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Orgasm - Vag or Clitoris or Both???
June 12 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi OP :) I've never experienced a vaginal orgasm without clitoral stimulation but have orgasmed with just clitoral stimulation without penetration. I have also had a hands-free orgasm through anal, which was mindblowing. We've all heard of the G-spot, but apparently there are a bunch of other "spots" that can trigger an orgasm in a woman. My lover and I are enjoying our search for them :) Hope you find a willing subject and have fun searching too ;) Good luck. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi Tulips, Thanks for the good luck... Just a suggestion... I found (with another adventurous partner I was with for 5 years, some time ago), that 'Tantric Sex' is very helpful in discovering these 'special spots' on yourself and partner... It allows (particularly men, from my point of view) the ability to orgasm without 'ejaculating' (dry orgasm), therefore, being able to have multiple orgasms in a short period of time... They are a little less intense than the usual 'wet one', but last longer and prolong sex for ages - (The secret is, as always, in the 'Kegel muscle', which you can train to cut off the flow of semen... Worth a little peek.. Can be found by Googling 'Tantric Sex'... All the best and happy sailing...
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Missb4u
11 years ago
And it's best when all done at once. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes where is he? I remember him saying all the wonderful spots. Which made sense to me. We lets just say I never really knew I was sush a lucky girl.
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
I can achieve both separately, I'm lucky like that...... But in saying that, there is a reason and story behind why i can, I think.......maybe I will share that story one day......💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' I can achieve both separately, I'm lucky like that...... But in saying that, there is a reason and story behind why i can, I think.......maybe I will share that story one day......💋 Hi Lovinit, That's been 'mainly' my experience... That a lady can generally have one OR the other at any given time. It's interesting, if the 'surveys and reports' are to be believed, that only about 30% of women can achieve a vaginal orgasm. The vast majority, so I'm led to believe, experience only Clitoral (which I'm led to believe is easier to achieve). Of course, the purpose of this is to find out if all I've learnt is realistic in women who are 'uninhibited' and have a degree of experience (which I've not been involved with before...). Thanks..
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tamworthguy46
11 years ago
Yes some women can orgasm from many things and some from only one....I think it's not really so much technique, but just the individual, I had a lover once, that could just roll off multiple orgasm's constantly, like all night if you could keep up to her !...... I'm not that conceited that I thought it was me......I asked her, and she just answered that, "she is lucky, and she has always been like that " I suppose that made me assistant lol......summary, different people can do different things, a fair bit of that comes natural, and some can be learnt ! Love and peace Tam
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I get and totally understand the woman and what she is saying! I am the same....it was her, her body and if she's really into someone it really in that intense. Well for me anyways it is - it's uncontrollable. one word EUROPHIC! What the woman described has recently happened to me. It totally rocked my world...it's so intense it is mind blowing and made my body feel that way - it does more that shake, rattle and roll! lol It's not something a woman can switch on and off like a light switch. And never again do I want it, as The Endorphin rush coming off is such a bitch!! :( And yes OPENLY1 - 'Tantric Sex' is something I am so interested in..... the touch and senses that will escalate to a who new level. FOXY *skips off to book into a Tantric Sex workshop*
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I can do with out vagina or clitoris stimulation. I'm speaking about the out of body orgasms here. It depends on the man, the way he treats me, the way he holds me, the way he's shows verbal and non verbal messages to me, the way he looks at me and my eyes, as in right into my eyes and looks deep into my soul and the way he is is around me...calm and relaxed. Above all the attraction has to be there...if it's not I can't do it. I mean the vagina and clitoris orgasms are totally different, it's not the same as a whole body orgasm. I can have an orgasm as well, if I give a BJ and watch the man in ora of his experience...that's a beautiful thing to see. Foxy
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madotara69
11 years ago
