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Peoples pics
February 18 2021
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RHP User
4 years ago
Yes agreed. It’s a bit like when people get offended when you recheck their profiles. I recognise the names here but most of the time I need to look again at their pics to remind me who’s who.
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sweetnyorkshire
4 years ago
very frustrating, sometimes my partner is not with me when they open the pg and by the time we're both together they've removed access
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RHP User
4 years ago
Because they can and they're not answerable to you. Reasons could include a lack of contact/interest/trust/sense of security. Honestly, your entitlement would be disturbing to me. And if you can't remember what I look like, I'm going to say it's not meant to be. :-)
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2EssesExploring
4 years ago
Nothing surprises me here any more. We are getting an increasing number of messages that say they love our profile and before we can even answer they have blocked us. It’s either glitches or planned bs.
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luvsilver
4 years ago
It happens to us quite a bit- maybe our fault. One of us will read a message from someone with their private gallery open but we usually like the chance to both view it before taking it any further. We will have good intentions of both viewing later that night or the next day but all of a sudden life has gotten in the way ( quite often) and it gets missed . When we do get the chance to view together pg is gone. I understand some people don't want it out there for too long. Just part of RHP i guess. Mr Luvsilver
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MsSuperFoxy
4 years ago
Because it stops the wankers. Ms Foxy
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FeistyFatty
4 years ago
Because its theirs to do with as they wish. They could have easily not shown you at all🤷♀️
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funtimescouple1
4 years ago
We're here to meet other like minded couples. We close our private pics if we get the vibe that the couple is not genuine about meeting.
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Phoenix_Rising
4 years ago
Makes no sense to me given you could just screenshot them. I know that’s frowned upon but it’s a fact, if someone wants to take their pic they will, it makes no difference if it’s there for 5 seconds or permanently really... Each to their own though and if deleting makes them feel better/safer I’m all for it.
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Phoenix_Rising
4 years ago
Messages is another thing all together though, I don’t know why people delete messages. Many do it after they’ve been rejected which is silly but I understand, what I don’t understand is when they then try again, lol. My messages rejecting them are still there, do they not see them or are they just hoping I’ll ignore them and change my mind? It’s a bit weird.
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Laceyloo123
4 years ago
As we've only just joined this is new to us but yeah it would be nice to able to view them again. We've had loads of messages and chats so far so it is hard to get the time with work and family life and as Mr works fifo we both don't get to see the pg photos. But totally understand people can do what they want with their own photos.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Well i revoke after 24hrs my pics arent there for a private wank bank. Otherwise some just look at your profile for pics but never message again.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Or when they remove access to their face pics but not their dick pics??? 🙄😂
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PleasureLovers
4 years ago
Didn't realise it offended others. Definitely not the intension. Perhaps another symptom of being a neat freak...keeping inboxes and lists minimal and organised.
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Applepiefun
4 years ago
I mean cmon who care if someone has a picture of a stranger on their phone , we aren’t running for the senate you know
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curiousnhorny05
4 years ago
Sometimes if your not a “potential” I feel exposed others having continued access. So I will remove after a while and go back and audit who has access from time to time
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Ms_Conduct
4 years ago
I usually remove the photos after 24 hours. If they can’t remember what I look like they can ask again 🤷🏻♀️ I just feel uncomfortable leaving it there just incase people show their friends etc 😐
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Dex1473
4 years ago
Yeah we have spoken to people and they share the gallery and then a week or so later they message again and the pics are gone and we think they mustn’t be interested to remove the pics
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RHP User
4 years ago
Legend has it that the single guys on rhp have released over 17 litres of semen combined due to open private galleries;)
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FitMilfandFox
4 years ago
Because there is every likelihood of your photos reappearing elsewhere. I have seen more than one couples photos reproduced in other digital arenas. You make up.your own mind. Perhaps it was a fake profile and the 'couple' simply stole pics to use.on their profile. We.know from experience however that photos get reused by other dating and porn websites.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Personally I think showing a private gallery is a good way to establish if there is a physical attraction but unfortunately I’ve found that I’ve been abused more often than not after confirming a lack of compatibility and it’s for this reason that I don’t keep my private albums open as I have no doubt the disgruntled little abusive trolls that can’t accept that I don’t wish to proceed will take my pics and splash them all over the internet!
