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Partners pics on profile
November 10 2016
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Laidback_Fun
8 years ago
We think as a couple, we should be showing both of us. Plus for miss, she really has to be attracted to the male of the other couple in order to play. So for any other couples, we show both of us :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I always assume that a profile that has 6 pics of a woman's butt and nothing else means that everything else must be hideous. If your man had any sex appeal at all you would post a pic, but it seems very few men out there are worthy of a pic. Even in the private gallery there are very few decent pics of a bloke.
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RHP User
8 years ago
A single separated male profile is concerned about couples profile pics when there is no photo to show of said single separated male. Does all of the above ugly comments relate to the said single separated male.Member couples have private galleries for the purpose of making a connection, what's in the public gallery is just window dressing.But how will a Guest single separated male with no photos get a response from, Woman, Couple, Couple (FF) when he's worried about others photos
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Mezmerizingeyes0
8 years ago
Quoting 'Traum246' A single separated male profile is concerned about couples profile pics when there is no photo to show of said single separated male. Does all of the above ugly comments relate to the said single separated male.Member couples have private galleries for the purpose of making a connection, what's in the public gallery is just window dressing.But how will a Guest single separated male with no photos get a response from, Woman, Couple, Couple (FF) when he's worried about others photos Single separated male did have paid membership up until recently. Private gallery has face picture in it for future reference however this pic will not be displayed for public viewing. Single males job is one that is in the public eye, and although most people are accepting some do not have an open mind and may possibly effect future business. So although it appears that some people do read a profile they seem to miss some bits of information. Couples profiles certainly have a right to have images in the private gallery as do singles for the purposes of showing others ooops damn that's what i appear to have there. If i were to window shop I generally will look at what i want to buy from the outside before going further and it seems the lingerie in the window does not appeal to me when I am purchasing a suit. As a guest single separated male seeing a seductive, classy, stylish pic of either male of female is great to see especially when there is no nudity. And to reiterate one of the queries is with images how many females ask and want to have an image of their partner in some artistic,alluring pose that they take. And does their partner openly want to have something like that taken. Venusian although I cannot see the R rated image from the others that are on your profile the camera person (must not be Trumpist) has captured some great shots
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RHP User
8 years ago
My profile has MY partner....I am seated on her....
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RHP User
8 years ago
About what you do and not what others do. "job is one that is in the public eye, and although most people are accepting some do not have an open mind and may possibly effect future business. " Consider a lot of husbands of the couple profile can have the exact same reason for not having a public gallery image.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' My profile has MY partner....I am seated on her.... And one of the best partnerships ever seen
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RHP User
8 years ago
However, Misters face is in our PGs because of personal reasons. I like to see the guys pics in couples profiles. Twenty pics of Mrs and none of her partner is just weird. Im sure single guys love it but the same profiles usually scream NO SINGLE GUYS
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ReyandJean
8 years ago
We take pictures of each other and get pictures of us both together when we are at some of the fun parties we attend. We're a partnership so there's no "demanding" on partner do this or that. We do what's fun for both of us. The challenge is in getting alluring shots without the detritus of daily living cluttering up the background or the effects of life on the body cluttering up the foreground, lol. It's lovely to meet RHP couples who live up to their RHP personnae like some of our friends. Seeing pictures of a semi/un clothed couple in an embrace in a profile gives us some confidence that both partners are on board, but we remain skeptical until we have met both in the flesh. A number of profiles appear to be populated with pics from the "private" (antique) stash shared without one partner's knowledge.
