M52
Order order in the forum!!
January 13 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
The Matriarch/Patriarch will always , in the end , be the RHP Moderators ... GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
I'll look after the fckn place Mado Tara can look after me .........back Got a nice peaceful thread going spectacularly smooth
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RHP User
11 years ago
are already RHP moderators who delete posts,sometimes parts of posts,punish naughty people eg take their instant posting away,wont let them post for awhile,in other words send them to the naughty corner.... do we really need anyone else?....by the way Ocean,this is why they call the forums the Sandpit...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes but if we all get sent to the sin bin I am sure we will get up to no good while we are there. I better wear my strapon for this job.
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RHP User
11 years ago
One reply and no fights...lol. I think the moderator should be one of my friends... so that I can get away with anything :)I think those responsible should have some time out... not quite the naughty corner... hp xoBecause you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
You will come to realise the forums go through cycles, and things will settle down again. Until the next spring tide of course.
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RHP User
11 years ago
There's enough regulatory bodies around already. Plus I find some of it funny and the ones that don't amuse me gets ignored.
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RHP User
11 years ago
that asked what the naughty corner looked like ... (i'll just sit here by myself and wait for the rest of you ) That's what I mean when I say the 'full moon' thing. That cyclical thing where angst breeds angst then we all calm down again. The disagreements more often than not come from simple misunderstandings of the intent of the written word. We usually all kiss and make up (the best bit), we learn something about ourselves and others and then we evolve - hopefully.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised' You will come to realise the forums go through cycles, and things will settle down again. Until the next spring tide of course. You are joking??? This is like nursery school. You should see the massive arguments and debates and name calling we used to have a few years ago. Until Nanny Moderator but her foot down and deleting anything that had even hint of anything controversial in it. All the old debaters are gone now. And anal fisting threads............ why do they always get deleted?
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RHP User
11 years ago
And although you may have recently lost some key players, don't underestimate the newbies. You never know who might decide to join in.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ok every body drop your pants whos got dirty undies? And whos not wearing any? I am free ballin today !! I'm glad im to fucken lazy to take nominations ppfftt!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is all that's really needed. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
11 years ago
sometimes I cringe at certain post and think "was that really necessary?" but hey in the end someone being a bit spiteful on a computer screen is not going to ruin my fun on here. We are all human and unique so there are bound to be disputes, differences of opinion and even angry words spoken sometimes. That happens in real life to. AND, its also a handy way to weed out the people that you think, well they seem ok on the surface but a few more posts and yowza out they come with something that just makes you go NEXT, cause they sure as hell aren't worth it. When it gets to much for me to take I disappear for a few days and remind myself to harden the fuck up.
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madotara69
11 years ago
She would smack your asss Well here's to hoping
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RHP User
11 years ago
How about you simply say what you want.... And if someone says something that you don't like... Bad fucking luck! - Posted from rhpmobile
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ruby_blossum
11 years ago
tis the way of the forums....lol Lots of princess & princes here (if the tiara fits) Not really sure what you are worried about big ocean, this if the quietest the forums have been for yonks. It is also an open forum....if I wanted anything remotely like Matriarch or Patriarch I would move home with my parents. The mods are called the mods for a reason. There always have been and always will be the "look at me's" the attention seekers" " the tantrum throwers" the easily offended, the ones who are to sensitive to be here, the prolific name changes, the disappears -reappears,the "I am your friend (while stabbing you in the back)....the control freaks, etc. They all make the forums what they are. If you dont like it, then dont let the door hit you in the arse on your way out....or as the saying used to be ....have a sip of the old concrete drink and harden the f*&k up. When playing in the sandpit, there will always be a few scrapes and bruised egos.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
@ the Author...... do I tell you when to change hands?! No So dont tell me how to be a wanker.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Geez this is nothing compared to a few years ago..play ball.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' tis the way of the forums....lol Lots of princess & princes here (if the tiara fits) Not really sure what you are worried about big ocean, this if the quietest the forums have been for yonks. It is also an open forum....if I wanted anything remotely like Matriarch or Patriarch I would move home with my parents. The mods are called the mods for a reason. There always have been and always will be the "look at me's" the attention seekers" " the tantrum throwers" the easily offended, the ones who are to sensitive to be here, the prolific name changes, the disappears -reappears,the "I am your friend (while stabbing you in the back)....the control freaks, etc. They all make the forums what they are. If you dont like it, then dont let the door hit you in the arse on your way out....or as the saying used to be ....have a sip of the old concrete drink and harden the f*&k up. When playing in the sandpit, there will always be a few scrapes and bruised egos. i might just have a sip of the old concrete drink,lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
I remember too Meeks wow there used to be some very heated hated discussions...LOL. So we cant offend anyone have a certain point of view......wowser. There are people who read the forums and never post........there are people who darent....and we have all over the years tried to coax more people to come and play. Why tell them if they do well they might be oppressed. This place has taught me a lot. I have read what I wanted. Written what I wanted. Written posts that have never made it past the mods. Bugger I was nearly free but am somehow pulled back again. If we get sanctioned.........we may as well pack our bags.........I know there are other things I could be doing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I vote that MischeviousLad be our Daddy.