having a woman explain all the different orgasms, is not going to be an easy task, as she has no Fckn idea where she is, who she is or why she is when she does. Just a quivering mess of sparks firing in her mind and through her entire body, sort of makes her...... unreachable for a while. Just saying Mado Mado Tara xx
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
EXACTLY!! (Thank you) That's why it's a bitch of a thing.....LOLZ Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
QuestionHad a girl friend who could only orgasm via clit? , but i was able to introduce her to squirting via virginal ( at first she was embarrassed but when i told her it was a huge turn on ( think this was discussed in another forum) she started to look forward to it for me.I thought squirting was the Big O , and while she liked it she said clit one was what really pop her cork? Women are just complex creatures , guys are so simple , you know when their happy :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks Ladies... Keep it coming... (Pun intended)... LOL. I am so very interested in this subject and what it is women experience and why etc. I mean, for a man, there really is only one type of orgasm. Different intensities etc, but by and large, the same. Except the 'Tantric' type I spoke of earlier, where I forestall ejaculation... They are a bit less intense but when you get to 5 or 6, it's mind-blowing!!! And when you finally let go with the big one, well it's a question of "Stand Clear".... Yes, Foxy, off you head, down t that bookstore... or online. Heaps of info there.I started to study Tantra with a partner (who had had no experience at all (from an almost sexless marriage with the only man she'd ever been with. So by accident I bought a book and then joined an online club where the 'Tantric Leader' mailed out weekly exercises and philosophies and explained the goals and processes. She became more proficient than more and I learnt more because of her... She was bale to have multiple orgasms and had been since she first started masturbating as a kid. She was always good for at least 5 or so. So many women and so many variations and abilities and experiences... So little time... LOL Thanks
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DTE_couple
11 years ago
I guess I am very lucky because the best orgasms I have are those where Im having a deep vaginal orgasm that turns into squirting then just keeps rolling on and on. Another really intense orgasm that feels overwhelming is when you are having a DP but just slowly and sensually. Now that's the best intense orgasm I can have !
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RHP User
11 years ago
Obviously I cannot speak from personal experience but based on my observations of women orgasming and in particular my fwb who likes to overshare her encounters, whilst some women may only be able to physically climax 1 way or the other, in the majority of cases the main limitation is preconceptions of what works for them. Linked to this is their expectations from the person they are having sex with. The fwb swore black and blue that she only had clitoral orgasms but then she came during vaginal only with me because she was in the zone and after that she was happy to do hands free. But it all varies from person to person because women don't respond uniformly to the same stimuli. There can be factors such as positive reinforcement ("I liked a certain position because it produced a memorable orgasm so I will favour that position to replicate the result"). There can also be personal factors such as being more relaxed with a particular lover so there is a willingness to do different things and maybe be more open to the experience. There are also placebos, which is where I would place circumstantial factors such as time, place and sensory, that may induce the body into thinking this is awesome sex and produces the self fulfilling prophecy of a mind blowing orgasm. Which is perfectly fine because at the end of the day it is whatever floats your boat. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I read the other day how the nipples are in unison with the clitorus and how the stimulation of the nipples can in itself create an orgasm or intensify it. I have a certain way to enjoy a clitoral and nipple orgasm it is so intense no penetration and my clit can not be touched at all during the orgasm. They are all very different and squirting for me also is not the most enjoyable form.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Cest_la_viebaby' I read the other day how the nipples are in unison with the clitorus and how the stimulation of the nipples can in itself create an orgasm or intensify it. I have a certain way to enjoy a clitoral and nipple orgasm it is so intense no penetration and my clit can not be touched at all during the orgasm. They are all very different and squirting for me also is not the most enjoyable form. I also find that I orgasm easily and with more intensity, when my nipples are stimulated... Then, they say the clitoris is made up of the same nerve endings as the penis... So, I suppose it stands to reason...
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RHP User
11 years ago
wow!