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
Mrs b has many talents ,but taking pics with a phone or camera isn't one of them ,and selfies are just weird !we do have pics of both ,but she is the main focus ,the way I see it ,why put shitty unflattering pics up ,I want all the help I can get ,lol Tbh ,she is the ball in our whistle ,so we play to our strengths Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mezmerizingeyes0
8 years ago
Quoting 'Champagnesunsets' However, Misters face is in our PGs because of personal reasons. I like to see the guys pics in couples profiles. Twenty pics of Mrs and none of her partner is just weird. Im sure single guys love it but the same profiles usually scream NO SINGLE GUYS Your profile is spot on . The anonymity of a face pic in the PG is fine and as you say twenty of the female and none of the guy is weird. A body pic and a face pic are two different things. 10/10 on yours it show something of the couple without giving it all away.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'boobs_or_bust' Mrs b has many talents ,but taking pics with a phone or camera isn't one of them ,and selfies are just weird !we do have pics of both ,but she is the main focus ,the way I see it ,why put shitty unflattering pics up ,I want all the help I can get ,lol Tbh ,she is the ball in our whistle ,so we play to our strengths Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile there's no doubt Mrs boobs_or_bust lol God that sounds funny, but there's not doubt she is a draw card, hot as but so are you. I think you have enough of a vision of yourself to tempt so your profile passes, just aha I'm very down on couples profiles who don't show the male. If a couple is advertising the two people, then those two people need to appeal to whoever is looking to meet you, and how can they gauge that without seeing both. Sorry, I assume you give out more private pictures, but for me, I like to see both in public, face isn't necessary, but body yes, and there might be quite a few couples who would be interested to know I would have, or might have, gone ahead with meeting them. Always better to put yourselves out their with vision up front IMHO People will either be attracted or not, so I don't agree with playing to your strengths. Sorry, but I think it's just annoying, even for bi women, they want to see the man too, and it can get awkward if pg is opened and then the attraction isn't there to that partner. Just my opinion, not meaning to offend with my comment, but just how it is for me
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RHP User
8 years ago
sorry, didn't finish one sentence lol there have been couples where I've been attracted to the female but haven't responded because I couldn't get a decent look at the guy, and the few times they were eventually shown, I wasn't happy. A couple is a couple as far as I'm concerned. Showing pictures of one person may as well be a singles profile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'll just add that I'm holding back with my real feelings here, it actually shits me when I see heaps of pictures of the female and not the guy, there I said it
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'YaySummerDays' Quoting 'Champagnesunsets' However, Misters face is in our PGs because of personal reasons. I like to see the guys pics in couples profiles. Twenty pics of Mrs and none of her partner is just weird. Im sure single guys love it but the same profiles usually scream NO SINGLE GUYS Your profile is spot on . The anonymity of a face pic in the PG is fine and as you say twenty of the female and none of the guy is weird. A body pic and a face pic are two different things. 10/10 on yours it show something of the couple without giving it all away. who the fuzzy wuzzy's are. Care to show yourself op, strange topic for you to raise. I do wonder whether profiles on here start up new fuzzy's just to talk to themselves on here Maybe I did, and I'm talking to myself lol God I've confused myself
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RHP User
8 years ago
We've just joined RHP and this thread is such a great read. We were talking about what would make a suitable couple pic last night. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks, we deliberately put up a pretty tame profile set of pics as we like to keep some things private. And Im sure no one want to see a close up of a FooFoo thats over half a century old when there are hundreds of pics of younger sexy ladies in explicit poses. I dont mind close up naked shots at all, but there is one profile with a close up of the wife and a playmate ( he is a different nationality ) where theres no condom being used. So at least you know to steer clear. Just out of curiosity, would you put on explicit pics if you made a couples profile?
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RHP User
8 years ago
How people can be so crazy on here? People creating profiles to talk to themselves....a new low from you
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'MarissaB' We've just joined RHP and this thread is such a great read. We were talking about what would make a suitable couple pic last night. - Posted from rhpmobile Hi MarissaB,Firstly watch the couples piccy police as you'll be booked for only having a female public gallery pic and no PG pics,,, A good question you raise, and could be answered as:Put whatever you feel comfortable with in the Public or PG's on an internet site. Whether the photo be a partial or other view make certain your image matches your words for sincerity and truthfulness. We only use obscured pics for anonymity displayed to the masses. Much more important is your written word describing your expectations, likes and dislikes. Then when contact is made keep to a truthful conversation that matches your profile description. If not it'll be a short conversation, as when you're experienced you'll also pick the cons and time wasters. Good luck and hope you have fun times.
