M63
Perceptions
September 30 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
a woman of mystery ,think Phryne Fisher,or maybe that should be Corinna Chapman.It all depends on your perception
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mooka told me I was an antagonistic prick. Meeka100 told me I as a shit stirrer. Newkee called me a drop bear, ...and Mikeandshel said I'm a bully. Aahh, my work here is done.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I often have a quiet laugh to myself about exactly this topic. Very few people in RL have any idea how sensual/ sexual I really am. My ex husband and a couple of lovers - I have unplumbed depths ;) My circumstances require that my personal persona and work persona are one and the same. People in those settings would say that I'm conservative, business like, unemotional and professional. The odd handful that have had a hint of who I really am would say I'm a passionate, adventurous epicurean. Guess I'm the classic lady in public and whore in the bedroom ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
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RHP User
12 years ago
and don't forget I recently called you a delicious package
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RHP User
12 years ago
But I do know that it wasn't exactly a pleasant experience when a job seeker on my caseload came across me in here. I think he was a little shocked as, at work, apparently, I definitely don't portray the sort of person you'd find in here (that's what he told me, anyway).
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RHP User
12 years ago
I had a big concreter on a construction job I was doing in the pilbara a few years ago... The dopey drop bear used his RL nickname on here... I was scanning through profiles with my then FWB, and she came across him.. just after the construction job finished well.... I never.... his sexualy proclivities... ? ha ha.. I sure would like him to come onto another of my sites.. I do like to mercilessly expose big "Real Men" with big mouths... considering what he wanted IN his mouth, we would have given him heeps of shit :) caveyman... I guess that answers the OP question too huh?? I am a fckn prick :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! FeloniusFossil... Thanks for the Interesting Topic:) Hmmmmmmm that's a good question ..I like to think I'm Perceived as a Confident, Intelligent ,Interesting Sensual, Sexy Woman who has a Unique Ability to Connect within others ..bringing Balance to them on all levels.. People are drawn to me because I genuinely Care for others. compassionate and Insightful of their needs..They're meant too at that time of their Journey.. The final say is how I feel about Myself that counts ..I love the Woman I am..:) .In a Social gathering I've been told I'm Amazing tho; I don't take it to heart I'm not into Ego tripping.. Fun to chat have a laugh with.. a Woman with good Communication skills . warped SOH .. very Sexy tho My Family would Barf at that thought he!he! .. I enjoy to Chat, tease ,banter with Special Company over a Nice meal..or whatever else we choose.. I'm a stirrer from way back. even in the shopping isles I can kid with strangers as if they're Old friends they feel it too .. No one is ever offended because it's not meant in that way..With the energies I send to People they know and enjoy the fun too.. Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
In RL I'm in senior management, very professional and proper. Among family and friends I'm known as adventurous but conservative in life, though they know nothing about me sexually. On here I think some people would perceive me as conservative and boring, and that would be somewhat true, but only in the sense that I save my sexual adventures for someone who means a great deal to me. I think everyone sees a little of the real me but only a man I love sees all the pieces, the whole package. I'm terribly private so there are truly only two men in this world to date - no friends, colleagues, family, just these two men - who have really known me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
How am I percieved on RHP? Mmm well when I used to post a lot I did get messages from people saying I was funny and they enjoyed my posts. That I am a little kinky or out there. Which by the way isn't really true. There also seems to be women on RHP and maybe men who just think I am a bitch from what I have seen from some comments. As for real life. I have no idea what men make of me. In a social setting... Well they probably would say I am forward, outspoken? I really couldn't say. Meeka.
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RHP User
12 years ago
This question is very interesting... And revealing because of course most people will answer this by describing the way they would like to be perceived. Reminds me of that Mel Gibsom movie where he was able to hear women's thoughts. He thought he was fantastic and all women loved him but in fact women hated him. I really would hate to have that power!! Would ruin my grand delusion about how fabulous I really am. LOL ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have been told that I'm funny, articulate and just an overall nice guy. My kids use different words like "embarrassing" and my favourite one "Weener." I don't know if they're saying I'm a pig, or I'm a sausage ?? Lol I'm sure those on here may even have a different view on that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You forgot hot as hell *evil grin*
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RHP User
12 years ago
check who the OP was before posting...but my first reply was for the OP
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think I'm perceived as friendly, polite, well-spoken and attractive on here, much the same as in real life. The comments and emails I'm getting seem to confirm this is the case. I'm not in senior management but am a Registered Nurse, so definitely have to keep my devious side hidden at work. Now, if we really wanted to stir things up we should start a forum about how we perceive each other....
