F72
Overt sexuality
March 10 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't know. It really depends, sometimes I am in the mood to be really wild and like to "perform" for the crowd so to speak. Other times if I am distracted or worried about everyday life stuff I can come across as a bit quiet. But overall I pretty much usually say what I think though. I am a Gemini, and we are known for split personalities yes? So you never know how I might react on any given day. Mwoohahaha. Am I sexy? Sometimes I feel sexy, sometimes I feel fat and not sexy. Am I scary or walk around with a massive strapon in my pants at all times............ NO! It would appear that some people seem to expect that of me. It is a image that I haven't intentionally cultivated but exists none the less. I suppose I should tone it down. Do I live up to the Meeka100 hype, probably not.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just me...I don't have a fora persona as opposed to a real life one...I am as funny or boring here as I am in real life..it just depends on your point of view...and I have been told that I am just not slutty enough😘xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Argh......having difficulty finding the words! When I played Roller Derby I was known as Lil Red Devil, now Lil Red Devil was me, but she was also more than me, she was more daring, more confident, louder, had more sass and was strong and fearless. She was me to the 9th, who I wanted to be, but couldn't manage 24/7, that confidence and fearless stuff isn't always a reality. Lil Red didn't have responsibilities other than training, hydrating, keeping gear maintained and promoting the sport. I think it is the same on here, this isn't quite real life, you don't use your own name, your face may be hidden, you only tell people what you want them to know. It's easy to be more of who you want to be than who you actually are. To answer your question though, I think I am more careful on here than in real life. I tend to talk without thinking unless of course it's something serious. On here, I think before typing, re think, re write, until I have it right, so I think I probably come across a lot more straightforward and matter of fact than I actually am in real life. I've had many guys comment that I am nicer & friendlier in person than they were expecting.
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Missb4u
10 years ago
created this image of being confident and extroverted and out there sexually... I'm not in real life I'm actually very quiet and reserved with people I don't know well. I also do small groups better then large groups. I get lost in large crowds and find it overwhelming at times did I intentionally create this persona? nope I was just expressing myself on the forums and with people I know and am comfortable with I am like that it just takes a bit for me to be that comfortable with someone.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think this is an exceptional venue to extend yourself from your everyday, if you can't do it here then where ? A personal view would be that suitors shouldn't believe everything they read in the papers, its common courtesy to respect someones privacy, just because you have seen their nipples doesn't mean you can nibble on them. The only fault I find is those that expect a guy to be rude and direct when they take the above courteous position, I'd much prefer to unwrap you slowly and deliberately and for you to be receptive to this than have you drop your daks and wonder why I've slipped you a message :)
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Hottie1
10 years ago
I'm not sure what persona I've given on the forums, however I am overtly sexual, fun, flirty, loud, caring and compassionate. If after people meet me that's the impression they get, then they have seen me at my most genuine and honest. Like Meeka has said, there are times when I'm not that persona, the boisterous, bubbly person because day-to-day stuff happens distracting me from that. In that case I ' give myself a talking to' to get out of that funk! Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
People think Im very confident, and although I am a lot more confident than I was a year and a half ago, I am not "Kokoflamingo" confident! I am social, love meeting new people, sexually at my peak, but still have insecurities and hang ups because of my age. I wish I was younger, but to be honest, Ive met a couple of wonderful guys on here, so Im not doing too bad. RHP profiles show the sex siren side of us, but the normal day to day me is quite an ordinary woman.