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LittleGiant
4 years ago
We'll only leave our galleries open if we intend to meet someone. If the conversation dies off or they go silent, we remove access as we don't see a meet happening. More just for discretion's sake. Yes people can screenshot, but we'd like to think that most people don't do that... and a screenshot taken out of the context of the profile isn't as incriminating as opening the profile and having the photos there I think, no disputing that. Miss Little xx
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RHP User
4 years ago
We usually keep our private folder open for a while, but we close it if there hasnt been much contact between us for a long time. need to at least talk to us if you to see them 😅
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Chelle63
4 years ago
I have a few people that I allow unlimited access to my pics but if they stop talking to me I remove access. Any new access is removed after a few days if I get no response, just assume they have seen my pics and don't like what they see.
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RavishingDiva
4 years ago
For me it’s the number of messages getting deleted. Half the time I’ve not seen the message. It seems if you don’t immediately answer you’re dismissed.
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CasualMax
4 years ago
I remove mine upon no response for some time. I prefer communication, if it’s not there then I assume they are not interested. If they are then a message would be nice! 😄 Anyway no harm done, just talk and see if they would give you access?
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ShinyThings
4 years ago
Public album is for public viewing, private is to share with people when comfortable and it doesn't hurt to keep it brief... if nothing else to prevent the screengrabbers from using it elsewhere. we are usually happy to reopen on request
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HuntingRedX7
4 years ago
This has happened to me several times recently. I’m not offended, as everyone has their own reason as to why. But like many of you I’m sure, it’s hard to remember every individual/couple from the various chats you may have open. If I were to ask to see their photos again, it may come across that I’m using them inappropriately (screenshotting the photos etc) so I don’t bother asking. Ive revisited a lot of the chats I’ve had on here now and noticed that many have deleted their messages and my private photos are still sitting their loud and proud in the chat 😂
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RHP User
4 years ago
If its not we like you we should go on a date after a couple of chat days they are gone..
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Nikkidogcpl
4 years ago
You can keep looking at mine and happy to cam with you any time to province is it is me
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RHP User
4 years ago
Because I always feel like a joke after
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sweetco
4 years ago
We can tell why we remove PG access after some time it has been shared. Below are our reasons and hope they may help you to understand the possible reasons of others: - no reaction on gallery shared after 2-3 days - no real conversation happening - did not like the other couple, female, male Everyone else may have their own reasons. These are ours. By the way, RHP often shows the images were removed but when you go to the profile, all images are still available. We had this glitch many time and it was very uncomfortable to hear from someone been removed access when we didn't. So makes sense to check profile of people/person first. Hope it helps. xxx M&A
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MelbCplupforfun
4 years ago
Perhaps if the swinging lifestyle were more accepted and mainstream people might feel more comfortable sharing photos?
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MelbCplupforfun
4 years ago
I meant face photos
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RHP User
4 years ago
Yeah, we generally leave them up- it's rare that both partners are on at the same time, why not give the other a chance to look later. Either that, or they may need a refresher (who isn't talking to multiple people, be honest), or maybe they just like looking at them, which is no problem by us. That being said we don't stress about it if they do unsend. I think most people to it out of discretion or worry. We'd generally only I send if the person is nasty, aggressive, or comes on far too strong (immediately asks for personal details or contacts)
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Sirswitch
4 years ago
Only do it if they have or sometimes they haven't sent access after requesting mine...
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Eu4ria
4 years ago
We take ours down after a while if we remember... Important things to note here: a) Don’t assume anything b) Don’t take things personally c) There’s a lot of loose units and flakes on RHP
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GM4funxxx
4 years ago
The ones that make me laugh, used to frustrate me, are where they send you a reply message only to delete it after sending. Only problem is by the time l open it and read it all I can see is "message deleted". 🙄
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babynash24
4 years ago
You're absolutely right..
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BiLinguists
4 years ago
Removing pics after a while is fair enough; it’s a way of letting others know you’re not interested, I guess. But deleting the conversation seems a bit silly, and seems to happen way too much. Could be a glitch, sometimes.
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PerthBBC
4 years ago
I don’t know why people remove their priv pics so quickly,l feel like my pics are all over in Perth as l do not remove them 😂 😂
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Libertinecple
4 years ago
Because it becomes wank material after a while lol
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RHP User
4 years ago
Because I don’t want to leave them hanging there . It’s my body to share as I will . My pics are a hit not a right . :) You wanna see em again - ask again :) it’s that simple.
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Fabulass
4 years ago
Removing their pics is one level...I just get people block me after messaging me 🤷🏻♂️😂 or ask me over and change their mind when I’m pressing the unit buzzer 🙄 very odd creatures, some humans.