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inspirit
11 years ago
I am with Ruby and Meeks on this one.. I love the banter and everything it encompasses. This is how ironic it is....a few years ago there was more shit shoveling and yet there were many more forum posters.... Go Figure.
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inspirit
11 years ago
suggestion denied.
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RHP User
11 years ago
EBliss.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We are as much moderators as the moderators themselves every time we report a post/thread, or person to RHP. That's all! Peachy... haha, I almost left out the h then
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I vote that MischeviousLad be our Daddy. You're gonna get a smack when I get home....... .... but only one..... coz youre greedy. HAHAHA
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RHP User
11 years ago
to tell me what to say or think....after a while you would only here one opinion. Come one Ocean you don't want this, or do you?. And really should someone fall over the" respect" line there are many on here who would say something.I want to be free and not scared, ashamed or feel ridicules when I say it how I see it..yes maybe someone will change my thinking that's why FREE speech is so important so we can see other peoples opinion on a subject.
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madotara69
11 years ago
So the fruit loops don't even get a mention, here we go again
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' So the fruit loops don't even get a mention, here we go again Ummm you mean you would like a vote for yourself?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' @ the Author...... do I tell you when to change hands?! No So dont tell me how to be a wanker. No advice required as that is something you do excellently well.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'Meeka100' I vote that MischeviousLad be our Daddy. You're gonna get a smack when I get home....... .... but only one..... coz youre greedy. HAHAHA Awww Daddy is mean.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mado if we vote for you do you promise to keep your judgements and summations to one short paragraph??? I have a short attention span... so I fear I would perpetually doomed to the sin bin.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I actually thought you wonderful ladies were soft like the fucken wrinkley nannas you will be in the not so distant future !! Thank fuck you girls are street savy and scrappers , so ladies come on whos not wearing nickers ?? I think im in love and i would like a girl to rub my red rocket so i can hump a leg on the coffee strip ??? Please!! Ohh cumon!!!! What about you blokes then cumon you boys help a brother out ? Cumon rub it rub my red rocket i want a red rocket ! I want my red rocket .!! Hey pee wee wee pee men of the forum ? Why ? Fuck cause your worth it !!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
bloody Siri, thought she knew me. I turned her off For now he he cmon fair suck of the sav, had to train the nerves, typing is much like playing the drums, quieter but still dynamics are everything
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RHP User
11 years ago
Did the OP REALLY expect this to be answered Seriously? You know.. well... I mean.. you can imagine I am telling the truth... when you turn on my phone.. a little text comes up.. "Welcome GOD"
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
Maybe someone should start a thread about circumcision and them the shit will really hit the fan. In the chat rooms of another swingers site there are " key holders" who are often friends of the mods. It's interesting to watch how their attitude changes once they have been given the. "Key". They start shouting the odds and abusing their cyber "power" and often kick chatters out, sometimes banning them from the site for days at a time. Let's not let that happen here. Aus is very much a nanny state. Let's at least keep this swingers site free from too much control and political correctness. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Because god needs a mobile... Hahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
(and maybe we are?) Pervert : distort or corrupt the original course, meaning, or state of (something).lead (someone) away from what is considered natural or acceptable.a person whose sexual behaviour is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable. The above may explain why there are so many different views that lead to friendly banter and sometimes bickering. But I love it and it makes for an interesting read.
