!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hate hard chocolate and always trying ways to heat it up a bit before I eat it .. But now I know where to put all my mars bars/chocolate bars to warm them up haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'squirtforme69' wow , id say if you have never had an orgasm from oral alone , he's been doing it all wrong !! just sayin I've had sex with more than one man. So, 40+ men have been doing it wrong? Hmm, but I'm sure you're different As for squirting, I don't know why you've assumed that I never have. I gave myself my first squirting orgasm quite awhile ago and have had many more since then.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'rodneyboy1' Love to give, but doesn't do much for me receiving. I like the idea of it but ive never came from it. though many have tried even some that claim to be great at it.. I guess its just me then? - Posted from rhpmobile A lot of men have trouble cumming via oral, it can be due to various reasons. You're not alone.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Last time I heard that, I gave the young man a chance to prove himself. He said he was able to make EVERY woman he'd been with (and he'd been with over a dozen) cum from his tongue skills. He left me with tail between his legs, not to mention a very dented ego. He wasn't the first either. No two women are the same. Some can cum easily from a vibe. I can't and find them useless, but if my lover hums on my pussy while he's licking me from behind, that usually sets me off :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Using clit stimulators can desensitise you too. Many women come in updating their toys because the old ones aren't doing the job any more. If an intense buzzing toy can't cut it, a man has almost no hope.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I get no clit stimulation either !
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RHP User
11 years ago
Do guys not realise that just sucking clit is like a woman only sucking the head of their cocks??? It's nice and all....but true stimulation is a 3D world ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' Using clit stimulators can desensitise you too. Many women come in updating their toys because the old ones aren't doing the job any more. If an intense buzzing toy can't cut it, a man has almost no hope. I've heard of this as well. I've never even owned a toy that is specifically for clit stimulation, it would never get used.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'tulips4u' Last time I heard that, I gave the young man a chance to prove himself. He said he was able to make EVERY woman he'd been with (and he'd been with over a dozen) cum from his tongue skills. He left me with tail between his legs, not to mention a very dented ego. He wasn't the first either. I've had similar experiences. Guys who brag about making every women they sleep with squirt for the first time, and then do nothing for me except make me bleed with their roughness. I avoid guys whose profiles specifically go on about squirting (and I've noticed there's a few of them).
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry tulips, just realised you were talking about cumming from oral, not about squirting
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tamworthguy46
11 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' Using clit stimulators can desensitise you too. Many women come in updating their toys because the old ones aren't doing the job any more. If an intense buzzing toy can't cut it, a man has almost no hope. Yes I can relate to that, Women that are regular toy users, are so much harder to get there than the ones that aren't ......Ralf is right again .....some you probably have no chance, apart from introducing a toy to the play that is, anyway, you do what you got to do !
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RHP User
11 years ago
... is all part of the fun. sometimes, its all the fun for the men, but just the appetiser for me. L
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PL1963
11 years ago
My Ex liked oral, but it wasn't the be all of end all, but one nite when she was very horny she bent over the couch, & I just licked her till she shuddered & collapsed. I asked her about it & she just said "it was right @ the time". I think a combination of oral, G-spot stimulation & then penertration and/or even toys is the answer, but it depends on the lady on the nite, I try to look for guidance, thrusting, moaning, facial expressions & communication. Nobody has all the answers to every nite with every person, I now have a very sexually open FWB lady, we are going well, but I have urged her to tell me what she likes, she is a little "addicted" to vibes, by her own admission from being single & not having sex for 2yrs. I plan to bring that into our "playtime" as satisfaction for both of us is the "key" to a future of mutual satisfaction. Cheers PL.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It should all be part of the erotic experience.... Really, any guy who is giving oral by using ONLY his tongue for more than the first minute or so really doesn't have much of a clue. There's so much more to pleasing your lady orally than just licking her clit for a few minutes and hoping for the best. Sadly for a lot of ladies, that is the only reality they know. But 40+ guys doing it wrong? Mmm, possibly... From talking to my friends and colleagues and from discussions with lovers about ex partners, most guys really don't have a clue. But the same goes for blow jobs! My own experience is that probably 80% of ladies either refuse to do it all together, or are REALLY crap at giving head. I mean, having a lady put her mouth over your knob and bob up and down a few times is hardly going to get most guys off. But find a lady who enjoys giving head and is good at it, and it will blow you mind! Giving (and receiving) oral should be part of the sensual journey... I like to start with a