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RHP User
11 years ago
But only if there's that special connection. Touching my back and kissing my neck, no clothes at all removed, has also done it for me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
In the early days with an ex, she orgasmed from dirty talk alone, no physical stimulation at all unless there is a secret spot on the lower leg I'm not familiar with. I'm putting that down to pure imagination on her part, but it was fun to play my part. Like anything involving the human body, some people have talents, some people can train or learn physical skills and for some, once the nerve path and muscle memory are trained the skill gets easier. You ladies are definitely way luckier, and for once, there is an advantage to getting older!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Vaginal orgasm takes time and is more than just penetration, theres an entire lead up to it. It's emotionally and intellectually started and physically finished. Clitoral orgasm is direct contact and stimulation. For me a clitoral orgasm is relatively easy to achieve, but a vaginal orgasm builds until I'm pushed to a euphoric high that feels intoxicating, unfortunately the investment in that is few and far between. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Clitoral orgasms are the hardest for me to achieve, and near on impossible without some kind of penetration. Anal orgasms are fairly easy but vaginal orgasms are definately my orgasm of choice.. lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
clit orgasm! So easy, so fun! But for that deeper more fufilling O that leaves my knees weak is def vaginal! Although a bitch to get :(
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can orgasm both ways and I've even been known to orgasm anally But I believe it is many contributing factors starting with being very comfy with my own body and knowing my anatomy well and being physically and mentally "aware" , to experienced patient, and curious lovers, the time of month, the mood, the circumstances etc. My only advice, relax, enjoy and have a hell of a lot of fun finding out what works for ALL parties involved
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RHP User
11 years ago
Had a Canadian GF who could orgasm by thought alone.. The only outside influence was she insisted i watch. Naked, she would position herself in a exposed position and watched me watching her go to it. Amazing to watch her pussy go though the different stages of arousal. When she finally reached her orgasm her contractions were obvious and her nipples hard.. She is the only female I ever knew that could do this... Maybe there's some ladies here that can fly the Aussie flag.. lol... Hands up ? Jay..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' Had a Canadian GF who could orgasm by thought alone.. The only outside influence was she insisted i watch. Naked, she would position herself in a exposed position and watched me watching her go to it. Amazing to watch her pussy go though the different stages of arousal. When she finally reached her orgasm her contractions were obvious and her nipples hard.. She is the only female I ever knew that could do this... Maybe there's some ladies here that can fly the Aussie flag.. lol... Hands up ? Jay.. Professess to be able to do this as if it as some superior ability......to which I say shame you miss all the tantric sensation of touch them.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Cest_la_viebaby' Quoting 'Jay_Me' Had a Canadian GF who could orgasm by thought alone.. The only outside influence was she insisted i watch. Naked, she would position herself in a exposed position and watched me watching her go to it. Amazing to watch her pussy go though the different stages of arousal. When she finally reached her orgasm her contractions were obvious and her nipples hard.. She is the only female I ever knew that could do this... Maybe there's some ladies here that can fly the Aussie flag.. lol... Hands up ? Jay.. My MUM.... Professess to be able to do this as if it as some superior ability......to which I say shame you miss all the tantric sensation of touch them. Your Mum!... It's refreshing that you have such an open relationship with your Mum, that you can discuss such things... Cudos. Obviously, being the 'Son', I would NEVER broach such a subject and nor would she... My Dad's passed but I have a Step Dad who is a wonderful man... But being kids of the '60's, sex is just something that has never been discussed in any real depth among my family... let alone with Mum. I am 100% sure that my sister certainly doesn't enjoy such an openness with her either... Definitely not... But again, I find it so very refreshing. Thanks for the 'Injection of faith in humanity and families'...
