Phone sex

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Hey Amanda,   Yeah phone sex can be loads of fun, especially with the right person/persons.....We would suggest that probably the next logical step is to go onto webcam for more initmate play. Then the people can see you, you can see them and go from there. There always needs to be some physical attraction to someone before you want to play with them in person . So that might be a way of not only getting to know someone more intimately before playing and also might restore your confidence in how you view your body etc...   Just our thoughts....good luck!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Phone sex is fun, especially if you have a good imagination....cam is better because you can see the other person.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I used to do that , as a part time job. But had to give it up. I got too turned on, was exhausted :) I have that voice, so was pretty busy ,plus I do have a very fertile imagination. And I used to tell them stories of what I did so it was not made up. I loved hearing them get off, so sexy mmmm yummy the problem with phone sex is a person can turn you on so much on the phone but then when you meet them Nada, no chemistry. that can be embarrassing for both of you.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Time to actually go out there, meet a guy or three and do it in the flesh. Thats what happens now. Dont worry about body inhibitions. Most of us have that in the beginning (mine also courtesy of an ex only gathered over 20 years and not just a parting comment) My first meeting was after three and a half years of healing and it was very very scary. Especially as he was younger and fitter. Just have fuun and explore your awakening sexuality.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Yep its time to get out there and get down and dirty and dont worry hon, most guys are going to look beyond your bumps and lumps (real or imaginary -and what is it with exes and their nasty parting shots !!??) like hello !!! ...its true, most new lovers will not care, just be yourself, dont apologise for who you are or what you look like, most guys arent Brad Pitt either !!!.....you are unqiue and special..dont you ever forget that....   I have been in exactly the same position as you and was fortunate to have a lovely first time after a long time, with a gorgeous man who I had a great meal with , quite a few laughs with and a really nice nite. Guys are more interested if you are into them and enjoying the hokey pokey they are providing......than you being body conscious......and also I encourage you to explore your sexuality and sensuality again..webcaming, texting, phone sex and yep even watch porn...!!!   I too have not been blessed with the body of a goddess (some girls have all the luck ) but I have recently taken up pole dancing at the age of 47 - yes 47 !!! and it has been so good for my fitness (obviously) and yes Im starting to shed those unwanted kilos, but its been fantastic for my self confidence and in class we are encouraged to do sexy moves, explore ourselves, pretend we are performing in front of our lovers and we are also encouraged to "love ourselves silly" with raunchy moves....Ive had a lot of laughs doing this, but have also discovered the inner "stripper" in me.... I appreciate that you may not have a pole dancing school near you, but I encourage you to maybe even take up a dance class etc...something to help you discover who you are and what you are capable of with your beautiful body.....and remember, your ex is only one bloke in like 3.8 billions so his little man opinion really counts for nothing...heal... but enjoy yourself..life is waaaaaaaaay too short !!!

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  erotictouch4u

  13 years ago

  Having them leave that special solo phonesex voicemail for you to listen to many times through the day... ET xox

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  feel better after all your commentsprobably just over thinking thingslove and GREAT sex to all xxxxxxx

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  it gives me a Buzz

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Hang up!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Phone sex is the first real time connection you have with someone if you've only been reading words on a screen.If you're starting out in that insatiable world, but not ready to be physically involved, then phone sex will give you an idea of a persons wants, sensuality and intimacy. Not everyone uses phone sex for the same reason.It is a chance for you to learn about your "new" partner in an intimate way. It will prepare you for the reality.Hearing a voice, the breathing, the description of the actions that they want to do in reality is a good foreplay.You can build up too much expectation though if you haven't met.Other factors will be that physical connection of touch, smell, taste??, the look in their eyes, and how you feel together.Take a chance.... it works.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Webcam sex is great and you don't have to totally expose yourself if your not comfortable. Webcam with audio so much better then just phone sex

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  skype sex can be great its like an interactive pornoyou can role play during or give eachother instructions of what you want done.Also you ccan mail each other sexy items and/or instructions to prolong a fantasy for a set period of time then culminate it with a phone/skype or text session

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Wear lingerie if your body shy. Don't shy away, cover yourself till you your confidence back which only comes with trust in a partner and self belief. Phone sex is getting the juices flowing, follow that up in sexy lingerie or even a singlet where your boob's can pop out the sides so they get the deserved attention.

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