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Haleakala
8 years ago
I always find it odd when couples into mmf(bi) don't have a picture of the guy. Everyone has reasons though and it's easy enough to ask for a pic if a connection is made. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
FooFoo thats over half a century old That should read FoxFox,,,, old fashioned but still works
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RHP User
8 years ago
If we are viewing a couple we like to see pics of both. There is a disproportionate amount of pics leaning towards the female. I mean look at ours she's hot great body, me on the other hand I guess take it or leave it but we put them up to show we are here together. Preference for stylish classy pics no need to see your face in your public gallery. My wife takes the pics of me however I do believe the majority of interest from most couples both from the male and female perspective slants towards the female All I can say yaysummerdays bang up a pic just not of your dick 😂😂
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RHP User
8 years ago
well one does wonder when we see people validating fake profiles lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
not a new low for me, just what I've witnessed on here
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RHP User
8 years ago
I met the guy many times. Funny no one has ever met you? Lots of Cyber mysteries on here.......
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Darkerthangrey
8 years ago
This comes up a lot . There are no set rules re pics ( are there ? ) Why do so many of you get so bent out of shape . My pics are taken for my partner and my playmates . Answer to those that have asked ... my hubby is high profile so discretion is a must 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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CreativelyKinked
8 years ago
Personally I get more from a persons words than from a picture (of them or their partner). Whilst we all want a degree of physical attraction I'm more interested in the mind and how somebody thinks. What are their needs. What do they enjoy......who they are. To me a lack of a photo or two is no big deal and there's plenty of time to view one if the dialogue gets to that point. And as mentioned above many of us have high profile positions, or just prefer to be a touch more exclusive......
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HungCougarHunter
8 years ago
i dont think this post applies to you as you are looking for single men for yourself. not for your partner to share with. if you were looking for a couple, or single girls where people might be intersted in seeing what your partner looks like you can still take discrete shots of the male half ie blurring his face or other parts that might make him recognisable. I think its only courteous.
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RHP User
8 years ago
to spark the curiosity, the profile says the rest then things are revealed in the PGs. nothing wrong with public anonymity if you are then willing to open up to some degree in private. but everyone has their own level of what they feel comfortable with. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
But any of my hubby are private, i do have a public pic elsewhere. My hubby has a big fear of his mates or even more so his work finding out. I always try and get a face picture of other people first to ensure hubby does not know them....... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Think if you are a couple playing together "as a couple" then you should show both partners. If someone has a a job in contact with public they have the right to be discrete. As long as you are happy to share to some degree to those they want to meet. I would never go meet a couple of which I have only seen the lady. What is the point?? People are discrete with their images also because they can be stole to create fake profiles... I have some images which were taken by a professional and I am always worried that they can be stolen as they have nice lighting and they look a bit glamorous. HungCougarHunter... damn... I have had my eyes on you...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Oops..
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RHP User
8 years ago
If one is attached but playing alone, then no I don't see the reasons to share images of your partner... HCH, do you have a revolver in your undies or are you happy to be on RHP?? Lol... sorry... can't take my eyes off... haha...
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RHP User
8 years ago
It helps if you READ a person's profile to see what it is they are looking for... ;)
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RHP User
8 years ago
That members with NO pics get their nickers in a twist over couples profile pics. Take a chill pill people and look at your own representation with your profile. It's the internet, some will and some won't, some will have hidden pics in PG's, some will never have face pics in either. The thread was started by a single male that does not have a public pic, and members with no pic have an opinion what others are doing wrong? Untwist your undies and go take a few selfies to upload
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Traum246' That members with NO pics get their nickers in a twist over couples profile pics. Take a chill pill people and look at your own representation with your profile. It's the internet, some will and some won't, some will have hidden pics in PG's, some will never have face pics in either. The thread was started by a single male that does not have a public pic, and members with no pic have an opinion what others are doing wrong? Untwist your undies and go take a few selfies to upload completely agree, well said
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Quoting 'Traum246' That members with NO pics get their nickers in a twist over couples profile pics. Take a chill pill people and look at your own representation with your profile. It's the internet, some will and some won't, some will have hidden pics in PG's, some will never have face pics in either. The thread was started by a single male that does not have a public pic, and members with no pic have an opinion what others are doing wrong? Untwist your undies and go take a few selfies to upload completely agree, well said just to clarify, I don't agree about both not having pictures, I think both should absolutely be shown on the profile, but do agree about profiles without pictures having an opinion on other people having no pictures??
