OurSecretSpot Sat5thJan

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  Funtimes31RHP

  6 years ago

  I have been there with a lady and found it disappointing on the Saturday night we went. The place is very well run and has and is very clean etc. What we found was there was not much action between couples and we were there from 9.30pm through to 3.30am. It appeared to us that the couples who were there wanted to be seen to be there and only engaged with one another, with the exception of 2 couples and that occurred at about 3.00am. Sadly we were disappointed. The way the place is configured also is not we felt conducive to people interacting...it is a narrow building and a bit uphill down dale with stairs etc.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  I think with places like OSS and the couples club or wherever is that you are thinking of attending is that you have to understand the eclectic mix of people who attend and the different sexual experiences they are after. Some are quite happy to go and socialise. Some are quite happy to go and only play with themselves as a couple in front of others. Some are quite happy to go and mix with others and make a connection and experience on the night. It’s entirely plausible that you could arrange to meet someone before hand and go together so at the minimum you have someone you know you are connected with and atttacted to to play with there. Then let any other experience flow from there. There’s no right or wrong answer for what to get out of going to these such places - just what you seek and desire as unique people on a journey.. And at the end of the day you have control to make it a great experience... good luck with it!! ☺️

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  intheswing

  6 years ago

  We have not been to OSS but have been to couples club a couple of times We found it a very much no pressure to play and imagine OSS would be the same, so if you want to have some interaction with other people you have to put your self out there a bit, most people will not push themselves onto you at all so you need to talk to people in the bar or spa etc in the rooms say would you mind if I touch etc or would like to touch. So how much fun you have is dependant on who is there on the night and you also have to understand that some people are there only as voyeurs and some are really only looking for certain age bodies etc so don’t be offended if some shake their head no 😊 On one occasion there was a couple that only wanted to have a spa & have people watch them , other times a wife watched while the husband played , but you do need to put yourself out there & ask

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  intheswing

  6 years ago

  Just remember that you are not looking for mr or mrs perfect ( you should already be with your perfect partner) you are looking for a few hours of fun & most likely you will never ever see these people again so let your guard down & go with the flow & enjoy yourself

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  FredAndGinger2

  6 years ago

  OSS and other clubs like it are catering to a broad range of people starting from curious and nervous newbies and up. It's easy to access, non-confronting (especially on their newbie nights) and does emphasise social interaction. If you go with the expectation to play with others on first meet then perhaps you need to try a venue that is all about sex with more advanced swingers.

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  sweetnsensual

  6 years ago

  We love OSS and the theme nights they run. Of course it depends on the night and who is there. The monthly mingles are really good fun.

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  sweetnsensual

  6 years ago

  Looks like Dubbo is getting a play venue as well

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