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Everyone is capable of learning about others, themselves and therefore new experiences. Just because you haven't, doesn't mean you can't.It means you haven't.... yet. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have found that the right amount of time is as important as the type , the man has to put in time an effort listening to his lady watching her , seeing what makes her ... tick you can be off by just a few millimetres and you rub that all night and just give her a sore pussy , Get it right with the signs she give you and she will be grabbing your hand thrusting it between her legs and telling her god to do that again, But also as important as type is the technique,I have for some time been very competent at making a lady squirt fingering her honey pot , but more recently I had a wonderful lady who allowed me the discresson to pay more attention to "what ": I was feeling inside her changing my technique and paying very specific attention to what I was doing and her responses I was able to change her orgasm from a gushing flooding orgasm, to what felt to me to be deeper much more centred sticky slippery Cumming orgasm. In short my Fellows , pay attention , Study , listen & make it about blowing her mind again and again and the smile on your face ( THE NEXT DAY ) as you remember how your took her to the edge of sanity will remain long !!!! after the spasm's up your leg have subsided
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RHP User
11 years ago
Any man who doesn't meticulously study the responses, listen for the signals and take note of every tiny nuance, is not going to get very far. Like everything in this world, from learning to walk as a 12 month old, to learning at school and learning a trade/profession, sex is the same... In fact, more so because in reality, no-one can teach you what's right or wrong because there is no right or wrong. Women are so very different from each other (so far more than men are). What works like a charm for one will leave another 3 laying there thinking... "Well, that was a waste of time and effort". I learnt very early in the piece (due to circumstance and necessity) that the only person who can tell you what a woman wants is 'that particular woman'. And more often than not, you will need to ask and have it described or at least be shown once. There ARE a few 'universal' things that work (I mean give pleasure) to most women, and it surprise me the amount of men who have these as the basis of their 'repertoire', not seeking to find out anything different or exotic to make a woman's experience so much more 'unique' and enjoyable. Having dated and become intimate with a number of women who had been married for 20+ years (and never wandered), I found when I started about 8 years ago, that ALL of them had no idea of the many things that a man would be willing to do to satisfy her. Admittedly, most of these women came from a broken marriage that was a result of the husband cheating. I often wonder what these husbands got up to with their mistresses (or prostitutes). From what I learnt from the ladies, these men certainly had no imagination and for all intents and purposes, did nothing other than kiss, jump on and jump off. No oral, no exploring of any kind, no nothing. Satisfying a 'healthy, sexually open minded' woman is one thing... But keeping the SAME woman satisfied and interested and continually stimulated, is the real test of man's imagination, respect, knowledge and ability. I;m sure the happy couples on this site will agree with me on this... It is the hardest and most challenging of all things sexual... BUT it can certainly be the most EXCITING and wonderful. If two people can find it and maintain it... Please don't ever let it go, especially through curiosity about what else may be around...
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MissSarahCurious
11 years ago
I can cum easily and quickly from penetration but it's short lived and bears repeating many times, I can be made to squirt over and over until I have the strength and composure of a half-drowned kitten, but one good strong clitoral orgasm will wipe me out. xx Sarah
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MissSarahCurious
11 years ago
the female orgasm is 95% mental and only 5% friction
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RHP User
11 years ago
Interesting ... 95% mental and 5% friction . They say the mind is our biggest sex organ.
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RHP User
10 years ago
:-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Does that mean we all have sex on the rain then ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Suppose to read brain
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Head fuck every now and again. Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
I can only come vaginally occasionally. I can come from anal though. I'm thinking about getting a wevibe 4, hoping I can come then through sex. Currently the only way I climax is with a vibe on my clit while going doggy.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Cock twinge. Thx foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
One day I will achieve an orgasm vaginally. I have only ever via clitoral stimulation! Preferably from oral.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I still remember the first time I made a girl externally&internally orgasm at the same time or combined lol not sure of the logistics ;-) it was truly epic a site to behold first she squirted every where and had to hmm how would you say dismount that rock hard throbbing cock and she just sat their all curled up in the corner of my couch quivering moaning and panting like a scared little girl that had no idea her body could do that aahhh memory's lol and results like that happen best when you at least know the girl a little bit what turns her on what she likes or dislikes or is to afraid to try lol but that's just me I need to at least have some idea cause theirs nothing worse than hearing oh I don't like that or I don't do that durring some fun sexy play time lol don't get me wrong open to suggestions infact the more the better lol I guess knowing your sweet tasty little play toy a little bit first really works for me knowing how far you can go, how dirty or naughty you can be and at least a little about what makes the girl cum like a rocket which in any and all case is my main concern cause just being with a girl that turns me on is like heaven on earth ;-) her giving her self to you ,showing you her most intimate sides and in most cases being your sweet submissive little fuck toy if your lucky ;-) so of course she's definitely cumming at least once preferably long before I do lol some guys still pride them selves on making sure she's more than happy long before they are :-) lol my half intoxicated 2cents worth. Oh and then theirs the animalistic I just need to fuck you over and over and over again and I can't quite explain why type stuff lol love that shit but another time perhaps ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I can achieve all of those mentioned however, it does take effort and most I have encountered are too focused on their own. I find I have only ever vaginally orgasmed from sex with an emotional attachment, otherwise it is the clit all the way. I have had anal orgasm but I am not into anal because it just hurts too much so pleasure and pain, not sure which was the more dominant feeling at the time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Multiple orgasms from both. Can also orgasm from nipple play, though not as often since kids.
