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Passion killers
February 20 2017
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
Just kills me ,when someone just talks at you, not to you, like in real a two way conversation ,but just interested in getting what is their head out ,like it's more important to anything you may have to say .almost like they turn their listeners off ,and their mouth goes on auto pilot .3 minutes of that ,and yup ,you can go now Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
To the above ,talking over the top of you as soon as you get three words in ,that's pushing off a cliff material , - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lifes_great
8 years ago
That are focused on what they don't want or what they hate. Some write and essay complaining about people and traits they hate. Very unappealing....I like happy people. I think people should focus on what they want and like....look for positives not negatives. I think it says a lot about a person and their state of mind.
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PurePeony
8 years ago
... when the deed is happening. :P I'm trying to enjoy it, I'm in the zone, I'm almost getting to the Big O... and if he then starts talking too much, it totally distracts me. Talking dirty is good and it gets me in the mood ... but it's not like having a race horse commentator with a motormouth. :P
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RHP User
8 years ago
by passion killers this week. One wanted to fuck me like a porn star....another after several attempts to let him know I like intelligent conversation continued to go right to what he would do to me. I mean seriously....its enough to make me want to abstain altogether...almost ;) xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
^^^ lol No passion killer for me. You can say or fo whatever.. im still gonna hit that lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Say or Do - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have one I was wanting to put into another topic but it wasn't appropriate. Great timing, I've been wanting to get this off my chest lol Guy I'd seen numerous times over an extended period of time, our encounters were always amazing, he has been referred to in my posts here a few times, making reference to his intensity, he was in fact the first guy I successfully had anal with, but so much more. So he eventually started to go off the boil, not obvious to me until he was a no show for one meet, so some more time elapsed and he contacted me again, I figured what the heck, he's bloody amazing sexually and I was having a dry spell haha so was wanting to give it another go, but was busy, more time after I had to put him off because I was so busy, then I contacted him one day and asked if he wanted to hook up again. His response was really shitty. I've never had a guy say this to me, or make me feel as bad as he did that day. He said something like "Yeah why not, you are a great fuck, so yeah why not". That was more than deflating, his luke warm reply, and it was luke warm, made me feel like shit, I never replied, and I never will again. Fuck him, and I've said that before lol but this time I mean it
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RHP User
8 years ago
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'blissful_45' One wanted to fuck me like a porn star....on a vinyl lounge with a camera crew and 3 lighting guys standing around watching? - Non-sarcastic references to astrology. - incessant squealing
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RHP User
8 years ago
Babe, hun. gorgeous - not my style. Then the 'c' word. I'd rather a man not speak and just moan and groan.... :) KH x
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RHP User
8 years ago
He actually did say that it would be worth filming!! Haha nobody needs to see that lol Xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
I_touch, I say this with all sincerity. If that's the worst thing a guy has ever said or done to you, you really should think yourself very lucky.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I Touch was saying it finally killed her desire to see him? Rather than it being the worst thing that has happened to her?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Being called 'good girl' or being told I look like fun 🙄 Gaslighting - do not project your crap onto me! Asking if every friend I mention might be interested in a FMF - seriously, do guys want to fuck all of their friends? Sending me an erotic story about the first time we meet, detailing everything, including what I'm wearing and how I will move - just no!
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RHP User
8 years ago
I_touch said ''I've never had a guy say this to me, or make me feel as bad as he did that day.'' That's what I was responding to.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm not trying to be patronising or to minimise how the guy made I_touch feel.
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RHP User
8 years ago
the way I did. It was all about context and tone, the overriding lack of interest/enthusiasm and lack of respect. Does that make it clearer? It made me feel instantly repulsed, and how you feel and I felt, might be different MsDragon, but aren't we talking about our own kill switches?
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RHP User
8 years ago
I love being called a good girl, as a good little sub, I like to please 😛
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RHP User
8 years ago
I absolutely didn't think you were being patronising :) Also didn't absorb those words ^ when I read I Touch's post, nor should I speak for her - I shall now butt out
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have to say I could never understand why guys disrespect women so much at school. I can understand when a long term relationship goes bad sometimes. I was always the guy at school sticking up for the girls and boys that couldn't stick up for themselves. Down fall to that was if I got the nerve to ask someone out I would get the 'I don't want to risk out friendship. In saying that the positive (I like the glass half full approach) was I had a lot of female friends that were always there for me and give me honest opinions. I'm not saying I am perfect at all, but seriously we all have to grow up sometime. You get a lot more from life with a little respect.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Viewing an online temper tantrum when I'm not willing to meet face to face after the exchange of three or four messages. Chatting to them for a while, they're profile says they're single, they tell me they're single and I then discover that they're married (because their Facebook profile is nowhere near secure and they come up on my newsfeed that I might know them). Married or not won't stop me from chatting to someone, but finding out I've been lied to will. Meeting face too face only to be told our meeting was disappointing (happened once and he won't get an opportunity again).
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RHP User
8 years ago
Especially arrogance, you know like being with someone is totally their choice, you are at their whimsy, not me, gimme that shit and I walk, I don't care how fucking hot you think you are.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I know this is very basic and should just be the norm, but if you can't catch up with someone then pick up the phone and call or txt within a decent time. Don't leave it till late or promise something you can't live up too. Nothing more disappointing and frustating waiting around for someone all day only to be cancelled on. I certainly understand we all live busy lives but if there is someone special who you cares for you why treat them like a dog and through them a scrap of meat when it suits you.? Won't put up with that shit by anyone nor would I treat anyone like it.
