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Orgasm study - selling point or turn off?
August 22 2014
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
The person may know "Jason Julius blueprint" but, does he not realize he needs to practice it - daily and it's not all about the vagina or how to make a woman orgasm...*sighs* There's more to it. If he has to put it on his profile, then it says to me he's just let his biggest secret out - he's studied it, but not putting it to good use and needs someone to practice on. I am not an experiment nor is my vagina a tool to practice on. It's like a bank robber using a blueprint map to rob a bank, eventually they get caught out. Foxy
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Missb4u
10 years ago
BORING! I don't know what that even is so really couldn't care less. I find any profile that goes on about how they will make you cum and squirt and orgasm a turn off though. I do not want to be just another statistic to someone. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I prefer the Craig Claudius Method myself
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RHP User
10 years ago
that Jason Julius has worked out how you ladies should orgasm properly, because chances are you've been doing it wrong all these years. You'd better swat up, you don't want to be caught out orgasming incorrectly.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Makes me think of a guy coming along with his manual, all excited, cant wait to try this out. And yes, Missb72, those "cum and squirt all night" ones turn me off too. Relax, go with the flow and enjoy each other
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QLDtwo4fun
10 years ago
It's an area I've been doing my own research in. I find this rather than more satisfying than studying someone else's work, and I prefer the fast track approach with ongoing monitoring of the real time feedback is effective thus eliminating the need for a 'blueprint.'
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Makes me think of a guy coming along with his manual, all excited, cant wait to try this out. And yes, Missb72, those "cum and squirt all night" ones turn me off too. Relax, go with the flow and enjoy each other I'm no psychologist, but I do think a man with that attitude to sex might have some valuable insights to impart on the Living with Aspergers thread. Sex is like conversation (only filthier). It's a communion between people that should flow naturally as an expression of intimacy and joy. doing a course in how to make a woman orgasm properly is like studying how to make a woman laugh...
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RHP User
10 years ago
my method works just fine for me As they say if its not broken don't fuck with it
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RHP User
10 years ago
...me orgasm, regardless of method or technique. Rather, I have to let myself relax enough to climax. No amount of study will change that. Sure, lots of things can take us on the journey to orgasm, but ultimately, I believe women (and men) are in control of our own climax. Just my thoughts xx (Mrs) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Any guy that needs to advertise like that on his profile just proves to me his merchandise isn't good enough to sell itself.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Does the individual lady arrive with her said manual and you have a quick flick through before the steamy encounter begins ?? If you come across any problems in the orgasm deptartment does it have a trouble shooting page ??? Just curious :-p - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Add jot the the list of stupid methods that some guys feel compelled to offer..... in selling their sexual potential.
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Circe
10 years ago
I'd laugh and presume he has a silly sense of humour. It sounds very tongue in cheek to me.... Skips off to google...
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
A man needs to use a 'come here' motion with his index finger whilst stimulating my g spot. Apparently this will drive me wild and result in a g spot orgasm. I can hardly wait. On reflection I think I'm more likely to give him the tradition middle finger motion whilst showing him to the door.
