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Petty reasons for dumping someone: what are yours?
October 26 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've always been on the receiving end of the dump ...and they all had bloody good reasons too.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've had 2 stupid reasons for dumping, 1 because she refused to get a license and expected me to be her taxi, the other was because a woman farted in front of me, and I don't mean a little squeaky mouse fart, I'm talking leg up pushing it out. If I can be respectful and leave the room so should she have been!
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RHP User
12 years ago
He had really big feet. They just freaked me out! I was a teenager and of course had no idea how valuable really big feet were at the time :) In adulthood, I spoke to a man on the phone and he sounded like a 13 year old boy. I knew he wasn't, but I just couldn't go there ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
But toturedcliche sometimes as the guy is pounding us hard we just cant help farting. Pussy farting arse farting.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'brave__heart' He had really big feet. They just freaked me out! I was a teenager and of course had no idea how valuable really big feet were at the time :) In adulthood, I spoke to a man on the phone and he sounded like a 13 year old boy. I knew he wasn't, but I just couldn't go there ... I have been dumped before for having too big feet :(
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dumped a hot girl I had once.. for fckng someone else... Stupid.... I should have joined in.. at that stage it would have been my first threesome... and I found out 15 years later.. she DEFINATELY would have liked me too.... *shrugs* NEVER let a fling make me sack a girl since :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
It wasn't during sex, if it was it would've been fine. Sex is supposed to be noisy and messy etc. it was just while we were laying in bed ready to drift off to sleep.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It sounds to me like all your reasons for dumping people were valid. I dumped (Though I prefer to say Let go gently) many guys for a variety of reasons, big or small. Small hands, wrong accent, not liking dogs, not being dominant enough, being too dominant, etc. etc. All those come down to "You are just not right for me". Stupid reasons? No. Judgemental? I don't think so. Picky? Yes. And we all should be.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I sent a nice reply last night to an email I received, saying thanks but I'm afraid you're not my type, etc. The reply I got was "Why are you so judgemental? You don't give anyone a chance". I replied that there is a difference between being judgemental and being picky, and that it sounded like he judged me more than I judged him. His reply? "You fucking moran bitch". I think I meant to say moron, but moran was so much more offensive hehehe. Block!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dumped girl because she didn't answer any messages or phone calls for two weeks. How rude... ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've realised it wouldn't work on more than one occasion because a girl wasn't mean enough. Well no, 'mean' is not the right word exactly - I don't like 'bitchy' - but I need a hefty amount of critical cynicism, snark and ironic detachment to sustain the interest. I wish I could fall for those beautiful women with beautiful, earnest personalities. Instead I get suckered in by the ones with the smile of an angel, and the cold, dead eyes of an assassin. Go figure.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ive dumped guys for not being as sexually active as myself (with me or anyone else) but most fo the time when relationships have ended Ive been dumped. Eberyone has an ideal about what is perfect for us and when we find that its hard to let it go otherwise we just keep looking hoping to find it Kisses Focus *rambling again and not making much sene*
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'DeviousMissM' It sounds to me like all your reasons for dumping people were valid. I dumped (Though I prefer to say Let go gently) many guys for a variety of reasons, big or small. Small hands, wrong accent, not liking dogs, not being dominant enough, being too dominant, etc. etc. All those come down to "You are just not right for me". Stupid reasons? No. Judgemental? I don't think so. Picky? Yes. And we all should be. small hands are WEIRD! they freak me out, like really really freak me out.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'll be having no dates with any of the women that have commented so far lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'DeviousMissM' I sent a nice reply last night to an email I received, saying thanks but I'm afraid you're not my type, etc. The reply I got was "Why are you so judgemental? You don't give anyone a chance". I replied that there is a difference between being judgemental and being picky, and that it sounded like he judged me more than I judged him. His reply? "You fucking moran bitch". I think I meant to say moron, but moran was so much more offensive hehehe. Block! Rolled over laughing to this. I had a guy whom I exchanged pictures with here who kept sending messages asking me out. I finally repliedMe: I'm sorry you are not my type of guyHim: Well you look like a horse.Me: Then why do you want to fuck a horse then?I rolled over laughing again.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'neptune_drift'I've realised it wouldn't work on more than one occasion because a girl wasn't mean enough. Well no, 'mean' is not the right word exactly - I don't like 'bitchy' - but I need a hefty amount of critical cynicism, snark and ironic detachment to sustain the interest. I wish I could fall for those beautiful women with beautiful, earnest personalities. Instead I get suckered in by the ones with the smile of an angel, and the cold, dead eyes of an assassin. Go figure. that's explains a lot :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Enigmaoflove' I'll be having no dates with any of the women that have commented so far lol you have big feet, small hands and a squeaky voice?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am very aural,when I speak on the phone to someone it's either instant turn off or turn on.Something about the pitch and tone. The high pitched squeaky voice brave_heart ,was probably an indication of his virility or lack of it.... My voice coaching classes begin next week btw,x R
