Over 40 Swingers Parties....

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  rc_80

  13 years ago

  What??? The majority (90%) are for 35+ ...The youngsters are very under catered for.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'rockercouple80'What??? The majority (90%) are for 35+ ...The youngsters are very under catered for.Maybe thats the case in WA but not in Vic.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Your right Angel, Most clubs parties say max age 35 to 45 here in QLD, too. But a bit of looking around they are out there for 45 -55 yr olds.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  In our experience if it doesn't say under 40's it's pretty much going to be full of over 40's people. The under 40's crowd in nsw is also very under catered for... a few years back it was very rare to have an under 40's event here.

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  rc_80

  13 years ago

  sounds like a perfect reason to move then (you AND us)

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  DonnaBrett

  13 years ago

  Angel, it sounds like you need to come to Qld ..LOL There's plenty of parties here where you would be most welcome!! People who are so strict with the age groups they look for can be so missing out!! Just because you are over 40 or over 45 or whatever should be irrelevant . It's what type of person you are, how you look after yourself and your attitude that is most important. We're both over 40..hell..I'll (Brett) be 50 next year and without wanting to sound pompous we think we carry our ages well and people always think we are younger, or so they tell us! However we know once that age on our RHP profile hits the 50 mark our options will drop. It's interesting because we have met people at parties, hit it off great, play and then after the fact we check out each others RHP profiles and we find they are only looking for people up to say 40 !! They are surprised but then realise it's not a big deal afterall. Hey..there are some real old fuddy duddy types out there and they are only in their 30's..again it's all about attitude!! Sure we have that 'ball park' figure we are looking for..but we certainly will not rule anyone based solely on their age. One thing we refuse to do is lie about our ages. We find it amusing because so many people do, and because of this they are probably all playing with people people who are older than what they really want anyway....so at the end of the day it throws that whole 'we only play with a certain age group' thing out of the window!! LOL Remember Angel..all these folk who are so biased with the age thing NOW will SOON be on the other side of 45 because those of us already there know just how fast it comes around!! LOL

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  MissSarahCurious

  13 years ago

  Mostly older at the venues and parties i've been to in QLD also.

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  missangelina

  13 years ago

  I know there are milf/cougars' clubs in Brisbane Perth - for women over 40 and men under 40. ( I know some people hate the terms but I am not sure how else to describe them)Specifically caters for older women who love younger men.If that is your thing - maybe ask around and check out if Victoria has one? Does anyone know?We do have several 40 and under clubs/parties in QLD but most are for the over 40s. I personally have found that some 40 and under swingers' parties and clubs in QLD are more tolerant about the woman's age and willing to go over the 40 age limit if the girl is "well-presented". I am sometimes asked to attend 40 and under parties although it must be obvious from my profile that I am over 40.I know this is unfair for you guys out there but it seems to be a supply and demand thing - there are less women on the scene. Contact the organisers of the event you want to go to and ask if you can attend, if you are comfortable doing that. However you need to be willing to handle their answer whatever it may be.I also agree with MissSarahCurious above - we seem to have plenty of venues/clubs for the over 40s women in Brisbane.Go for it, good luck and have fun. You only live once.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Stilettos in the Northern suburbs caters to women of all ages but i believe prefer men (single ones) under 40... Give it a go! Fantastic place by all accounts :)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'ramee01' Stilettos in the Northern suburbs caters to women of all ages but i believe prefer men (single ones) under 40... Give it a go! Fantastic place by all accounts :) Thank-you everyone......   Thank-you Ramee01....

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Hi guys I am new to the seen and looking for some fun events to attend if anyone has somewhere I could check out.

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  MissSarahCurious

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'DonnaBrett' Angel, it sounds like you need to come to Qld ..LOL There's plenty of parties here where you would be most welcome!! People who are so strict with the age groups they look for can be so missing out!! Just because you are over 40 or over 45 or whatever should be irrelevant . It's what type of person you are, how you look after yourself and your attitude that is most important. We're both over 40..hell..I'll (Brett) be 50 next year and without wanting to sound pompous we think we carry our ages well and people always think we are younger, or so they tell us! However we know once that age on our RHP profile hits the 50 mark our options will drop. It's interesting because we have met people at parties, hit it off great, play and then after the fact we check out each others RHP profiles and we find they are only looking for people up to say 40 !! They are surprised but then realise it's not a big deal afterall. Hey..there are some real old fuddy duddy types out there and they are only in their 30's..again it's all about attitude!! Sure we have that 'ball park' figure we are looking for..but we certainly will not rule anyone based solely on their age. One thing we refuse to do is lie about our ages. We find it amusing because so many people do, and because of this they are probably all playing with people people who are older than what they really want anyway....so at the end of the day it throws that whole 'we only play with a certain age group' thing out of the window!! LOL Remember Angel..all these folk who are so biased with the age thing NOW will SOON be on the other side of 45 because those of us already there know just how fast it comes around!! LOL You two DEFINITELY don't look your ages. If swinging is your key to looking young I'm going to sign up for every party LOLxx Sarah

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We have attended a few swingers parties and we are always the youngest in attendance. Is this because all the couples our age are going to clubs instead?   Maybe we should be attending the swingers parties your referring to Angel_dreams, that way we will be able to play with a couple that is much closer to our age.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Angel if you're thinking about checking out Stilettos im also interested but not keen to go on my own as a 'single' woman! Give me a shout out, we could be each others 'wing woman'! :)

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  DonnaBrett

  13 years ago

  Aww thanks Sarah.. ...we don't know if it's just the swinging LOL... healthy living helps (ie: NO smoking, drugs or alcohol) and attitude is certainly a big part of it too! We will not let anyone dictate a certain style to us, as in how we should dress, act or even what music we should listen to! You have to be true to yourself. Quoting 'MissSarahCurious' Quoting 'DonnaBrett' Angel, it sounds like you need to come to Qld ..LOL There's plenty of parties here where you would be most welcome!! People who are so strict with the age groups they look for can be so missing out!! Just because you are over 40 or over 45 or whatever should be irrelevant . It's what type of person you are, how you look after yourself and your attitude that is most important. We're both over 40..hell..I'll (Brett) be 50 next year and without wanting to sound pompous we think we carry our ages well and people always think we are younger, or so they tell us! However we know once that age on our RHP profile hits the 50 mark our options will drop. It's interesting because we have met people at parties, hit it off great, play and then after the fact we check out each others RHP profiles and we find they are only looking for people up to say 40 !! They are surprised but then realise it's not a big deal afterall. Hey..there are some real old fuddy duddy types out there and they are only in their 30's..again it's all about attitude!! Sure we have that 'ball park' figure we are looking for..but we certainly will not rule anyone based solely on their age. One thing we refuse to do is lie about our ages. We find it amusing because so many people do, and because of this they are probably all playing with people people who are older than what they really want anyway....so at the end of the day it throws that whole 'we only play with a certain age group' thing out of the window!! LOL Remember Angel..all these folk who are so biased with the age thing NOW will SOON be on the other side of 45 because those of us already there know just how fast it comes around!! LOL You two DEFINITELY don't look your ages. If swinging is your key to looking young I'm going to sign up for every party LOLxx Sarah

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