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RHP User
10 years ago
we should be asking each other given that a lot of us just met one another... Tuscan, you are slightly quieter in real life than online, but you're still outrageous and tell great stories so that aspect of your personality is much the same as your online persona. Meeka, you are so tiny! I think that was the biggest shock I got. I didn't expect that you'd be a vamp walking around with a strap on but yes, I guess I expected someone more overtly kinky given your online presence. MissB, you are a little quieter than I expected but still warm and friendly and mostly what I see here. Freya, you are exactly what I expected and I'm so glad we got the opportunity to talk quietly after dinner on Friday. I could talk to you for hours! Mary, you are the same in real life as on the forums. Warm, bubbly, infectiously good fun and I loved you xx They haven't weighed in yet but Lovinit and Indy were both exactly the same as they present on here as well and they both make me want to move to Queensland. So, am I the same?? 😋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
I was reminded not so long ago not to be so serious sometimes when I posted.... and that's very true and thank you for the gentle nudge fellow forumite ;). I think about things quite a lot before I post, so some of the off the cuff humour completely disappears from posts. And alright, sometimes the tortuous threads my brain has wandered down prior to posting mean my posts miss the mark sometimes.... context Kissk, context! Am I different in real life... of course I am because here you are developing an opinion of me based on my writing. I don't post outrageous things, some of the humour disappears, and I don't think many of us would say differently. I totally agree with Meeka that everyday distractions can also influence your posts, and that certainly happens with me. When you meet me in person I am a little different to my posts... and hopefully in a good way!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' Meeka, you are so tiny! I think that was the biggest shock I got. I didn't expect that you'd be a vamp walking around with a strap on but yes, I guess I expected someone more overtly kinky given your online presence. That is what I keep telling people! I am quite lady like in every day life and like to dress in a classy way rather than an overtly sexual way. Look when the clothes come off and with the right people are in the room, yes I can become that Online presence that some people would expect of me. But I am not like that 24/7. I have numerous facets to my personality.
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ruby_blossum
10 years ago
I am funnier in person than online.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have to admit I deliberately down play the "kinky" side of myself at meets and greets. Sometimes I feel as if I am excepted to perform and be outrageous... so perversely I refuse to be that person. Contrary bitch that I am.
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
I like to think I'm the same in my real world as I am in here. I'm very comfortable talking about anything with anyone. I love to meet interesting people, my mind is open, I'm quite friendly, i can be very pleasant when I have to be, I'm respectful, the filter between my brain and mouth doesn't always work, I'm opinionated, I actually don't have to swear but I choose too, I love like I've never been hurt, I'm kind, I have a good heart, I'm fun, I'm loyal and my mind is my best asset by far, then it would probably be my tits.....💋 But I can be a proper c**t, when pushed....😈
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RHP User
10 years ago
In real life as in the forums, some days I sit back and say nothing, other days I can be more vocal. But not when I am at a swingers club...then I am different and it is definitely a conscious thing. I like how Meeka put it "I have different facets to my personality"....
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
You are betterer in person A wicked sense of humour, intelligent and sexy as hell in the blue dress.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Im an open book and pretty much the same person in all arenas. However, there may be contexts where element X of my personality is expressed more strongly than element Y. For example, in business, I am not as flirty in nature, or as light hearted in conversational topic.... but those elements make up my personality and while I don't suppress them, context dictates the expression. DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
At home, I am a completely different person. Rather serious and matter of fact. I have family Members that don't think that I'm sexy at all !!! Little do they know. I can be "very sexy" if I choose to especially in front of my boyfriend. On RHP, I am more "forward" and when I "message" men, my "friendliness" comes out. My husband tells me that I am a woman who harbours desires to be "out there" and he's right. It's only my circumstances at home that restricts me from being myself. Amy
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6exxy
10 years ago
actually has a great point. We can't see ourselves 👀 As far as personas well I'm sure there are a few here, that in some part is true. The right time and place may be needed but some of us are more than one person in the sense that we respond to the environment at the time. Sometimes sexy, sometimes quiet..... But like KIS said, it might be better to have someone express an opinion who has met you☺️ about you😘
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RHP User
10 years ago
same same here and irl. I think Yep. I am. I'm pretty sure that those I've met at meet and greets will agree. Speshly if I'm licking Moet off their leg ... I'm a cheeky BRAT.