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RHP User
4 years ago
It’s their Private Pix That’s why. They have the right to retract privileges as they don’t have a Private album to open for all to peek into
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1_Naughty_Couple
4 years ago
At the end of day it's there loss and they'll never know what they missed out on😥🤣😂🤣
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Davidib8
4 years ago
Hi from Tamworth
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Justdoingstuff
4 years ago
We will open them if we feel like we are going to meet at some point. If someone reads a message with the private pics open and looks at our profile with no reply message in 48hrs we close access. We really don't know if they were not happy with what they saw, or were happy and just want to look at pics, but we aren't on here to provide porn for people that don't wish to talk to us, look on Reddit for that. We have also had the incident of someone using a fake account on here to get us to open pics to only confirm our identities so they could out us. These are reasons they get closed off by us. So for us, if you reply with sorry, only one of us is massaging now, we will leave them open for you. If no reply within 48hrs, we send a message saying if you aren't interested that is ok, we will now close off our PG. Again another chance to reply. If we aren't sure about you in the first place, we won't open them.
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Dumbidea00
4 years ago
I may be missing the point, but i delete my pic/s if i can see message has been read, and few days gone no reply, plus if agreed no ongoing chat i delete my pics, complete message in fact, but if actively engaged in chat i never remove them.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Hey guys our pics seem to remove themselves,is there anything in setting we need to change to prevent this
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PrincessnDaddy
4 years ago
Because there are so many time wasters and peeps just having a wNk over the pics We share owls, which are quite explicit, and we get hardly anything back. Just a lot of creepy messages wanting more and more. These creeps need to put their penis away unless they actually serious about meeting up. So many no shows. Once we get messed around we take the pics down
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2Mutual
4 years ago
Privacy reasons Fake profiles can and do happen often..
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Coolc72
4 years ago
I’d be happy to leave my pics or re send if need be just have to ask. I’m a long time nudist so completely happy nude in public. Share and share nothing wrong with showing your nudity
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RHP User
4 years ago
You can remove them??? Lol
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RHP User
4 years ago
If we open our photos and they are viewed without the courtesy of a reply we take them down and assume the viewer is yet another voyeur !
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VirgoDave
4 years ago
This has generated so many different points of views on this topic ! Interesting reading 📖. Good conversation starter apple pie
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RHP User
4 years ago
People who check out your pg and dont reply in some way , no manners in here. In fact this site is one of the most rude and full of arrogant people ive used
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mattmattmatty
4 years ago
Got my Moe wet last night
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RHP User
4 years ago
I see this from both sides. Sometimes my hubby isn't with me when I get access to photos. From my own personal experience, I've given people access to mine after chatting for a while. I don't reveal them for a while. I've kept chatting and then something doesn't seem right and my gut instinct kicks in, so I will delete them. There are some sick and twisted people on here. The reality is, you don't really know who your talking to on here, guys pretending to be woman. I just experienced one of the worst experiences on here by a female that left me feeling humiliated and shook my confidence big time and I'm a very confident person. So I will be very very reluctant to share my private albums.
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Lovinslomotion
4 years ago
Totally agree! If you’re not a match just say so It’s the easiest thing to do, be polite and move the fuck on....
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RHP User
4 years ago
If it's really important, instead of judging people, you have an option to contact the again if it's really that important to you.
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DonnaBrett
4 years ago
Agree. If it happens to be a few weeks before we get around to meeting in person it's easy to forget what they look like if all their face pics are private.
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PurpleandQuirky
4 years ago
By the way have people noticed that the Private Gallery List no longer works properly anymore ? I used to use to to remove photo access to profiles when I wanted , but even though I have cleared the list entirely I am still finding conversations when photo access has been provided which is really annoying. It's a lot of work to go through 100s of conversations to remove private gallery access. Also I am finding conversations where all the messages have been removed by the other person, but the photos still remain so looks like this is a common issue and people don't realise others can still see their pics even if they clear their lists and delete their messages.