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RHP User
12 years ago
...and apparently, having a tattoo qualifies me as a "bogan". (I've got this totally clueless wannabe that I'm stringing along on the 'tattoos' thread.
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RHP User
12 years ago
... I have absolutely no idea! And, "out there": kind, patient, funny & pretty. Yup, not too scary at all :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Miss Devious.....i love that idea! If you don't start that thread i just might.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm quite sure that you're a flavorsome morsel too.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Wouldnt be fair Miss Devious.... .... I have an advantage. DG Here is where several other forum members would not be able to bite their tongue. They would absolutely have to respond with a perceived witty comeback to outdo the other. Not me though. I'm an adult. I won't be tempted.
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RHP User
12 years ago
"if we really wanted to stir things up we should start a forum about how we perceive each other...."Like playing with fire do we?...lolI'm not a thread nazi, I don't mind what direction this or any otherthread takes. If you want to take it in a different direction be my guest.Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
12 years ago
Youv'e got a hell of a step of the right foot there. Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
12 years ago
...I do get a lot of nice compliments in the msgs and winks.Probably just trying to get into my knickers...and quite often it works !
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
fantastic topic.....i think i am perceived in alot of different ways by a lot of different people....I tend to be a poker face person in alot of areas of my life.Im totally different in my work environment to what I am as a mum and again as who I am as a friend, a lover and a wife.I can be perceived as being a bitch, bossy, independant - but also as being shy and distant..I will be following this topic - lots of interest with this. xxxxx
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MissSarahCurious
12 years ago
pretty much all the time. And super modest, too ;)xx Sarah
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RHP User
12 years ago
Online, I don't really know, probably mostly irrelevant.There's probably a few women who wouldn'tmind seeing me burnt at the stake, and a few blokes whowould like to punch me in the face. I've managed to upseta few people over the years, but I remain unrepentent...lolAt the end of the day, there's going to be those that reallyreally don't like me, those that tolerate me, and those who like me.I'm ok with that.Out and about I think I'm often seen as being, a little aloof andstand offish, other times I'm the party animal, depends on the moodI'm in at the time, the company and if I'm being dragged down by other things in my life.Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
12 years ago
You got that whole Fig Jam thing going on eh...;) Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
12 years ago
How am I perceived here ? Absolutely no idea - feel free to comment Im too serious and nerdy I have a serious job and Im a serious person.....................and nerdy So need to liten up - I so need to get laid ................... I am the Sheldon of the forums !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
BAZINGA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Did I mention shy? You just made me blush truckin :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
At work, my colleagues think I'm a bit crazy. At home, my hubby and kids think I'm a bit crazy. Out partying, my friends think I'm a bit crazy. At RHP functions, people who've just met me think I'm a bit crazy. I'm sensing a theme here...... Mrs W
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RHP User
12 years ago
Always have been really.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think people see me as a stuck up person, one that thinks she knows everything...lol Well let me tell you all, I do know everything..lol as I have lived the lifestyle for over 25 years..and I own a club for 10 years..lol and yes I prob am stuck up as I always keep to myself, those that know me know I am quiet why really, and I live polyamory lifestyle so I suppose I have knowledge in all areas. Lol. So I do know everything and I am stuck up..lol I think I got it all covered. Have a great day.. Leesa xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
If I were being brutally honest I would say...... On here? Just another single guy, nothing special. Socially? Attractive, fun with a bit of wild hidden under a traditional looking veneer. At work is easy....a face less uniform, in a word, authority (that is unless they talk to me and find out I am just a guy with good intentions who thinks of his uniform as "work clothes")
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WHY_NOT_LOOK
12 years ago
LIES>>>> yeah thats right lol Quoting 'couplesint'I think people see me as a stuck up person, one that thinks she knows everything...lol Well let me tell you all, I do know everything..lol as I have lived the lifestyle for over 25 years..and I own a club for 10 years..lol and yes I prob am stuck up as I always keep to myself, those that know me know I am quiet why really, and I live polyamory lifestyle so I suppose I have knowledge in all areas. Lol. So I do know everything and I am stuck up..lol I think I got it all covered. Have a great day.. Leesa xxx You are one of the kindest ladies i know always supporting and offering advise when i ask.... so there the ones that know...know...leesa sexbomb classy kind loving workaholic family omg loves them friends well you couldnt ask for a better one.... but you could also take out a small army if needed RRRRROOOAARRR xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why not....you are too kind, and yes you are one of the very few ( 6 ) people from the lifetsyle that I let into my family and personal life so that says a lot for our character as well. Xxx Leesa
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
Here... Dunno, I (MrsPP) don't necessarily engage in banter so maybe aloof, but that's not intentional, I don't bite (hard anyway). IRL those who know me find me unpredictable and hard to label. I can't even begin to predict what pigeon holes those who don't know me might try to squeeze me into. Depends if they're eavesdropping or not :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
But......hopefully, intelligent, decent guy, bit "out there" !Reality however...in a nutshell, TOO OLD, TOO UGLY AND TOO "NICE"oh and TOOOO FAR !!!"your a lovely guy, can we just be friends " while I screw the tattoed bastard !