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Agreed you are just as gorgeous in real life....
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm the same in real life (when around like-minded people) as here. Around my usual friends and colleagues I trend to bring up DP a bit less often in passing though.
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Hottie1
10 years ago
I didn't expect anything in particular but I loved meeting everyone. keepitsimple, not that I didn't think it already, you are simply beautiful, seriously beautiful! lovinit, you my darling have so much integrity, you are true to yourself and are so emotionally giving. Freya, you are a classy broad, who I admire and respect. lady T, though we didn't get to talk, you looked beautiful in red. Meeka, you are warm and friendly, I knew you would be :) kissk, I already knew my partner in crime is infectiously funny, spontaneous and caring :) I like the fact that I got to know all of you, the whole person, just a little bit better and on another level. Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
No...I'm exactly the same in every respect. Am I "Not helping my cause" by not portraying a semi-fantasy image of myself? Maybe...but it's irrelevant as I'm not selling anything here.I'm just here to be social, and the lack of expectation on my shoulders is a liberating feeling.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I really liked you too!
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RHP User
10 years ago
You little pocket rocket you 😘..I loved our little dance xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
online and offline but as already mentioned, I have my quiet times and I have my reckless times. I am not sure how I am perceived online, I think most people get me at least but as far as how I think people would describe me, I am not sure. In saying that, I am not sure how I would summarise myself. I often call myself a chameleon, I blend with my environment, whatever that happens to be at the time. I am a whole lotta things wrapped up in this body. I usually have a pretty good sense of people and have found most people exactly how I perceive them to be. I haven't met anyone I didn't like either, you lot are a top bunch :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm quieter face to face until I warm to people.... But I'm mostly me despite shying away from crowds a bit... Until about the 4th can 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'EuropianBliss' Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. Which is why you scare me...
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curracrusier
10 years ago
Hey there KissK, l found you a very friendly outgoing and extremely open person at the Meet & Greet on Saturday nite in Brissy !! l find myself a little the opposite in real life, l am a lot quieter than in the chat room !! Have a few drinks and l have settled down, l am still very open and honest but will delve a little deeper into the "REAL "me .. extend my life's stories good or bad with no fear or judgement as l wont care what someone's opinion of me is, as they haven't seen me at my worst or totally best !! I think we all wear masks at times in our lives to protect ourselves from being hurt or rejected or dictated too !! l think it is a very rare thing to have someone say they don't change no matter time, place or situation !!
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curracrusier
10 years ago
WOW !! what a great way to meet such an open and out going person such as yourself at the Brissy Meet & Greet ;) Even though l was alittle intoxicated , you have such a beautiful way with the English language hahahahaha !! Funny, witty and quiet alot cheeky lol l loved the banter we shared, even though it was at my expense !! Can't wait to do it again sometime ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think mostly I'm the same - fairly quiet unless there is a topic that grabs my attention. I'm horrible at making generalised small talk.