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RHP User
12 years ago
There's some swimming in the shallow end of the pool going on here. I think I would be more likely to sump someone because I thoughtthey were a dumbarse than for something they can't change.Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well I dumped mine for having a guessing competition of how many guys she could do at work during one week during working hours. The number was between 320 and 350 and she was paid cash for it also. We had been married almost one year. A mixture of Bukkake, DP, blow jobs, and all in sex parties at workers houses at lunchtimes and in the gym after work. THe manager of the gym called me and asked me to go there straight away ! .. OMG .. the CCTV was on .. not a care in the world.I found out she had been doing these same parties with her father in China telling me it was normal to take on a room full of her fathers friends and her dad and suggested I take on her mum and a few of the older birds at her and my work and they were in their 60's.I later found out that she was gay, and that she only did guys to get money or advance at work.Poor little immigrant got PR by accusing me of domestic violence ( very untrue as I was in love with her and unaware until someone at her work sent me video and audio of the whole fiasco )The truth about government construction sites and organised sex among workers and imported girls came out.Apart from her assaulting me and attacking me with a knife, trying to kill me in a car several times, I think I had a reasonable reason to kick her out ... don't you ?Oh and there there was the Bi-Polar and the Narcissistic personality disorder ... Look out guys Fancy coming home bleeding internally to your husband and saying .. Oh it's ok.She was sent to bukkake training in a Melbourne Asian club ... telling me she was at the Australian Open ..And the step brother that worked with her and kept quiet about it for 6 months.. until Isaw the pictures of him .. in as well and his partner.Well she is out .. on the loose , has PR and is not medicated ... So be careful of beauty and look for the beast.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'd not dump him..I’ve only dumped people I mistook for a load of compost.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'pleasure101' Well I dumped mine for having a guessing competition of how many guys she could do at work during one week during working hours. The number was between 320 and 350 and she was paid cash for it also... Well she is out .. on the loose , has PR and is not medicated ... So be careful of beauty and look for the beast. Jeez we men can be so superficial sometimes!
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RHP User
12 years ago
He was clueless, selfish and kept talking endlessly whilst watching movies
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well here's a list of the ones I can remember...- One was the worst kisser I've ever experienced (slimy, cold, fish lips);- One didn't want sex nearly as much as I did and then whenever he did, criticised me after each time (long story);- One called me three times a day to check how I was doing at breakfast, lunch, and dinner;- One wanted to introduce me to his mother after one week;- One sent a dozen long-stemmed red roses to my office for our 'week-long anniversary' (Not in a relationship for a week, DATING for a week).
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RHP User
12 years ago
he said he would bring me chocolate...he brought me a Violet Crumble....I wanted a Boost,x R
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'brave__heart' Quoting 'Enigmaoflove' I'll be having no dates with any of the women that have commented so far lol you have big feet, small hands and a squeaky voice? No i don't actually lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Dragonfyre2010' He was clueless, selfish and kept talking endlessly whilst watching movies Talking in movies deserves dumping and then firing squad !
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RHP User
12 years ago
i once had an older lover who would go soft as soon as you climbed on top and straddled him.he tried to make up for it by his obsession with using his tongue and various toys to keep me happy. and the poor darling damn near wore his knees out trying to keep up. don't get me wrong, he was amazing........but....i like to go a lil wild on top at some point in time!! so yeah....that was one of the main reasons i had to move on. silly...i know!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ok i have to admit i have done it One girl who was fantastic bugged me the way she walked on the balls of her feet after 1 year i just dumped her another was i was seeing a girl for not very long and she just took TOO Long to get ready i mean .. hey lets go to the beach 2hrs to put on a fucking Bikini ...sorry too long sea breeze is in Pub is now open and teh cricket is now on the T.V Gotta go BYE
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RHP User
12 years ago
Fuck, dude! (There is that word again).