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belladonna888
11 years ago
I just want a like button
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Puhleease put me in your naughty corner BUT if you cum in my hair you'll wake up bald and clean shaven (insert evil woman here)!! DG you may be my Sgt at Arms......Kizza and Honky aren't up to the task 😈. See you all very soon!
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madotara69
11 years ago
Initially it was quite an accident, I pissed on cavey first time laughing my head off, what not the point. It's amazing in his pic pissed on that is... cavey you look so ethereal Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can we vote Obama?
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Plain
11 years ago
You can choose to be part of the forums and you can come and go as you please, this is not compulsory to be chained to RHP forever. In the past more people certainly, they may come back for THEIR own reasons at some stage to express an opinion, BUT be prepared for the snide cynical and often funny unintended comebacks that go with the territory.
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NightLuva
11 years ago
Just don't let power get to your heads, folks. Diversity is great. And the occasional 'off-beam' (read insane) reply adds a bit of colour. As soon as you start bullet-pointing posting policy rules, I'll start wondering if I'm on the right site. I think the only rules you need are (a) Respect: no serious insults, bullying or threats; welcome diversity of opinion (b) don't break any laws with posts (c) stay very vaguely on-topic (d) there is no (d) - we're all adults, so can handle the full richness of potential topics (unless of course, they're just plain gross!)
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RHP User
11 years ago
There will always be disputes no matter what . Thats OK, I dont mind some friendly banter and a bit of a tiff. That happens in real life and it can be good for your soul. Its just the out and out narks who insult anyone who dont see it their way that gets under my skin. Im guilty of over reacting at times, but if I see that happening' i've learnt to pull out and soften the scene.. But putting a moderator in wont work and they will last about 10 seconds cause everyone will tell em to get stuffed if they get it wrong..
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've been thinking to myself that there seems to be a much broader base of people posting, as well as many regulars from before and after my time popping in and out regularly.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I like being insulted. How you deal with it shows your manipulative abilities, your resilience and/or WAIT FOR IT!!! Your character. We are humans. This is how we've existed for millennia. Who are you to tell us how to live our lives? Fuck yo couch! RA
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RHP User
11 years ago
Only kids need school teachers to intervene. And.... As adults we need to accept that debate is intelligent. We need to accept that personal attacks in response to a disagreeing point of view, is just our egos talking. And........ To remind ourselves that they're just words on a screen by essentially a stranger....... Weird huh?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Fck.. we must meet some time
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' Fck.. we must meet some time There's a big old rock just down the track, a local family lived on it for a few thousand years, we could sit on it and share a few stories. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have been kicking round this particular sandpit for nigh on five years now. Meeks is quite correct in saying this is tame now. Four years ago when we had some wonderful posters such as Stalky and The Puppies, we had some amazing shit fights. Some of us older stirrers are a little toned down now as the moderators seem to adjudicate a lot heavier these days. We are still here, lurking, watching. No we do not need a matriarch or patriarch as we are all meant to be adults. Yes we will get spats and differences, especially when dealing with emotive subjects. That is part of it though. May I suggest that if a person is so thinned skinned, so sensitive that a few strong words by a keyboard warrior on a forum upset them then maybe....just maybe they are certainly not ready for the cut and thrust of on line adult sites anyway. If you are not an emotionally strong person then the constant battle cry of "NEXT" will certainly mess with your head. Suck it up princesses or pack up and go home!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm new and have posted only once. I think to be on Rhp you have to have thick skin it's definitely an eye opening fun world but also the flip side of the coin it can also be the school of hard knocks as well. I think if someone says so wing harsh most people can deal with it or just ask to be respected. Maybe Ocean needs to pull out his whips and chains and dominate someone. .... Rather than the forums. Hey ocean I'm waiting xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Haha gypsy girl well well well i agree with you definately you would have to be thick skinned, that i am and sometimes thick in the fucken head aswell !! Hahaha Whips and chains well my dear if you are offering your whips and chains so that maybe i could practise ?? So let the games begin !!!! Hahaharrrrr!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
You can be thick in the head, as you can see it is the general belief men are any way, The ladies seem quite fond to it and pointing it out. he he You only need to be a good fuck, and do as you are instructed. Give the best three minutes to each and every deserving........? They will let you know, must be careful. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Won't that be fun, we can all dance round in big circles of agreement and give up our individuality to the collective good and the morally correct...to protect the sensitive...what a warm fuzzy forum...BORING!