sexy massage, then lots of kissing, nibbling, sucking, licking, blowing and biting as you slowly work your way down, exploring every square inch as you go. If your lady is into it, you can feel the warmth and wetness radiating from her pussy before your mouth even gets near. Build the tension by kissing and licking her thighs and all around her pussy. Blow gently onto her pussy as you move from one side to the other. I've had ladies so turned on, they almost exploded the instant my tongue finally touched their clit. Vary the pressure and intensity and alternate between licking and sucking her clit and working all of her pussy and if she likes it, bum too. Get in there boys and mix it up a bit! Lips, nose, tongue and even chin, and if you've got a beard or mo, put 'um to good use too! You'll soon tell from her reaction what is working and what isn't.You can easily slide a hand under your chin and work her G spot with 1 or 2 fingers while you continue to work magic with your tongue . Again, vary the speed and intensity an see what works best. If she's into it (and she'll soon let you know if she's not, a finger or a thumb in the bum can really speed things along. If your tongue and jaw start to get too tired, tag team with a vib in her clit for a few minutes while continue to massage her G spot. Switch it around a bit and try different combinations Sometimes I'll take a break mid shag and go down again just to keep things moving, or the finish of and get her over the edge one more time... Sometimes a lady just mightn't be in the mood, but then it usually wouldn't make it to the bedroom anyway. Come on guys, variety is the key. Get in give it a go – your lady will love you for it!Remember, a man standing in a paddock blowing a trumpet does not make him an orchestra, no matter how long or hard he blows it! Rocky
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Quoting 'tamworthguy46' Quoting 'ralf74' Using clit stimulators can desensitise you too. Many women come in updating their toys because the old ones aren't doing the job any more. If an intense buzzing toy can't cut it, a man has almost no hope......Ralf is right again .....some you probably have no chance, apart from introducing a toy to the play that is, anyway, you do what you got to do ! ... (Edited to leave the relevant bits) I disagree.... Ask those women who 'need' a toy if they've ever enjoyed orgasm in their sleep. Those who say yes...... they don't "need" the toy.... they're just used to training themselves to respond that way. DG
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Yes, I agree with you to a point, I for one am not one of the many women that struggle...... I don't need a toys and have no problems at all in achieving orgasm with my own hand without penetration or the the hand of a man. I don't believe it takes me long at all to achieve an orgasm and continue to have multiple orgasms if done correctly. But I'm sure there are quite a few women out there that do indeed have that exact problem.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'tamworthguy46' Quoting 'ralf74' Using clit stimulators can desensitise you too. Many women come in updating their toys because the old ones aren't doing the job any more. If an intense buzzing toy can't cut it, a man has almost no hope......Ralf is right again .....some you probably have no chance, apart from introducing a toy to the play that is, anyway, you do what you got to do ! ... (Edited to leave the relevant bits) I disagree.... Ask those women who 'need' a toy if they've ever enjoyed orgasm in their sleep. Those who say yes...... they don't "need" the toy.... they're just used to training themselves to respond that way. DG I have a clitoris (being a woman and all) and after years of using toys it is desensitized. I can still cum but it requires a lot more effort as has also been reported to me by quite a few of my customers. On the other hand some women can't stand the vibration as it is too intense because they are very sensitive. Some rare people have involuntary orgasms too, an exhausting condition to have. I don't 'need' a toy but I haven't found a guy happy to spend the time down there to make it happen, (well there was one) and if I had a man that was happy to please and stick around then I would kick the toys to the curb and hopefully get some sensitivity back but I am not going orgasmless when I don't have to. If I was asleep, I wouldn't know it happened anyway and am unaware if I have ever cum in my sleep. I have been aroused and woken, but have never woken thinking, shit, I just had an orgasm, wooo hooo.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I thought I was the only one who needed some other form of stimulation and penetration to cum! Its like my body is a little greedy and wants it all before it will give it up and bust out with a awesome bi or trigasm. I can't cum from just oral alone, like you I need fingers in either hole to get me there. At first I was a bit ashamed as it seems much harder for me to come then others, able and up until I met Mr nootnoot I was only able to get myself off via clit stimulation...NOW I can bi and tri-gasm but there always needs to be 2 forms of stimulation. Either anal or vag with something stimulating my clit. On a very rare occasion I can come with just penetration alone.Loving my new found love for anything anal too, can't believe I hadn't realised sooner the insane orgasms I can get from anything anal! Phew glad's its not just me! Ms Nootnoot
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RHP User
11 years ago
