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Passing with grace.

October 07 2013

Would love to hear of people who have got as far as meeting with fellow RHPers for coffee/drinks etc, and decided there wasn't chemistry enough to progress further. How did you handle it? Tactfully? Gracefully? Shockingly? What are your stories?

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  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    This is what the meet and greets are about. I've met and have become friends (I think!!) with the majority of people I've met here. The other minority were just casual meets and both walked away nothing ventured nothing gained and nothing lost either. It's all a networking opportunity. I think the disapointment would come if the expectations/assumptions were too high or unrealistic. Keep it real I believe and treat every person you meet as you would a job interviewer or any other social situation where you meet a random stranger. Safety first, no expectations second and comfort/ease of conversation third. If anything else comes of it it's a bonus. Less stress is best and just cos you're on the "Pie" doesn't mean you're a "sure thing" nothing in life is 'cept death and taxes. Indy On Safari and looking forward to a brilliant future. It's all in your perspective. xx- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We have met a number of guys & couples for drinks now. My lady is very good at letting them know with out prompting that if nothing eventuates ( for either party ) it's a nice way to meet people we never would have met normally.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I met someone once and they text me after saying "Sorry you're too fat to what I am looking for". I was offended!! That is disrespectful so no more contact from me. I have met some beautiful people whom I call friends and I like them for who they are not because of RHP. I think it comes down open and honest communication to get what both people compromise and want. I think there are some people on here simply can not handle criticism or rejection and lash out. I have no obligation to anyone who is rude to me. If you are nice to me, I am nice to you. :) FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    OP,I thought this thread was about dead members...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I believe in treating someone with how you would like to be treated. It does not take much effort to give respect and preserve a little dignity to another person. If the other person cannot handle rejection then that is something they have to live with if you have treated the situation with respect. You leave the situation with your conscious intact. Though everyone has their own personality and treats situations differently which what makes life intriguing!Cheers

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Farting at the table and keeping a straight faceSilent but deadly, he heMado

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Dearly Departed one,You lived to tell the story of the bird dying and the dog eating the phone.Kind regards,Still living and breathing. xx FOXY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Have never met someone from RHP with the intent of "progressing further" and have only ever met RHPers through the Meet and Greet nights as a social event... guess I'm either a little too shy or a little to 'go with the flow' relaxed to push the intent.I would like to think if I ever did organize a meet with the intent to "progress further" and the spark wasn't there that I would handle it with tact and grace and that if she didn't feel the spark she would return the courtesy in kind.Whilst blunt force trauma is not fun I would rather honesty and to be told where I stand.In the end if you meet a person and you don't click at the emotional/sexual level it doesn't mean you can't still be friends.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    The challenge is accepted.....lol let the farting begin!! xx- Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' The challenge is accepted.....lol let the farting begin!! xx- Posted from rhpmobile can only cook baked beans, unless you have a better idea.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    a community activist in the 60s and early 70s once proposed a ''fart-in'' at a RochesterPhilharmonic Concert.The idea was that 100 tickets would be bought and before the concert ,very large quantities of baked beans would be consumed and then when the woodwinds began,so would the farting.Alinsky said ''Ridicule is man's most potent weapon,'' He was the author of ''Rules for Radicals''.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    a community activist in the 60s and early 70s once proposed a ''fart-in'' at a RochesterPhilharmonic Concert.The idea was that 100 tickets would be bought and before the concert ,very large quantities of baked beans would be consumed and then when the woodwinds began,so would the farting.Alinsky said ''Ridicule is man's most potent weapon,'' He was the author of ''Rules for Radicals''.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You know you're "friends" when you can fart in each others beds. :) FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    for what a simple graceful pass of wind can turn into

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    11 years ago

    Superfox n Mado - I can't stop giggling!!! You two are so cool!!! But you must be comfortable with someone when you can fart in their presence xxx Too funny

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Indi is just warming up too

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    So after passing on an encounter, the passee passes wind, at which both the passee and the passer pass out, with one or more possibly passing away?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That's impressive, but would be considered lethal force in a community hall concert....

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    That'll blow you away......Mwahahahahaha 😎baked beans is an urban myth!! Ppfffft OP sorry to digress, but if you were to meet me for example, given we have conversed a little privately; would you have any pre-conceived notions/expectatioms as to the outcome of our first meeting? And if so....what might they be? 😃 If I didn't live up to those ill-formed notions and all we did was giggle and talk animatedly but there was no chemistry (sexual or otherwise) between us except a love and delight in the absurd and a bloody great chat.....would you be feeling "let down" or would you, as a man; take one for the team IF I was of a mind to grind you into oblivion beneath me on a mattress (floor, bench, wherever!)?? ~ (DISCLAIMER: This is not a thinly veiled offer of intimacy OP, just a general question) ~ Indagine : girl on the move.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think one would be releaved passing an encounter that cause some discomfort. If I passed out after such a thrilling encounter...don't think I could pass that by......round two? :) FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Delight in the absurd? I'd say mission accomplished. The only expectation I would have of you is a bunch of sweet smelling, fragrant flowers ;) Grinding? Who told you I adore coffee grinding over the plunger? [drifts off into fantasy land]

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Unrushed1' So after passing on an encounter, the passee passes wind, at which both the passee and the passer pass out, with one or more possibly passing away? About sums it up.It can be a little overwhelming, when all the answers fall into place.In short, there should be no reasons for leaving any table, feeling anything other than dignified.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Save yourself the RSI and just type Indagine lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks, my wrist RSI has really been playing up since starting to message you :-D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I was going to comment, but it appears this forum has gone rather off topic and now I can't be bothered.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Fart joke 1:Mature discussion 0 Its always the same result. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Indigine locks the door and turns to face unrushed1... "Listen here buddy, I've travelled 25 mins to get here, and no one is leaving until I get my fucking orgasm... You...hear...me...buddy ? !!!! " Unrushed1, looks about the room... Trapped, he submits to his fate... As indi the beast moves in for the kill... Hp xo 💌 I'm not sure who I feel worse for... Unrushed1 or me when she reads this... 😄 Indi...💋💋💋

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Ti adoro troppo angelo ~ because you are despite yourself, worth it. 😘 xx. Unrushed1 I would never expect you to take one for the team against your will or unable to escape.....100% consentual or not at all. But just in case....I never lock the window and if you survive the fall, I'll be very impressed!! Lmao xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Can I have the video ? Hp xo 💌 Because it'll be worth it...