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RHP User
12 years ago
pleasure101's story.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'he said he would bring me chocolate...he brought me a Violet Crumble....I wanted a Boost,x R
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've heard some absolute crackers...more recently I got 'because i'm in love with another man I can never have (with the subtext of: so therefore I am closed to every relationship until I die), but I still want you to spend time with me, have dinners, hang out, go to the beach, have lots of sex but we're nothing more than casual non-exclusive fuck buddies... and when I closed up and didn't do what she said.. well, the abusive tirade of text messages was stunning..I was immature selfish and pathetic lol.... good riddance to selfish damaged and immature.I've had "i'm just not ready" all the while saying she could never have wished for more and had never been treated so well, only to find out she was keeping 3 other guys on the side in case I didn't work out.. little girl in womans body..I've had so many other BS reasons only to find out most of them weren't true after the fact... these days I just nod, smile and don't even bother fighting it because in the end they're not worth it. Dime a dozen..
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RHP User
12 years ago
* He snored too loud * Was shorter than me, I love heels!! I'd never have a relationship with a man who I can't wear heels around! * kissed me with bad breath * voice wasn't masculine enough * texted too often * bad skin under his shirt (clearly remnants of past roid useage) * wasn't big enough * messy house Hmmmmm I think thats all the ones that might be seen as petty by some, but I would do it again :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dumped him because he smelt damp... I don't mean "down there". It was because he used to use too much hair product on wet hair and it used to trap the moisture in. Once his Lynx wore off, he smelt like washing that'd been left in the machine too long! :D
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'feloniusfossil' There's some swimming in the shallow end of the pool going on here. I think I would be more likely to sump someone because I thought they were a dumbarse than for something they can't change. Cheers Felonious I've said it once, I'll say it again. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. NO-ONE will date someone they find unattractive, it just depends on their version of attractive. Sure, some things can't be changed, but should we be criticised for choosing to end a relationship because we can't see past something that annoys us? I think not. Why waste their time? Why endure irritating-as-fuck annoyances when you can move on and find someone with other habits which aren't annoying? Life is too short to mess around with something you aren't entirely happy with.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nothing worse than damp washing smell.. Product overuse is rampant in this city (lol). Adam xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
felonius some of us just can't help bein' a dumb arsex R
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes, I have to say that I am very much like you. If I don't like the sound of a man's voice, forget it right there. I don't even have to meet him in person, cause if I just hear a message over the phone and don't like his voice, that's it for me. I hate men that act stupid & silly. I am not talking about laughing and having a good time, I'm talking about stupidity. Certain gestures a man does will turn me off as well and I will dump someone for the way he does something or says something. A bad laugh will turn me off. However, over the years, I have been on other sites as well and have received over 10,000 emails in 4 years. I have got to the point now where I can just READ an email, and I can pick up the person's personality or tone of voice, and I can already feel from the email if I will click with him or not. This also happens with names. I have met so many men over the years, that I already know there are certain names that I just won't click with. I mean I have just had bad experiences with men with certain names, and good experiences with men with good names. Also, if I see a picture, I can tell right away with my 6th sense if I will click with him or not. Some of it comes naturally, and some of it comes from meeting many men over the years & receiving over 10,000 emails. Most of the things I will break off a relationship with a man is for silly, stupid things like what you said... but I just can't be bothered, especially at my age now, to be with men who don't click with me.