DG I thought that is what they said? That is they have trained themselves to respond to certain things, positions, toys, etc. Although have to say....... I have never used anything that buzzes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm a fan of both giving and receiving, i like nothing better then to look up and see a woman arch back as I tend to her with my mouth....and guys you have to admit who isn't a fan of a lady looking up at you while she takes you all in! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'nootnoot' Loving my new found love for anything anal too, can't believe I hadn't realised sooner the insane orgasms I can get from anything anal! I've been surprised at the intense orgasms I've had from anal as well!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Rockyrhodes65' Really, any guy who is giving oral by using ONLY his tongue for more than the first minute or so really doesn't have much of a clue. Rocky That is how I prefer it! Fingers etc are just a distraction. Just give me a talented tongue any time!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Each to their own. Some might prefer the sound of a lone trumpet... Me, I'm more of a kind of Jazz Quartet kinda guy myself.Then, maybe it's just me?
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RHP User
11 years ago
A woman and I had this same conversation this morning, both of us love going down on a woman , we've both met some who don't like it but , I love it, I could do it all day if i could. Don't get me wrong penetration is amazing and the way to go but just my mouth on a wet pussy just gets me all tingly just thinking about it.
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desade69
11 years ago
I love giving oral to the extend I get lost in it and everything about it. I can actually cum just from going down on a partner. - Posted from rhpmobile
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nibblemebi
11 years ago
reading about all these women who cannot/haven't come from oral alone. You really do not know what you are missing out on, those insane orgasms derived from it are the type that are much more than a Mars Bar..they are so satisfying they are like a Snickers ;) I feel like I have been well fed after an oral 'clit-come" I'm not sure if I have been lucky, or have communicated what turns me on with my partners well enough to have only ever had one partner unable to do it. That was more of a time thing though. Stamina, good body reading skills and a talented technique will get you over the line EVERYTIME. Even times when I was certain it wouldn't/couldn't happen it did. I think this post has convinced me to switch up my career into the Sex Therapy field. Too many people are missing out!
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madotara69
11 years ago
I've also posted this before, that Tara cums so easily from clitoral stimulation, like a little rocket and in little time at that, so when it comes to oral, unless I spend time concentrating all but the clit she just can't help cumming which leaves her too sensative for quite some time for carrying on with things. Which has led me to become a student for discovering how to search for other stimulation, so over the years I studied as much that I could find about the vagina and whatever techniques for stimulating the different groups of nerve endings. Truth is it is always a little awkward in the beginning as there is a certain level for dynamics with touch and feel that only makes sense when passion speaks for the success. Twenty years of searching for the answers by Tara as my willing subject has indeed led too some amazing experiences and somewhat never the same way twice. The thing is, it is quite the opposite reasons that have led to what it seems both you and Tara like so very, very much. The moral of this little story is that what is most important, is still yet to be discovered and after spending so much time for this, we still find new ways for finding the heights for intensity no matter which order it may be searched. There is so many ways a woman can cum, the more the merrier. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I hope this isn't a common malaise. I LOVE burying my face in a woman! Can happily drink from that well of eternal life forever!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Different strokes for different folks, According to research (lies, damn lies and statistics) many women need stimulation of more than one errogenous zone to orgasm - so just clitoral stimulation won't 'do it' for some. So penetration where you are kissing, or being caressed in addition to vaginal stimulation may work when just clitoral stimulation does not. My experience/opinion is without engaging the little grey cells at least subconsciously or deliberately, you ain't going to see stars anyway - hence why it will work with some people, but not with others. I think it's also possible to get bored with same-old, same-old and hence people need a change some times. I couldn't't conceive of always having sex exactly the same way - I have trouble coming or even getting interested enough for penetration if it's always exactly the same.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've had so many offers of untiring oral from men in my time on RHP. It doesn't impress me, I must say. I can take it or leave it and only found one man who could make me orgasm through oral sex. Most guys just aren't patient enough...or maybe it's me, since I'd much rather be fucked any time of the day or night.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'classywicked' 69er. I find my wife will come 100% of the time whilst she is doin' the tango on me at the same time. I love a good 69 but have never cum during one.