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onepurpose2010
10 years ago
Compliments to all who have contributed to this topic as there are some excellent comments. However there is not enough emphasis on Arousal. Arousal takes time and unless the male is prepared to invest in arousal, HERS not his, then the result will be hard to achieve. There are a number of techniques from Tantric sex practices which are worth exploring ... however that discussion is outside this topic. There is however a Taoist practice which can produce an exceptional Orgasm. It cannot be pulled off without some experimentation ... First Arousal .... take your time and with your index finger search for the spot (Target Area) at the top of the vagina between the bladder and the womb while at the same time rubbing your thumb up and down the urethra and clit area. The index finger is used to massage the G Area and the tip of your finger (Cut your finger nails) to prod the target area rhythmically. The same result can be achieved by a rock hard penis, however this takes a some Tantric practice to sustain it without losing your load. Good Luck
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RHP User
10 years ago
Both! I find the clit can be the "quick fix" or more of a warm up with far less intensity on their own. Since I tend to have multiple orgasms, they build with intensity each time, and I can cum as many times as I can stand. The final one usual coming from the G-Spot, this is the one causing muscle-twitching and heart palpitations and requires a small amount of rest after lol!! I may only cum from this once in a short session, but multiple times over a couple of hours.I'm pretty sensitive around my erogenous zones (neck, ears, back and feet) and have cum from stimulation of them as well, but I will also stimulate my G-spot by contracting the muscles around the area hands free :) I have also recently discovered cumming from playing with only my nipples too. The quantity and intensity of each of my orgasms are more determined by the amount of total stimulation- dirty talk, sensuality, erogenous zones, porn etc
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madotara69
10 years ago
Quoting 'Openly1' Any man who doesn't meticulously study the responses, listen for the signals and take note of every tiny nuance, is not going to get very far. Like everything in this world, from learning to walk as a 12 month old, to learning at school and learning a trade/profession, sex is the same... In fact, more so because in reality, no-one can teach you what's right or wrong because there is no right or wrong. Women are so very different from each other (so far more than men are). What works like a charm for one will leave another 3 laying there thinking... "Well, that was a waste of time and effort". I learnt very early in the piece (due to circumstance and necessity) that the only person who can tell you what a woman wants is 'that particular woman'. And more often than not, you will need to ask and have it described or at least be shown once. There ARE a few 'universal' things that work (I mean give pleasure) to most women, and it surprise me the amount of men who have these as the basis of their 'repertoire', not seeking to find out anything different or exotic to make a woman's experience so much more 'unique' and enjoyable. Having dated and become intimate with a number of women who had been married for 20+ years (and never wandered), I found when I started about 8 years ago, that ALL of them had no idea of the many things that a man would be willing to do to satisfy her. Admittedly, most of these women came from a broken marriage that was a result of the husband cheating. I often wonder what these husbands got up to with their mistresses (or prostitutes). From what I learnt from the ladies, these men certainly had no imagination and for all intents and purposes, did nothing other than kiss, jump on and jump off. No oral, no exploring of any kind, no nothing. Satisfying a 'healthy, sexually open minded' woman is one thing... But keeping the SAME woman satisfied and interested and continually stimulated, is the real test of man's imagination, respect, knowledge and ability. I;m sure the happy couples on this site will agree with me on this... It is the hardest and most challenging of all things sexual... BUT it can certainly be the most EXCITING and wonderful. If two people can find it and maintain it... Please don't ever let it go, especially through curiosity about what else may be around... I believe that a woman has an infinity for intense unique orgasmic experiences, through the power of imagination with fantasy being each and every story. A man can either become part with those fantasies or get in the way, each and every story. I also believe that those fantasies need to belong too her and her alone for them to wander into those intensities. If I disappear into Tara's fantasy, then I think I am doing everything just right, that is my fantasy for it all. Mado Mado Tara xx
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