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Pandemonium and Noise VS The Sound of Sublime Ecstasy

June 10 2016

So I was chatting with a friend whom I consider awe-inspiring for many reasons but also for her "sexual maturity" when it comes to the whole swapping, sharing and swinging thing. I said that I felt really "vanilla" and was pleasantly surprised when she came back with vanilla NOT being a word she'd use to describe me (phew!!) You see I can't get into the mood in group situations I just don't relax. That is unless it's just me and multiple men. Which is kind of fucked up if I can only do it that way 🙄 I've been to a few parties with swingers and Fetties and personally I found the Fetty parties more interesting but I digress. My general question here is....How do you turn off to all the noise!? People outdoing each other in the moaning stakes like they have to be louder than the next person to prove they're having the better time. I find it off putting but then I also find the brrrr-ing noise my vibrator makes a turn off as well so I don't turn it on!!! (Yes I'm still innocent enough to blush). Anyone feel the same.....? Indy On Safari

Comments

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    9 years ago

    No don't feel the same. Im not really even experienced enough with groups to post anything here! But guess what, I'm going to anyway. I can find music off putting as it filters into my brain and I start listening to the words and singing in my head. So I guess what you experience is similar. I would think if it was fake moans and groans and oohs and aahs I would find that off putting and distracting as I do when watching porn even. Some of the women drive me crazy with their noise. (Ball gags are so handy) But when I think of the group situation I have been in. The noise only registered as a turn on when someone was coming. But they were genuine orgasm and very sexy people. And the only time I find the noise of my vibrator annoying is when I'm recording a video and that's all you can hear. 😊

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    9 years ago

    'Hello Indi gorgeous, my old friendI've come to talk with you againBecause a vision softly creepingLeft its seeds while I was sleepingAnd the vision that was planted in my brainStill remains within the sound of silence' So Indi you're not alone And in the naked light you sawTen moaning people, maybe morePeople talking without speakingPeople hearing without listening People writhing it's so wrongTheir voices, you pull your hairAnd no one even fckn dareDisturb Indy's sound of silence' Fools Indi, what you could do, is get right in amongst it all and bring it up a notch, break through the comfort zone and raise the bar by giving them all a good deep throated raspy chortle, gargle, even yodel ? until your going for it at over 60 decibels loud, that then dear friend is when you can let go of this sexual frustration, Indi on so far yippee, state of trance. Cool topic, educative, deep and meaningful. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    9 years ago

    Thanks Miss B ~ needless to say I save on batteries 🤓🔫 Went to a house party with a friend and 2 other couples. The host and his mates wife dallied a bit longer after the first round and you could hear him moaning like a stuck pig then bellowing like someone was killing him. That was off putting but his wife just said his orgasms were super intense especially when playing.... I just wanted to gag him and it killed my libido lol totally shot me in the genitalia!! I must say the husband of the other wife was fucking huge!!! Easy 10" and thick And my friend and I were in awe of it lol mostly he was I've seen some big ones 😎 When we left I said good night and shook his dick goodbye lol my friend was in fits....the bloke just looked shocked haha I'm told this isn't normal but in some situations it just comes natural to me hey? And I seem to get away with it!! I was at an Awards night at the Brisbane Exhibition Centre a month ago and ended up at The Press Club and I got introduced to this chick. She had a drink in both hands so I shook her boob. Lol didn't faze her .... It just felt like the right thing to do 😳🙄😂 But off topic sometimes it's like how could it possibly be that orgasmic when from where I'm watching it's not looking that amazing? I mean yeah I'm partial to a freaking gut wrenching moan too when I orgasm in unison with bucking and writhing BUT is all the noise really necessary? *Disclaimer ~ I don't randomly touch people's bits in everyday life...just sayin' ~ Indy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I have been in one or two group plays, private shindigs and venues but havent experienced over the top noise from others. Perhaps they all need a dick in their mouth to muffle the exagerated moans and groans? More action less noise? Lol Ive only experienced one guy who scared the shit out of me when he was close to orgasm. He started roaring like a lion! I kid you not. Very off putting and pretty much stopped me in my tracks. Was loud enough to never catch up with him again, for that reason.