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'boobs4playing' reading about all these women who cannot/haven't come from oral alone. You really do not know what you are missing out on, those insane orgasms derived from it are the type that are much more than a Mars Bar..they are so satisfying they are like a Snickers ;) I feel like I have been well fed after an oral 'clit-come" I'm not sure if I have been lucky, or have communicated what turns me on with my partners well enough to have only ever had one partner unable to do it. That was more of a time thing though. Stamina, good body reading skills and a talented technique will get you over the line EVERYTIME. Even times when I was certain it wouldn't/couldn't happen it did. I think this post has convinced me to switch up my career into the Sex Therapy field. Too many people are missing out! You have absolutely no reason to feel sad for me or to insinuate that there is something wrong with me or any other woman who doesn't cum just from clitoral stimulation. And if you have that attitude you would be a pretty shitty sex therapist, because a good one recognises that people are wired differently and get off from different things, and your own personal preferences don't translate to everyone else. I'm not missing out on anything, I still have plenty of orgasms and I am very g spot sensitive which I see as a pretty good trade off for not being clit-driven. I have had clitoral orgasms through masturbation and they pale in comparison with the intensity of the ones I have from g spot and mixed stimulation. So why would I want to have only half the pleasure? If you ask me the problem is that there is too much focus on the clit as being the be-all and end-all for women's pleasure and that is something that needs to change.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can also have orgasms purely via penetration which a lot of women can't. Missing out am I, hmm...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Simplelife123' A woman and I had this same conversation this morning, both of us love going down on a woman , we've both met some who don't like it but , I love it, I could do it all day if i could. Don't get me wrong penetration is amazing and the way to go but just my mouth on a wet pussy just gets me all tingly just thinking about it. but this thread is about how other women feel about receiving oral, not how men feel about giving it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Rick_Blaine' I hope this isn't a common malaise. I LOVE burying my face in a woman! Can happily drink from that well of eternal life forever! But once again, my topic is aimed at women, or men who can contribute something that actually addresses the subject. There are plenty of other threads for you guys to wax lyrical about how much you love drinking from the 'well of eternal life', so guys go to those ones if that's all you are contributing to the discussion. These sorts of comments also tell me that you seem to be more concerned with your own pleasure than with mixing things up to cater to the preferences of the woman you are with.
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RHP User
11 years ago
that I didn't say I don't like any oral. My point was that oral which focuses only on my clit doesn't do it for me. I'm quite happy for a guy to go down there if he's prepared to mix it up a bit, and use his fingers, a toy etc. as well. If not and he's only going to use his mouth and suck / lick my clit then he might as well not bother, because all that will do is bore me. It seems some people are having trouble understanding my point here.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' I can also have orgasms purely via penetration which a lot of women can't. Missing out am I, hmm... Sad to say I have never had one. Wish I could!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Only 1 in 4 or 1 in 5 depending on whether you follow Kinsey's research or Masters and Johnson's can orgasm solely from intercourse, or foreplay followed by intercourse. I know a lady who can cum, and cum, cum from oral. Cannot from intercourse, even though she loves it. Not once. Not on top, not underneath, not reverse cowgirl, doggie, Kama Sutra, tantric. She's tried - believed she was having orgasms most of her married life until she had one from cunnilingus. Then she realised, no she wasn't! I've also been told there are 'g-spot' 'clitoris' and 'intercourse' orgasms according to another friend of mine. And they all feel different. So there are lots of people - it's like, it is sometimes incredibly hard for me to cum from oral. Other times, not so. And sometimes, I cannot cum from intercourse. No matter how much I want to, I keep my erection, I am getting really nice feelings in my knob and brain. I've only met one woman who couldn't cum from oral and she had an operation meaning she did not lubricate and also was on Fenergin for a replaced knee due to a bike accident. She required a lot of very firm stimulation from toys. So what does it mean? Everyone is different. I always think, focus on the other person, and let my orgasm take care of itself.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree with your comment Araps. Most men including myself enjoy giving oral as long as your partner wants it and enjoys it, no point doing it if there is no reaction. I've always like most men I suppose involve it as part of for play. What I do want to know though is where you obtain your figures from. A reference would be good so people don't think your just plucking numbers from your arse.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are you saying you have never had an orgasm? Or never had an orgasm purely from penetration.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'cbr600rr' Are you saying you have never had an orgasm? Or never had an orgasm purely from penetration. I think you need to read the topic and the responses again.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'TalkingMark' Only 1 in 4 or 1 in 5 depending on whether you follow Kinsey's research or Masters and Johnson's can orgasm solely from intercourse, or foreplay followed by intercourse. But I can orgasm solely from intercourse, which would put me in the minority in that respect.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'desade69' I love giving oral to the extend I get lost in it and everything about it. I can actually cum just from going down on a partner. - Posted from rhpmobile Guys, please, I'm not interested in hearing about how you can spend days eating a woman out. Go to one of the billion other threads on that topic to talk about it (I notice another one has popped up today, so make that a billion and one ).