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RHP User
11 years ago
3 minutes fuck mate i got one will that be ok ?hahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'tickled_kink' Won't that be fun, we can all dance round in big circles of agreement and give up our individuality to the collective good and the morally correct...to protect the sensitive...what a warm fuzzy forum...BORING! Of the warm fuzzy pics aren't so fckn boring, but. Mado Tara xx
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madotara69
11 years ago
I'll let you know. Too intense, keep losing count, It's not doing you any favours. Working on it though.
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RHP User
11 years ago
"This person must not take sides must not be biased must be fair and just at all times someone who the forum will respect and listen too an elder a peace keeper ?" Good Luck with finding such a person. My apologies i am unable to help i am far to busy watching the online Auction for Hens Teeth,which will be the perfect accompaniment to the rocking horse poo i purchased yesterday.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Nudierudie2'"This person must not take sides must not be biased must be fair and just at all times someone who the forum will respect and listen too an elder a peace keeper ?" Qefeeeeentaaaaaaaaa!
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Although I have no idea of whom you speak, I've reviewed your profile Bigocean72 and you have my nomination, herein forever formal, as forum peacekeeper, gavel tosser and rule monger. If you would kindly accept, I shall endeavour to procure a seconder, a call for further nominations, and then I think the matter be put to vote. Hugs Gazpacho
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Nudierudie2'"This person must not take sides must not be biased must be fair and just at all times someone who the forum will respect and listen too an elder a peace keeper ?" Qefeeeeentaaaaaaaaa! I was quoting the OP's initial post.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm new to forums too, it's all in good fun! as for whips and chains! I'm in!! ... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Nudierudie2' Qefeeeeentaaaaaaaaa! ???? After consulting the dictionary I still have no idea what that is meant to conveyI was talking about our wise and amazing veteran poster currently known as Qefenta2. You might recognize her.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is there reason that members of the elite longtime posters club who dominate the forums are contunually repeating a comment I made in different posts? Clearly you were all happy to slam me for using the words "dumb fuck". I didn't point the comment towards anyone. Now I regret that, some really do deserve that title. Is it your way of trying to get me angry? What gives? DG - you did it? How old are you?? Stir_it - you too. Is it like when you were in primary school and teased the odd girl out just to try to impress the "popular" girls? It's a shame the forum mentality hasn't changed over the last couple of years. Its clear (still) why there's no diversity in the forums. The pack menality that is so rife here really spoils the experience for everyone else. Maybe y'all need your own little private forum section where you can pull each others dicks and pat each other on the back. Silly me - that already happens in every thread....
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gazpacho
11 years ago
I don't know the thread you're referring to Apollo, but "dumb fuck" is a term I often use under my breath. There's really no need to suffer fools.... and this clique business is so last month.... Let it slide. Hugs Gazpacho
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ApolloThirteen'The pack menality that is so rife here really spoils the experience for everyone else. Maybe y'all need your own little private forum section where you can pull each others dicks and pat each other on the back. Silly me - that already happens in every thread.... Although the post in question seems to have vanished, maybe only three people commented on it? I had no problem with you using the term, and thought the way you got jumped was harsh. But I don't think it warrants a response like this. Why would you assume others would deliberately try to get you angry? I don't believe anyone here is seen as important enough to spend that kind of energy on. . Also, I don't think it's right to speak for "everyone else". Have a cuppa. And while I have your attention: I love your pics.