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RHP User
10 years ago
By Practice, exploration , trial and error and above all else listening to what she has to say. No 2 women are alike and I still learn something from each encounter...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'InAdditionTo' ...me orgasm, regardless of method or technique. Rather, I have to let myself relax enough to climax. No amount of study will change that. Sure, lots of things can take us on the journey to orgasm, but ultimately, I believe women (and men) are in control of our own climax. Just my thoughts xx (Mrs) - Posted from rhpmobile I agree. There's no 'formula'. Every woman (and man) are different and have different needs and responses to al things. No-one can 'write a manual' (let alone read and follow one), that will work on the smallest number of people (male or female). We all have 'erogenous' zones and they are different on us all... There's a few well known ones that are common to a lot of people, but certainly not any guarantee that it will be 'THE spot' for anyone. As 'InAdditionTo' states... "We are all in control of our own climaxes" and no-one can 'make' someone achieve a damn thing, without their being able to control their own responses and how they feel, how relaxed they are, how much they are attracted to the other person (with the 'How to' manual... LOL. When it comes to sex 'How to Manuals' are a fallacy and one can't be written for all. We'd all need our own, which would only be good for any given day... or person. Besides, discovering all these things about someone, is the fun and a big part of the process of 'knowing someone'.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'kissk' A man needs to use a 'come here' motion with his index finger whilst stimulating my g spot. Apparently this will drive me wild and result in a g spot orgasm. I can hardly wait. On reflection I think I'm more likely to give him the tradition middle finger motion whilst showing him to the door. this method has resulted in making me bleed from over eager guys with fingers that are far too long during what feels like them trying to rip out my uterus.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Turn Off!We (women) are not robots. Our sole focus isn't to allow men to do their 'little boy' experiments on us! That statement about a 'blueprint training' makes him sound like a dick and a one trick pony.Fair enough if he didn't know what the hell he was doing wrong and needed some kind of formal training around female orgasm by all means seek it out, but, don't then tell everyone??
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RHP User
10 years ago
No-one told me there was homework.... I wonder whether he practises the Jason Julius method when he is by himself. Like doing scales in the morning to warm the fingers up.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am an open book ",) - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
10 years ago
There was a mens magazine, I use too purchase each month. For a long time in each addition, there was a section where a woman wrote about what and where the bits were and how they could be stimulated. Also expressed was that many women are unaware of some of their pleasure zones. Now before the ladies all go off their rocker by me, a man saying that. I would go too Tara and talk of what I had read and together we would have a go at reaching some orgasms that were entirely promoted from the willingness to learn. So the bit about women not in the know either....... can only vouch for ourselves here, though we have found things pretty fucking awesome, neither of us had experienced before and still learning about each other. Not necessarily say just the G spot, but a combination of stimulation too several of the buttons, leads too pioneering some pretty intense heights of euphoric orgasmic passions to be released. It is sometimes a little awkward in the beginning, but some good communication, can lead to some wonderful adventures. I recommend, put your heads together and explore these pleasures. Maybe the guy, from the OP, is just expressing he is wanting too spend the time for learning a womans pleasure. Half your luck. Mado Mado Tara xx
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' Quoting 'kissk' A man needs to use a 'come here' motion with his index finger whilst stimulating my g spot. Apparently this will drive me wild and result in a g spot orgasm. I can hardly wait. On reflection I think I'm more likely to give him the tradition middle finger motion whilst showing him to the door. this method has resulted in making me bleed from over eager guys with fingers that are far too long during what feels like them trying to rip out my uterus. But being Tall also means I have long fingers - sorta comes with the territory.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Maybe the guy should just stick to the more generic boasts...9"+ and can go all night. Hot on a barbie and V8 super cars. Ridgey Didge Spunk4U....Would that suit you girls better?.Sheesh
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happy0450
10 years ago
Assuming this was a prime aspect of the profile it does appear to miss the point that generally; - The best sex/love making almost always comes from a strong (even if brief) sense of connection & intimacy - No two lovers are the same- The journey is as important as the destination That said, fresh of Google, I will try the "come to me" finger motion rather than the hitherto, what has appeared to work well, a slow circular motion around the elusive G spot I think if I read this on a Woman's profile, that she had some "blueprint" to make me orgasm I'd pass. If it was simply about the orgasm, I can that myself. Oh, one gem from Julius's site; " If you're unsure if the woman has come, put the tip of your pinky in her anus - she will involuntarily clench on it" Really Juls, how's that working out for you ?
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6exxy
10 years ago
Lol at irregular prowess!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Crapping on about their sexual prowess and their humour??? Everybody assumes that they are funny and sexy and all that crap.... But we still need to advertise what we bring to the table right??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
You is all such meanies... At least the poor chap is having s go....I wonder if J.J told him that all vaginas are slightly different..as are all women different...I wonder if he knows about erogenous zones...I wonder if he realises that the art of pleasing a woman is more about paying attention to what is between her ears rather than what is between her thighs xxQ
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