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Paradoxical hypocrisy with social media and personification of perpetual perfectionism !!

October 08 2014

Pppfffttt !!! Im not reading that crap ! Too many BIG words !!! For fuck sake! ....,,.!.,.!!! Freedom of speech !! Freedom of choice !! Or Our own Incarcerated Freedom ?? Our basic human right that many are not privileged , but have we become unforgiving ,in our quests for what we want ? Expect ? Desire ? Our own ideals are they ? unrealistic unforgiving ? Are you greedy ? Are you self righteous ? are you better than the rest ? Is that not good enough for you ? We strive for perfection , to stand out, be better at it than the next , its only human nature to evolve and be the strongest ! prettiest ! Loudest ! Biggest ! Most perfect ! The best Will only survive ? NO we will not for in the end there would be only self absorbed loneliness . As we deny graciously to accept our own chosen disappointment . Our choices may very well be so vast it in fact will leave us with no choices at all , this is the contradiction of social media , online dating , how can something thats designed to be so socially gregarious lead you to a state of social solitude ? Consumed , engaged , ignorant , critical , Have we lost our ability to accept faults ? imperfections ? Our choices are so vast and varied we have become arrogantly unforgiving in our quest for our unrelenting ideals , a throw away society of consumers and materialistic abundances of status and self promotion we build for ourselves , actually be destroying society as a group of united socially motivated individuals and I'm segregating each, one by one until divided or cast aside as unworthy ! Unwanted ! Now Vulnerable ! We may very well manifest what we fear the most ?? Dejection ! Abandonment ! Solitude ! Loneliness ! Bitterness ! Sadness ! Alone from our own self righteous attitude of personification perfection as our own inabilities and faults are buried under a veil of denial !! Perfection never lasts perfect is just our imagination . Acceptance is our virtue and appreciation of what we do have , be not critical of what we don't have nor what we ourselves can never be ! For our own life and love, Acceptance is VITAL. Sincerely from the depths of a Bigocean .x - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

10 years ago

Big O that inner peace,happiness lies with accepting who we are.Life is full of experiences and learning, we can all change and grow....there is nothing wrong in having goals,wanting to achieve ,to live a good life,but I also think that to paraphrase the Dalai Lama.the interests of others,is the best form of self interest...the world has shrunk,we are interdependent,if our good life depends on the suffering of others,then it's not a good life...economic slavery is rife,we need to be more conscious of what we are buying and it's means of production...thanks for a thought provoking post Big O hugs xxQ

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lovman8

10 years ago

Profound and intelligent. And from a man on a sex site!

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RHP User

10 years ago

its very easy to replace someone if they do not 'behave'. Just get back on here and begin trawling again. So many words, so many ideas, so many theories. Keeping it simple used to be the way. Not any more. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

10 years ago

We are spoiled. Spoiled from life, we don’t know anymore what we want...because we want it all, what this all is, we don't know, we only know we want it. The words......................YOU DESERVE IT.......................sounds in my mind. You.............. ARE WORTH IT...................sounds even better.....................how................most don't care how. We are a society of wants....................we are not suffering.....we are spoiled.....by food.....living......and survival. Yes we complain because how can we not......all this things are in front of us, and someone tells us we need to have it, be it, like the most beautiful, most successful, our minds can't shut this wanting up anymore. How can we stop, we are driven......it has a purpose..........and it is called MONEY. We are living cash cows; we are full of money, which we are spending on all what we are told what we need to be successful, beautiful and desirable. Why should we look at the poor end of the world where people work for little so we can wear the fine clothes? We are desensitised to suffering for our sake. We have not evolved much from old times.

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RHP User

10 years ago

You might be interested in the Fair Wear Campaign...sorry I can't semf you the link xxQ

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RHP User

10 years ago

I found it thank you

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RHP User

10 years ago

Quoting 'Qefenta3'...economic slavery is rife,we need to be more conscious of what we are buying and it's means of production...thanks for a thought provoking post Big O I remember a thread not so long ago about economic slavery. If my memory serves me well Andrew Forrest was mentioned as being involved in promoting a fair go for the exploited.I heard a radio programme about Samsung exploited workers in Brazil one procedure in TV manufacture is allotted six seconds to perform...pffft automate or accept the human factor.2013's factory for in Bangladesh showed us the reality of sweatshops churning out cheap clothes for our "benefit"...I believe Rivers has refused to sign up to to the fair wear protocol. I used to like their stuff

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RHP User

10 years ago

Big Oceans profile - I read it - and I want it!!! Greed is good! I miss Greedy Girl Fridays - seriously they had stopped by the time I started going to clubs! So many men - so little time! Life is nothing but a paradox

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Circe

10 years ago

You're right, it's just too easy to flip over to the next thing, our attention spans are just so short and there seems to be so few people interested in quality in their interactions, just going for the quick fix and onto the next new thing. Few commit to actually getting to know another person and putting time and effort into a relationship. It's too hard sometimes and easier to just call NEXT.

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RHP User

10 years ago

The 'egoless' have that 'vital acceptance' from both within & of themselves whereas the 'ego driven' continues to look elsewhere for acceptance & approval. Insecurities breed and, more often than not, generally take control at some point. What we resist persists comes to mind, not just in terms of manifesting fears but in relation to change as well - as in doing the same ol same ol and expecting different results.

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Paradoxical hypocrisy with social media and personification of perpetual perfectionism !!

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