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jezebel_jj
12 years ago
JJ speaking:While i would never dare to tell someone they are wrong, i would just like to highlight that it wasnt to long ago that available choice of potential suitors was very very limited. Im only talking 15 years ago here. Before mobile phones were in everyones pocket/purse, before social networking sites where intrinsically involved in every aspect of our lives, a time when someone decided to be unreachable just took the phone off the hook or left the house - instead of the feeling that you are cutting off a necessary limb. People who are overly critical of another person, especially due to "little things", i feel are definitely showing a very immature shallow bent in their personality. You not liking the way someone sounds over the phone from a phone message and that equals automatic deletion/ignore. Hate to break it to you, i dont like the way i sound on the phone - i sound exactly like my father not that my father has a terrible voice, i just like to feel that words that come out of my mouth are more well rounded and more clearly enunciated with just a hint of a slightly higher pitch unlike my father who has a bit of a gruff deep sounding voice.I have had a few interesting reasons for being dumped when i was a single guy. - I wanted to have kids and she didnt, even though i wasnt adamant over it and my mind could be altered. People make sacrifices when your in love with the right person. I felt that i was being judged to hard to fast.- My dick was too big and i was cut...i would say its bigger than average, but not monstrous. She liked foreskin....*shudder* eewww.- I have a tattoo, which is about the size of the palm of my hand in a very unobtrusive spot - she liked clean skins. I thought she was joking and pointed out the fact that her dog had a tattoo, rather small on the back of his ear, i got a very unhappy look and was asked to leave.My reasons for dumping:- Dumped a woman when i found out she had 5 kids and her ex was crazy bastard that was rather "well connected"- Dumped a woman when i found out she had 3 kids....to 3 different dads.- Dumped a woman when i found out that she was having sex with a dozen or so people behind my back- Dumped a woman when i found out the father of her child was in prison for manslaughter and she had moved states, changed her name to get away from him and he was possibly due for release within 6 months.- Dumped a woman when i found out she viewed herself as a "reformed lesbian" and in amongst this reformation became a vegan as well. Very strange person, she liked eating my meat but not meat in general and that only came about after she changed from being gay to straight. - Dumped a woman for being dumber than a bag of cement. Like actually stop living with your ex, before you bring the new boyfriend back to your place to meet the roommate ex boyfriend whos still in love with her. The notion that life is too short, is possibly the dumbest thing i hear people say...sometimes ive caught myself say it, only to think "that was a stupid thing to say". Life is not short, its the longest damn thing you will ever experience as that is only logical. Ill give you a really good example, i was with a woman for over 8 years...she ended up being not perfect for me, she was close, very very close. just not 100%. I could say that she sucked up 10% of my life, being that 80 years is a good age for men - that is if i was a negative, cynical person. Or i could say that i had an adventure for 10% of my life and that like Indiana Jones, i had to jump over a few pitfalls and wipe away a few bloody noses. I would say, giving someone a chance even a couple hours is not going to deprive you of your life. Think of it as an adventure, i did everytime i went on a date. But ultimately im glad i did, because i met the woman of my dreams. So was a 120 dates worth the time and money....yes, yes it was. Would i change anything, no, not for all the money in the world.
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RHP User
12 years ago
i dumped the love of my life because i thought she would get fat when she had kids (stunning girl but her body was on the brink of too curvy and i felt pregnancy would tip her over that line)... as it turned out she married someone else, had a baby and still looks dam amazing!!what i get for being shallow at the time!
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RHP User
12 years ago
i once broke up with a girl because i hated the shoes she used to wear ....shallow yes ...i just really hated them what can i say ...i think i did it because a girl broke up with me when i was 16 cause she didnt like my pants ....in my defense it was the 90s and baggy pants were cool ...they still are .....right ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Dragonfyre2010' He was clueless, selfish and kept talking endlessly whilst watching movies for talking in the movies, public flogging, nothing less !
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RHP User
12 years ago
....... Just wondering if the two men above me need a little loving ? I'll wear nice shoes and diet , I promise .......shesshhhhh perhaps I am ovulating ? Damn boys!!!! Is it hot in here!?