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' but do agree about profiles without pictures having an opinion on other people having no pictures?? Potential for the next topic ITM2,Members with a Pic, any pic, whinging about grey ghost profiles with no pic. The RHP site can be viewed by anyone, the profile pics (unless R), the forums etc. don't need to create an account and log on. Most couple male pics would be not be x rated, hence that's why we put them in the PG's. That limits non members and guest members from having a gander and makes the image available to who you intend to potentially meet.
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Mezmerizingeyes0
8 years ago
Quoting 'Traum246' That members with NO pics get their nickers in a twist over couples profile pics. Take a chill pill people and look at your own representation with your profile. It's the internet, some will and some won't, some will have hidden pics in PG's, some will never have face pics in either. The thread was started by a single male that does not have a public pic, and members with no pic have an opinion what others are doing wrong? Untwist your undies and go take a few selfies to upload It seems that you have not really paid attention to my profile if you are referring that my profile has NO pics associated with it. You also have not read the question on the forum as to the fact there are endless pics of the female for view both in the public and PRIVATE galleries. Seems you may need to invest in a larger monitor and learn to read. Where is there anywhere where it has been said that others are doing it wrong???? If you would like I can assist you to break down the questions, but to simplify it for you - how many females are proud to take pics of their significant other half for show either PUBLICLY oooorr PRIVATELY? and How many guys are happy to let a pic to be taken for others to see or do they not feel that they are "good" enough. Seems the like of Champagnesunsets, BooborBust, ReyJean & Stylcouple have exactly what the query relates to. Now please if I am wrong by the above I retract my comments, however I do not think there is any where I say others are doing it wrong - happy to be advised if that is not the case
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Taby_DK
8 years ago
We have body shots of both of us public on our profile (6 of me, 3 of him). We also have face pics of both of us in our private gallery (3 of me, 2 of him) due to us both having a job where we can't show them publicly. I agree though as the female half of a couple its really frustrating looking at a couples profile with only photo's of the female half, sometimes even when it comes to face photo's its only of the girl. You need to be attracted to both members of a couple to meet and we won't meet a couple unless we can see a clear photo of both members of the couple first. Taby x
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RHP User
8 years ago
It always frustrates me when I receive a flirt or message from a couple and there are no pics of the male partner. I am really not that fussy about the female's looks but I am extremely particular about the male half of the duo. Come on guys, learn to take a decent 'selfie', or get your lady to take a few decent face shots (no dick pics, please!) There is no excuse for not posting one or two clear pics in your private gallery if you really want to hook the ladies for a threesome.
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Wildheaven
8 years ago
Must fully agree with the well worded comment by the learned members from Victoria- Traum246. Not all the members on this and may I say, other sites are in a position due to employment, family and no doubt a plethora of reasons to post photos and risk being recognised as active members of a swingers site; or be that for some; wanta beeee swingers.....And further to that, who has the rite to criticise someone because they are comfortable within a personal zone and with what they choose to or choose not to display.We are here to have fun, not to provide cheap thrills for the wanta bees
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RHP User
8 years ago
As far as I'm aware, non members can't view profiles, they have to at least be a guest member don't they? I thought the public could only read the forum but not go into profiles, could be wrong. I am obviously very aware though that fuzzys could be anyone, and that disturbs me. I think everyone should have to have verified pictures, to protect privacy. I don't think we should have to hide our naked selves, or more explicit, because of fear of people spying on us incognito. They seriously need to make it compulsory to have pictures on profiles, and all profiles should have to be verified, and some associated pictures left on the profile to cement that, if that makes sense. I hate fuzzy looking at Mt profile, I'd block the lot if I could, if there was a filter to do it 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
Typos 😀
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RHP User
8 years ago
it seems the men are hidden or promoting their partners only for some reason ?? why is this ?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just to throw our experience so far (newbies 7 weeks in)... We have tried to equal the pics on both our public and private galleries. It makes sense that, although the F is the more attractive of us by far, there is no point in not showing myself the M to potential suitors, as all we be unveiled at some point! We have no intention of taking one for the team, and so no pics of both, no date from us 😃 - Posted from rhpmobile
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sensualplay
8 years ago