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' I can also have orgasms purely via penetration which a lot of women can't. Missing out am I, hmm... Show off.
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madotara69
11 years ago
I am pretty sure the g spot is the underside of the clitoris..........................
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Luckdragon23' I can also have orgasms purely via penetration which a lot of women can't. Missing out am I, hmm... Show off. I know that came off as bragging, which I don't normally do. But I was getting a bit pissed with the people who seem to think I'm missing out on something, or that there is something wrong with me because I don't cum from clit stimulation alone during oral, or because I don't need a guy to spend hours down there when the common trope is 'women want oral for hours' so that's what every man thinks that every woman wants (just look at the effort put into bragging about oral skills by some of the men around here, each one trying to outdo the other with how much they love it and how long they will spend doing it). I suppose this also reflects the extent that the clit is treated and viewed as the pinnacle of women's sexual pleasure, and it's difficult for some people - both male and female - to imagine that there are some women who just don't get a great deal from clitoral stimulation alone. I tried to point out how in my case there seems to be that trade-off, and I can orgasm quite easily and with much more intensity in other ways (with the right stimulation of course).
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RHP User
11 years ago
Luckdragon you can get off your high horse anytime you like and take your own advise and find another thread to comment on. Oh yeah you already have. Haha. Everyone is on here to place their own opinion not just listen to yours. If you don't like my comment, then don't be so negative to others who offer theirs or who want clarification or facts.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What I've learned from the guys (and the odd gal) is that any woman not having earth shattering clitoral orgasms: 1. is not in tune with her body, 2. doesn't communicate what she wants properly and 3. hasn't met the right guy yet. I feel enlightened! :-D
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'cbr600rr' Luckdragon you can get off your high horse anytime you like and take your own advise and find another thread to comment on. Oh yeah you already have. Haha. Everyone is on here to place their own opinion not just listen to yours. If you don't like my comment, then don't be so negative to others who offer theirs or who want clarification or facts. Perhaps you are new here, so I'll give you the benefit of the doubt by explaining a couple things. Firstly, this is my thread, so if people are continuously making comments that are off topic then I am well within my right to tell them to post on another thread or create their own. And no, I actually don't have to listen to their opinion if it has nothing to do with the topic I posted. Not posting off-topic comments is basic forum etiquette. And it is also good forum etiquette to read the topic and other replies properly before posting your comment or question. If you had done that it would have been very clear to you what was said and you wouldn't have had to ask a redundant question. Different story if it had been something ambiguous that did need clarification, but I'm not here to spoon-feed people information that has already been clearly presented, just because they can't be bothered reading things properly. Have a nice day
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you had bothered to read my initial question it was aimed at araps not you. So that is where your confusion starts miss. I was mearly trying to clarify the content of his information other wise the person being you in this case is being misled and I'll informed. So pardon me for trying to contribute to an open forum which you started and obviously wanted answers to. If I had known this was for those select people that have obviously been here for a while then I wouldn't have bothered to contribute. By the way I'm not new to RHP I just don't normally get involved in forums and the way you have conversed with me here it is unlikely I would want do bother again if your involved. Now you and your non stimulating clitoris have a nice day ;-)
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Mr_MrsAraps
11 years ago
I have heard it from a number of sources but .....2 seconds worth of effort on google ..... https://www.google.com.au/webhp?sa=N&hl=en&tab=lw&gws_rd=ssl#hl=en&q=percentage+of+women+who+can%27t+orgasm+from+penetration+alone&spell=1