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RHP User
12 years ago
i still say breaking up over shoes is shallow ..but what can you do ..;)
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Cassy_74
12 years ago
I was 10 Years old and felt that my friends boyfriend was cutting in on our hanging out time, so I told he was dropped. Then I told her that she dumped him lol!!!!!!!! She was devo for about 5 minutes then we took off on our BMX bikes down to the mud track and had an awesome time lol!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
WELL SERIOUSLY IVE NEVER REALT DUMPED ANYONE THERE WAS ONE ACCASSION I STOP SEEING SOMEONE AND THE REASON WAS I WAS GETING SERIOUS WITH SOMEONE ELES THERE WAS NO COMMITMENT WITH OTHER PERSON, ALL MY OTHER RELATIONSHIPS THAT HAD COMMITMENT I WAS DUMPE D AND MOVE ON AS QUIKELY AS POSSIBLE ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' he said he would bring me chocolate...he brought me a Violet Crumble....I wanted a Boost,x RLove it. If anyone brought me a Violet Crumble I would dump them too. It needs to be a Cherry Ripe!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dumped a woman after about 8 months of sharing a fantastic friendship, incredible sex and being just about perfect for each other. She was stunningly beautiful, very intelligent and even liked to cook, do the laundry and keep the house clean. The poor thing was absolutely stunned when I just sent her a text that said 'I quit'. So what was the reason? She was too good for me.
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nsapussypamper
12 years ago
Ive just been dumped, having split ends was one of the reasons
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dumped a guy once because he turned religious and refused to have sex with me. Also, he was lazy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
As if it isn't hard enough to even meet someone, I had to go and read this blog/thread /topivc -whatever it is. Where is the nearest buddist monastry?
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Cassy_74
12 years ago
Quoting 'thespaniard'i dumped the love of my life because i thought she would get fat when she had kids (stunning girl but her body was on the brink of too curvy and i felt pregnancy would tip her over that line)... as it turned out she married someone else, had a baby and still looks dam amazing!! what i get for being shallow at the time! Are you for real lol!!!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I got dumped once for getting a haircut.16.Went from longish blonde surfer boy look to bald.It was funny. (and another close shave, so to speak)
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RHP User
12 years ago
She fucking lied too much...I don't like people who lie....Oh and bad breath cant handle it....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting '0zboy' I got dumped once for getting a haircut.16.Went from longish blonde surfer boy look to bald.It was funny. (and another close shave, so to speak) I will also add, that I was very tanned at the time of the mishap and after the drunken experiment with my uncles brand new hair trimmer my entire scalp was lilly white (apart from my ears that where browner than the rest of me)I had a bad hair day.You get the picture,,,,,,,, :S (8x10 glossies $3.99 posted) all forms of payment* accepted :D (*except PayPal and counterfeit money)
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RHP User
12 years ago
There are no petty reasons for dumping someone, Its good for you if you decide to do it and it's certainly good for them . There is always someone else that would appreciate them better and if not they need to re evaluate/change. Just be cold hearted about it , works for me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
but i was dumped with no real explanation so much for that move on
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RHP User
12 years ago
wow i must admit i am amazed at some of these... nothing wrong with being picky, but breaking up with the (and i quote) 'Love of your life' because she MIGHT get fat when having kids? are you kidding me... wow...anywayhmmm only had 4 actual relationships, 1)dumped me because i got drunk, and apparently hooked up with another guy, which i didnt even remember happening2)dumped me because he thought i was stealing his weed. LOL - i think it was the housemate.3)dumped him because after we had drunken sex he realised he forgot to tell me he was a virgin - i just assumed he was bad in bed - oh, and he took me back to his place after.... and forgot to tell me still lived with the 'rents. AWKWARD morning after!!!!4)dumped him because after 7 years together (and getting married) he started fucking around, his excuse? because he wanted kids and i didnt...now, for now im just gonna stick with FwB - dont need a reason to end things other than being bored! hahaha
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dated a bogan girl once, I would rather penetrate a washed up jelly fish on the beach than try to engage in conversation with her.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dumped a girl that used to get so wet I would have to change the sheets every time so I could go to sleep, no offense to anyone who does the same, just not for me. Another girl I dated recently did this repugnant thing I hated so much, while kissing she would stick her tongue in my mouth and kinda feel around with it thinking it would turn me on or something. Geez it was so fucking gross and her tongue felt cold, I couldn't stand it. Thought she'd get the hint when I'd pull away each time, but no.
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RHP User
12 years ago
@thespaniard ... Wow. I cannot even fathom ... Obviously not really the "love of your life", otherwise you would not have dumped her for such a pathetic reason. And guys wonder why girls end up with eating disorders.
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