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    9 years ago

    I believe it's like most things in life - basically, to each their own. Each one of us will react to different situations in differing ways. Some 'distractions' will annoy whilst others will go largely unnoticed. We may each have our own particular distractions that will just irritate in a particular situation. Similar to what you have described, just as an example, I love listening to music during the day. But if I have to concentrate on doing something else (not necessarily sexually related), I usually have to switch the music off, or else it will take me many times longer to complete the task, as the music distracts me too much. So the sounds you hear are probably just a distraction that is wired into you when you are in particular situations. Tall

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    9 years ago

    I once shhh'd a beautful friend whilst we were in a group play situation as I found it very distracting. On that occasion my actions did kill the mood a little, but I was finding it very difficult to concentrate on the bj at hand...or is that at mouth 😉 It wasn't the best move I have ever made and apologies once again to all those who were involved 😚 Overall I don't mind it these days, I can put up with a fair bit of noise and make some myself! It can lead to funny situations though; whilst at a club a month or two ago, my friends and I heard very loud moans from another room. That reduced us to fits giggles as it was very clearly a put on job; we had heard this person in action before and there was a distinct difference to the cadence this time round. For a moment I thought someone had turned up the volume on the porn 😁😂😈

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I was at a club with a large playroom and a smaller one attached. There was a bout half a dozen of us in there when a woman in the next room started shrieking in this high pitched, killer whale dying kind of noise.Well one person started to giggle, then another, then we were all in fits of hysteria. Went on for a good ten minutes ass just when we stopped laughing, someone would giggle again and off we'd all go. Was the most hilarious situation I've ever been in naked!

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    9 years ago

    Except when you know theyre faking it. That annoys me and I feel like bitch slapping them. 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    9 years ago

    Dayam ph - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Over the top noises can be a bit funny. I have told women before that their neighbours must hate them! and we all have a laugh about it. Otherwise I usually block all the noise out and it becomes background noise. Doesn't bother me at all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'm noisy though I don't think I've been shooshed! Unless you count the banging on a wall from the guests in the other hotel room, oops! I just focus hard on what or who I'm doing, I don't mind their noises at all unless they are over the top! I've been in situations and have said 'can someone shove a cock in her mouth' because the incessant talking of a particular chick was driving me to distraction! One other time I asked to 'have what she's having' because fuck it must've been amazing what she was getting, it didn't look like much to me but her noises would wake the dead! I'm more aware of the lack of noise to be honest! I watched a guy fuck this chick, when all was said and done she said 'thanks that was awesome'! Really? She did not make a sound and I actually felt for this guy! It's difficult to know what is right or wrong, just be yourself :) Mary xx

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    9 years ago

    I'm not asking for total silence but believable sounds of pleasure..... I mean I don't mind all the slurping and sucking and sighing and ecstatic moaning OR the orgasmic cries it's more the sounds you just know are bloody fake...... Honestly if I made as much noise as some I've witnessed please take me out to a paddock and shoot me!! 👀🔫. If I'm moaning uncontrollably obviously the lover is right on the money......don't fret if I'm just grinding into your face or on you. Fret when I slap the side of your head and ask "are you done yet?" I do try to close me eyes and go to a happy place.... I can however appreciate the comedy in these situations as shared by others.....have you been told to "shush" lately Lovely Mary? (Winking at you and blowing you a loving playful kiss)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    If anyone tried to shoosh me, I'd stop what I was doing, get up, grab my stuff and leave. Sorry but there's something wrong about making fun of the noises people make during sex. I let myself go and if I felt like I had to hold back, even just with noise, I couldn't do that. But my noises are real. I agree fake noises are bullshit and would irritate me too, can't even watch most porn clips for exactly that reason. But laughing hearing a chick's noises from the room next door? Yeah, that's just not a great thing to do really. There are times when I'm quieter, and yes a cock in my mouth usually quietens me down but I'm loud when I orgasm, particularly with the clit orgasm, the whole street can hear me. Do I care, hell no, and I'd hate to be in the company of anyone who found noise irritating. That would put me off my mojo big time. Good sex is loud in my opinion. My neighbours always know when I have special company lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    You're on the money there gorgeous! Believable sounds are erotic, I agree! I've not experienced distracting sounds other than one chick, all I do is avoid playing if she's in the same room. I have seductively moved a playmate to another room so I could concentrate ;) The first time I played in a group I'd drunk one litre of wet pussy ( alcoholic drink lol) and to this day I still find it confronting! If I'm not relaxed it doesn't happen for me either! You're a strong, sexy woman, you'll do what feels right for you! Mwah xx 😘 Mary