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you can cum, you can cum. It is up to you whether you enjoy, or merely endure oral sex if your partner likes it - you have the choice. Given most women would seem to want what you have, you are fortunate indeed. Don't cum the oral way, and not fussed, well that's purely up to you. Doesn't mean anything is wrong with you at all. Quite the contrary. Again, people are different and the most important thing is you can share one way or the other with someone. A more interesting conjecture, is why some women can and others cannot. And can those who cannot, learn to or acquire - if they wish. Is there a mental/psychological component, undoubtedly. Is it a facet of attraction, pure 'size', angle of the dangle or some other unknown factor. Mother Nature it seemed was unkind - intercourse applies pressure, wetness and warmth to a man's knob, ridge and shaft in a way calculated to bring him off - while not to the vulva and clit. Making women wait on orgasm possibly is nature's way of ensuring pregnancy, I guess. So caring partners I guess offer tongue and fingers.
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jensta
11 years ago
Lick it = Multi Orgasms
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love receiving oral. I like my chock being ducked and I really like it when they play with my balls. Gives me so muck pleasure - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
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nibblemebi
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'boobs4playing' reading about all these women who cannot/haven't come from oral alone. You really do not know what you are missing out on, those insane orgasms derived from it are the type that are much more than a Mars Bar..they are so satisfying they are like a Snickers ;) I feel like I have been well fed after an oral 'clit-come" I'm not sure if I have been lucky, or have communicated what turns me on with my partners well enough to have only ever had one partner unable to do it. That was more of a time thing though. Stamina, good body reading skills and a talented technique will get you over the line EVERYTIME. Even times when I was certain it wouldn't/couldn't happen it did. I think this post has convinced me to switch up my career into the Sex Therapy field. Too many people are missing out! You have absolutely no reason to feel sad for me or to insinuate that there is something wrong with me or any other woman who doesn't cum just from clitoral stimulation. And if you have that attitude you would be a pretty shitty sex therapist, because a good one recognises that people are wired differently and get off from different things, and your own personal preferences don't translate to everyone else. I'm not missing out on anything, I still have plenty of orgasms and I am very g spot sensitive which I see as a pretty good trade off for not being clit-driven. I have had clitoral orgasms through masturbation and they pale in comparison with the intensity of the ones I have from g spot and mixed stimulation. So why would I want to have only half the pleasure? If you ask me the problem is that there is too much focus on the clit as being the be-all and end-all for women's pleasure and that is something that needs to change. Ms Luck, I feel you have taken things the wrong way and put 'words in my mouth' which is unnecessary and unkind. Your reply is somewhat bashing in nature. I do realise that tone can be hard to tell in text so I'll overlook this is part, but I do wish to clarify. My post was from an empathetic place, I wish for all women to be able to enjoy as much as possible when it comes to sex. I wish I could share the joy, so to speak. Is this the wrong way to feel? I did not once insinuate or infer that there was anything wrong with you, or others like you at all. Not sure how you arrived at that conclusion? I do understand that women and men are wired differently, as well as having different turn ons and offs. I also agree that ONLY focusing on the clit can impede the orgasm also, as does the inability to relax among other things. There are so many variables to it, however I stand by my assertion that with the right approach it is possible to have a clitoral orgasm without penetration as a side dish. But only if done in a tailored technique to the individual. If it's not something that you think you'd like, that's your prerogative and totally fine, but please allow me my personal opinion in the matter without feeling the need to berate me for it. RespectfullyB4P
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RHP User
11 years ago
Nothing better to eat and be eaten if done properly - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's not uncommon amongst women to fake orgasm with new partners who give oral sex . I see women moaning like porn stars at clubs with guys no where near their clits . This is especially relevant in one night only encounters! Women are complex with orgasms and sometimes just one thing can throw it out the window . I am a mature fairly experienced women, and I can tell you this , MOST men love oral sex but very VERY few are any good at it unless they have time and communication with the lady . It feels great to me ,love a ravenous man , I love the visual and sensations , but your not going to make me cum like that unless you know me well . ANYONE can make me squirt - squirting to me is a little like a party trick , sometimes feels amazing but mostly it's just a physical response. Clit orgasms happen for me during sec when I take matters into my own hands while being fucked doggy style.......or if you are my hubby taking his time on a Sunday morning lazing around licking my pussy