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Quoting 'ApolloThirteen'Maybe y'all need your own little private forum section where you can pull each others dicks and pat each other on the back. Actually, that sounds like my kind of afternoon. :pHugsGazpacho
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ApolloThirteen' Is there reason that members of the elite longtime posters club who dominate the forums are contunually repeating a comment I made in different posts? Clearly you were all happy to slam me for using the words "dumb fuck". I didn't point the comment towards anyone. Now I regret that, some really do deserve that title. Is it your way of trying to get me angry? What gives? DG - you did it? How old are you?? Stir_it - you too. Is it like when you were in primary school and teased the odd girl out just to try to impress the "popular" girls? It's a shame the forum mentality hasn't changed over the last couple of years. Its clear (still) why there's no diversity in the forums. The pack menality that is so rife here really spoils the experience for everyone else. Maybe y'all need your own little private forum section where you can pull each others dicks and pat each other on the back. Silly me - that already happens in every thread.... The Chillout Lounge... Not all the regulars have instant posting though. It's invisible to everyone else and THE most boring forum going. Methinks they need people, like you, to provide the entertainment. I missed your comment Apollo, but welcome back... it's easier if you don't struggle...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just when I was about to say that there has been too much order in the forums lately. Must be nearing Valentines Day. I can almost feel the love. Slinking back off to the chill out lounge to wait for Friday ...........
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madotara69
11 years ago
with dumb fuck, even dumbarse for that matter, in the right context. As long it does not vilify anyone or ones. Wicked may have done it. Must have been all the lalochezia around it. Dumbarse has nothing to do with that post, maledicent seems to though.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry but there are a few male posters "those who must not be named" who refer to men as dumbarse a every second post they make. That shits me, although I have given up commenting on it. It's no different.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Or is it a case of I can insult my mother but nobody else can?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I also enjoy your posts Apollo....you've been here as long or longer than most so should also know to take most of what you don't like here with a grain of salt and the rest as either useful, informative, funny, inspiring or just plain horse shit. It's all in your perspective. I sooooo have to get a few new corsets!! Skips off to find Meander..... ~ She_Shift
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RHP User
11 years ago
One of my girls lives with my parents....they love her to death but she's also a touch inconsiderate as most teens tend at times. In support of the I can but you can't argument.....I told her "you can treat your Mother like shit all you like but don't treat mine like it!" Mum giggled and glowed, daughter just smiled at me and rolled her eyes, it was the second time I've said it to her....the first I was crying because her behaviour had wounded Mum deeply.....it sunk in. Now it's just a gentle reminder to respect that which you have but won't have forever (Mee-maw is 80) and still the sharpest tool in the shed ~ She
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just did a quick advanced forum search because my memories only really include Apollo dipping her pen in the forums once before, a while ago. Apparently that's right Apollo wil be celebrating her second year here in May. I would fall under your, I should know stance, considering I have been here longer than most lol... and I still stick my foot in my mouth on a regular basis. More often than not, I just take the time out to swap feet. Anyhoo, I'll take mine with a spoonful of suger.
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madotara69
11 years ago
who is who with usernames, but familiar with personalities Young blokes are not just fucking useless idiots not worth a damn, and their intelligences exceed others in different ways to how expected from others bitter to them. I have a 20 year old son, he is polite, respectful, honest and smart, can't hand write for shit and speaks a digital language the same way the young guys do in this form of social communication. Us in our forties on digital chat, three parts to four being the case in these forums, but that's fine. It would get pretty boring , not so sexy discussing the sticking capabilities of a postage stamp. It's not the sticky stamp anyway, it's the ink bit the post office gives it, an unopened dated and registered transit for sending a letter to ones self for most chance to never need open it. Copyright never the less. There would be some likely thinking "what fucken planet is this fruit loop from" Or he's a drug fucked junky, lost in space. What dumb fuck would gain anything by sending himself a letter, to never even plan on opening it. Cool if they think that way fine. To me in my unusual world, claimed to have no perception of realities, sitting in the comforts of a sheltered life, with no idea of who and what goes on in the real world, therefore judged as to whether anything said to a topic, not worth a damn, because it's not written in multiple choice carbon copy document requirements, addressed as miscellaneous and tagged for the configuration department dumbfuck, that's fair enough, I can fend for myself. But, sorry However, it occurs to my filtering tools, and time management filing system, there is a