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Cheekyarses
10 years ago
I would like to think I am the same on rhp as in real life.... Mrs Cheeky. Mr Cheeky is the same x - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hottie1
10 years ago
Beautiful Meander, I'm still in awe gorgeous! What is it with these seriously tall, beautiful women😍 Hubby asked specifically 'about you' 😍 Miss B, the thing about quieter beauties is that they take everything in but what they do say when they share with others, has value and integrity. I loved meeting both you ladies. Ralf, I've said many a time how much I respect you, now that I know you better , you gorgeous are infectious, in the nice way. Easy going, relaxed and a ball to be with :) the beautiful Willow, Shesays, Elle, all incredible people, with spunk, vitality and a beautiful outlook. What can I say, an awesome weekend meeting some incredible people. Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think I never really met that many people at all. So I can't say who was different than their on line. As it was often just a hi this is... And that was it. I sat down and watched the dancing and was not in the room with the talking and get to know you folk. I loveky young woman did search me out from the chat rooms and said hi and I also said hi to her partner. Ralf a delight along with the others I met. The west ausie ladies well yes Grorgeous women and a bit like me, not so verbose as I am in the forums, God who would want that? Meeka and meander a couple of warm , fun and extremely bright women. Meander should be in vouge with those cheek bones and porciline skin. The lovely gentleman boots. Who keeps a low profile. And at last I met fun lover but again just a brief hello. I am not really that social a creature I guess , I just forgot to mingle. Non the less it's great to be part if this adventure and connect here or in the world with like minded folk. And ps. Stunning red head with the elegant blue gown yes you are exactly the same , but with that extra warmth in person. See you soon at ladies day I. The 28th I hope. And Freya is always her delightful self. Thanks for the great company sharing the hotel and for taking me to my medical appointment. Alas all my vertigo is permanent. Good news is i can have disability parking and I fall in my back a lot easier. My dancing days are over , so Boots, you got the last dance! ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I like to think I come across on here as I do in the real world, but like missb large crowds are a bit overwhelming for me and I find it very difficult to mingle and talk to anyone. I also think that how we perceive ourselves can be completely different to how others perceive is. LadyT l, loved chatting to you and found you to be pretty much the same as on here Freya I also found you to be the same beautiful soul IRL as in here willow, again I found you to be exactly how I thought you would be, so lovely and I probably got to know you more than anyone else. Lovinit, well you were exactly how I imagined you to be, you are so warm and friendly and down to earth, loved the big hug from you. Indy, I found you to also be the same person as you are on here, so friendly and a straight shooting type of gal. KIS and MsElle, such classy ladies and the same as how you portray yourselves on here. Ralf, I was actually a little intimidated to meet you and after meeting you my god I was foolish for feeling that way, loved you to bits, so again pretty much the same :-) Missb, I didn't get an opportunity to actually talk to you, but from what I observed you came across a little shyer in real life, but I see a lot of me in you and would probably guess that once you felt comfortable with people they get to see the real you. Meeka and meander I did meet you but didn't actually chat to you, so can't really say if you are the same as on here. Kissk, I thought you were more bubbly IRL and Mary I only met you briefly also but you were what I had imagined, just lovely :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Im an open book and pretty much the same person in all arenas. However, there may be contexts where element X of my personality is expressed more strongly than element Y. I'm with you on this one, pretty much only business scenarios which see the more sedate, less outlandish side of me. I'm as cheeky online as I am in person, I don't mind being the butt of jokes - I always laugh at myself so others can too, I enjoy being the centre of attention...I try to live by the motto of treating others as I would like to be treated. Shaz
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
CLEARLY.... there are a lot of guys in here verbalising, through their overt, or even graphic message proposals. Is that the real "them"?
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boots_69
10 years ago
For a last dance it was my pleasure and an honor to do so for such a wonderful lady as yourself Tuscan
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6exxy
10 years ago
KIS72 is a really nice and thoughtful lady. Quick wit, a gleam in her eye of wickedness and lovely smile. Ell67 is quiet but when you get to know her she can be very chatty! Lol a great smile, intelligent and sophisticated. Koko needs not worry about age cause it looks gorgeous on ya gurl! Do your thang cause you are great as you are☺️ Now I kinda wish I had gone to Brissy but my US trip beckons 🎉💃😘
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RHP User
10 years ago
<<< this one is as he seems...
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abcplus1
10 years ago
Online and off-line we are happy go lucky, not stressed about too much. We have all the normal work, family and friends responsibility and wariness when it comes to what we do in our private life, that keeps us grounded and guarded somewhat.
