Parties... in YOUR home...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  My German Shepard would go freaking nuts, and bite peoples dicks off.   Besides working in male prisons has given me a whole new outlook on my security. As public as I am on here, I am very very mindful of my privacy in my home.   Not only that, but my daughters tend to drop in when ever they like. And they think I am a born again virgin, why spoil a lovely illusion.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We are really particular about the way we play and the people we play with. We don't even play on a first meet with people we've chatted to online. I think that its important to tailor the way this lifestyle works to your own particular tastes and levels of comfort and that is why there is absolutely something for everyone.Our home is special to us and so we are selective about who we invite in. It's not in our nature to host a party with people we've never met before coming over...it just doesn't interest us (even if we didn't have super nosey neighbours lol). But I kinda admire people who are that free spirited

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  redhot69chick

  13 years ago

  From what I have seen at parties people are very respectful to not go where they are not wanted, hosts usually put notices on doors stating that particular rooms are no entry zones. On the whole I have found party goers to be respectful of these boundaries; most likely because most who attend these parties are professionals looking for release from stressful lives and the very nature of swinging means that there has to be boundaries and limitiations. I think this cohort of people are more respectful and understanding of boundaries and will stick within the limits set for them, otherwise they will no longer be invited into the inner sanctum for such events and who would want to be persona non grata!!   So in answer to your question I would definately hold a party at my house and plan to once my pool is fixed.   Ps. Rockercouple I would love to come to one of your parties but your age cut off is usually 39 to 40 I am only 42 and am told I certainly don't look my age so any chance of an invite??   Cheers Red xx

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We have hosted a few parties over the years and love it! Enjoy the anticipation of getting everything ready, moving furniture around, setting up the "playroom", choosing porn (if that's what our guests like), selecting the wine to offer, lighting candles.....we dont invite total strangers though and we make sure everyone knows who will be coming and can check them out prior. Generally they are people we have been in contact with over a couple of months or so. No horror stories to report, we did attend one party though which was rather "interesting".....one of the "couples" who turned up wasn't a couple at all, just a single guy who paid for a prostitute to come along. He proceeds to dump her and go chasing all the women from the couples. His prostitute is left sitting on the couch demanding that all the guys pay her if they wanted to be with her and then starts shouting "I want to see man on man!!". Really ruined the vibe and we left not long after that. Mind you, it's a great story to tell and we still giggle about it. Mrs Waterbabes xxx

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Well I haven't hosted that kind of party at my house, although it's ideal for it. I always appreciate hosts who let us into their private homes though... and all those towels that get used... and all those surfaces that need wiping down... and all those showers and sheets and pillow cases, and all that spa water that needs to be emptied and refilled... and those smear marks on the walls, and the condoms flung around the place, and drinks left in unusual spots, and food scraps, and so on ... really some people are like pigs. It's really important that people pick up after themselves and show respect and appreciation. For those who think hosts make money from these things, I think you'd better take a good hard look at what goes on and what's required.I'm thankful for people like rockercouple!HUgsStalky

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  rc_80

  13 years ago

  We generally have to limit parties to 20 people, and prefer to stick with known couples, people we've seen at other parties, or people that have at least been validated and can hold a conversation via a few messages :) Feel free to register for any events though, our age limit is more of a "roughly 18-39". Quoting 'redhot69chick' From what I have seen at parties people are very respectful to not go where they are not wanted, hosts usually put notices on doors stating that particular rooms are no entry zones. On the whole I have found party goers to be respectful of these boundaries; most likely because most who attend these parties are professionals looking for release from stressful lives and the very nature of swinging means that there has to be boundaries and limitiations. I think this cohort of people are more respectful and understanding of boundaries and will stick within the limits set for them, otherwise they will no longer be invited into the inner sanctum for such events and who would want to be persona non grata!!   So in answer to your question I would definately hold a party at my house and plan to once my pool is fixed.   Ps. Rockercouple I would love to come to one of your parties but your age cut off is usually 39 to 40 I am only 42 and am told I certainly don't look my age so any chance of an invite??   Cheers Red xx

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  rc_80

  13 years ago

  haha, we've worried about that, but people know us well enough to call in advance :) We do have a big electric gate and video intercom to enter the property, and enough space out the back for about 12 cars, so we could just pretend to not be home ;) Quoting 'Jay_Me' Agree with you guys, I really admire people like RockerCpl80 who are relaxed enough to accept people into their home and not worry about it.. Thats what I call a 'free spirit'... I dont know if its just me' but what would happen if my family and friends who dont know Im on RHP knock on the door while everything was happening.. eeeeehaaaa... that would open their eyes..

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Well, I would be more than happy to hold a party. But seeing as though I have recently had to move back in with my mother, my house is probably not suitable...

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