Well it seems we are guilty of this. We once had partial photos of our faces, but then people we knew recognised us in our profile (easy to happen not living in a city). There were more photos of Mr initially but the occasion mrs is behind the camera, the photos end up being deemed explicit, so those photos are moved into the private access folder (where full face photos are of both of us). Even the photo of Mr on our front profile has been edited in photoshop to remove his erection. In the end we have more photos of Mrs because she enjoys it more on the other side of the camera, and it is rare we are mucking around with a camera because we'd prefer to be using our hands for other things :-D The thread has us thinking though to be more considerate. We find a lot of the time there are simply no photos of Mr in couples or at times even no description of him. It is rare that we share experiences with couples these days and it makes it difficult to decide when there is hardly any information about the Mr in a couple. We're inspired to put more of a description of both our personalities and extra photos of Mr .... It'll be interesting to see how this changes the contacts made
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RHP User
8 years ago
We totally agree both male and female should post a pic especially if they are looking as a couple - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Not sure if my last comment worked, so second try . As the male half, I don't mind having pics of me up, but we do have more of my partner . That's because I take a lot more pics of her, and I thoroughly enjoy guys and girls admiring her, she's super hot! She loves to show off, and I equally love her doing so. So yeah, there's more of her, and we're comfortable with that :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
If you are a couple you should have a couple pic up. That is my opinion anyway. To many blokes use the girls as bait exactly as said in other posts. They then moan they get the wrong people looking at their profile. I know everyone has their own reasons and privacy level but i find it silly personally and an indication that the bloke has a few self esteem issues or biases they are not comfortable in addressing. Usually along the lines of 'i don't want guys checking me out'. LOL no confidence but lots of prejudice.
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RHP User
8 years ago
All but one of our public pics are of Mrs D, but there are plenty in the private galleries showing both faces, body shots and more intimate pics in gallery 2. I haven't been left out of public pics on purpose but if someone gets a peek in our PG's they have the full picture. Should put some more shots of me in public gallery I guess and await the stampede of hot babes heading my way lol Mr D
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RHP User
8 years ago
We are a couple that seek couples and sometimes we may look for singles. On our profile we have stated that we will want to exchange photos before we commit to meet. As we are one here for the both of us we would expect the couple we meet are for the same reason and not just because one wants it and the other reluctantly follows. For this we would expect to see photos of both the guy and girl, we have pics of both of us on our profile and are happy to show then to protental playmates. If a couple won't show photos of the both of them we generally will not take it further.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Very common... All about her. Yet it's supposed to be a Couple profile. And couples who first and foremost list looking for a women, and oh maybe a couple. They typically don't word it that blatantly... But I couldn't be bothered. She is just the bait... So it seems. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'YaySummerDays' Quoting 'Traum246' That members with NO pics get their nickers in a twist over couples profile pics. Take a chill pill people and look at your own representation with your profile. It's the internet, some will and some won't, some will have hidden pics in PG's, some will never have face pics in either. The thread was started by a single male that does not have a public pic, and members with no pic have an opinion what others are doing wrong? Untwist your undies and go take a few selfies to upload It seems that you have not really paid attention to my profile if you are referring that my profile has NO pics associated with it. You also have not read the question on the forum as to the fact there are endless pics of the female for view both in the public and PRIVATE galleries. Seems you may need to invest in a larger monitor and learn to read. Where is there anywhere where it has been said that others are doing it wrong???? If you would like I can assist you to break down the questions, but to simplify it for you - how many females are proud to take pics of their significant other half for show either PUBLICLY oooorr PRIVATELY? and How many guys are happy to let a pic to be taken for others to see or do they not feel that they are "good" enough. Seems the like of Champagnesunsets, BooborBust, ReyJean & Stylcouple have exactly what the query relates to. Now please if I am wrong by the above I retract my comments, however I do not think there is any where I say others are doing it wrong - happy to be advised if that is not the case You are correct, we have not "paid attention" to your profile. Your profile thumbnail displays in this topic as "No Photo", hence our comment of No Photo. If you want to be condescending and comment on the size of our monitor and capability to read, it just demonstrates your inability to play well in a group, hence limiting your own chances.A really offensive comment on your part and amazing the moderators allowed it.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Wildheaven' Must fully agree with the well worded comment by the learned members from Victoria- Traum246. Not all the members on this and may I say, other sites are in a position due to employment, family and no doubt a plethora of reasons to post photos and risk being recognised as active members of a swingers site; or be that for some; wanta beeee swingers.....And further to that, who has the rite to criticise someone because they are comfortable within a personal zone and with what they choose to or choose not to display.We are here to have fun, not to provide cheap thrills for the wanta bees It's the internet, people will display what they are comfortable with, or what suits their purpose.There's always the Private Gallery for other pics.
