madgray69

madgray69

M69

Orietation

March 05 2016

Hi I believe there should be another category in the list. I am not bi-sexual & I am not bi-curious. I am bi-social, meaning that once I am highly aroused I do not worry who is pleasuring me, if a female joins in. I am however only attracted to opposite sex. There are a lot of people out there who are confused about it, I feel this explains it better. I have spoken to quite a few, who said yes that should be a catergory. Mrs

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Pansexual 😃

  • PurePeony

    PurePeony

    9 years ago

    ... semantics, semantics! Apparently, "bisocial" means : 1. of, relating to, or entailing the interaction or combination of social and biological factors. 2. Sociology. of, relating to, or characteristic of the theories of or phenomena studied in biosociology. 3. of or relating to social phenomena that are affected by biological factors. So... bi-social isn't the right word for your scenario. Willow's suggestion of "pansexual" seems to hit closer to the mark : " 1.Psychiatry. pertaining to the theory that all human behavior is based on sexuality. 2.Also, omnisexual. expressing or involving sexuality in many different forms or with a variety of sexual outlets. And apparently, we can infer from the above, that the term "omnisexual" can also be used. And a few generations ago, it was simply homosexual, bisexual and heterosexuals. Life is getting so complicated!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Why put yourself into a category? You are what you are and your orientation, choices, preferences could possibly change again in the future. I say, just be and do what makes you happy and enioy the journey 😃 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Heteroflexible xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    👍

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Heteroflexible !!! This is the term used ,from a group on the sight fetlife ,the group is , bdsm glossary Heteroflexible ...A person who identifies as primarily hetero but occasionally find the same sex appealing ,or is willing , in some situations, to have contact with the same sex.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    "I am not bi-sexual & I am not bi-curious. I am bi-social, meaning that once I am highly aroused I do not worry who is pleasuring me, if a female joins in. I am however only attracted to opposite sex." I am curious - you mention you don't mind who is pleasuring you ... but who do you pleasure when highly aroused? That might be a clue as to your subconscious preferences. To me its all just a matter of going with the flow and if it feels good, do it. No need for labels. Your preferences, as you pointed out, are fluid anyway. LG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    anything to do with sex.....but.. I am fascinated by December 21 for some reason...*shrugs*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    It's the Summer Solstice...all the Pagans dancin' nekkid under the moon perhaps attracts you to that date. Longest day, too.😝xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    often wondered the same, so if pansexual is what it's called, that must be me. Open to whatever in group situations but wouldn't play with a woman on her own, and definitely not bi, but would be more than happy and turned on by a woman coming in to play in the moment

  • MrMechanic

    MrMechanic

    9 years ago

    Metro-sexual and Lumber-sexualFor city and country

  • PurePeony

    PurePeony

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'tulips4u' Why put yourself into a category? You are what you are and your orientation, choices, preferences could possibly change again in the future. I say, just be and do what makes you happy and enioy the journey 😃 - Posted from rhpmobile Never say never!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I am through and through Gay - I adore everything about the female body and personality the highs and the lows - I enjoy playing in a room filled with both sex's I appreciate the male body if well maintained but don't advance on me that maybe dangerous - been lucky it has been understood and no pressure in this environment - Posted from rhpmobile

  • PurePeony

    PurePeony

    9 years ago

    ... is a term that has already been in existence since the '90's. The meaning has no geographical basis. I love the city, but I am not attracted to men who are overly metrosexual.

  • madgray69

    madgray69

    9 years ago

    summer solstice I believe you understand what I am getting at, yes situational bi.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Is a style,a look. previously it was Snag..new age sensitive guy.. Same as hipster is now..nothing to do with sexual orientation ...polar opposite of Bogan me thinks 😝xxFreya

  • MrMechanic

    MrMechanic

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'PurePeony' ... is a term that has already been in existence since the '90's. The meaning has no geographical basis. Where do you think Metrosexuals live, the city, or the outback.

  • MrMechanic

    MrMechanic

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Summer_solstice' Metrosexual is not a sexual orientation though? You're kidding me.I never would have know that if you hadn't have told me just now.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    ... did you leave the "Integrity" part at home?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    My brother says my dog is gay because, although neutered, he tries to hump his (male) dog... my response is, he's not gay, he's just not fussy. :P

  • MrMechanic

    MrMechanic

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' ... did you leave the "Integrity" part at home? What

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'PurePeony' ... is a term that has already been in existence since the '90's. The meaning has no geographical basis. I love the city, but I am not attracted to men who are overly metrosexual. Lol. . I think Probity was taking the mickey out of you...... Lol. I thought what he said was funny but maybe because I am on high dose of antibiotics.... I am sure we all know what metrosexual means...

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Summer_solstice' You know it's merely a sign of dominance, yes? My female dog humps my male dog, who in turn likes to hump male visitors. Gives a very different meaning to 'Menage a trois'

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    9 years ago

    OP, personally i do not believe that another category is necessary. Freespirits is right that putting in bi-curious would be adequate and expanding that in your profile would be more explanatory in your wants in terms of sexual play. On quick reflection, i could think of two points for the irrelevance of this category: Firstly, having pan-sexual or other terms would be just confusing, specially if the terms are not common terms. Having a 2nd dimension to the sexual orientation can be complex and confusing for most of the people here understand the meaning and relevance of the category. If i have to do a search, will that be a priority search criteria? In all honesty, most people will not fill it in this category. They just won't. Preliminary analysis can be done by RHP to assess the value of this category to increase business and value to the community. however, if nobody will fill it in nor use it, it is nothing by screen filler that most people will gloss over. So that would not return dividends to RHP nor the community. We are all currently pulling teeth at the moment to find people to fill in basic info about themselves. more than the 'ask me' option in the basic descriptions of their physical and intimate attributes. To include your new catergory will leave most scratching their heads and we will hear a simultaneous groan of 'Huh? Wtf is that?' across the nation. Secondly, the other point to consider is that a lot of us here, specially the newbies, are on a sexual journey. What seems to be adequate description then, in any of the categories aside from physical, can change and evolve. They are only relevant at the point in space and time. What we may think is our position in sexual orientation or attitude one moment can change in a single meet, i.e. a turning point. There may be several turning points as we navigate the forks in the sexual path we follow, most of it non-chartered in our current lifestyle. So no point boxing ourselves in , inhibiting the potential and growth in our sexual journey.