PJ's

April 17 2015

Just shifted into a complex and I was sitting out the rear courtyard the other morning having a coffee, when a neighbour (female) went across to the common BBQ area in long PJ's. No problem with that but got me thinking. When I have been in relationships I (and her) have always slept in the nuddy, I love the feel of cuddling and/or spooning to a naked female body. But should we be wearing PJ's. Is it possible that sleeping together naked brings a bit of complacence and/or boredom, do you get used to the naked body next to you, therefore you do not get so turned on because you always see/feel her/him naked. Should we be wearing PJ's to bed to keep a bit of surprise or excitement in a relationship, and therefore sexual curiosity ????

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Beds should do it 😊xxFreya

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Do what makes you both happy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The only time I wear PJs is after my shower before bed and when I get up before dressing for the day. I sleep naked and always will, I literally cannot wear anything in bed. It's also apparently healthier (vaguely remembering some article I read recently...). As to preserving mystique... I doubt that being exposed to someone's naked body and snuggling up to it every night is responsible for the demise of excitement. Indeed when the naked snuggling stops, that's when you know you're in trouble.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    What KIS said.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    But I like my bed to myself. However, when I have a sexy naked guy next to me I just cant keep my hands or anything else to myself, and I would imagine guys would be the same with a naked woman. PJs or warm yielding skin........no contest at all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    wearing PJs would have the opposite effect, wouldn't it? Skin on skin surely enhances intimacy, which enhances sex life? Each to their own, but I'm not buying a set of PJs anytime soon...

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    dont get the nightie thing. Ends up twisted around like a body wrap. Then try and unwrap that in a hurry. PJs? Getting dressed to go to bed? Just think about that......... Could understand if you live in an eartquake zone.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    Nakey all the way. PJ's, well I guess I may have to wear the in the nursing home but hell I aint there yet.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    My ex and I for over 25 yrs never slept naked.......but this was a man whose intent it was to make me inferior at every chance. There were also issues I carried from my childhood. So I only ever slept naked with a lover for a short while, but he made me feel like my body wasnt a disgrace. I have enjoyed this practice until recently when my new puppy has crept his way into my bed, now naked is awkward so ...not at the moment. I would rather be sleeping naked with a man though.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' Nakey all the way. PJ's, well I guess I may have to wear the in the nursing home but hell I aint there yet. Not until the night nurses start tripping over my boobs on the floor.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    There will be night nurses!!!! AWESOME as they could be the fuffers as well.........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    We have been married 26 years and I have always worn pjs! Singlet and cotton shorts . We are both highly sexual and have a pretty intense sex life together. However I get NO sleep if I sleep naked ! We fall asleep naked sometimes after sex, but for sleep in general I wear pjs. If I do not wear them, then all night long his hands are all over me, and it makes me grumpy when I get no sleep :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    So out come my trusty flannelette jimmy jams. I have an outside loo and my nipples might snap off if I go out there in the nick.

  • Single_Guy4U

    Single_Guy4U

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'PaintMeHappy' So out come my trusty flannelette jimmy jams. I have an outside loo and my nipples might snap off if I go out there in the nick. Or better still, be able to suck on the little icicle pops (To keep them snapping off of course)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Nothing little about them I'm afraid. Used to be freckles before the three kids. Now they're wagon wheels but thanks for the offer.

  • Single_Guy4U

    Single_Guy4U

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'PaintMeHappy' Nothing little about them I'm afraid. Used to be freckles before the three kids. Now they're wagon wheels but thanks for the offer. Iced daiquiri flavoured wagon wheels

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'PaintMeHappy' So out come my trusty flannelette jimmy jams. I have an outside loo and my nipples might snap off if I go out there in the nick. It is getting cold out there isnt it......I was out at the farm recently and as we indulge in the native beverage its that awful decision in the middle of the night...do I or dont I........sometimes its warmer before the dawn though and the frost. I can't believe you still have an outhouse......we have an excuse though.....no running water and we built ours.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I've slept naked since the day I moved out of home, love it! It's better for the body, helps regulate temperature, especially for the groinal area. As for getting too used to being naked with your partner? I've never found that personally...there's nothing better than spooning up against some lovely, soft skin, or just resting my hand on a naked thigh or hip during the night.

  • Dryphuz

    Dryphuz

    10 years ago

    If lying in a naked embrace starts to lose its intimacy i imagine that there's a problem with the relationship, not that you're getting used to the intimacy I do love PJs on a woman though... Doesn't even have to be sexy PJs, just something about the thinness and readiness for bed.