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Is that a actual song? If not dam that would be a number 1 for months on end!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Sorry (sounds of silence ) still great song - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Meg Ryan – When Harry Met SallyMila Kunis – Friends with BenefitsKatherine Heigl – The Ugly TruthJennifer Aniston – Bruce Almighty ... and whilst these four ladies could be on my all-time fav fantasy list, I may have met a ''sister'' in my travels. Just don't look at them as you start to laugh and say... ''Seriously?''

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    9 years ago

    It's a great song, Simon and Garfunkel performed as a folk rock duet, 'The Sound of Silence', it's their's and probably a bit more fluffy, quieter, for the likes of Indi on the tambourine, (spoons too loud), 'With Flowers in Her Hair', yeah laid back and it's their story, that'll always need to be respected. Probably appears bushman that we are wandering off topic and Indi runs a tight ship, I can tell you sir, she knows her boats, She ran a yard of shipwrights and the labourers employed, had smoko with them all every day and held her own, I know she broadcasts her infatuation, want, not need, still innocent enough to blush, a little shy perhaps, so one could only imagine Indi amongst the boys, holding her own, yeah nahh not thier's, she was in a relationship then, "still love him too, is that right Indi ?", sorry bushman, can't forsake the formalities, don't want to upset Indi, if we did, (don't know if you have, already) if we give her the shit's ( or you do) She'll come down on us like a ton of bricks, then that's it, all we get out of her while settled, is her love of big cocks, her disappointment when gracing the shenanigans and going's on, all the carry on entangled, fucking, exaggerated, as it seems nothing worth piquing Indy's chances for being refibulated until she starts breathing again on her own. Stands to reason all the carry on for not much that big going on, had her discombobulated and outta there and too her peace and quiet folk, on safari. So as we reach the full circle, ...The song 'The Sound of Silence' is also performed by 'Disturbed' a heavy metal band and maybe a bit too loud for Indy on safari. So I changed a few words of the version she probably wouldn't bother with, but it's an awesome, even one of very few songs performed better than the original hit's. But I don't mind a bit of noise, Tara makes most of it anyway, can't sit still either and it's her legs the usual concern, all over the place, uncontrollable thrashing about, once we catch hold of them, then hold onto them, it's safe to a certain degree with the foreplay, as long we don't overdo her clit too soon, too close, too early, too sensitive if she blows her tubes, reflex actions, us fellows most dangerous predicament, yeah sure her passion is vocal, we can't have her sit still can't shut her up, (building a sound proof dungeon, one of our blokes place we go visit and play up, ((on acreage too lol, a bit like you indy, the noise "she makes" I'm much quieter, except he has family nearby)) Yeah no it's not the noise, not the energy like a kid on a set of monkey bars; nor that Tara is mischievous, cheeky little willy willy, no.. It's when her thighs clamp shut and either of us fellows have our head down doing what we do, It's our mate's "favourite" thing to do, licking pussy, I've saved him earlier, he's up to speed now by escaping the trauma, when she does the 'Crocodile roll' So quite the contrary, hearing her passionate and unaware in self, (off with the fairies) Personally, I'd never wish her any different, she is beautiful. It's if not hearing her would mean her legs have crushed my or his head by the ears and in the throws of her uncontrollable, involuntary crocodile roll, so that she does not cum (clitoral) earlier than she would prefer later. On topic, I believe we are bushman. We going alright here Indy ?, you seem to be in a joyful mood, playful even, it's delightful.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Wow is he a true bush poet, that the beautiful Indy may blush some more. A man so fine just like a wine as he to gets better with age and creates a smile on this page well done to you sir my hat off to you. May Indy not kill me for ruining this page. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    9 years ago

    Trainmen not Shipwrights though I'm the result of a Publican and a Fisherman lol the rackets are long gone as is the pub any punters out there suddenly getting their hopes up. I like it loud....my music that is. (Winky face) much love you pair xx