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February 27 2014

Unfortunately when people scroll though looking for suitable like minded people for fun, they choose initially based on one of two things. Body and looks face shots. Should a face shot be included in the photo set or is it better to remain a little mysterious? Due to the nature of what I do; I can't really place a face shot and sometimes depending on who's approached don't want to share even though I'd like to meet. Any suggestions or advice? Koz X.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Not sure you mean mysterious, but do read that you have a high regard of keeping anonymous to most that prove fruitless here. It's not a hard decision, maintain your discretion online. We've always found that the ones that want the most pics, sex talk or what ever are the ones that you are least likely to meet. In other words, the cons. The real ones always are at the top with the least amount of passing on information. The hard ones want to know exactly everything, then go nowhere.

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    11 years ago

    I think it's probably alright to put a face pic in your privates somewhere. People like to know who they're meeting and do a tooth count. Hugs Gazpacho

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think it's easier to open up and get to know someone when you can put a face to their name. Less intimidating and also helps you know you are talking to a real person (hopefully!). As Gazpacho said, a photo in your private gallery is a good idea as this way you can decide who you grant access to.

  • PlushVelvet

    PlushVelvet

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'gazpacho51' I think it's probably alright to put a face pic in your privates somewhere. People like to know who they're meeting and do a tooth count. Hugs Gazpacho OMG yes - and make sure they are smiling!!! Yes, I had a toothless date some time ago went nowhere fast ....

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    11 years ago

    It is not a fair call when a man wants to meet me, he can see what I look like, but I don't even know what he looks like! That must be a joke! In my opinion, one's job/career, or marital status, or background whatsoever is not an excuse for not showing a face shot to the person/people whom they intend to meet in person. And a face shot doesn't have to be displayed in the public album for everyone to see, it can be saved in the PG. I have a specialised job as well as running my own business, so I am always out meeting existing and potential clients, but I still show my face pic. So, there's no excuse for someone who wants to meet me, but doesn't want to reveal what he looks like! I personally have had some real bad surprises with meeting men from RHP without seeing their face pics first! Yep, I was silly but lessons have been learned! So, I now don't meet or even chat to someone who doesn't want to reveal his looks prior to meeting, and I don't care what he does for a living or whatever reason he has, no face pic, not interested! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I never meet a man without a face picture. I used to when I was new to this site and did meet one drop dead hunk of a guy who was married. Married is fine with me, so I got that he could not show his face. But the risk was all mine, as he had already seen my face. the face of a man is what attracts a woman, all the posts say that, every woman I know says the face is what attracts them to the man. I also never meet a man unless I have spoken to him on the phone, text could be from anyone including a kid so I have to be sure its a grown up male. show your face in your PG, show your recent face and not one more than six months old god knows why people show old pictures of themselves and then get bent out shape when people say, fuck off your nothing like your picture. I think people who do this must have some kind of frontal lobe injury or some other defect of the brain. I have said to guys, What were you thinking? it would be like me, telling porkies about my age and sending pictures of me slim and trim. I could say , shit I walked past the bakery and I was twenty kilo lighter just ten minutes ago..... LadyT , cheeks bulging with cream cakes

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Only those with true souls do not require a face pic to make there choice to chat... For me those that demand face pic st8 up r more the likely shallow

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    11 years ago

    A toothless woman has a certain allure.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    Put a face pic in gallery. I refuse to even go there if someone doe not have a face pic in their profile. Like others said and I agree, that way one is not misleading others. When ever I hear someone say because of their job/marital status etc etc they have to be discreet, I think PFFFFT! They are not that special or important like Brad Pit and AngenlinaJolie, who jobs/roles have their faces, on nearly evry front cover magazines. What makes one think their job/role/marital status is that important?? Does one have paparazzi chasing them all day long? If ones job is that important why would the company be looking on as site like this for? Unless they are on here too, being discreet. I think they have better things to worry about. UNLESS one has something to really hide? If one can not be honest about their them self then they are not for me. Red Flag.. Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'CoolKoz'I can't really place a face shot and sometimes depending on who's approached don't want to share even though I'd like to meet. You don't want to show a pic, but do want to meet? I'm afraid that wouldn't fly with me. I would never meet anyone whose face I haven't seen, as for me it's a crucial part of physical attraction. Keeping face pics in Private Galleries is fine with me, but I do expect to see one after the first message, or I won't be keen to continue. Those men uncomfortable with having any face pics on this site I will ask to send one to me at the Gmail address I created especially for RHP contact. And I agree, smile. In the last week I've seen some very angry-looking men that made me want to run a mile.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    The first thing the majority of people see (when using the search function) is your primary photo. Then, your headline.... so logically it would make sense that these act as a lure to draw people further into your profile. (And NO, a dick isn't some kind of bait to lure women... If that's your 'best' look, your head mustn't be much chop!). A face can express so much.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks for all the advice, quite new to all of this. And so far enjoying the fun out there.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I cheated and have my legs as my profile pic lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    11 years ago

    Totally agree with meander. A smile is so important - Posted from rhpmobile