like a god :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'DeliciousCurves' It's not uncommon amongst women to fake orgasm with new partners who give oral sex . I see women moaning like porn stars at clubs with guys no where near their clits . This is especially relevant in one night only encounters! Women are complex with orgasms and sometimes just one thing can throw it out the window . I am a mature fairly experienced women, and I can tell you this , MOST men love oral sex but very VERY few are any good at it unless they have time and communication with the lady . It feels great to me ,love a ravenous man , I love the visual and sensations , but your not going to make me cum like that unless you know me well . ANYONE can make me squirt - squirting to me is a little like a party trick , sometimes feels amazing but mostly it's just a physical response. I really like this post. Communication is really such a crucial element in this "game". Oral, because of its very intimate nature, is probably my most favoured part of erotic exchanges when things truly come together (no pun intended). But I would never assume that I'll just "naturally" do great things the first time around. There are so many variables and inclinations for each person, and I prefer to keep my ego out of the way.It's always a new beginning with a new partner, and only by real exchange can I develop the empathy for what makes them tick. Whether this is reading body language, or actual verbal dialogue (!) about what they like, it's nothing to shy away from. In fact, I think it's a real pleasure to be able to explore this type of intimate communication, rather than to go in with a "star performer" self-image! (Not that a different approach is any less valid!)
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RHP User
10 years ago
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RHP User
10 years ago
I definetly need penetration along with oral unless they are extremely skilled which a few have been and many have not :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I won't talk....I'll write it on post it's... You won't receive oral.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes I LOVE oral but like you do need some penetration (after a while) too from fingers, or TONGUE probing mmmm yuum!!! But usually I get to a point where I'm begging for full penetration. I'm one of the type who need both and then of course a little up the rear too really makes my day
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RHP User
10 years ago
Lots of good banter here common thread we all like different types of oral, Lots of options some pussy in cases harder to please than others,makes a great challenge xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I once had a partner who never had an orgasm by oral stimulation. So she didn't show much interest when I went down on her. But on my second go I asked her to relax and did my best, and she reached the top with a bit of a scream. So may be you just have to give it a go with a right guy!!!!However after her first go, that's all she wanted. cause she need to make up for all those years she missed out on :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Had this conversation with my sister the other day. She doesn't go much on oral, where as I need it. I need my partner to worship my pussy. I cum a lot more from oral than penetration. I thought my sister was weird. I guess she just needs penetration more than clitoral stimulation. I told her she just needs to find someone who can do it properly. That's defiantly a deal breaker for me too
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RHP User
10 years ago
When I was younger I'd always decline first time. I felt it was too intimate and I was usually gagging (for lack of better words) to be pumped. Now I'm more experienced and comfortable I accept it and I do enjoy it. I like having someone suck my clit mostly. I had a Belgian boy bite my lips recently and I just about passed out I was so turned on. I'd never had someone do that to me. He gets an extra special gold star next to his name! Anyhoo.... I've never come from head and do like to be digitally penetrated during. I'm sure I'm not the only girl who's thought while getting head 'if only you could fuck me at the same time!'.... That is the best. Still though, the closest I've come to getting off was when I practically masterbated on my partners three day stubble face! I should try that again maybe ;) Xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Once it was the only way i could cum, now I have to have penetration and clit stimulation... but it all depends on the angle, how the whole mood is going, it's a mess of confusion - everytime it's different. which kind of makes it exciting!
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Naughty_nature
10 years ago
Honestly don't believe I could be with someone more than a couple of times if they didnt cum from receiving oral the sensation and feeling of a woman cuming as I'm there is as satisfying in its on way as my own. All women are different and if its not for you there are still plenty of ways to have fun. - Posted from rhpmobile
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