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May 18 2021

Just wondered if the way the search engine finds prospective matches is limiting. If your partner is bi it tends to find couples where the opposing partner is bi too and not say just bi female and straight male. Also if your parner is bi but happy for straight play, does this limit someone finding you as a match since straight couples won't be looking for bi fem in their search criteria and the search engine will only match you with straight couples.

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SpicyKale

4 years ago

Yep, it’s a dogs arse! You’re better off using the “sexual interests” tab when searching. Search for bi mfm or bi fmf, it’s always seemed to do a better job of refining things. The question of being bi and happy to play straight is a whole other can of worms. If you’re a bi female, no one will care, on the other hand if you’re a bi male the latent homophobia has a tendency to shine through a bit. Whatever the case, stay true to yourself and list as you are then you’ll hopefully find more suited playmates. Oh, and I do wonder if people use the search criteria at all and just go for pics anyway.... don’t get me started on reading profiles🤷🏻‍♂️

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AnnieWhichway

4 years ago

The way the search engine works is if both parties possibly have a pulse, or not, Dexter fires up the circuits and makes a match. It's then left to both parties to sort the mess....

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RHP User

4 years ago

Thought it would be better if the Orientation tab in the search preferences menu had a separate column for him & her so you could choose to have one or the other or both. That would make more sense.

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