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RHP User
8 years ago
100% agree, irritates me and is one of a few reasons couples are now permanently off my radar. It's almost always about the male not looking as good as the female and using the privacy/work excuse to hide the fuggle or beer belly lol shit I need more coffee 😂😂😂 but seriously, do they honestly think we're so stupid, we'll believe all this? And no offence to the guys with beer belly's who show themselves, stand proud as they should, it's those who don't have a good self image and pimp out their women. It's not a singles profile so to those who hide one partner, have more respect for our intelligence. We can read between the lines 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
Another thing that can be quite off putting is when the photos on profiles are of the couple when they were very much younger. We even meet a couple once who were different people to the photos that they showed us. Go figure did they think we wouldn't notice.....really.......
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RHP User
8 years ago
As a couple I think both should be on the profile - not necessarily in the public but definitely in the private galleries. I (female half) get annoyed when browsing other couples photos and all I can see is another woman, as I really want to know whether the male partner is as attractive as his lady.... Saying that we keep our photos private until we believe the other couple is genuine - but than we share our facial pictures gallery and for us a face is more important than the rest of the body when the comes to attraction. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
So many women pics, so few men.....we used to only have I pic of Mrs Two4sexyfunwa, but since we put up pics of both of us we have gotten double the amount of hits we used to get. If people get to see both, then they know what they are getting...pretty simple really.
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RHP User
8 years ago
there were more of himhis face and only one of him naked I did not show my face, I have been recognised to many times and once a guy was sitting next to me for hours and I had no idea he was on rhp but he sure knew i was he hit on me when out of ear shot, it was a public event. Women need to see a face picture, its just the way of things. Men not so much I have found. In the end its all about choice, what people do is their choice. not wanting to go further because no picture of the guy, thats your choiceif we went the photo police to validate everyone, then RHPl empty out in a day. this is a business not a social club
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RHP User
8 years ago
Omfg so over people that think they are so important that they can't show pictures of them both. Nobody lives in a bubble and nearly everyone on here would like discretion about what they do in their private lives. We don't care what public profile you have is nobody's business but yours People should grow up be honest and upfront about who they are and what they want without being asked multiple times for .... yes..... face pictures. We have had couples say just meet us we are attractive. Who are they to decide what i find attractive. we want discretion but show who we are that way people know who they are messaging up front. That's one decision that can be made without making someone feel uncomfortable about saying no once a conversation has started and they aren't physically your cup of tea. Rant over :) Kisses kitten - Posted from rhpmobile
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yummymummy28
8 years ago
I take our pictures and choose the ones to show of her. I love showing her off and she is the most beautiful sexy thing in the world to me. I use to have equal amounts of myself also but found that my physic either made other guys feel insecure or i was too muscled. That was feedback from others that i took on. Mrs Y likes to see pictures of the guys on their profiles but they rarely show much. A close up of your sunglasses or crotch tells us nothing. Each to their own. 😊 Oh and dont be demanding, peeps, to view peoples pg because you gave access to yours without the other party even asking in the first place. Just saying 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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NaiBo
8 years ago
As many noted here, there are not many male photos on couples profiles.Most of the women are not interested to see size and shape of the cock, yetthat's one of the main photos that represents male partner on so many couple's profiles. Ladies, PLEASE enlight your male partners about that. My lady loves seeing the whole malebody, especially chest, arms, shoulders, even arse. We feel that is most of the times pointless to initiate a contact if couple is not showing a pictures of both of them. If a couple wants to meet another one, isn't it just a common sense to show yourself,both!, and not let others wonder how you might look like. In these days when people don't have much free time it's very unlikely that someone willrisk wasting their time going on a "blind date". We certainly wont. And another thing, what's with one photo profiles?! what are we to make of that? to ask for morephotos? If a female is showing her arse or tits only, have the same effect if a guy is showing only his cock. A bit pathetic... Mr Bo
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NaiBo
8 years ago
