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Parties, clubs or private meetings? Whats your flava?

January 22 2013

As we dabble more and more into swinging I was wondering how others find the different avenues of play? How have you found your regular playmates?   We mainly have attended the clubs and had a couple of private catch ups and one private party (which was only ok) - just wondering what everyone elses experiences have been like?   Thanks L

Comments

  • Mr_MrsJones

    Mr_MrsJones

    12 years ago

    We are the same, we go to clubs reasonably regularly and the occasional private party. We have met ongoing friends at both venues. I think you need to be choosy about the parties that you attend though, some of them can be a bit of a dive. I honestly can't recall ever having a long term ongoing friendship from someone I met off a website though. In reality I don't think you can put all your eggs in one basket and there is no one sure way to meet good people. Like everything in life you gotta take the good with the bad. MrsJones

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We've got some friends that we swing with on occasion, haven't really had much action for the past year though (been really insanely busy with work and MR was away a fair bit). Wanting to get back in the swing of things and meet new people this year, we do prefer to have at least something in common/ build a rapport or acquaintance/friendship with people that we play with. Have been thinking that it may be time to try out a club or party or something. The parties I've heard about in our area (Sunshine Coast) seem to want you to go nude the whole time which I'm not comfortable with on my first go. Thinking maybe (just thinking) a weekend investigating Brisbane could do the trick. I'm wondering what to expect at the clubs?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I would prefer private meetings to parties or clubs. I like the intimacy. However I have not been able to meet anyone privately and that is not about to change. I have been to both gangbang and swinger parties and I must say I prefer swinger parties as they are more intimate in that most sexual activities are more one on one. clubs are definitely a no no. The advantage with parties also is that they are great social events where you get to meet people face to face and make new friends.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    To attend the private house parties mostly, as they seem to be a lot more relaxing and the costs are a lot cheaper than the club scene. In saying that we do enjoy a night out at selected clubs, mainly on a theme night though. One on one meet n greets are also a good night out, especially if the two couples click... So to rank them, #1 Private parties, #2 One on one meets, #3 Theme night at a club..