common denominator being repeated in the same fashion over a mark of time. That being one who continually calls out and tells the many, young men are stupid, disrespectful, no good as lovers, illiterate dumb fucks or something spiteful and negative to their good will. Well I have a little more faith in any bloke under 35 years old as most are decent and just trying to make their way through the same bullshit we all the rest are as well. Difference being IMHO I don't give two fucks any who judge me from such a small world. These young blokes are "young dumb and full of cum" and they come to something such as this place the forums and see some hot looking lady, claiming to be taken for royalty and all that is to be a standard of acceptable requirements to even earn the chance of acknowledgement. Received as failures and on show under all the other hot sexy mature women in silence. It is perceived as just that by these young blokes, and that is damaging, manipulative and bitter. Call a young bloke "young dumb and full of cum" and offer some interests or advice, he will be smiles from ear to ear. A bloke calling a young bloke a dumbarse is secret mens business. It's positive reinforcement and the young blokes get it and alter course to it's direction. I have lost count of the young decent blokes coming to the forums with respects offered and questions asked, belittled to believing they are less than set off to be in the hopes of acceptance. That can and will effect a young bloke, and could very well leave him exsibiltated, inaniloquent and dose of the mulligrubs, recumbentibus the state of mind. No "they" are not all or even close to being most, a small some as expected trying to cheat life and women. Once bitten twice shy, more so. If you have had a problem with some young bloke or trapped in the underbelly of a very small world with anti social types, keep it for what it is and don't force it to it's diversity. Don't think me having a sense of duty for one, respect these younger blokes are no less, confusion highly the state of sought answers. Certainly not how the young blokes need to become to the nature of ladies in the distance. Is so harsh as to the repetition and familiarities of the poster. Not to mention the threads deleted to such mentalities to persuasion. Truth hurts. People can change, and please don't take me as an idiot. I'm use to comunicating with people who do this shit through song and music, and know alot of good intelligent folk who understand my language as for meanings and expressed in reason and rhyme, with a feel to the story expressed through front house speakers and quality high powered amplifiers. Sheltered and no grip on reality, to who's experiences, mine has been one decade alone sitting at a different table of many the most respected musicians and guests of all walks on a weekly basis, never treated as a freak or fool. And I personally know a lot of good young men, just trying. Fuck all that are such villains. Sorry to upset anyone. Mado Mado Tara xx
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rupamohan
11 years ago
Forum is gr8 but if I have to nitpick RedHotPie Forums = NOT A Big Party [These are my views. I am not asking anyone to agree or disagree with my views. Pls share own views or reply to OP. If you want to reply to me. Please note only serious replies to me. I don't check forums that often. I prefer to consolidate my replies as most posters who simply post to say I agree with others, anyone doesn't deserve individual replies. I only reply if I think it can be useful to reply.] a) Not even a party. In the party you choose whom to talk to. Here if you try to post something and ask only a section of members (not naming individuals though) to reply. I guess many regulars will find it offensive. Some will even ignore the request. b) What does big party means? More posts or More posters? May be it is big party for top 50 posters who I guess post 95% of posts. Is it a party for 99% of RHP members who are willing to share the venue but don't want to be disturbed by top 50? Definitely NOT. Forum completely lacks the real diversity among RHP members. I also guess less then 10% posts are from swingers (that is couples) and even less in the age group we are interested in. c) Many (not all) of these regulars don't follow RHP posting guidelines. funny part is these members (not all) who don't follow RHP guidelines have guts to tell others that they are rude. I don't have disrespect for these members but I expected a better behaviour from regulars.There is no doubt that posting rules can be ignored by anyone not by just regulars here. But when regulars don't follow guidelines it affects a larger section of forum simply because they post more. d) Most of these are singles and it is not very polite for them to be in couples corner. I am not saying it is a rude behaviour but it is also not very polite behaviour. May be RHP can change the name to "Anything goes corner". e) Finally I don't have grudge against individuals. I don't think people change their behaviour easily. It is simple indiscipline that reduces the utility of forums for many like me who have busy family life and only wanted to post once a while serious post and expected a serious reply.
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RHP User
11 years ago
As most likely know, I've been with Mr P for most of my life. Thinking about that now, I can say quite accurately most of my lovers have been under the age of 25, aaahhh 20, hehehe... Looking back over those decades of time. :-P. Aside from my earliest boyfriends during the age of 15 who were selfish arseholes, most of my lovers were absolutely... young, and considerate hehe, and I can't fault them for the um, effort they put in to make sure we both got the best out of the experience. Now, if any of you would like to drop by and pick up your reference...