Hubby just encapsulated my feelings very well. I get pretty frustrated by the disembodied cocks on show on so many profiles. I mean sure, nice cock... but often that's it. There is little to no context provided. Hubby is happy - lots of gorgeous photos of beautiful naked or seductively posed women. But where are the photos for me as the female hetero partner? I also wonder whether it is that guys feel that putting their photos up is just not OK somehow? That posing for photos is just not ..... said in a deep deep voice .... "manly" (LOL). I wish female partners could grab the camera, experiment with poses for their men and encourage them. We made a conscious decision in our public and private galleries to have a pretty even number of my photos and his. How am I supposed to say - "yes, let's progress this - I like the look of this couple" when I am only seeing photos of the female partner. I am bi-curious I guess but.... for me the main action is going to be with the male partner. I want to see him. I don't want to turn up to a meeting with a couple and feel that I am going in 'blind'. We had one couple who provided us with - literally 49 photos of the female partner in various seductive poses and one cock shot of him. When we asked for some more photos of him, she told me he didn't want any photos of him. They don't have to be face pics. Just - I don't know, can I see your chest, your back, your bottom (I love that word...bottom...)? Many of us are a bit (or perhaps a lot... it's a spectrum) self conscious about our bodies. Most will choose to put the more flattering photos onto our profiles - that's very 'human' of us. But please guys/fellas/blokes/men, put photos of yourself out there for us to see. Put them into 'private gallery' if you are particularly self conscious and 'vet' those who have access. We want to see you. Please....
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RHP User
8 years ago
For us, the female half loves to show off, and she's incredibly hot, so I fully embrace her flirty, flashing side. She really enjoys the attention, and equally, me (the male half) loves watching people drool looking at her. We both get off on people perving on her. That being said, I we have photos of both of us here, but definitely more of her. Probably because I take a lot of pics of her, and we both enjoy the attention she attracts here :) All couples should have at least one pic of the male though - preferably several. That way it makes it a bit easier to find mutual attraction when looking for playmates . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I agree with couples not posting pics for the masses of oversexed young blokes to use as wank fodder. I believe it is probably safer and more discreet to only reveal pics once contact is made due to an outline of hopes and expectation in the text of the profile. There are so many scammers out there and I can also attest to that by misrepresenting my own profile until I decided to pull my head in and accept that if most of 50 odd year old women in my age group want to bang those 30 year old car chasers so be it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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roomforanextra
8 years ago
Our stance is that by posting pics of both of us, potential players will have a good idea of what they'd be getting right from the beginning. Sure, it probably costs us some possible connections given that men rarely look as sexy in pics as women do, but at least is saves some of the time wasted first chatting and hitting it off, only then to be given the flick once they've seen the both of us. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Because Im ugly and shes not.. Oh crap my photo is up! Third world problems.. dont care... if they dont want to show pics we wont be meeting them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Righto. As a male I'm not overly picky of how a female looks. But. When looking for a couple (as you said this mainly about couple profile pics) we are looking for mff experiences or couples. I beleive it is important that i know my wife is getting a female that WE like and the male is of the same or higher calibar as myself. By the way i am no supermodel. But i do my best to present myself well. ( gym. Dress we'll. And well groomed) I only want the best for my wife. I'm not about to let a male who thinks that how he is will be good enough if his missrs is nice. Fellas you should always be bettering yourselves. Then u should be ( maybe not fully comfortable with pics) able to let your misses put some pics up. I cannot stand when there r only pics of the woman. No male pics. Seems like the males r using their partner as a draw card. Knowing that they arent so appealing to other females. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
As a single woman that only plays with couples this is one of the most frustrating things I have to deal with. I make it clear on my profile both couples on the pic. I have to ask the question over and over again and if I'm not attracted to the male then I cop abuse for saying no!! So bloody annoying! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I loved this article .. I find nothing more sexier than my hubby to I would be glad to paste sexy photos of him all over page but I would hope he would wish for this in return and as long as he was truthful open and honest and I would convince him to put some profiles up with non photo shopped boost his confidence and allow other women to tell him what I see in him and as i know my WORDS are not enough so hoping my actions will always make a believer. - Posted from rhpmobile
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