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Are you going to cum soon?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Or worse, "have you come yet ?"
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes, that's an instant passion killer for me. Even if a definite time hasn't been arranged, we'll quite often make a semi commitment to meet on a particular day or night, then they go quiet for the time leading to it, but I've left myself available, stupid me, for that time, contact them and "oh I was at a party or a family thing" whatever, and I couldn't reply for hours because of that, at the time we were supposed to be meeting? I fully understand arrangements should be confirmed, but if neither person has canceled leading up to a tentative, and both are full on busy, to then drop off the radar is rude and indicates to me they've had a better offer. If not, why not a message earlier in the day even
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On_Safari
8 years ago
No.1 Arrogance No.2 Ignorance No.3 The lack of Empathy No.4 An inability to laugh at oneself No.5 Failure to enjoy the simpler things in life No.6 It's all about ME No.7 Bad breath 😷 No.8 Fakery No.9 Oral is only One Way and it's not mine, and finally No.1O Full of shit
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PurePeony
8 years ago
... I'm guilty of that, especially when I was with an ex with delayed ejaculation issues. "Forever" took on a new meaning and it was so prolonged, I turned numb. :P It was hard especially after a long workday when you might relish a quickie or a non-marathon session and then sleep before the whole crazy work cycle starts again. I am not proud of that period but it can be a very tough issue to handle. Open communication and perhaps seeing a sex therapist would have helped but the man had always been a closed book.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I had a lover who used to call me "his" porn star. Argh I hated it and it was an instant passion killer for me. Betty I also hate be called a good girl, in any situation, sexual or otherwise.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'PurePeony' ... I'm guilty of that, especially when I was with an ex with delayed ejaculation issues. "Forever" took on a new meaning and it was so prolonged, I turned numb. :P It was hard especially after a long workday when you might relish a quickie or a non-marathon session and then sleep before the whole crazy work cycle starts again. I am not proud of that period but it can be a very tough issue to handle. Open communication and perhaps seeing a sex therapist would have helped but the man had always been a closed book. I don't even know where to begin with this statement. I too had an ex with this issue so I understand how difficult it is for both sides. I was in that relationship for a very long time and tried everything to overcome the issue. If you have no empathy and no understanding it only makes the situation worse. Put yourself in his situation, if you were under extreme pressure to cum quickly because your partner simply could not be bothered taking the time needed, how successful would you be? If you wanted a "quickie" perhaps masturbation would have been a better option for you in those instances.Perhaps he was a closed book because you were not showing any understanding?I personally think that any issue relating to sex (particularly in a LTR) needs to be handled with care and delicacy. It's so easy to damage someones self confidence and self esteem and can create lasting issues.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting ITM2 Cheekyass Yes, that's an instant passion killer for me. Even if a definite time hasn't been arranged, we'll quite often make a semi commitment to meet on a particular day or night, then they go quiet for the time leading to it, but I've left myself available, stupid me, for that time, contact them and "oh I was at a party or a family thing" whatever, and I couldn't reply for hours because of that, at the time we were supposed to be meeting? I fully understand arrangements should be confirmed, but if neither person has canceled leading up to a tentative, and both are full on busy, to then drop off the radar is rude and indicates to me they've had a better offer. If not, why not a message earlier in the day even Absolutely agree with you ITM2. Shouldn't be that difficult to contact someone. Silly me was that I allowed her to do it twice. (Funny thing she said i abdanderd her. ?Wtf ) She didn't turn up and texts at 6pm to cancel.lol The second time she did it i told her goodbye. Then didn't understand why I got pissed off. My time is just as precious then anyone's but please allow me to be able to spend it how i choose. Hope you read this ! You know who you are.
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
Hasn't been mentioned before.... Socks. Left on. There's only one situation when that is acceptable......the absolute quickie where minimal clothes are removed.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'MsJonesy' Hasn't been mentioned before.... Socks. Left on. There's only one situation when that is acceptable......the absolute quickie where minimal clothes are removed. Or when camping in winter??
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
What is camping? 😜
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Betty7216' Being called 'good girl' or being told I look like fun 🙄 You do look like fun Betty. Positively fabulous. Just sayin..
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PurePeony
8 years ago
No thanks for the holier than thou attitude. It's judgemental attitude like yours that deter some people from posting in the forums. Too bad I'm made of stronger stuff and am not afraid to be frank. You don't seem particularly empathetic yourself, pot calling the kettle black? That wasn't one of my glorious moments, but I dared to speak up about the angst I felt. Open communication might have helped to save the situation then but clamming up and stonewalling me definitely compounded the issue. There are multiple issues affecting any one couple's relationship. To have the audacity to arrive at a myopic conclusion just because I brought up ONE aspect of our relationship is just poor judgement. Don't appreciate attitude like yours, especially since I chose to speak up about it after being confused and tormented about it for so long. Even if someone errs, you won't effect any positive changes with attitude like yours.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Your comment came across to me as flippant and it flipped a switch in me, after having dealt with the same issue. Had I sensed angst or torment in your comment I certainly would have had a different response. Yes it's a very difficult issue to deal with for yourself and your partner and I spoke up because as I said in my comment, I think sexual issues need to be handled with care. My apologies if I misread your comment. I didn't judge your whole relationship based on the one issue, not sure where you got that from. As many people have stated in the past, you will get different view points on the forums. When you post not everybody is going to see things the same way...just like in real life.
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