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RHP User
4 years ago
I really don’t understand why they do this. Are we all on here for the same reason. I am proud of my private pics and I am not shy about what I have. There are lots of people who just want to waste time and maybe get a few wank pics. Be fantastic and safe all.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Seems this place is getting more and more paranoid and less and less fun...i do understand there are w*nkers etc on here but I feel the whole group is judged based on the error in judgement of some...I guess we aren't all as sexually at ease with actually having sex as it seems...whatever happened to mutual respect and the desire to please each other...it's becoming a weird game now and I too have seen many deletes, access now denied etc..it's a shame that especially as a male you are thrown in the bucket with the weirdos pretty much as a presumption and then have to fight your way out to show you are actually normal....If someone isn't interested I'm actually man enough and adult enough to go about my business ..why would I maintain interest on someone not interested...guess the weird ones and abusive ones have now tarnished all the guys..sad and it's hard enough with all the new "sugardating"...."only do it for money honey" profiles now too....think you need to get into a good circle because the everyday members have changed a lot on here ...does sexual confidence have a lot to do with the odd attitudes of people now..or have that many people been used and abused its just getting uglier and uglier 🤔 sad either way...how I long to eat a beautiful peach 🍑😂😂😂 have fun and be safe 👍✨
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RHP User
4 years ago
strike while the iron is hot cyka, othwrwise don't bother.
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sexontoast666
4 years ago
I agree sometimes hubby see’s pics and they are taken down before I get to look very frustrating, I actually won’t open our private gallery until I feel confidence in the messages that they are the real deal ( I’ve had my photos used on other sites as their pics ,so when I read just screenshot them I cringe ) and what annoys me more is people messaging you with no pics not even public and straight away asks for your private gallery access ,
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energiser69
4 years ago
lots of reasons I think. 1. insecurity - fear of having the pic stolen and used elsewhere, one way to secure this would be NOT to give pics to people that don't have verified profiles. 2. insecurity and fear - the person may be in business 3 person (s) sex life is private 4. persons don't want information being splashed over on other social media yes it does seem silly, but its a culture on this site and not so much on other sites. i guess with media and journalists these days - there is a risk there. and people want to safeguard their personal things like sexual behaviour. If you look at what is happening in Canberra these days, you can probably understand why people are nervous.
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RHP User
4 years ago
My wife or in reverse one misses out as the person is so paranoid as to putting there private picks up.And bang gone thirty minutes later.
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RHP User
4 years ago
So new on here for the second time I forget how to ask, read some of these to get understanding again........... Forgot there was so much to it in some people’s minds?? Simple mutual fun Happy Days
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dabubba
4 years ago
I hope to mlfind a partner who I can spend this money I'm get 655'000 I just hope I can
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RHP User
4 years ago
I remove mine if I have had no contact, didn’t hit it off etc. If your not in contact with them I don’t see why they need them. If I’m still chatting and think it’s going to progress then I just leave them. I do get a bit cautious after you have shared and they constantly ask for more! I mean what more do you need?? 🤷♀️🤷♀️ Really at that point it’s let’s meet up or go our separate ways.
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RHP User
4 years ago
It’s a Private album. As in PRIVATE. Like allowing others a sneak peak then closing window Otherwise it would just be unlimited access their whole album If you want pix .... you have the internet dude !🥴🤦🏻♂️
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ChasersWorld
4 years ago
plenty of naked pics on this profile 👍
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BananaPunani
4 years ago
Great topic! It’s called privacy. People are entitled to it without judgement.
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RHP User
4 years ago
I remove my pg pics if the convo has stalled. No sense having them out there. There are Uber paranoid people that let u see and take back right away. I tend to think if u don't trust me enough to see your pics why would u trust me to have sex with u 🤷♂️
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RHP User
4 years ago
I think it's a mark of selfishness and disrespect when pics aren't reciprocated. I take mine off its one sided, fuck them lol
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RHP User
4 years ago
We are happy to share pics with couples to see if there is a mutual attraction. If you don’t put yourself out there, then you will never get anywhere.
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RHP User
4 years ago
I think it is called Caution...how does one know that these pics are not used for alternate reasons as that does occur.. Yes granted hopefully most of the people in here are honest but it is a big chance as some people value their privacy.
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TimEasticklaws83
4 years ago
I could do better without a voice box
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RHP User
4 years ago
I admit we are guilty of this. Just a security thing I think
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Nudetwo
4 years ago
Generally, if we don't get a response and we know they have read msg and viewed pics, we will remove access after a week or so. What's the point to keep giving them access, if you dont like us this week, there not gonna like us next week.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Totally agree. Just because we haven't replied back in a few days doesn't mean we are not interested, it usually means we are busy with day to day life and work. When you do find time, yep all messages, pics have been deleted. So frustrsting. 🙄
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SthCoastCpl8
4 years ago
For us, if we give access to our pg and don't hear back from the people we have given access, we remove our pg as we assume they are not interested.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Better than that, how good are instant blocks??? (insert cross between sarcastic defiant chuckle and Joaquin Phoenix in Joker laugh emoji)
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