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RHP User
12 years ago
I still scratch my head offten at profiles ?? when you think your meeting up with a certain person or have been chatting for awhile, it can be easily perceived as far from the real thing ! People will say stuff about themselfs that are un true , the chase is on to get you in bed !! If your a man whore and just want to fuck as many as possible and treat women as a sex object, well be honest !The stories i must admit are impressive a personal protector for president obarma in the USA. You fight in the war, where do you find time when your on here 7/24 ?? Another perceiver , Dont turn into a cranky pants and ignore someone and turn the communication into a two word message , because your to busy on the chase once more! All of a sudden I'm not the new sexy hot one!! Your profile says your fun and respectful, easy going and a nice guy ?? Scratching my head.. I'm who i say I'am ! I'm bad at lying , but a good listener, compassionate (I'm a Nurse) respectful, honest, a slut in the bedroom! lol I love a hot lusty lover for good times! I dont sleep or i try and not sleep with attched ppl , i think it's cruel to the other and distasteful. I'm polite in public and have been told im sexier in real life and a sweet girl ! Yes i'm perceived whom i'am in the real word and behind closed doors! Unfortunate that other people cant do the same...
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RHP User
12 years ago
HAHA I love it ! Quoting '50zcool'But......hopefully, intelligent, decent guy, bit "out there" ! Reality however...in a nutshell, TOO OLD, TOO UGLY AND TOO "NICE" oh and TOOOO FAR !!! "your a lovely guy, can we just be friends " while I screw the tattoed bastard !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have zero idea how I am perceived on RHP, have had a couple of chats with one person only, and don't think anything has been said in response to any posts...shrugs... RL? I socialise a fair bit with many women. I know I interest some, and I know I am seen as a bit of an enigma sexually, and seen as "unattainable" or something, which I am not. I don't respond to sexual advances pretty much, which is what gives me this reputation I guess
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RHP User
12 years ago
... someone in this thread doesn't think too highly of me. Why would you block someone you've had absolutely no contact with? Only just discovered this little gem when a friend from the site enlightened me (& I thought his/my blockers profile was just "unavailable" lol). Yup, very confusing.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Don't keep us in suspenders KK I know it wasn't me, never blocked anyone in my life.Who is that masked man....Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
12 years ago
... I wondered where my suspenders had got to. When you're finished with them ... ;-) KK xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'feloniusfossil' Don't keep us in suspenders KK I know it wasn't me, never blocked anyone in my life.Who is that masked man....Cheers Felonious Holy crap it's me ! Why ? No fucking idea really ! The deed is undone
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RHP User
12 years ago
My ex thinks Im out of control. My friends think Im just crazy and my work folk just keep on asking me what i got up to on my break. Myserlf, mees just a scared girl taking one day at a time wondering where I fit in in life.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't know how people see me here. In RL, people who don't know me generally think Im aloof and stand-offish or I have something stuck up my ass (I sooo wish that to be true!) Friends, think of me as loyal, warm, honest, adventurous and crazy (in a good way ;)). Colleagues, think of me as quiet (ha!), serious and too much by-the-book. Me, I don't quite know how to take myself. Laughing seems to work well, as I get into all kinds of trouble and situations that Im pretty sure doesn't happen to a lot of people :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Im not too sure, but one thing I do know is' people I meet here usually always comment that they expected me to look much older. Thanks to my dear recently departed mum' I was fortunate to inherit her youthful looking genes. Add to that a healthy sporting background and I guess that held me in good sted..In the real world' specially with my business, my clients seem to see me as open and friendly, and in my private life, although I have my moments like everyone else, but for the most ' a practical joker who loves pulling peoples leg... as in subtle tongue in cheek stuff..Of course most other RHPers never get to see that side of me, as I dont get to see them.. But ' you can certainly start to paint a picture with their writings..
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