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I just don't like that word. Makes me ill. Maybe it is to do with my values and core morals and what I believe. I see that word as old speech, was used to called someone "lacking power of speech, unable to speak, mute as in deaf". You see part of my role at work is to work with people who lack speech, mute and have learning difficulties, That is why I don't like hearing others called "Dumb" or"Dumbarsses". I see it as a derogatory term used. It does not fit well with me. I believe everyone has a right to speech even the young ones who post a Forum question looking for feedback, they my ask questions that some of us think are not important, but to them it is important. I don't like to read, when somethings are carried over into other forums, by some forum posters to deliberately sitr the pot. There is no need for it. To me it shows lack of maturity. I seriously don't think people are out to make you angry Apollo. Welcome back BB. Peace all round. :) Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes it can be a bit daunting to post sometimes, because as you say the FORUM ELITE is always present.However why not have a say....and when it doesn't fit and the ELITE doesn't like it...or you don't get a well done from them....who gives a fuck....sometimes it is good to write and express what you think and feel.When we would be all thinking the same all this is useless and boring...and really it isn't on here, the forum is not boring....yaa sometimes. I get frightened and shy.......to comment on some posts....and think should I or shouldn't I, because so many people....yaa its just in my mind....are so expierenced and wild and kinky....and there is me fluffy vanilla calm hobbit woman, to all the sex goddesses, shhheee what do I have to say, will anybody even read my comment, or just skip over them.HEY I HAVE TO SAY,.............. LOTS.SO I SAY IT.Apollo it doesn't matter, just write it down....and let us hear it.L
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gazpacho
11 years ago
I appreciate your take on it. I've never considered the use of the term dumbarse in the context of the origins of the word dumb. In a modern context, dumb doesn't mean a person lacking the power of speech... the meaning has had an upgrade to mean a person who is most annoying. Other words have had an upgrade. Gay used to mean a person who is fun... then a person who is homosexual... and now is used by primary school kids to mean a person who is most annoying... or an activity which is not fun. We are all coloured by our experiences. I quite frequently call some of my friends "boy"... and of course they're actually men.... it's a term of endearment ... as in "dirty boy" hehe... but call an african american a "boy" and he will apply a whole different meaning to the one you intended. I think some measure of tolerance is necessary for these cultural and contextual differences. It's OK for you to be P.C. but don't expect everybody to have had the same level of exposure to discrimination that you have. Calling someone a dumbarse has nought to do with being mute. I do however appreciate very much your informative response and I will endeavour not to make you feel uncomfortable should I ever use the term again. HugsGazpacho Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' I just don't like that word. Makes me ill. Maybe it is to do with my values and core morals and what I believe. I see that word as old speech, was used to called someone "lacking power of speech, unable to speak, mute as in deaf".
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy'I just don't like that word. Makes me ill. Maybe it is to do with my values and core morals and what I believe. I see that word as old speech, was used to called someone "lacking power of speech, unable to speak, mute as in deaf". You see part of my role at work is to work with people who lack speech, mute and have learning difficulties, That is why I don't like hearing others called "Dumb" or"Dumbarsses". I sympathise with how you feel. Words often used to describe the people I work with are "Junkies", "Useless" and "Waste of space". Use any of those terms around me and we will never be friends.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Litonya' However why not have a say....and when it doesn't fit and the ELITE doesn't like it...or you don't get a well done from them....who gives a fuck....sometimes it is good to write and express what you think and feel. The reason I post so easily and candidly if because I continuously think there are only twenty or so people that actually read all these forums. Then every now and then I'm reminded this is not the case, and that there are many lurkers. (*Gulp* Hi!) So why care what the regulars think? Who knows how many of those who choose not to participate are helped in some way by a post a few here don't agree with.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Nudierudie2' Qefeeeeentaaaaaaaaa! ???? After consulting the dictionary I still have no idea what that is meant to conveyI was talking about our wise and amazing veteran poster currently known as Qefenta2. You might recognize her. I would have to agree with you,an excellent nomination.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Was hoping to get at least 30.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Thank you for your response. I just fell in love you with you. Thank you in advance, for NOT making me feel uncomfortable. Hugs Foxy xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
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