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Personality types

September 12 2011

Girls, which do you prefer, and why....men who "wear their hearts on their sleeve", or emotionally-self contained men that leave you guessing?

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Heart on sleeve types make me uncomfortable, I just like an honest, balanced person.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Men that leave me guessing are a challenge I can't resist, also when they play hard to get is a turn on as well. When a man is too keen I loose interest. Not sure why, is anyone else the same? xx Meeka

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Mix it up ;) a bit of both is the best answer. Too keen and *eek* outta here... Too distant and I'll just move on to someone who is interested :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    No games, no BS. It's too late in the day for that crap A little mystery is fun though. I have no patience for hard to get, i just lose interest. You want me then lots of flirting is and teasing are the only games i'm up for. The hunt is fun, being hunted is more funner

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Guys never leave me guessing because I can get in their heads. It's my job.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    It can get boring wen its just handed 2 u. Sure the sex can stil b great.. But- Guys that leave me guessing. Deffinately. 'Lovey dovey' guys r a turn off. I like a 'manly' man or a 'macho' guy, tho not so much tht their egotistical. There's nothing that I enjoy more than a challenge. The chase is half the fun. I came. I conquered. I won. (not nessesarily in tht order;))

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'Men that leave me guessing are a challenge I can't resist, also when they play hard to get is a turn on as well. When a man is too keen I loose interest. Not sure why, is anyone else the same? xx Meeka If a guy is too keen on me, I tend to blow him off.... Give me the thrill of the chase and 4 beers lol

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    For me, it's harder to get intimacy with a man who is emotionally self contained....I kinda need intimacy or a chemistry connection even if it's just a one off. . For those that wear their hearts on their sleeve, well thats ok too.....it really just depends on what they choose to talk about. If they seem to need a counselling session....then it's cya and good luck! . So I guess I always look for someone who is confident in themselves :-)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I think the question while interesting is not one that we could or even should act upon the responses. . We are who we are, and while you can fake it in the short term you can't in the long term. . You have to just be who you are. . LC

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I don't like either type of personality.. men who wear their hearts on their sleeve, or emotional contained men that keep you guessing. I dont have time to bother with either type. I like a man to open, honest & upfront. I also like a man to show emotion, as that is part of being human. A lot of people think a man should not feel sensitive feelings, but that is a lot of bull, and it takes a real man to show his feelings, even if it's emotion.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    A girl does not want someone who is needy. You should be confident without being concieted. You should be cheerful without being silly. I guess what I'm saying is you should be Hugh Jackman lol.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Quoting 'Meeka100'Men that leave me guessing are a challenge I can't resist, also when they play hard to get is a turn on as well. When a man is too keen I loose interest. Not sure why, is anyone else the same? xx Meeka If a guy is too keen on me, I tend to blow him off.... Give me the thrill of the chase and 4 beers lol What? 4 beers?? Methinks you're too easy.....What about the chaser?, you know, after the 4 beers ? "You had me at hello" that's a bit of lay down misere, but it worked. Sometimes puttin' it out there, being direct can be a huge turn-on - let's the other party know exactly where they stand...heady stuff

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Ive just 3 years of the "emotional self contained guy." ..its starts of intriguing and ends up exhausting and the ultimate mind fuck. Im pretty sure I skipped the lecture that day at Uni that was on mind reading !!!......just be fun, be honest, be up front if you change your mind about anything....dont be afraid to be a real man/woman who is in touch with him/herself emotionally and be comfortable with that......be who you truly are, as Shakespeare wrote "Above all else to thine own self be true" ....this is paramount - but please dont intentionally hurt the people who love you as you continue on your journey....

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    SHE:   I agree with Bratzilla, mix it up. As long as there is honesty and trust, all is good. Im a sarcastic person with a gsoh and can give as good as i get. So in saying that HE and i are best friends in the way we talk to each other. We both express our emotions to each other, but not all the time as it loses its "specialness". HE loves me and i love him, we definetely know that, so i dont need to be re-assured alllllll the time. HE knows what he needs to be around me according to my moods.But always makes me smile.