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RHP User
10 years ago
No... I am the real deal.. Ask me whatever you like... No character playing.. No expectations.... No let downs... No ego's... I like face pics in profiles.. Let's you know the person has no false pretensions as to who they are, showing the real them.. Keep it real, do it well... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am the same sexually and in real life as I am here. It is an interesting observation though. Especially when made about yourself. I have often thought that there are people online who are pretending to be something they are not. One can often see people like that in forums all over the net and are usually trolls or keyboard warriors.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Essentially in real life I'm a bit reserved until I get to know the people around me especially when travelling but once I get to know people I just revert back to me Seriously have problems with people who have to put someone down to elevate themselves I work on the theory I would rather have an hour long conversation with some one interesting than 5 mins with a pretentious git Too many good people out there !! ( slight problem I might be the GIT) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'DDG041' I am the same sexually and in real life as I am here. It is an interesting observation though. Especially when made about yourself. I have often thought that there are people online who are pretending to be something they are not. One can often see people like that in forums all over the net and are usually trolls or keyboard warriors. Yes. But there are some of us who like to put saucy pictures of ourselves on our profiles. It's a bit of an ego thing, makes us look sexy and feel good. Of course us women would only put flattering photos of ourselves on our profiles, and part of our body too. This leads to expectations by people viewing the pictures. I also contribute, or have done in the past, to these forums. I like to joke around, I like to say outrageous things at times, I have done outrageous things in my time. I believe my openness and running joke about dominating men and using my strapon also leads to people making certain assumptions about me. Not 100% sure what that impression would be, maybe that I am very load and brash and ooze some sort of kinkiness. That I don't like men, perhaps? The fact that I have spoken about swingers clubs, sex parties and other wild occasions openly on this forum also leads people to gain a certain impression of me. Truth is, I wouldn't actually describe myself as promiscuous and although I attend clubs and parties I generally only have sex with people I am already lovers with. So I enjoy the wild atmosphere but I don't normally enjoy the wham bam style of bonking.... not always but usually that is the case. So, people that have come to know me via the forums and then meet me in person can sometimes be disappointed I feel. I certain often feel like I am expected to perform and behave in a certain way so that I don't disappoint. But usually I am dressed in a classy but sexy way rather than overtly sexual way, purposeful so, I am lady like. I am not one dimensional sex goddess always talking about sex and flashing my boobs whilst holding a whip in one hand and a dildo in another. So LadyT, I think for some of us it isn't really that we are projecting a false persona. How I write is often how I speak of course it depends on the audience, I have never lied on this forum about people I have met or events I have attended or things I have done, but it is people's perceptions that are distorted as I think they view you as a one dimensional character. I have to be in the mood to be overtly sexual...... but LadyT. I can absolutely bring it on when the timing is right!
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RHP User
10 years ago
..... mmmmmm ...... yep ..... but tend to overstep the mark..... on occasion .... ..... sometimes this goes well ..... and sometimes I need bale money
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RHP User
10 years ago
I hope you have your couple of friends and the camera ready..It is getting green on my side of the fence.A couple of NICE places to shoot -- against moss covered rocks; dead fallen trees; lush grasses and other places...
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RHP User
10 years ago
It was great to finally meet the forumites last weekend. I agree that some I had percieved as being extroverts, but were the opposite. Loved meeting Freya and Lady T. Ladt T was shinning in her glittery red dress. Both who I hold in high esteme. Didnt get very much time to have a D&M as there was so much going on.shesays,lovinit,funbuns,elle,funlover and frozenfireball, I actually got to spend some quality time chatting, and you were exactly who I percieved you to be. And all you other crazies who i spent time with over the weekend, safari,rob&ally,mary,keepitsimple,kissk,sherrill-lea,gee too many to name them all,sorry if I left you out, it was lovely meeting and being accepted into the fold. Have made some ongoing friendships. Which could lead to trouble, no doubt. Haha
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RHP User
10 years ago
I misspelt a few words. Lady t was stunning, not shinning.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Groundskeeper Willy: Boy... you read my thoughts! You've got the Shinning. Bart Simpson: You mean "Shining". Groundskeeper Willy: Shh! You want to get sued? 😆
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